"I still cringe when I think of my wedding day. Anybody else? "
Nope, it was a wonderful day.
We're still very happy.
I don't cringe at my first wedding either... it was what I wanted at the time. |
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"I think it is a man thing to a degree, though. The day belongs to the woman. The man takes a back seat. "
We planned our wedding together, we sat and made menus and place cards for the tables together, we enjoyed the day together and here we are, nearly 12 years later together and very much a unit. But then again, I wasn't bridezilla and had a very relaxed outlook on the whole thing. |
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By *reyya OP Man
over a year ago
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I wanted a quiet affair. Just the two of us and two witnesses down in Mexico. But she wanted her father to give her away... And that was when we started drawing lists up. And table plans. Who sits next to who? |
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over a year ago
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Both my weddings were absolutely amazing celebrations. I would be mortified if my husband's thought of them as "cringe worthy". Are you still married Op? Does she know you hated it? |
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over a year ago
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Oh yes.
I cried all the way through mine because I didn't really want to do it.
No walking down the Isle in a beautiful dress to be met by the man I love for me.
I still dream that maybe one day I will though. |
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By *reyya OP Man
over a year ago
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"Both my weddings were absolutely amazing celebrations. I would be mortified if my husband's thought of them as "cringe worthy". Are you still married Op? Does she know you hated it? "
No she did not know I hated it. And no we are not still married. |
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By *reyya OP Man
over a year ago
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"Oh yes.
I cried all the way through mine because I didn't really want to do it.
No walking down the Isle in a beautiful dress to be met by the man I love for me.
I still dream that maybe one day I will though. "
Sounds like an odd affair |
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By *reyya OP Man
over a year ago
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"Loved my wedding, we got married in a castle!
Real life fairytale for me.
Divorced now but it was still a great day x
A castle in Teesside...?"
We were married in St Mary's Church in Norton, near the Duck Pond... |
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By *reyya OP Man
over a year ago
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"Oh yes.
I cried all the way through mine because I didn't really want to do it.
No walking down the Isle in a beautiful dress to be met by the man I love for me.
I still dream that maybe one day I will though. "
Who knows... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loved my wedding, we got married in a castle!
Real life fairytale for me.
Divorced now but it was still a great day x
A castle in Teesside...?"
No hahaha
I lived in Leicestershire back then x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine was surprisingly ok considering I only wanted a teeny tiny wedding and ended up with 150 guests. I hate being the centre of attention, but my ex wanted everyone he knew there and he ground me down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My wedding day was something like out of a carry on film. Beginning of November just a simple registry office job. But the Saturday we chose it was the same day they have the Christmas parade through the town. My ex-wife if you're stuck behind Santa Claus for over 35 minutes before a friendly policeman stop the traffic on the other side of the road and guide them into the car park. But as she passed Santa Claus and his band they decided to embarrass her buy playing here comes the bride and then return to the registry office and wait for us to exit after the wedding 4 photos in the local paper. Very much to my wife's embarrassment and mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The thought of having a wedding mortifies me
I hate fuss, I hate having attention on me, I cringe at speeches, the meal, the first dance, the disco, all of it
I don't even like attending them as a guest, let alone actually being in it |
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