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over a year ago
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No, I'd say half of the men I've been with like to her me gag at least a bit, some get very rough so that they can hear me really struggling, it seems a common turn on xx |
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over a year ago
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I can "open my throat" so gagging isnt common for me.
I dont understand the joy of hearing someone struggling but also understand we all like different things.
It does seem a common turn on  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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that's a good point but I don't feel like its a power thing with me
I don't really understand
if I was out with somebody having a drink and they gagged I would probs gag at it too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm fortunate to have almost no gag reflex, so I can easily deepthroat. Average and smaller guys can't really make me gag. Well endowed guys can if they push it all the way in balls deep and then hold my head there for a while, or if the thrust deep and hard xx |
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"Press reply + quote when replying to a comment, people will be able to work out what reply is meant for which comment
aw okay sorry lol"
No need to apologise. I didn't mean it to sound so blunt and "ordery"  |
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Rough blowjobs with gagging and ch*king and lots of drool is a huge kink for me. Lots of men are reluctant. As much as I appreciate the consideration, it's so hot when you find someone into it too and build enough trust for them to really let go. I recently got face fucked over the edge of the bed and ch*ked up spit all over my face and in my hair  . Then he cum on my face as well. It was super hot. Then he very lovingly and gently cleaned off my face  . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Rough blowjobs with gagging and ch*king and lots of drool is a huge kink for me. Lots of men are reluctant. As much as I appreciate the consideration, it's so hot when you find someone into it too and build enough trust for them to really let go. I recently got face fucked over the edge of the bed and ch*ked up spit all over my face and in my hair . Then he cum on my face as well. It was super hot. Then he very lovingly and gently cleaned off my face ."
wow
that sounds delightful |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m not going to yuck someone else’s yum and if you’re both into it, then great but I can’t help but think that a lot of this ‘extreme’ stuff is a result of porn searches..."
not really sure what thays meant to mean
I watch other porn not that kinda extreme stuff u watch bud |
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"I’m not going to yuck someone else’s yum and if you’re both into it, then great but I can’t help but think that a lot of this ‘extreme’ stuff is a result of porn searches..."
Haha funnily enough, as someone into this it's pretty damn different to the porn I tend to watch . A lot of the things I enjoy doing I don't get much out of watching as it's more about the head space which you can't really get across that well in videos. |
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"I think for some it's a sign they're all big and manly man with such a huge schlong. A power trip almost."
I’ve been known to “pretend” to gag on a smaller cock to boost their ego ... I’m kind like that  |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"I’m not going to yuck someone else’s yum and if you’re both into it, then great but I can’t help but think that a lot of this ‘extreme’ stuff is a result of porn searches...
not really sure what thays meant to mean
I watch other porn not that kinda extreme stuff u watch bud"
I mean that gagging and throat fucking wasn’t a ‘thing’ until fairly recently, just like squirting. Suddenly everyone wants to do it because it’s far more mainstream.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not going to yuck someone else’s yum and if you’re both into it, then great but I can’t help but think that a lot of this ‘extreme’ stuff is a result of porn searches...
not really sure what thays meant to mean
I watch other porn not that kinda extreme stuff u watch bud
I mean that gagging and throat fucking wasn’t a ‘thing’ until fairly recently, just like squirting. Suddenly everyone wants to do it because it’s far more mainstream.
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It's almost like as if people want to try the things they see and see if they enjoy it for themselves, who knew! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"I’m not going to yuck someone else’s yum and if you’re both into it, then great but I can’t help but think that a lot of this ‘extreme’ stuff is a result of porn searches...
not really sure what thays meant to mean
I watch other porn not that kinda extreme stuff u watch bud
I mean that gagging and throat fucking wasn’t a ‘thing’ until fairly recently, just like squirting. Suddenly everyone wants to do it because it’s far more mainstream.
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I’d rather it be more mainstream so hopefully people have a better chance to educate themselves before trying something that could cause long lasting harm.
