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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I think that people grooming how they want to is the most important part.
All of this vaganuary, etc. is meant to remind people that a person’s body is their own, not the external pressure that sexy looks a certain way |
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"I think that people grooming how they want to is the most important part.
All of this vaganuary, etc. is meant to remind people that a person’s body is their own, not the external pressure that sexy looks a certain way"
Is it even possible to be yourself without environmental peers pressure ? |
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"I think that people grooming how they want to is the most important part.
All of this vaganuary, etc. is meant to remind people that a person’s body is their own, not the external pressure that sexy looks a certain way"
Absolutely agreed! I don’t like others dictating what society thinks is attractive or not. I’ll have my body how I want my body to be, no one else should tell me otherwise - media, individuals etc |
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"I think that people grooming how they want to is the most important part.
All of this vaganuary, etc. is meant to remind people that a person’s body is their own, not the external pressure that sexy looks a certain way
Absolutely agreed! I don’t like others dictating what society thinks is attractive or not. I’ll have my body how I want my body to be, no one else should tell me otherwise - media, individuals etc"
Again I don't think people realise how easily they are influenced without even knowing about it. As if our decisions happen in a vacuum ! |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I think that people grooming how they want to is the most important part.
All of this vaganuary, etc. is meant to remind people that a person’s body is their own, not the external pressure that sexy looks a certain way
Is it even possible to be yourself without environmental peers pressure ? "
I think that societal pressure is something that is difficult to lose and there’s a difference between that and doing it for yourself to make your partner happy but, yes. It is possible to do what makes you feel comfortable
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"I think that people grooming how they want to is the most important part.
All of this vaganuary, etc. is meant to remind people that a person’s body is their own, not the external pressure that sexy looks a certain way
Is it even possible to be yourself without environmental peers pressure ? "
I don’t think it is possible unless you completely switch off to the world. You either know you’re against the grain or you follow what we’re told is beautiful or normal.
Surely normal should be what ever our bodies naturally do? |
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"I think that people grooming how they want to is the most important part.
All of this vaganuary, etc. is meant to remind people that a person’s body is their own, not the external pressure that sexy looks a certain way
Is it even possible to be yourself without environmental peers pressure ?
I think that societal pressure is something that is difficult to lose and there’s a difference between that and doing it for yourself to make your partner happy but, yes. It is possible to do what makes you feel comfortable
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And where does this comfortable feelings come from ? Does it have a cognitive or affect component to it or both ? And yes, are those comments happen in isolation of external context ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that people grooming how they want to is the most important part.
All of this vaganuary, etc. is meant to remind people that a person’s body is their own, not the external pressure that sexy looks a certain way
Is it even possible to be yourself without environmental peers pressure ?
I don’t think it is possible unless you completely switch off to the world. You either know you’re against the grain or you follow what we’re told is beautiful or normal.
Surely normal should be what ever our bodies naturally do?"
So anal sex is abnormal ? |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I think that people grooming how they want to is the most important part.
All of this vaganuary, etc. is meant to remind people that a person’s body is their own, not the external pressure that sexy looks a certain way
Is it even possible to be yourself without environmental peers pressure ?
I think that societal pressure is something that is difficult to lose and there’s a difference between that and doing it for yourself to make your partner happy but, yes. It is possible to do what makes you feel comfortable
And where does this comfortable feelings come from ? Does it have a cognitive or affect component to it or both ? And yes, are those comments happen in isolation of external context ? "
Is the point that you’re trying to make; that societal pressure affects us all in lots of tiny ways and removing that is impossible.
I’ve not said that your stance isn’t true.
I am however saying that a persons choice to how the groom themselves should be their choice based on how they feel comfortable and not based around the expectations or demands of others.
This type of thread is just perpetuating that level of expectation and we should stop telling people how their bodies should look to please others. Do you disagree? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that people grooming how they want to is the most important part.
All of this vaganuary, etc. is meant to remind people that a person’s body is their own, not the external pressure that sexy looks a certain way
Is it even possible to be yourself without environmental peers pressure ?
I think that societal pressure is something that is difficult to lose and there’s a difference between that and doing it for yourself to make your partner happy but, yes. It is possible to do what makes you feel comfortable
And where does this comfortable feelings come from ? Does it have a cognitive or affect component to it or both ? And yes, are those comments happen in isolation of external context ?
