Its just a preference, same as smokers, height, looks, bareback, promiscuity, married, bdsm, etc etc.
People make too much of a deal about the bi card, meet who you want to meet and let those who don't want to meet you, meet who they want to. |
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"Its just a preference, same as smokers, height, looks, bareback, promiscuity, married, bdsm, etc etc.
People make too much of a deal about the bi card, meet who you want to meet and let those who don't want to meet you, meet who they want to. "
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Speaking as a bisexual man myself OP - this really is an instance of "some do, some don't" which I know is a canned answer but it's also true.
In my experience the vast majority of ladies here are either not bothered either way about your sexuality, or actively seek bi guys for the potential of an MMF - they're more interested in you as a person and seeing if there's a connection and attraction there.
Yes, some ladies won't find it a turn on, and some won't meet you because you are bisexual, but for me they're in the minority for starters and I see it as no different from them ruling me out because of age, height, body shape etc - would much rather focus on those that *will* potentially meet me than worry about those that won't. |
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"Speaking as a bisexual man myself OP - this really is an instance of "some do, some don't" which I know is a canned answer but it's also true.
In my experience the vast majority of ladies here are either not bothered either way about your sexuality, or actively seek bi guys for the potential of an MMF - they're more interested in you as a person and seeing if there's a connection and attraction there.
Yes, some ladies won't find it a turn on, and some won't meet you because you are bisexual, but for me they're in the minority for starters and I see it as no different from them ruling me out because of age, height, body shape etc - would much rather focus on those that *will* potentially meet me than worry about those that won't."
I think there’s very definitely a bit of a generational thing - whilst those who actively like bi men are probably a similar proportion throughout age groups, those who won’t be with bi guys at all seem much more prevalent among older women. |
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By *emini ManMan
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There and to the left a bit |
"Speaking as a bisexual man myself OP - this really is an instance of "some do, some don't" which I know is a canned answer but it's also true.
In my experience the vast majority of ladies here are either not bothered either way about your sexuality, or actively seek bi guys for the potential of an MMF - they're more interested in you as a person and seeing if there's a connection and attraction there.
Yes, some ladies won't find it a turn on, and some won't meet you because you are bisexual, but for me they're in the minority for starters and I see it as no different from them ruling me out because of age, height, body shape etc - would much rather focus on those that *will* potentially meet me than worry about those that won't.
I think there’s very definitely a bit of a generational thing - whilst those who actively like bi men are probably a similar proportion throughout age groups, those who won’t be with bi guys at all seem much more prevalent among older women."
Not my experience at the ripe old age of 55 and from talking to women of a similar(ish) age - either way the key is focusing on those that will potentially meet you rather than worrying about those that won't |
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I wouldn't say I find it a turn on especially. I do however find it a turn on that someone can say you know what I'm a guy I like sucking cock either accept it or fuck off, none of this who needs labels stuff. |
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