Besides, sexual freedom should be the goal now and not trying to shame people into keeping things behind closed doors anymore. |
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"Rough blowjobs with gagging and ch*king and lots of drool is a huge kink for me. Lots of men are reluctant. As much as I appreciate the consideration, it's so hot when you find someone into it too and build enough trust for them to really let go. I recently got face fucked over the edge of the bed and ch*ked up spit all over my face and in my hair . Then he cum on my face as well. It was super hot. Then he very lovingly and gently cleaned off my face .
#relationshipgoals "
It was proper romantic  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I remember deep throating someone not long after eating a tuna mayo sandwich, and regurgitating it on his cock.
I now won't eat after 2pm if I'm meeting someone in the evening.
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I’m not going to yuck someone else’s yum and if you’re both into it, then great but I can’t help but think that a lot of this ‘extreme’ stuff is a result of porn searches...
not really sure what thays meant to mean
I watch other porn not that kinda extreme stuff u watch bud
I mean that gagging and throat fucking wasn’t a ‘thing’ until fairly recently, just like squirting. Suddenly everyone wants to do it because it’s far more mainstream.
It's almost like as if people want to try the things they see and see if they enjoy it for themselves, who knew!"
If it’s consensual and the guy knows that that’s not the common form of BJ’s then great. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I’m not going to yuck someone else’s yum and if you’re both into it, then great but I can’t help but think that a lot of this ‘extreme’ stuff is a result of porn searches...
not really sure what thays meant to mean
I watch other porn not that kinda extreme stuff u watch bud
I mean that gagging and throat fucking wasn’t a ‘thing’ until fairly recently, just like squirting. Suddenly everyone wants to do it because it’s far more mainstream.
I’d rather it be more mainstream so hopefully people have a better chance to educate themselves before trying something that could cause long lasting harm.
Besides, sexual freedom should be the goal now and not trying to shame people into keeping things behind closed doors anymore."
I agree but it should be safe, sane and consensual, not ‘I saw this and it looked great, so I’ll do it whatever’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rough blowjobs with gagging and ch*king and lots of drool is a huge kink for me. Lots of men are reluctant. As much as I appreciate the consideration, it's so hot when you find someone into it too and build enough trust for them to really let go. I recently got face fucked over the edge of the bed and ch*ked up spit all over my face and in my hair . Then he cum on my face as well. It was super hot. Then he very lovingly and gently cleaned off my face ."
I should introduce you to my hubby Lacey, when he's in the mood he likes to face fuck and can be extremely rough about it. He sometimes combines it with hair pulling, choking, and slapping too. He also likes to face fuck against walls or at the end of the bed upside down like you did so you can escape  xx |
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"I’m not going to yuck someone else’s yum and if you’re both into it, then great but I can’t help but think that a lot of this ‘extreme’ stuff is a result of porn searches...
not really sure what thays meant to mean
I watch other porn not that kinda extreme stuff u watch bud
I mean that gagging and throat fucking wasn’t a ‘thing’ until fairly recently, just like squirting. Suddenly everyone wants to do it because it’s far more mainstream.
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I think this thread shows its still a pretty marmite thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has their kinks so nothing to feel weird about, you just need to find the right partner who likes the same thing.
I don't think I'd like to take control in that situation out of fear of causing discomfort but if it's something we talk about beforehand, I'd be up for it |
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"Rough blowjobs with gagging and ch*king and lots of drool is a huge kink for me. Lots of men are reluctant. As much as I appreciate the consideration, it's so hot when you find someone into it too and build enough trust for them to really let go. I recently got face fucked over the edge of the bed and ch*ked up spit all over my face and in my hair . Then he cum on my face as well. It was super hot. Then he very lovingly and gently cleaned off my face .
OK, I just came "
Honestly I swear I know more women into having this done to them than men who like doing it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone has their kinks so nothing to feel weird about, you just need to find the right partner who likes the same thing.
