Most people are not compatible with most others, so it's realistic to set your expectations appropriately. Add to this, that during
this pandemic, people have jobs, partners, families, health, financial and other priorities and issues that are immediate priorities and they cannot meet at present.
They may be inundated with inappropriate requests and contact from 99% of the people they will never have any interest in whatsoever.
At an appropriate point, you could start to get to know people. Due to the massive volume of single men here, people won't just accept a poor match and nor does the huge range of choice ever mean they need to think of it.
You may be of interest in the best of times to 1% of people. But may also be incompatible for interests, timing, preferences and other factors. And some other guy may be much better at selling himself via his profile, pics or way with words - or just be active socially on the scene. Only you can do things to improve your outlook as well as to create your own expectations that are grounded in reality |
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Were not for everybody and thats ok, as it's been said at the best of times thrte us competition out there, let alone your trying to connect with ppl whilst a pandemic us in full swing so fir alot of ppl meeting isint high kn the agenda, ppl are keeping in touch with friends etc....
Manage your expectations of fab, and what your going to get from using fab,set your expectations sky high, your going to set yourself up.4 disappointment |
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