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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are you still sexy if you don't feel like it?
Is it just an empty term of endearment?
Is sexy a physical look or a mental feeling?
Are you sexy every day or only at certain times?
All these questions 
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I think people can find you sexy even if you don't feel it but you're at your sexiest when you're feeling it and that's when more people find you sexy.
It can have meaning but sometimes words are just that. Words. Not to be read into. Said because they sound nice.
I think it's both a physical and mental thing, referring to my first paragraph. I feel sexy once in a blue moon currently. It doesn't help when I have a bit of a meh conversation with someone, I'm poorly/in pain or stressed with juggling work. I'd like to feel sexy more often. |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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If you feel sexy, you feel sexualy attractive.
If you are sexy, the other person finds you sexualy attractive.
I don't know how you feel but I find you sexualy attactive but I have never felt sexy or sexualy attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely a mental feeling in my opinion.
I can think I look great, but if i think Mrs doesn't agree, I don't. On the other hand, if I don't think I look great, and Mrs is all over me, I'll feel sexy.
"I'm sexy and I know it", type people, probably have a great time to themselves in the mirror, but in reality, you're only as sexy as someone makes you feel. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I don't think I've ever felt "sexy" although I have had people find me "sexy", for me it's an observation others make rather than a sense of self - closest I come to it is when I'm with someone intimately but not sure if that's personal sexiness, or an overall sense of it resulting from the circumstance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think I've ever felt "sexy" although I have had people find me "sexy", for me it's an observation others make rather than a sense of self - closest I come to it is when I'm with someone intimately but not sure if that's personal sexiness, or an overall sense of it resulting from the circumstance "
Yes I agree but wasn’t sure how to put it! I think it’s more in the eye of the beholder as such. What one person finds sexy another may not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would never say I’m sexy ...confident yes... sexy no.
It’s the person I’m with that makes me feel sexy "
Yes that too. If you’re turning them on it makes you feel sexy. |
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I think some people exude sexiness. I don’t know whether they feel sexy or are just able to project it because I’ve never felt it or understood it. My idea of sexiness is 2 people who create chemistry together. It’s not something I can be or think alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people are just naturally sexy 24/7...they don't even realise it.+ or think about just comes to them .. Im just me all the time and I let others judge if sexy or not (i hope so!!)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people are just naturally sexy 24/7...they don't even realise it.+ or think about just comes to them .. Im just me all the time and I let others judge if sexy or not (i hope so!!) "
You hold your belt in a sexy way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely it’s something we feel or something that we hear from someone special. To hear it from a stranger on here is like Picasso being told he’s captured you perfectly?!
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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I would say it's how the other person makes you feel that would define sexy. I never see myself but then we see yourselves differently to how others see us really and admittingly, we ourselves are our own worse critiques |
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I’ve never been sexy never will be
I mean I’ve been told loads of times I’m ugly and fat and no one would want me!
So that’s what I think and feel I even lost 7 1/2 stone few years ago to still be told I was a fat cunt with no hope of pulling!
It is what it is
Those that are sexy fair play your lucky
Sorry to put a downer on things but just being honest |
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I get described as slinky & cat like more than sexy tbh
Think you lot need to take some dance lessons, ballroom is easy to pick up with a little work, latin if your up for the challenge (faster, sharper), plus i think we may have more formal type dances after all this, its a good way to gauge compatibility & most after this may be looking for something more substantial.
here's what you learn with dance:
Posture - always sexier to hold yourself than sloughing (better for back too) & gives appearance of confidence (even if your bricking it inside)
Your body - you learn how to use it to speak without opening your mouth
Rhythm - moving in collaboration with partner, self & music
Confidence - you learn to be at one with your body & self which spills out sexyness.
And i don't want to hear i got 2 left feet, no rhythm or i'm too big etc that's what lessons are for, its good fun & good exercise
Try different ones to find what you like best
I'll be looking for a class once they are open again, cant decide in genre though.