I don't think I'd like to take control in that situation out of fear of causing discomfort but if it's something we talk about beforehand, I'd be up for it "
That's it. You need to find a partner with shared interests, who you trust, establish the limits, and have a safe word. Most people into domination and BDSM are happy to consent to being feel uncomfortable, or even having others hurt them, but boundaries should always be clearly established and respected, which means staying in control xx |
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"Rough blowjobs with gagging and ch*king and lots of drool is a huge kink for me. Lots of men are reluctant. As much as I appreciate the consideration, it's so hot when you find someone into it too and build enough trust for them to really let go. I recently got face fucked over the edge of the bed and ch*ked up spit all over my face and in my hair . Then he cum on my face as well. It was super hot. Then he very lovingly and gently cleaned off my face .
I should introduce you to my hubby Lacey, when he's in the mood he likes to face fuck and can be extremely rough about it. He sometimes combines it with hair pulling, choking, and slapping too. He also likes to face fuck against walls or at the end of the bed upside down like you did so you can escape xx"
I love all that. Did lose an earring recently as a result though . I love it when he smears all my drool all over my face too and tells me I look pretty when my face is a mess. Sometimes he'll even lick my face clean. Oh I'm going all mushy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rough blowjobs with gagging and ch*king and lots of drool is a huge kink for me. Lots of men are reluctant. As much as I appreciate the consideration, it's so hot when you find someone into it too and build enough trust for them to really let go. I recently got face fucked over the edge of the bed and ch*ked up spit all over my face and in my hair . Then he cum on my face as well. It was super hot. Then he very lovingly and gently cleaned off my face .
I should introduce you to my hubby Lacey, when he's in the mood he likes to face fuck and can be extremely rough about it. He sometimes combines it with hair pulling, choking, and slapping too. He also likes to face fuck against walls or at the end of the bed upside down like you did so you can escape xx
I love all that. Did lose an earring recently as a result though . I love it when he smears all my drool all over my face too and tells me I look pretty when my face is a mess. Sometimes he'll even lick my face clean. Oh I'm going all mushy. "
Yeah he'd mess up your face lol, he loves to cum on it too and is a big cummer. He'll also push you a bit further if you let him and you want to end up in a real bad mess xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone has their kinks so nothing to feel weird about, you just need to find the right partner who likes the same thing.
I don't think I'd like to take control in that situation out of fear of causing discomfort but if it's something we talk about beforehand, I'd be up for it
That's it. You need to find a partner with shared interests, who you trust, establish the limits, and have a safe word. Most people into domination and BDSM are happy to consent to being feel uncomfortable, or even having others hurt them, but boundaries should always be clearly established and respected, which means staying in control xx"
That's a good point, but when it comes to a point where the woman could be gagged, how would they communicate that as a safe word can't be used. Is it a a signal? A tap on the thigh? Would be interested to know for future reference  |
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"Rough blowjobs with gagging and ch*king and lots of drool is a huge kink for me. Lots of men are reluctant. As much as I appreciate the consideration, it's so hot when you find someone into it too and build enough trust for them to really let go. I recently got face fucked over the edge of the bed and ch*ked up spit all over my face and in my hair . Then he cum on my face as well. It was super hot. Then he very lovingly and gently cleaned off my face .
I should introduce you to my hubby Lacey, when he's in the mood he likes to face fuck and can be extremely rough about it. He sometimes combines it with hair pulling, choking, and slapping too. He also likes to face fuck against walls or at the end of the bed upside down like you did so you can escape xx
I love all that. Did lose an earring recently as a result though . I love it when he smears all my drool all over my face too and tells me I look pretty when my face is a mess. Sometimes he'll even lick my face clean. Oh I'm going all mushy.
