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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So here’s the thing, I’m struggling to get my head around a caged cock that more people seem to be adopting.
Why padlock a perfectly good working part of your body up and ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve struggled to understand a lot of things on here over the years but people do respond to these kind of threads and most times even if it’s not for you you do sort of get why people do things. You really do learn something new every day here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m with you OP.
Not kink shaming, as if it works for them all good.
But personally I don’t get the attraction in having them caged and denied erections / sexual touching or whatever. Some people go months with no sexual interaction at all, and rejoice that fact.
Not for me, but each to their own and all that. |
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It isn’t all about no interaction, restricting pleasure for days or weeks, that is just one side of it for some people.
It can be part of foreplay, a tease to bring them to the edge whilst the female is in control. If you pick the right cage the penis can still be teased through the gaps in various ways, with room for growth, add in elements of hot and cold with a metal cage and you have temperature play, there are so many things you can do.
It’s all about communication and what you and your partner are comfortable with, then just let the imagination flow within your agreed boundaries. |
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"So here’s the thing, I’m struggling to get my head around a caged cock that more people seem to be adopting.
Why padlock a perfectly good working part of your body up and ?"
For some, it’s a way to ‘feminise’ a man who prefers to enjoy sex as a woman. In a cuckold scenario, it’s a way of affirming hubby has no sexual role in his relationship with his wife. Others have said it’s about submitting to female domination, being controlled by your lover as to when, and how, you orgasm  |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
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As with most kinks different people will engage in them for different reasons. Personally I do occassionally use cock cages. For me this tends to be a method of temporarily putting my cock out of reach when I want to concentrate on other forms of stimulation and helps control the temptation for more direct self pleasuring. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're just getting into this so are still figuring things out ourselves. However for us its about control and arousal.
I was my idea (fem) to cage his cock up as it puts me in a position of power which is hot in its self. It's also a form of teasing especially if you are flaunting they key in public whilst it remaining a secret only the two of you know.
For him its a form of arousal he may not fancy playing with himself but as soon as its caged he instantly craves to cum. its like a huge foreplay session with him permanently aroused being teased just waiting to be released so he can cum.
Also, its not always about size. Many people think a caged cock is small and useless (obviously some times it is) but in our case he's 7.5 inches when not caged and certainly knows how to use it.
Obviously duration plays a big role - for us he's only caged occasionally, and when he is its only for the play session or the day. Some people are caged 24/7 but that's not for us.
One thing also worth mentioning - someone wearing chastity is not always a cuck, and a cuck is not always wearing chastity. these are two different things but often overlap. for us it was my desire to use chastity and his desire to try cuckolding. We could easily remove one element without it affecting the other.
Chastity is a really interesting topic and we're really excited to be learning about this new dynamic, it can certainly bring you closer together as a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It isn’t all about no interaction, restricting pleasure for days or weeks, that is just one side of it for some people."
EXACTLY. I locked Hubby in it for a week once but it was such as rubbish experience for both of us.
We found that for us its all about interaction while he's caged and is much more fun in small doses. We even got a new cage that has gaps in it so I can jack him off and he can cum while caged - obviously its not as pleasurable for him, but when he's caged he'll take anything ...and its amazing the lengths he'll go to get full a release.
Obviously its not for everybody, but with the right partner / Bull it can be a really fun experience for all parties. x |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"We're just getting into this so are still figuring things out ourselves. However for us its about control and arousal.
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Snipped to save scrolling angst...but have to say what a well thought out and interesting read that was - it's posts like that which are the perfect response to "I don't understand x, y or z activities" so thank you
As someone who is both open minded and inquisitive when it comes to all things sex and sexuality it always helps when people explain the appeal of something I may have either previously dismissed, or not thought of trying.
Cock cages are certainly something I can understand the appeal of, not only from a D/s, chastity or cuckold perspective but as something "different" to introduce into normal play so can relate to much of what you have said but again thank you for the insight. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"So here’s the thing, I’m struggling to get my head around a caged cock that more people seem to be adopting.
Why padlock a perfectly good working part of your body up and ?"
Buy one and give it a go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"have to say what a well thought out and interesting read that was - it's posts like that which are the perfect response to "I don't understand x, y or z activities" so thank you "
Thank you, we're still learning so I find posting comments like that also help us figure things out and allow more experienced people to give their insight and help us learn in the long run  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I just think it’s odd why put in a cage what’s going to happen to me it’s like saying I’m not going g to get hardon "
Read OurNaughtyHobby's post further up which will give you an excellent insight into the appeal for some.
As someone who has SM ticked as an interest and may like restraints/bondage, is it really any different from that.
It's fine of course that it doesn't appeal to you, or even that you don't understand it - all you really need to know, and accept, is that it appeals to others. |
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Unfortunately the majority of men have a fixation on their genitalia.
It is quite natural in an animal sense. Men are their to procreate.
That is their task.
Locking it away, they can focus better.
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"It isn’t all about no interaction, restricting pleasure for days or weeks, that is just one side of it for some people.
EXACTLY. I locked Hubby in it for a week once but it was such as rubbish experience for both of us.
We found that for us its all about interaction while he's caged and is much more fun in small doses. We even got a new cage that has gaps in it so I can jack him off and he can cum while caged - obviously its not as pleasurable for him, but when he's caged he'll take anything ...and its amazing the lengths he'll go to get full a release.
Obviously its not for everybody, but with the right partner / Bull it can be a really fun experience for all parties. x"
How you describe it is how I see it, two people interacting together whilst caged rather than denial of pleasure, it is enjoying pleasure together but in a different way.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts here  |
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