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By *an4fun OP Man
over a year ago
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Can a person have a spell of anger that isn't directed at any person? Or, is another person always the root cause no matter how far down the line that person is in the chain of events that triggered the anger?
I lean towards the latter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I can be irrationally angry with things too.
Today I wanted for 5 minutes at my toaster cos it stopped working 
*Ranted"
Toasters are cunts, to be fair |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh I can get weirdly angry at the most stupid things not just people trigger me lol... Lost my shit the other day because I went to take my sunglasses off my head and put them on and they got caught in my hair... I had to pull over I was so mad they had dared to ruin my pony tail haha... ps I'm not crazy... Pps that's probably a lie  |
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"No, I can be irrationally angry with things too.
Today I wanted for 5 minutes at my toaster cos it stopped working
*Ranted
Toasters are cunts, to be fair "
I know! She always kicks off at the kettle, so they now reside at different ends of the kitchen  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anger is a secondary emotion, so it doesn't have to be caused by another person, it can be caused by yourself
I would be the person that caused the anger. A mistake that I had made
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So the anger comes from maybe the guilt n shame u feel, just throwing it out there |
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"Can a person have a spell of anger that isn't directed at any person? Or, is another person always the root cause no matter how far down the line that person is in the chain of events that triggered the anger?
I lean towards the latter."
Yes of course. Life is stressful. People handle it in different ways....
Think about the person who is seething at something that happened during the day and then they meet with someone totally unrelated to the incident and rant at them ......
There are loads more examples.
If you are with an angry person , don't put up with it for too long as it's very unhealthy.
If it's a long term partner or friend they should try to identify the source of their frustration and learn some strategies for letting go ........
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"Oh I can get weirdly angry at the most stupid things not just people trigger me lol... Lost my shit the other day because I went to take my sunglasses off my head and put them on and they got caught in my hair... I had to pull over I was so mad they had dared to ruin my pony tail haha... ps I'm not crazy... Pps that's probably a lie "
Absolutely 100% IS a thing ...... done it .....feeling it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More often than not I'm angry at myself"
Very true at least 60% of the time I'm cross with myself. Its when you cant resolve the anger and turn it inward causes a problem |
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By *an4fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"Anger is a secondary emotion, so it doesn't have to be caused by another person, it can be caused by yourself
I would be the person that caused the anger. A mistake that I had made
So the anger comes from maybe the guilt n shame u feel, just throwing it out there "
Depends what it is I am angry about. I might be angry that I fucked up. Made a silly mistake. I suppose that could also be laced with guilt or shame.
I am not actually angry at the moment. I read an article that triggered the thought. |
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"Anger is a secondary emotion, so it doesn't have to be caused by another person, it can be caused by yourself
I would be the person that caused the anger. A mistake that I had made
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No.
No matter what you did ....... it's THEIR anger , not yours.
It's their choice how to react. |
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"Anger is a secondary emotion, so it doesn't have to be caused by another person, it can be caused by yourself
I would be the person that caused the anger. A mistake that I had made
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Oh sos ...... got you ...... you got angry at something you did ???? Am I following this ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting concept, I’ve separated myself from my ego so I feel no anger anymore, I’m completely zen, apart from when I stub my toe then I lose my shit. |
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By *an4fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"Anger is a secondary emotion, so it doesn't have to be caused by another person, it can be caused by yourself
I would be the person that caused the anger. A mistake that I had made
Oh sos ...... got you ...... you got angry at something you did ???? Am I following this ?"
Correctus maximus as they say in ancient Rome |
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By *an4fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"Interesting concept, I’ve separated myself from my ego so I feel no anger anymore, I’m completely zen, apart from when I stub my toe then I lose my shit."
Which is your fault or whoever left that rock on the landing |
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I get angry a more inanimate objects than people. Microwave door not opening? OPEN YOU PRICK. Toaster not working? WELL DONE DICKHEAD. BROWN IT NEXT TIME. Washing machine not spinning? YEAH I WANTED SOPPING WET CLOTHES YOU CUNT. Boss stacking the work up? Yeah sure mate, I’ll get that done. Anger for me is irrational and generally fleeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Anger is not always caused by environmental factors. It can be physical too
I have a heart condition, when it flares so does my temper, usually I'm pretty mild mannered and easy going.
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