Yeah he'd mess up your face lol, he loves to cum on it too and is a big cummer. He'll also push you a bit further if you let him and you want to end up in a real bad mess xx"
It's mostly something I do with people I know quite well. The above example is a long term partner. It's great to know there's more of us who are really into it though . |
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"Everyone has their kinks so nothing to feel weird about, you just need to find the right partner who likes the same thing.
I don't think I'd like to take control in that situation out of fear of causing discomfort but if it's something we talk about beforehand, I'd be up for it
That's it. You need to find a partner with shared interests, who you trust, establish the limits, and have a safe word. Most people into domination and BDSM are happy to consent to being feel uncomfortable, or even having others hurt them, but boundaries should always be clearly established and respected, which means staying in control xx
That's a good point, but when it comes to a point where the woman could be gagged, how would they communicate that as a safe word can't be used. Is it a a signal? A tap on the thigh? Would be interested to know for future reference "
Tap out yes. I've had to do it a couple of times when I've not been able to breathe at all for a few seconds xx |
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"Everyone has their kinks so nothing to feel weird about, you just need to find the right partner who likes the same thing.
I don't think I'd like to take control in that situation out of fear of causing discomfort but if it's something we talk about beforehand, I'd be up for it
That's it. You need to find a partner with shared interests, who you trust, establish the limits, and have a safe word. Most people into domination and BDSM are happy to consent to being feel uncomfortable, or even having others hurt them, but boundaries should always be clearly established and respected, which means staying in control xx
That's a good point, but when it comes to a point where the woman could be gagged, how would they communicate that as a safe word can't be used. Is it a a signal? A tap on the thigh? Would be interested to know for future reference "
A dig of the nails in the thigh is effective I find |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone has their kinks so nothing to feel weird about, you just need to find the right partner who likes the same thing.
I don't think I'd like to take control in that situation out of fear of causing discomfort but if it's something we talk about beforehand, I'd be up for it
That's it. You need to find a partner with shared interests, who you trust, establish the limits, and have a safe word. Most people into domination and BDSM are happy to consent to being feel uncomfortable, or even having others hurt them, but boundaries should always be clearly established and respected, which means staying in control xx
That's a good point, but when it comes to a point where the woman could be gagged, how would they communicate that as a safe word can't be used. Is it a a signal? A tap on the thigh? Would be interested to know for future reference
Tap out yes. I've had to do it a couple of times when I've not been able to breathe at all for a few seconds xx"
That's useful to know, thank you |
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"Everyone has their kinks so nothing to feel weird about, you just need to find the right partner who likes the same thing.
I don't think I'd like to take control in that situation out of fear of causing discomfort but if it's something we talk about beforehand, I'd be up for it
That's it. You need to find a partner with shared interests, who you trust, establish the limits, and have a safe word. Most people into domination and BDSM are happy to consent to being feel uncomfortable, or even having others hurt them, but boundaries should always be clearly established and respected, which means staying in control xx
That's a good point, but when it comes to a point where the woman could be gagged, how would they communicate that as a safe word can't be used. Is it a a signal? A tap on the thigh? Would be interested to know for future reference
A dig of the nails in the thigh is effective I find "
Haha that would do it |
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"Rough blowjobs with gagging and ch*king and lots of drool is a huge kink for me. Lots of men are reluctant. As much as I appreciate the consideration, it's so hot when you find someone into it too and build enough trust for them to really let go. I recently got face fucked over the edge of the bed and ch*ked up spit all over my face and in my hair . Then he cum on my face as well. It was super hot. Then he very lovingly and gently cleaned off my face .
I should introduce you to my hubby Lacey, when he's in the mood he likes to face fuck and can be extremely rough about it. He sometimes combines it with hair pulling, choking, and slapping too. He also likes to face fuck against walls or at the end of the bed upside down like you did so you can escape xx
I love all that. Did lose an earring recently as a result though . I love it when he smears all my drool all over my face too and tells me I look pretty when my face is a mess. Sometimes he'll even lick my face clean. Oh I'm going all mushy.
