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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve had a few offers recently and in the past from men offering to buy me outfits undies heels etc I’ve always said thank you but no thanks as it seemed a bit cheeky! Should I have actually said yes please and taken gifts or is it a slippery slope towards prostitution? |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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Are they offering you to buy you gifts because they want to show their affection towards you or because they expect something in return, would accepting the gift make you feel as though you are expected to give them something in return? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had offers to buy me things. Funnily enough when accepted, they wanted to force a wank chat about the whole thing, and then disappeared.
I don’t think there would be any harm if that’s their fantasy, but like meeting, a lot of guys jerk off at the idea, but don’t intend to follow through x |
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Never been offered to buy clothes by anyone on here. Generally asked to go to hotels and they’ll pay for the room. I turn them down as I don’t want them thinking in anyway that they’ve ‘bought’ me for a few hours.
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Yeah had this a few times also, been told to make a wishlist and stuff like that aswell.
Just really not my thing, feels to me a bit like begging or taking advantage really and it's just makes me uncomfortable when people offer
On the flip side though I wouldnt have an issue with taking money off a guy for shag, seems much more a like a transaction to me |
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"I’ve had a few offers recently and in the past from men offering to buy me outfits undies heels etc I’ve always said thank you but no thanks as it seemed a bit cheeky! Should I have actually said yes please and taken gifts or is it a slippery slope towards prostitution? "
I've had gifts bought for me before, actually the white lingerie in my pic was a gift so I've No problem receiving things if the person wants to give. I would generally ignore people who come straight out and offer things because its mostly bull*hit but if you've been talking to them for a bit and they suggest it, why not?
What I would say though is before accepting anything always have a conversation about what the expectations are, if youre happy with them go ahead, if not politely decline. |
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"I have had offers to buy me things. Funnily enough when accepted, they wanted to force a wank chat about the whole thing, and then disappeared.
I don’t think there would be any harm if that’s their fantasy, but like meeting, a lot of guys jerk off at the idea, but don’t intend to follow through x"
Yeah I agree, I’ve had offers but haven’t taken them seriously and I get that there’s a turn on for it but it’s when it comes with orders and request that make you feel uncomfortable then that’s where it crosses the line.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had offers on here, never ever accepted.
Wouldn't say no to a shopping trip if I was buying myself things and he was buying lunch and drinks ...
I can be bought with food  |
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I never accept. Could be handy as i live off a tight budget. I have had offers from joiners, gardeners, electricians, painters and builders to mention a few. My house would be like a palace if i took up the offers but i would rather save my pennies for the work that needs done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had offers of lingerie to full paid shopping trips and never accepted... I'd highly doubt many of them are genuine anyway and if they were, I'd feel like I was being bought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve had a few offers recently and in the past from men offering to buy me outfits undies heels etc I’ve always said thank you but no thanks as it seemed a bit cheeky! Should I have actually said yes please and taken gifts or is it a slippery slope towards prostitution? "
I just think it’s odd for a stranger to buy someone those kind of gifts. If a relationship exists then maybe small gifts etc is understandably more acceptable. Conversely, there are many statuses I see locally that ask for ‘sugar daddies’ or ‘need spoiling’. Makes my skin crawl the idea of using materialism to get closer to sex with someone. Maybe I’m just a prude |
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"I’ve had a few offers recently and in the past from men offering to buy me outfits undies heels etc I’ve always said thank you but no thanks as it seemed a bit cheeky! Should I have actually said yes please and taken gifts or is it a slippery slope towards prostitution?
I just think it’s odd for a stranger to buy someone those kind of gifts. If a relationship exists then maybe small gifts etc is understandably more acceptable. Conversely, there are many statuses I see locally that ask for ‘sugar daddies’ or ‘need spoiling’. Makes my skin crawl the idea of using materialism to get closer to sex with someone. Maybe I’m just a prude "
Prude over here too. |
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"I’ve had a few offers recently and in the past from men offering to buy me outfits undies heels etc I’ve always said thank you but no thanks as it seemed a bit cheeky! Should I have actually said yes please and taken gifts or is it a slippery slope towards prostitution?
I just think it’s odd for a stranger to buy someone those kind of gifts. If a relationship exists then maybe small gifts etc is understandably more acceptable. Conversely, there are many statuses I see locally that ask for ‘sugar daddies’ or ‘need spoiling’. Makes my skin crawl the idea of using materialism to get closer to sex with someone. Maybe I’m just a prude "
I've had lots of offers for trades in fitting my barge out, with the expectation of sex. Turned them all down, because been there, given sex first, then 'oh gotta go' and run off without doing the work. Would rather pay for genuine work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I had my single profile I got offers of shopping trips, weekend away and holidays but they were all told no thank you.
Did get cash offers too but that was an instant block.
I work a pay my own way.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve had a few offers recently and in the past from men offering to buy me outfits undies heels etc I’ve always said thank you but no thanks as it seemed a bit cheeky! Should I have actually said yes please and taken gifts or is it a slippery slope towards prostitution?
I just think it’s odd for a stranger to buy someone those kind of gifts. If a relationship exists then maybe small gifts etc is understandably more acceptable. Conversely, there are many statuses I see locally that ask for ‘sugar daddies’ or ‘need spoiling’. Makes my skin crawl the idea of using materialism to get closer to sex with someone. Maybe I’m just a prude "
Nope I dont think you are tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don’t think it’s a slippery road to prostitution but it might make you feel you’re obliged to do something for them in return and I don’t like the thought of that  |
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It seems to be a regular occurrence..... I've had offers from buying me lingerie to taking me shopping for heels. I've never accepted as I'm not sure they are genuine.....and what do they want in return??
My old mum used to say "You don't get anything for nothing". |
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