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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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With lockdown seemingly coming to an end. I’d like to try and put myself out there and connect with a potential fwb type lady.
I haven’t been bombarded with messages and winks from ladies all wanting to get to know me, so I’m here asking for feedback. Nothing nasty just something positive that will help.
Thanks in advance......I think! |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
I think you focus too much in what you want and what you aren’t/can’t give. You can balance it out with some things you CAN offer the hordes of ladues who could potentially be flooding your inbox.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you focus too much in what you want and what you aren’t/can’t give. You can balance it out with some things you CAN offer the hordes of ladues who could potentially be flooding your inbox. "
Ok interesting thoughts. Not so sure about the hordes though |
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"I think you focus too much in what you want and what you aren’t/can’t give. You can balance it out with some things you CAN offer the hordes of ladues who could potentially be flooding your inbox.
Ok interesting thoughts. Not so sure about the hordes though "
Well that might just stay in your fantasy book  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
There's nothing wrong with your profile text as such OP but it is very generic and much like countless other single guy profiles too - maybe look for a "different" angle that will make you stand out a little.
Remember too that there are many ways to approach the site and blindly messaging other profiles in the hope of a reply, or worse still (for single guys) waiting for messages to be sent, are not the only ways (in fact I'd suggest they are the most likely to lead to frustration). The forums and chat rooms are great ways of sparking conversations, and getting to know people and them you - likewise when restrictions lift, group socials and clubs are another way.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you focus too much in what you want and what you aren’t/can’t give. You can balance it out with some things you CAN offer the hordes of ladues who could potentially be flooding your inbox.
Ok interesting thoughts. Not so sure about the hordes though
Well that might just stay in your fantasy book "
I’ll add it to the list haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's nothing wrong with your profile text as such OP but it is very generic and much like countless other single guy profiles too - maybe look for a "different" angle that will make you stand out a little.
Remember too that there are many ways to approach the site and blindly messaging other profiles in the hope of a reply, or worse still (for single guys) waiting for messages to be sent, are not the only ways (in fact I'd suggest they are the most likely to lead to frustration). The forums and chat rooms are great ways of sparking conversations, and getting to know people and them you - likewise when restrictions lift, group socials and clubs are another way.
I do often use the chat rooms and forums. Sometimes in them though I feel you become lost in the chats.
I’d like to try a club though if honest I’m not confident enough to go alone.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Practise typing plenty of copy & paste FAF messages, and you'll be knee deep in clunge in no time at all   "
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I’m not sure what that means but thanks for commenting. |
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"Practise typing plenty of copy & paste FAF messages, and you'll be knee deep in clunge in no time at all .
I’m not sure what that means but thanks for commenting. "
Women often complain about generic cut and pasted messages that are just sent out to every woman. FAF means fancy a fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s a good profile, I think creative arty shots can be quite popular so, you could add some if you fancied?
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Oh I’m terrible with a camera and also behind it. Would need a photographer lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Practise typing plenty of copy & paste FAF messages, and you'll be knee deep in clunge in no time at all .
I’m not sure what that means but thanks for commenting.
Women often complain about generic cut and pasted messages that are just sent out to every woman. FAF means fancy a fuck."
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Oh I see, well if nothing else I learned what FAF means |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Agree there’s nothing wrong with your profile it’s good.
Also it’s nice to see a tidy bedroom/bathroom  "
Haha, thank you. I do take pride in my appearance and that of my bed and bathroom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a good profile, I think creative arty shots can be quite popular so, you could add some if you fancied?
Oh I’m terrible with a camera and also behind it. Would need a photographer lol. "
Just prop it up, try different heights and just move around and keep taking shots until you work out what works for you. That’s what I did. |
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"Practise typing plenty of copy & paste FAF messages, and you'll be knee deep in clunge in no time at all .
I’m not sure what that means but thanks for commenting.
Women often complain about generic cut and pasted messages that are just sent out to every woman. FAF means fancy a fuck."
are you sure? I was informed (reliably) that it meant ‘Feck Arf, Fuckface’ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bye great profile I’ll need to take tips from you tbh 
I meant my , sorry auto correct "
We all need a little help, I’ll let you know it works if I ever get and luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Practise typing plenty of copy & paste FAF messages, and you'll be knee deep in clunge in no time at all .