Yeah he'd mess up your face lol, he loves to cum on it too and is a big cummer. He'll also push you a bit further if you let him and you want to end up in a real bad mess xx
It's mostly something I do with people I know quite well. The above example is a long term partner. It's great to know there's more of us who are really into it though . "
Yes, I have let a few other guys do it, but I obviously trust my husband most and let him push me much further than I let others. It can get very messy! Xx |
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"Everyone has their kinks so nothing to feel weird about, you just need to find the right partner who likes the same thing.
I don't think I'd like to take control in that situation out of fear of causing discomfort but if it's something we talk about beforehand, I'd be up for it
That's it. You need to find a partner with shared interests, who you trust, establish the limits, and have a safe word. Most people into domination and BDSM are happy to consent to being feel uncomfortable, or even having others hurt them, but boundaries should always be clearly established and respected, which means staying in control xx
That's a good point, but when it comes to a point where the woman could be gagged, how would they communicate that as a safe word can't be used. Is it a a signal? A tap on the thigh? Would be interested to know for future reference "
Yeah my safeword in that situation is slapping the side of his thigh. As its something you build up over time you generally get to know each other quite well so the people I've done it with have known how to leave me coughing and spluttering and breathing heavily but then they give me a break to breathe. The beauty of doing it with their head over the edge of the bed too is you can see how their body reacts. |
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"Rough blowjobs with gagging and ch*king and lots of drool is a huge kink for me. Lots of men are reluctant. As much as I appreciate the consideration, it's so hot when you find someone into it too and build enough trust for them to really let go. I recently got face fucked over the edge of the bed and ch*ked up spit all over my face and in my hair . Then he cum on my face as well. It was super hot. Then he very lovingly and gently cleaned off my face .
I should introduce you to my hubby Lacey, when he's in the mood he likes to face fuck and can be extremely rough about it. He sometimes combines it with hair pulling, choking, and slapping too. He also likes to face fuck against walls or at the end of the bed upside down like you did so you can escape xx
I love all that. Did lose an earring recently as a result though . I love it when he smears all my drool all over my face too and tells me I look pretty when my face is a mess. Sometimes he'll even lick my face clean. Oh I'm going all mushy.
Yeah he'd mess up your face lol, he loves to cum on it too and is a big cummer. He'll also push you a bit further if you let him and you want to end up in a real bad mess xx
It's mostly something I do with people I know quite well. The above example is a long term partner. It's great to know there's more of us who are really into it though .
Yes, I have let a few other guys do it, but I obviously trust my husband most and let him push me much further than I let others. It can get very messy! Xx"
Sounds like fun |
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"Everyone has their kinks so nothing to feel weird about, you just need to find the right partner who likes the same thing.
I don't think I'd like to take control in that situation out of fear of causing discomfort but if it's something we talk about beforehand, I'd be up for it
That's it. You need to find a partner with shared interests, who you trust, establish the limits, and have a safe word. Most people into domination and BDSM are happy to consent to being feel uncomfortable, or even having others hurt them, but boundaries should always be clearly established and respected, which means staying in control xx
That's a good point, but when it comes to a point where the woman could be gagged, how would they communicate that as a safe word can't be used. Is it a a signal? A tap on the thigh? Would be interested to know for future reference
Yeah my safeword in that situation is slapping the side of his thigh. As its something you build up over time you generally get to know each other quite well so the people I've done it with have known how to leave me coughing and spluttering and breathing heavily but then they give me a break to breathe. The beauty of doing it with their head over the edge of the bed too is you can see how their body reacts. "
I've never managed it over the edge of a bed, can't seem to get the angle right. Now I'm inspired to give it another go  |
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over a year ago
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It doesn’t have to be one or the other.
I sometimes like to be in control of what I’m doing, but more often I like to have my hair pulled, a hand on my throat and to have him fuck my mouth so I gag, I love it, and so does he.
