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If you met your 16 year old self, what would u say
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My 16yr old self would have told me to fuck off 
But assuming I would listen I would have told myself to keep hold of the ones I love and to stop being such a doormat. |
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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago
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When you find a woman love and respect her! As when i was younger i had no thought for anyone other than myself and would think with my dick all the time! Im glad i grew up and changed how i was in the end. D x |
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1. Shower daily
2. Put it back you know it doesn’t belong to you
3. Leave it alone you’ll go blind
4. Trust your gut not your dodgy mate, he’ll be dead before you’re 18 and you’ll feel guilty for a lifetime for his stupid choices.
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Enjoy wearing womens clothes, there is nothing wrong with it. Your look amazing in a skirt and hold ups, get there while you still have a body to flaunt.
Be careful of who you think are your friends later on in life, they will use you and then drop you.
Stand up for yourself more, you get treated as a door mat by some people. |
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Buy Amazon Shares.
When you hear about bitcoins buy some.
Put some money on Leicester to win the premiership.
I thought long and hard about telling myself about a bad decision I made. However that person who was affected is now very happy so I wouldn’t want to take it away from her. So instead I’m making bank.
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
Passed Beyond Reach |
When my son at 16 was doing all the same things I was at 16, soo difficult to give advice but not sound hypocritical. He's 35 now turned out OK.
I made many mistakes when I was 16 but I dont think would want to go back and change that cos I guess I learned a lot from them, the way things turned out for me I can't complain. If I had things may have been very different and not necessarily for the better |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
"Wouldn't that rip a hole in the space, time continuum?
Just for today the space time contiuinum is giving you a bly"
Then I would tell my 16 year old self, continue in moving forward, own you mistakes, enjoy the beauty and trust you insticts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say to my 16 year old self, you dont know everything be careful of the choices you make "
'Pull yourself together arsehole' is what I would say, whether the 16 year old would listen or not is another thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't drink
Don't go university
Save my tuition fees to travole with and not drink with
Start you photography carior sooner
Find out side fronds to hang out with then relying on family
Travole/ leave uni/dont drink/ start you body building |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whatever I said to my younger self would be ignored as with any advice I was given at the age of 16. I already knew everything and had life experience.... apparently 
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done! |
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Go to therapy now to break the cycle. Your mum isn't a bad person, she's a bad mother and that's NOT your fault. You don't realise the damage it's done, it's mixed your brain wiring up, you've been conditioned. Even though you don't like her, even though you know she's not what a loving relationship looks or feels like it's messed with you and you'll seek out more of the same without even realising it. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Don't leave the Navy, no matter how bad things may seem, they're trifling, and leaving will be the one decision you regret for the rest of your life - anything else is just life and you'll tackle it, but that one will haunt you trust me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1) loosen up and go with the flow
2) take advantage of the opportunities presented to you
3) don't overthink things, go with your initial thought and don't let yourself talk you out of an experience / adventure
4) try anything twice, you never know, it might be amazing.....
5) take your collection of lingerie to Uni with you, don't bin it whatever you do!!
6) don't worry too much about what people may think about certain "kinks", chances are, if they considered them and gave them a chance, they may enjoy them too!! |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Go to therapy now to break the cycle. Your mum isn't a bad person, she's a bad mother and that's NOT your fault. You don't realise the damage it's done, it's mixed your brain wiring up, you've been conditioned. Even though you don't like her, even though you know she's not what a loving relationship looks or feels like it's messed with you and you'll seek out more of the same without even realising it."
Can you talk to my 16 year old self while you're back there please?  |
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"Go to therapy now to break the cycle. Your mum isn't a bad person, she's a bad mother and that's NOT your fault. You don't realise the damage it's done, it's mixed your brain wiring up, you've been conditioned. Even though you don't like her, even though you know she's not what a loving relationship looks or feels like it's messed with you and you'll seek out more of the same without even realising it.
Can you talk to my 16 year old self while you're back there please? "
I'll drag em both to counselling by their heads. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Go to therapy now to break the cycle. Your mum isn't a bad person, she's a bad mother and that's NOT your fault. You don't realise the damage it's done, it's mixed your brain wiring up, you've been conditioned. Even though you don't like her, even though you know she's not what a loving relationship looks or feels like it's messed with you and you'll seek out more of the same without even realising it.
Can you talk to my 16 year old self while you're back there please?
I'll drag em both to counselling by their heads. "
Love you woman! |
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"Go to therapy now to break the cycle. Your mum isn't a bad person, she's a bad mother and that's NOT your fault. You don't realise the damage it's done, it's mixed your brain wiring up, you've been conditioned. Even though you don't like her, even though you know she's not what a loving relationship looks or feels like it's messed with you and you'll seek out more of the same without even realising it.
Can you talk to my 16 year old self while you're back there please?
I'll drag em both to counselling by their heads.
Love you woman!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I’d say, get your head down, take a few more risks, travel and enjoy life. For most, the value of youth is never appreciated until after, but that is its beauty really.
I was a happy teenager and it all forms who I am now, so can’t complain really. But if I’d had the chance, I should have maybe experienced more in terms of other cultures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd have taught myself how to have an orgasm and told myself to ditch then men and forget about conforming
I'd have made sure i was never a mortgage sla.v.e and encouraged myself to travel and LIVE...
Maybe become a silversmith and a yoga teacher and gone vegan |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stop trying to impress people who want to see you fail.
Stop trying to please people who don’t respect or value you.
Quality is better than quantity when it comes to friends.
Be confident and don’t hold back because the world is your oyster and life is too short.  |
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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago
Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’ |
Don't listen to the people or nay sayers who discourage you from doing things..... After all they are not always right!
Don't be scared to fail either, don't dwell on it too much, make mistakes, learn from it & don't repeat them if you can ......   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Work hard and save up for a gap year
Try a nudist beach in your gap year.
This will give you more body confidence and show you what real bodies actually look like, not perceived body perfection.
From this you will grow sexually in a healthy way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I’d say, get your head down, take a few more risks, travel and enjoy life. For most, the value of youth is never appreciated until after, but that is its beauty really.
I was a happy teenager and it all forms who I am now, so can’t complain really. But if I’d had the chance, I should have maybe experienced more in terms of other cultures. "
Totally agree |
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I would say "You're going to meet a girl in a couple of years who breaks your heart, don't bother with her and give the one you meet later more of a chance instead of comparing her and messing her around" |
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