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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I’ve woken up in a bit of a melancholic mood today and suddenly found myself missing a lot of the big and small things that I haven’t been able to do in this past year.
I think that in some ways it’s become something that I haven’t thought about, as a way of stopping myself from feeling this?
So dear fabbers, what do you miss, beyond the simple ‘meeting for sex’? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Extra-marital sex with ladies off t’internet "
I didn’t read the opening post properly did I?
In that case, I’m changing my answer ...
being within touching distance of another human being. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ravin... Nothing beats being on that dance floor, 1000s of others around you, feeling the base running through your body.. Oh yes.. Get me on that dance floor. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes people ! I miss people , friends, family , get together , socialising , hugging .... I also miss glorious sex and dare I say it ... work 
In that order  "
I'm sure after a week of being back at work I'll change my mind - but I miss going to work too
I need to be busy and around other people.
This endless Groundhog Day on my own is really starting to get to me now  |
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Having lunch on the seafront, watching the world go by with a glass of wine.
Coffee and cake at my little local coffee shop, where they know my name and my coffee order.
Playing silly made up games with my little nieces and nephews. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I miss the joys of commuting, of working in a busy office, the pressurised but fun environment.
I miss spontaneity - being able to go for halloumi fries or a coffee with a friend just because we wanted to.
I miss the thrill of various things - meeting someone new, the hug from a loved one, having that perfect meal, browsing and feeling the weight of various books. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss the joys of commuting, of working in a busy office, the pressurised but fun environment.
I miss spontaneity - being able to go for halloumi fries or a coffee with a friend just because we wanted to.
I miss the thrill of various things - meeting someone new, the hug from a loved one, having that perfect meal, browsing and feeling the weight of various books. "
Oh I want halloumi fries now 
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
I miss being free to do what I want. To go where I want, when I want. And to stay home because I want to, not because I have to or because I'm scared going out could kill my loved ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Socialising. I want to have people round for BBQ's, get pissed and sit on the decking at 3am discussing the meaning of life.
Other than that my life's not been massively affected, I've been lucky that work's continued and, with work, I've still been allowed to be out and about.
I dread to think the state I'd be in if I was stuck indoors all the time though. I've a lot of respect for anyone who's done that and made it through this mess! |
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"Taking my kids swimming, it's the only thing they've really missed doing. "
With you on this definitely. My little one was just thriving at swimming and was really good for her age. Now no lessons in over a year and no just fun swims either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being with people without asking for money. The closest I get is talking to a customer And it’s mostly about work.
I just miss seeing people enjoy life, I miss, missing opportunities for a whole year. I miss planning trips, shopping eating out, sports So much.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't miss anything. Lockdown can carry on forever. I like that people are trapped and miserable.
Some people are trapped all the time but no-one ever gave a shit until they were affected themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't miss anything. Lockdown can carry on forever. I like that people are trapped and miserable.
Some people are trapped all the time but no-one ever gave a shit until they were affected themselves. "
it takes a shock to open people’s eyes sometimes. |
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"Yes people ! I miss people , friends, family , get together , socialising , hugging .... I also miss glorious sex and dare I say it ... work
In that order
I'm sure after a week of being back at work I'll change my mind - but I miss going to work too
I need to be busy and around other people.
This endless Groundhog Day on my own is really starting to get to me now "
I’m giving myself 2 weeks before I start moaning that I’m too old for this shit .., currently I’m exited at the prospect , been bombarding my boss with ideas for when we open up . |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't miss anything. Lockdown can carry on forever. I like that people are trapped and miserable.
Some people are trapped all the time but no-one ever gave a shit until they were affected themselves. "
I said that at the beginning when people were complaining on Facebook. Now they know how disabled and old people who can't get out feel.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Taking my kids swimming, it's the only thing they've really missed doing.
With you on this definitely. My little one was just thriving at swimming and was really good for her age. Now no lessons in over a year and no just fun swims either. "
My eldest was the same, was really good at it and the youngest should've started his lessons both love being in the water. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't miss anything. Lockdown can carry on forever. I like that people are trapped and miserable.