We have a signal, my hand are often on his thighs, if my nails dig in then he stops.
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"Everyone has their kinks so nothing to feel weird about, you just need to find the right partner who likes the same thing.
I don't think I'd like to take control in that situation out of fear of causing discomfort but if it's something we talk about beforehand, I'd be up for it
That's it. You need to find a partner with shared interests, who you trust, establish the limits, and have a safe word. Most people into domination and BDSM are happy to consent to being feel uncomfortable, or even having others hurt them, but boundaries should always be clearly established and respected, which means staying in control xx
That's a good point, but when it comes to a point where the woman could be gagged, how would they communicate that as a safe word can't be used. Is it a a signal? A tap on the thigh? Would be interested to know for future reference
Yeah my safeword in that situation is slapping the side of his thigh. As its something you build up over time you generally get to know each other quite well so the people I've done it with have known how to leave me coughing and spluttering and breathing heavily but then they give me a break to breathe. The beauty of doing it with their head over the edge of the bed too is you can see how their body reacts. "
Welp, didn't expect to add something to my bucket list today but here we are |
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over a year ago
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"Everyone has their kinks so nothing to feel weird about, you just need to find the right partner who likes the same thing.
I don't think I'd like to take control in that situation out of fear of causing discomfort but if it's something we talk about beforehand, I'd be up for it
That's it. You need to find a partner with shared interests, who you trust, establish the limits, and have a safe word. Most people into domination and BDSM are happy to consent to being feel uncomfortable, or even having others hurt them, but boundaries should always be clearly established and respected, which means staying in control xx
That's a good point, but when it comes to a point where the woman could be gagged, how would they communicate that as a safe word can't be used. Is it a a signal? A tap on the thigh? Would be interested to know for future reference
Tap out yes. I've had to do it a couple of times when I've not been able to breathe at all for a few seconds xx"
I tap out, on the thighs or bum cheek. A high level of trust is needed to be sure they will let you withdraw when needed.
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"Everyone has their kinks so nothing to feel weird about, you just need to find the right partner who likes the same thing.
I don't think I'd like to take control in that situation out of fear of causing discomfort but if it's something we talk about beforehand, I'd be up for it
That's it. You need to find a partner with shared interests, who you trust, establish the limits, and have a safe word. Most people into domination and BDSM are happy to consent to being feel uncomfortable, or even having others hurt them, but boundaries should always be clearly established and respected, which means staying in control xx
That's a good point, but when it comes to a point where the woman could be gagged, how would they communicate that as a safe word can't be used. Is it a a signal? A tap on the thigh? Would be interested to know for future reference
Yeah my safeword in that situation is slapping the side of his thigh. As its something you build up over time you generally get to know each other quite well so the people I've done it with have known how to leave me coughing and spluttering and breathing heavily but then they give me a break to breathe. The beauty of doing it with their head over the edge of the bed too is you can see how their body reacts.
I've never managed it over the edge of a bed, can't seem to get the angle right. Now I'm inspired to give it another go "
If you get the angle right he should just slide directly down your throat in a straight line and be able to go all the way in. It's fun with VWE men xx |
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"Everyone has their kinks so nothing to feel weird about, you just need to find the right partner who likes the same thing.
I don't think I'd like to take control in that situation out of fear of causing discomfort but if it's something we talk about beforehand, I'd be up for it
That's it. You need to find a partner with shared interests, who you trust, establish the limits, and have a safe word. Most people into domination and BDSM are happy to consent to being feel uncomfortable, or even having others hurt them, but boundaries should always be clearly established and respected, which means staying in control xx
That's a good point, but when it comes to a point where the woman could be gagged, how would they communicate that as a safe word can't be used. Is it a a signal? A tap on the thigh? Would be interested to know for future reference
Yeah my safeword in that situation is slapping the side of his thigh. As its something you build up over time you generally get to know each other quite well so the people I've done it with have known how to leave me coughing and spluttering and breathing heavily but then they give me a break to breathe. The beauty of doing it with their head over the edge of the bed too is you can see how their body reacts.