Is the point that you’re trying to make; that societal pressure affects us all in lots of tiny ways and removing that is impossible.
I’ve not said that your stance isn’t true.
I am however saying that a persons choice to how the groom themselves should be their choice based on how they feel comfortable and not based around the expectations or demands of others.
This type of thread is just perpetuating that level of expectation and we should stop telling people how their bodies should look to please others. Do you disagree? "
My argument is that any choices of comfortability an individual can make is always based on peers' expectations. Even if we agree with or not.
No one should tell others how to look or not look but this exactly what any groups on earth do... Any single ones!
Let's take the magazine's canon of beauty for the sake of the example:
Skinny, long legs... Other groups are then marginalised and start to feel uncomfortable with in their own skins, so they start new groups to rassemble the ones who look like them. But again there is a peer pressure in those groups as well. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
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This type of thread is just perpetuating that level of expectation and we should stop telling people how their bodies should look to please others. Do you disagree?
My argument is that any choices of comfortability an individual can make is always based on peers' expectations. Even if we agree with or not.
No one should tell others how to look or not look but this exactly what any groups on earth do... Any single ones!
Let's take the magazine's canon of beauty for the sake of the example:
Skinny, long legs... Other groups are then marginalised and start to feel uncomfortable with in their own skins, so they start new groups to rassemble the ones who look like them. But again there is a peer pressure in those groups as well. "
Yes, I see your point but that’s absolving others of the type of toxic influence that makes things harder.
Humans are social creatures, they want to fit in but being told ‘you must do this with your body to be sexually attractive’ is very different from ‘you should behave like this’ and the pressure to be thin is different from the pressure of being told how your body hair should look.
Would you shave your beard to please a stranger on the internet? Why should we tell women what to do with their pubic hair? |
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I used to keep mine clean shaven as peer pressure made me feel I had to,to be liked and I suffered for years
Now i leave it hairy coz that's how I want it and if people dont like it then they can go somewhere else |
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"Looks like the hairy pussy is making a comeback, I’m pleased, nothing better than au natural in my eyes keep up the good work ladies and share your hairy holes x"
A comeback? Hairy genitalia is the default settsetting for adult humans, choosing to get rid of hair is the fluctuation of trend. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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I don’t understand the whole shaving to please others or letting it grown to please others. One meet may prefer to meet someone without hair and the next may prefer hair. Where does that leave you? Wait for it to regrow?
Do what makes you happy and accept that everyone has a preference  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own, but my personal preference would not be to drink from the furry cup. Much prefer a nice clean smooth fresh smelling pussy which makes fine dining. Having said this, have tasted some delicious well groomed pussy.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t understand the whole shaving to please others or letting it grown to please others. One meet may prefer to meet someone without hair and the next may prefer hair. Where does that leave you? Wait for it to regrow?
Do what makes you happy and accept that everyone has a preference "
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"I think that people grooming how they want to is the most important part.
All of this vaganuary, etc. is meant to remind people that a person’s body is their own, not the external pressure that sexy looks a certain way
Is it even possible to be yourself without environmental peers pressure ? "
Yes.
Certainly so far as this topic goes.
Until I started swinging, the only men I encountered without pubic hair were in porn, and I wasn't aware that women removing it all was so prevalent.
I am aware of women who started swinging quite happily with pubic hair, yet soon shaved it off as they didn't want to stand out from the crowd.
I have always felt womanly with my pubic hair. I'm very happy beung be and have never bowed to peer pressure.
Not everyone has the self confidence to do whatever they would prefer.
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"I think that people grooming how they want to is the most important part.
All of this vaganuary, etc. is meant to remind people that a person’s body is their own, not the external pressure that sexy looks a certain way
Is it even possible to be yourself without environmental peers pressure ?
Yes.
Certainly so far as this topic goes.
Until I started swinging, the only men I encountered without pubic hair were in porn, and I wasn't aware that women removing it all was so prevalent.
I am aware of women who started swinging quite happily with pubic hair, yet soon shaved it off as they didn't want to stand out from the crowd.
I have always felt womanly with my pubic hair. I'm very happy beung be and have never bowed to peer pressure.