I’m not sure what that means but thanks for commenting.
Women often complain about generic cut and pasted messages that are just sent out to every woman. FAF means fancy a fuck. are you sure? I was informed (reliably) that it meant ‘Feck Arf, Fuckface’ "
That’s just you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s a good profile, I think creative arty shots can be quite popular so, you could add some if you fancied?
Oh I’m terrible with a camera and also behind it. Would need a photographer lol.
Just prop it up, try different heights and just move around and keep taking shots until you work out what works for you. That’s what I did. "
I think it’s easier if you are naturally sexy. |
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"Practise typing plenty of copy & paste FAF messages, and you'll be knee deep in clunge in no time at all .
I’m not sure what that means but thanks for commenting.
Women often complain about generic cut and pasted messages that are just sent out to every woman. FAF means fancy a fuck. are you sure? I was informed (reliably) that it meant ‘Feck Arf, Fuckface’ "
Oddly enough, I am thinking feck arf fuckface Steve  |
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My advice from 1 black country bloke 2 another..yo a don a bad job our kid on yo profile ...
Just engage on forum join in change ur profile pic 2 suit the topic if u can .ie torso tues .Good luck m8
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s a good profile, I think creative arty shots can be quite popular so, you could add some if you fancied?
Oh I’m terrible with a camera and also behind it. Would need a photographer lol.
Just prop it up, try different heights and just move around and keep taking shots until you work out what works for you. That’s what I did.
I think it’s easier if you are naturally sexy. "
You’ve got a good body, no reason why you can’t get sexy pics. Have a look at some of the men in the forum, there are some great galleries. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My advice from 1 black country bloke 2 another..yo a don a bad job our kid on yo profile ...
Just engage on forum join in change ur profile pic 2 suit the topic if u can .ie torso tues .Good luck m8
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Haha. I do me best  |
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"Practise typing plenty of copy & paste FAF messages, and you'll be knee deep in clunge in no time at all .
I’m not sure what that means but thanks for commenting.
Women often complain about generic cut and pasted messages that are just sent out to every woman. FAF means fancy a fuck. are you sure? I was informed (reliably) that it meant ‘Feck Arf, Fuckface’ "
Oi Stevieboi, that's only what Diamondsmiles told you |
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"Practise typing plenty of copy & paste FAF messages, and you'll be knee deep in clunge in no time at all .
I’m not sure what that means but thanks for commenting.
Women often complain about generic cut and pasted messages that are just sent out to every woman. FAF means fancy a fuck. are you sure? I was informed (reliably) that it meant ‘Feck Arf, Fuckface’
Oddly enough, I am thinking feck arf fuckface Steve "
That’s what she said |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not being able to accommodate is going to rule out a good fair few. "
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I have had that said before. I actually could accommodate but I’m not sure if it went bad quickly that I want people knowing where I live. Hotel stays feel a much safer option. But appreciate your opinion. |
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"Practise typing plenty of copy & paste FAF messages, and you'll be knee deep in clunge in no time at all .
I’m not sure what that means but thanks for commenting.
Women often complain about generic cut and pasted messages that are just sent out to every woman. FAF means fancy a fuck. are you sure? I was informed (reliably) that it meant ‘Feck Arf, Fuckface’
Oddly enough, I am thinking feck arf fuckface Steve
That’s what she said "
I always liked Diamond |
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"Practise typing plenty of copy & paste FAF messages, and you'll be knee deep in clunge in no time at all .
I’m not sure what that means but thanks for commenting.
Women often complain about generic cut and pasted messages that are just sent out to every woman. FAF means fancy a fuck. are you sure? I was informed (reliably) that it meant ‘Feck Arf, Fuckface’
Oddly enough, I am thinking feck arf fuckface Steve
That’s what she said
I always liked Diamond "
bloody gossip! She swore blind she would tell everyone I was a good fuck!! |
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"Practise typing plenty of copy & paste FAF messages, and you'll be knee deep in clunge in no time at all .
I’m not sure what that means but thanks for commenting.