I've never managed it over the edge of a bed, can't seem to get the angle right. Now I'm inspired to give it another go "
I kinda hang my shoulders off a bit as well as my head. Opens my throat right up . |
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"Everyone has their kinks so nothing to feel weird about, you just need to find the right partner who likes the same thing.
I don't think I'd like to take control in that situation out of fear of causing discomfort but if it's something we talk about beforehand, I'd be up for it
That's it. You need to find a partner with shared interests, who you trust, establish the limits, and have a safe word. Most people into domination and BDSM are happy to consent to being feel uncomfortable, or even having others hurt them, but boundaries should always be clearly established and respected, which means staying in control xx
That's a good point, but when it comes to a point where the woman could be gagged, how would they communicate that as a safe word can't be used. Is it a a signal? A tap on the thigh? Would be interested to know for future reference
Yeah my safeword in that situation is slapping the side of his thigh. As its something you build up over time you generally get to know each other quite well so the people I've done it with have known how to leave me coughing and spluttering and breathing heavily but then they give me a break to breathe. The beauty of doing it with their head over the edge of the bed too is you can see how their body reacts.
I've never managed it over the edge of a bed, can't seem to get the angle right. Now I'm inspired to give it another go
I kinda hang my shoulders off a bit as well as my head. Opens my throat right up . "
I do find the gagging increases in this position too |
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"Everyone has their kinks so nothing to feel weird about, you just need to find the right partner who likes the same thing.
I don't think I'd like to take control in that situation out of fear of causing discomfort but if it's something we talk about beforehand, I'd be up for it
That's it. You need to find a partner with shared interests, who you trust, establish the limits, and have a safe word. Most people into domination and BDSM are happy to consent to being feel uncomfortable, or even having others hurt them, but boundaries should always be clearly established and respected, which means staying in control xx
That's a good point, but when it comes to a point where the woman could be gagged, how would they communicate that as a safe word can't be used. Is it a a signal? A tap on the thigh? Would be interested to know for future reference
Yeah my safeword in that situation is slapping the side of his thigh. As its something you build up over time you generally get to know each other quite well so the people I've done it with have known how to leave me coughing and spluttering and breathing heavily but then they give me a break to breathe. The beauty of doing it with their head over the edge of the bed too is you can see how their body reacts.
I've never managed it over the edge of a bed, can't seem to get the angle right. Now I'm inspired to give it another go
I kinda hang my shoulders off a bit as well as my head. Opens my throat right up . "
Shoulders off as well I will have to go experiment |
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"Everyone has their kinks so nothing to feel weird about, you just need to find the right partner who likes the same thing.
I don't think I'd like to take control in that situation out of fear of causing discomfort but if it's something we talk about beforehand, I'd be up for it
That's it. You need to find a partner with shared interests, who you trust, establish the limits, and have a safe word. Most people into domination and BDSM are happy to consent to being feel uncomfortable, or even having others hurt them, but boundaries should always be clearly established and respected, which means staying in control xx
That's a good point, but when it comes to a point where the woman could be gagged, how would they communicate that as a safe word can't be used. Is it a a signal? A tap on the thigh? Would be interested to know for future reference
Yeah my safeword in that situation is slapping the side of his thigh. As its something you build up over time you generally get to know each other quite well so the people I've done it with have known how to leave me coughing and spluttering and breathing heavily but then they give me a break to breathe. The beauty of doing it with their head over the edge of the bed too is you can see how their body reacts.
I've never managed it over the edge of a bed, can't seem to get the angle right. Now I'm inspired to give it another go
If you get the angle right he should just slide directly down your throat in a straight line and be able to go all the way in. It's fun with VWE men xx"
I can when I'm on my knees in front of him or if I sit above when he laid down. I'm determined to get this to work now. Anymore tips ladies |
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