Not everyone has the self confidence to do whatever they would prefer.
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Should say I'm happy being me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t understand the whole shaving to please others or letting it grown to please others. One meet may prefer to meet someone without hair and the next may prefer hair. Where does that leave you? Wait for it to regrow?
Do what makes you happy and accept that everyone has a preference "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This type of thread is just perpetuating that level of expectation and we should stop telling people how their bodies should look to please others. Do you disagree?
My argument is that any choices of comfortability an individual can make is always based on peers' expectations. Even if we agree with or not.
No one should tell others how to look or not look but this exactly what any groups on earth do... Any single ones!
Let's take the magazine's canon of beauty for the sake of the example:
Skinny, long legs... Other groups are then marginalised and start to feel uncomfortable with in their own skins, so they start new groups to rassemble the ones who look like them. But again there is a peer pressure in those groups as well.
Yes, I see your point but that’s absolving others of the type of toxic influence that makes things harder.
Humans are social creatures, they want to fit in but being told ‘you must do this with your body to be sexually attractive’ is very different from ‘you should behave like this’ and the pressure to be thin is different from the pressure of being told how your body hair should look.
Would you shave your beard to please a stranger on the internet? Why should we tell women what to do with their pubic hair? "
Even if it is not directly stated like that (you should or shouldn't) it has an influence that can be denied. Even if it is insidious and subtle.
I certainly wouldn't shave it because I am comfortable with it yet this feeling of comfort stems from the influence of how a beard is portrayed. Therefore it is not really my decision the society has control over it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that people grooming how they want to is the most important part.
All of this vaganuary, etc. is meant to remind people that a person’s body is their own, not the external pressure that sexy looks a certain way
Is it even possible to be yourself without environmental peers pressure ?
Yes.
Certainly so far as this topic goes.
Until I started swinging, the only men I encountered without pubic hair were in porn, and I wasn't aware that women removing it all was so prevalent.
I am aware of women who started swinging quite happily with pubic hair, yet soon shaved it off as they didn't want to stand out from the crowd.
I have always felt womanly with my pubic hair. I'm very happy beung be and have never bowed to peer pressure.
Not everyone has the self confidence to do whatever they would prefer.
Should say I'm happy being me "
So basically you are saying that you are perceiving your pubic hair as an extension of your womanliness but don't feel like you are peer pressured to do so ?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think that people grooming how they want to is the most important part.
All of this vaganuary, etc. is meant to remind people that a person’s body is their own, not the external pressure that sexy looks a certain way
Is it even possible to be yourself without environmental peers pressure ?
I don’t think it is possible unless you completely switch off to the world. You either know you’re against the grain or you follow what we’re told is beautiful or normal.
Surely normal should be what ever our bodies naturally do?"
even this last sentence is a form of pressure though it might not have been intended - it basically saying if you choose to alter your body hair in anyway that is not normal
normal should be whatever you choose for your own body |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
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This type of thread is just perpetuating that level of expectation and we should stop telling people how their bodies should look to please others. Do you disagree?
My argument is that any choices of comfortability an individual can make is always based on peers' expectations. Even if we agree with or not.
No one should tell others how to look or not look but this exactly what any groups on earth do... Any single ones!
Let's take the magazine's canon of beauty for the sake of the example:
Skinny, long legs... Other groups are then marginalised and start to feel uncomfortable with in their own skins, so they start new groups to rassemble the ones who look like them. But again there is a peer pressure in those groups as well.
Yes, I see your point but that’s absolving others of the type of toxic influence that makes things harder.
Humans are social creatures, they want to fit in but being told ‘you must do this with your body to be sexually attractive’ is very different from ‘you should behave like this’ and the pressure to be thin is different from the pressure of being told how your body hair should look.
Would you shave your beard to please a stranger on the internet? Why should we tell women what to do with their pubic hair?
Even if it is not directly stated like that (you should or shouldn't) it has an influence that can be denied. Even if it is insidious and subtle.
I certainly wouldn't shave it because I am comfortable with it yet this feeling of comfort stems from the influence of how a beard is portrayed. Therefore it is not really my decision the society has control over it. "
Yes. As I said, I see your points and I think that we’re kind of arguing a different side of the same coin here.