Women often complain about generic cut and pasted messages that are just sent out to every woman. FAF means fancy a fuck. are you sure? I was informed (reliably) that it meant ‘Feck Arf, Fuckface’
Oddly enough, I am thinking feck arf fuckface Steve
That’s what she said
I always liked Diamond bloody gossip! She swore blind she would tell everyone I was a good fuck!! "
Fuck was one of the words she used |
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"Practise typing plenty of copy & paste FAF messages, and you'll be knee deep in clunge in no time at all .
I’m not sure what that means but thanks for commenting.
Women often complain about generic cut and pasted messages that are just sent out to every woman. FAF means fancy a fuck. are you sure? I was informed (reliably) that it meant ‘Feck Arf, Fuckface’
Oddly enough, I am thinking feck arf fuckface Steve
That’s what she said
I always liked Diamond bloody gossip! She swore blind she would tell everyone I was a good fuck!!
Fuck was one of the words she used "
I fell for feminine wiles |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with your profile, I replied lol
Distance would be the only issue for me "
You did and thank you. Shame though, would love a drive out. |
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I think your gallery would be better if you have some photos of you outdoors in sunlight, in a variety of smart and casual clothes. You can get better light and more pleasant settings outdoors. Show people how you would look the first time they met you. How you present yourself is very important to a lot of people. The locations and what you are wearing in your current gallery is a bit uninspiring. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"Nothing wrong with your profile, I replied lol
Distance would be the only issue for me
You did and thank you. Shame though, would love a drive out. "
It's not a deciding factor by any means, just doesn't make it easy |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"It’s a good profile, I think creative arty shots can be quite popular so, you could add some if you fancied?
Oh I’m terrible with a camera and also behind it. Would need a photographer lol.
Just prop it up, try different heights and just move around and keep taking shots until you work out what works for you. That’s what I did. "
Timers on cameras and cheap full size cameras are brilliant for this, some of my profile pics are taken like this.
Selfies and webcam shots, don't work for me, so I don't use them ever. |
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A lot of words that in essence state that you want a fwb. Does it sell you really well? Presenting yourself positively, in and of itself, may not be enough to get you to really stand out, when the competition here is incredibly strong. Obviously not every woman here will want the same, so you are looking for a subset of minority here, who are overwhelmed by contact made to them, all of the time. The job requires phenomenal effort, flexibility and a little luck. You need to be amazing for the woman who looks at you to pick you and investigate further - so this will be a part of your challenge. You'll probably have to narrow down several women to 1, in order to get due compatibility.
Do your photos mark you out as a must-pick, compared to other men? Would you be the 1 you'd pick, if you were looking at a range of men, when just looking for 1, to form a fwb relationship?
Whatever single men here want, it's worth repeating again, that it really does take a lot of focused effort to get success. Your foundation is positive, though will probably require some good shifts. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think your gallery would be better if you have some photos of you outdoors in sunlight, in a variety of smart and casual clothes. You can get better light and more pleasant settings outdoors. Show people how you would look the first time they met you. How you present yourself is very important to a lot of people. The locations and what you are wearing in your current gallery is a bit uninspiring. "
Ok thank you, better get out over the weekend if the suns shining. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A lot of words that in essence state that you want a fwb. Does it sell you really well? Presenting yourself positively, in and of itself, may not be enough to get you to really stand out, when the competition here is incredibly strong. Obviously not every woman here will want the same, so you are looking for a subset of minority here, who are overwhelmed by contact made to them, all of the time. The job requires phenomenal effort, flexibility and a little luck. You need to be amazing for the woman who looks at you to pick you and investigate further - so this will be a part of your challenge. You'll probably have to narrow down several women to 1, in order to get due compatibility.
Do your photos mark you out as a must-pick, compared to other men? Would you be the 1 you'd pick, if you were looking at a range of men, when just looking for 1, to form a fwb relationship?
Whatever single men here want, it's worth repeating again, that it really does take a lot of focused effort to get success. Your foundation is positive, though will probably require some good shifts. "
Thanks for you input, I will take it with deep consideration. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With lockdown seemingly coming to an end. I’d like to try and put myself out there and connect with a potential fwb type lady.
I haven’t been bombarded with messages and winks from ladies all wanting to get to know me, so I’m here asking for feedback. Nothing nasty just something positive that will help.
Thanks in advance......I think!"
Most women don't ever send first messages because they can't handle any kind of rejection. You will have to message them. |
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