Some people are trapped all the time but no-one ever gave a shit until they were affected themselves. "
I saw the comment and knew it was you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Missed being connected to humanity n society on a personal level not just through tinternet, missed those ramdom conversations u have with total strangers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't miss anything. Lockdown can carry on forever. I like that people are trapped and miserable.
Some people are trapped all the time but no-one ever gave a shit until they were affected themselves.
it takes a shock to open people’s eyes sometimes. "
It does - people rarely care unless it directly affects them or someone they love.
It's definitely an eye opener.
I quite liked it in the beginning - especially as I'm not really a people person 
But the solitude is getting to me now.
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Seeing and spending time with family and friends, it’s been 7 months and a year, respectively since we have.
There are still a few months to go until it can happen, however it’s now nearer to that point than the time already spent apart and the time will fly by. |
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Travelling, we went from being out of the country most of the time to being here all of the time.
Although that’s just what we miss, as opposed to anything critical. We’re both safe and healthy and life is good.
It’s just a lifestyle hit that makes us a little bored, as opposed to some of the real shit people are going through. |
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going to gym, dressing up and going for drinks with friends, loads and loads of hugs and kisses, go to shops and try clothes that I won’t buy, meet strangers whenever and however I want , not have to wear mask when out, getting massages when I need, going beauty salons when I want.... list is long my friend ,list is long  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't miss anything. Lockdown can carry on forever. I like that people are trapped and miserable.
Some people are trapped all the time but no-one ever gave a shit until they were affected themselves.
I saw the comment and knew it was you "
I should just fuck off and die. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Being able to do things without having to stop and think about them and whether they are "allowed" first "
This.
I cut my own hair, don't care much for the pub, travelled mainly to visit clubs so lockdown hasn’t affected what I do that much outside of now having to think about what I am going to do and if I will get fined. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Little touches. Not even kisses or hugs or sex. But talking to a friend and giving her a rub on the shoulder when she is down.. high fives with friends kids when they share something they are proud of.
Stuff like that. |
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I miss felling sexy and having my own identity right now I’m just mum and cook, clean and drive people where they need to be. I used to really enjoy getting dressed up, make up on and just being myself when the school run was done. I don’t see the point of it all now and could cry most days. I was in really poorly in hospital with Covid so I understand the severity but this loneliness and depressed feeling is worse than that was.  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh, so many things but I'm already feeling glum because I'm missing someone terribly, so I'm trying to focus on happy and positive things "
Sending you a hug, I hope focusing on the positive and happy works for you. |
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"Oh, so many things but I'm already feeling glum because I'm missing someone terribly, so I'm trying to focus on happy and positive things
Sending you a hug, I hope focusing on the positive and happy works for you. "
Thank you...can it be a really long hug where I lay my head on your breasticles and you stroke my hair please? |
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By *avhonaWoman
over a year ago
Away with the faeries |
"Ravin... Nothing beats being on that dance floor, 1000s of others around you, feeling the base running through your body.. Oh yes.. Get me on that dance floor.
I hear you!"
And live music..gigs. Having access online to live streams is quite different to being amongst it and in the thick of everyone feeling the vibes together.
It's electric when it's good and I can't wait for it all to come back. |
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By *avhonaWoman
over a year ago
Away with the faeries |
"I’ve woken up in a bit of a melancholic mood today and suddenly found myself missing a lot of the big and small things that I haven’t been able to do in this past year.
I think that in some ways it’s become something that I haven’t thought about, as a way of stopping myself from feeling this?
So dear fabbers, what do you miss, beyond the simple ‘meeting for sex’? "
What are you missing, Mr Monkey? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh, so many things but I'm already feeling glum because I'm missing someone terribly, so I'm trying to focus on happy and positive things
Sending you a hug, I hope focusing on the positive and happy works for you.
Thank you...can it be a really long hug where I lay my head on your breasticles and you stroke my hair please? "
Anything for you Lily you beautiful woman. My breasticles are perfect for comforting hugs.  |
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Most of all I miss people. I miss being able to sit & chat & drink coffee (or wine) with my friends. I miss spontaneity, being able to hop in the car & drive to the beach for a walk, or to go out to a restaurant for lunch, or meet up with friends. I miss being able to just do things without having to think so much.
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