Also, the irony that two men are arguing about the pressures that women feel about their bodies, isn’t lost on me.
Wherever that comfort comes from, we can’t ignore societies influences but my point is, should we even be trying to tell people what to do with their bodies?
Whereas your point seems to be ‘we can’t fight it’ my point is ‘we shouldn’t directly tell’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This type of thread is just perpetuating that level of expectation and we should stop telling people how their bodies should look to please others. Do you disagree?
My argument is that any choices of comfortability an individual can make is always based on peers' expectations. Even if we agree with or not.
No one should tell others how to look or not look but this exactly what any groups on earth do... Any single ones!
Let's take the magazine's canon of beauty for the sake of the example:
Skinny, long legs... Other groups are then marginalised and start to feel uncomfortable with in their own skins, so they start new groups to rassemble the ones who look like them. But again there is a peer pressure in those groups as well.
Yes, I see your point but that’s absolving others of the type of toxic influence that makes things harder.
Humans are social creatures, they want to fit in but being told ‘you must do this with your body to be sexually attractive’ is very different from ‘you should behave like this’ and the pressure to be thin is different from the pressure of being told how your body hair should look.
Would you shave your beard to please a stranger on the internet? Why should we tell women what to do with their pubic hair?
Even if it is not directly stated like that (you should or shouldn't) it has an influence that can be denied. Even if it is insidious and subtle.
I certainly wouldn't shave it because I am comfortable with it yet this feeling of comfort stems from the influence of how a beard is portrayed. Therefore it is not really my decision the society has control over it.
Yes. As I said, I see your points and I think that we’re kind of arguing a different side of the same coin here.
Also, the irony that two men are arguing about the pressures that women feel about their bodies, isn’t lost on me.
Wherever that comfort comes from, we can’t ignore societies influences but my point is, should we even be trying to tell people what to do with their bodies?
Whereas your point seems to be ‘we can’t fight it’ my point is ‘we shouldn’t directly tell’ "
absolutely we shouldn’t directly tell but a thread stating preferences is not the same as telling - it adds to the societal pressure you describe so might have an influence but someone can come along and start an i prefer bald thread and even it out easy enough - wether or not we let the societal pressure influence us can only be controlled by ourselves (although i do take the fair point that subconsciously it might have already created our own preference) |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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Even if it is not directly stated like that (you should or shouldn't) it has an influence that can be denied. Even if it is insidious and subtle.
I certainly wouldn't shave it because I am comfortable with it yet this feeling of comfort stems from the influence of how a beard is portrayed. Therefore it is not really my decision the society has control over it.
Yes. As I said, I see your points and I think that we’re kind of arguing a different side of the same coin here.
Also, the irony that two men are arguing about the pressures that women feel about their bodies, isn’t lost on me.
Wherever that comfort comes from, we can’t ignore societies influences but my point is, should we even be trying to tell people what to do with their bodies?
Whereas your point seems to be ‘we can’t fight it’ my point is ‘we shouldn’t directly tell’
absolutely we shouldn’t directly tell but a thread stating preferences is not the same as telling - it adds to the societal pressure you describe so might have an influence but someone can come along and start an i prefer bald thread and even it out easy enough - wether or not we let the societal pressure influence us can only be controlled by ourselves (although i do take the fair point that subconsciously it might have already created our own preference) "
I agree, which leads back to my first point about comfort and personal choice |
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By *ucky123 OP Man
over a year ago
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we need to see lol
"I used to keep mine clean shaven as peer pressure made me feel I had to,to be liked and I suffered for years
Now i leave it hairy coz that's how I want it and if people dont like it then they can go somewhere else "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks like the hairy pussy is making a comeback, I’m pleased, nothing better than au natural in my eyes keep up the good work ladies and share your hairy holes x"
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I’m not very hairy and it’s pale blonde so never looks that great, I personally prefer it without hair but I hate the process of removing hair. I’m stuck in a viscous circle of what want wins out. |
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"I’m not very hairy and it’s pale blonde so never looks that great, I personally prefer it without hair but I hate the process of removing hair. I’m stuck in a viscous circle of what want wins out. "
Winning regardless |
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. Poor op. He only wanted to be PM’d hairy bushes! 