I soooo want to attend a masquerade ball with formal dress...im weird i know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m sexy AF "
In a word or two, it's you I want to do
No not your body, your mind you fool
Come here baby, yeah
You sexy motherfucker
I bet you play that CD a lot!?   |
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"I’m sexy AF
In a word or two, it's you I want to do
No not your body, your mind you fool
Come here baby, yeah
You sexy motherfucker
I bet you play that CD a lot!? "
It’s more ‘I’m sexy and I know it’ that I listen to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m sexy AF
In a word or two, it's you I want to do
No not your body, your mind you fool
Come here baby, yeah
You sexy motherfucker
I bet you play that CD a lot!?
It’s more ‘I’m sexy and I know it’ that I listen to "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm Too Sexy
Song by Right Said Fred
Damn, I havent heard that song in ages.. fuck sake.. now its in my head lol"
and mine (they don’t make em like that anymore) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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“I'm too sexy for my love
Too sexy for my love
Love's going to leave me
I'm too sexy for my shirt
Too sexy for my shirt
So sexy it hurts
And I'm too sexy for Milan
Too sexy for Milan,
New York and Japan
And I'm too sexy for your party
Too sexy for your party
No way I'm disco dancing
I'm a model, you know what I mean
And I do my little turn on the catwalk
Yeah, on the catwalk, on the catwalk, yeah
I do my little turn on the catwalk
I'm too sexy for my car
Too sexy for my car
Too sexy by far
And I'm too sexy for my hat
Too sexy for my hat
What d'ya think about that?
I'm a model, you know what I mean
And I do my little turn on the catwalk
Yeah, on the catwalk, on the catwalk, yeah
I shake my little tush on the catwalk
I'm too sexy for my
Too sexy for my
Too sexy for my
'Cause I'm a model, you know what I mean
And I do my little turn on the catwalk
Yeah, on the catwalk, yeah, on the catwalk, yeah
I shake my little tush on the catwalk
I'm too sexy for my cat
Too sexy for my cat
Poor pussy
Poor pussy cat
I'm too sexy for my love
Too sexy for my love
Love's going to leave me
And I'm too sexy for this song”
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"“I'm too sexy for my love
Too sexy for my love
Love's going to leave me
I'm too sexy for my shirt
Too sexy for my shirt
So sexy it hurts
And I'm too sexy for Milan
Too sexy for Milan,
New York and Japan
And I'm too sexy for your party
Too sexy for your party
No way I'm disco dancing
I'm a model, you know what I mean
And I do my little turn on the catwalk
Yeah, on the catwalk, on the catwalk, yeah
I do my little turn on the catwalk
I'm too sexy for my car
Too sexy for my car
Too sexy by far
And I'm too sexy for my hat
Too sexy for my hat
What d'ya think about that?
I'm a model, you know what I mean
And I do my little turn on the catwalk
Yeah, on the catwalk, on the catwalk, yeah
I shake my little tush on the catwalk
I'm too sexy for my
Too sexy for my
Too sexy for my
'Cause I'm a model, you know what I mean
And I do my little turn on the catwalk
Yeah, on the catwalk, yeah, on the catwalk, yeah
I shake my little tush on the catwalk
I'm too sexy for my cat
Too sexy for my cat
Poor pussy
Poor pussy cat
I'm too sexy for my love
Too sexy for my love
Love's going to leave me
And I'm too sexy for this song”
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am sexiest on a Tuesday. I think sexy is a feeling I have, so to follow that, if someone told me I was looking sexy and I didn’t feel it at that time (With work etc) I would find it hard to believe or take the compliment well.
But tell me when I am feeling all ‘grrr’ And she might be in for a surprise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I cannot remember the last time i felt sexy..i think feeling sexy comes with confidence. If you dont feel it yourself it doesn't matter what anyone says to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Feeling sexy is a confidence thing, getting dressed up can help make us feel that, buy unless you want to get dressed up with nowhere to go at the moment most of us are sat about in sweat pants and a badly fitted t shirt ha!
The sexiness is still under there, dont go talking yourself out of your not.
Also the right partner should be making you feel it! |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"Are you still sexy if you don't feel like it?
Is it just an empty term of endearment?
Is sexy a physical look or a mental feeling?
Are you sexy every day or only at certain times?
All these questions
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When someone tells me 'I am sexy' , then I must be to them. I have trouble excepting it, no matter how I'm feeling
Empty term of endearment, I would hope people only say what they mean.
Sexy is both metal and physical, we all find different attributes sexy.
Its very rare i feel sexy in the way i find others sexy, |
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