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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Take matters into their own hands and specifically search for what their looking for and reach out to men on Fab?
I’ve done it a few times and it’s much more successful than trawling through messages x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I do this from time to time.
If someone catches my eye I’m more than happy to message first.
Although I sometimes start off with a fab of their photos, and if they then look at my profile & fab my photos I figure a message may be well received.
It’s actually proven to be quite successful. Xx |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes. My most successful meets (minus one that came about as a result of matchmaking) all stemmed from me taking the lead in interacting and messaging first. I sometimes worry about being rejected but I've not been so far so I'll keep trying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did this once.
The outcome is too embarrassing to go into.
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I'm pruriently intrigued!
I've not messaged anyone first but by the looks of this thread, I should give it a go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Take matters into their own hands and specifically search for what their looking for and reach out to men on Fab?
I’ve done it a few times and it’s much more successful than trawling through messages x"
I was messaged by my now amazing FWB and we’re both glad she messaged and I’d love more to do the same because I find, like many old forum titles, messaging women/couples to be a disappointment but each to their own an roll on post lockdown fun yall  |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I haven’t sent a cold message in years, I found that women making the first move is far more likely to be a positive thing for both parties. I think that more women should do it, gender politics be damned!
That’s not to say that I don’t message first but it’s always in relation to a connection that’s always been made. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I definitely recommend more woman reach out to who takes their fancy. My fwb said I was the first and only woman to message him first and it’s been such a success and exactly what I’m looking for! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Take matters into their own hands and specifically search for what their looking for and reach out to men on Fab?
I’ve done it a few times and it’s much more successful than trawling through messages x"
My profile is private I only message who I'm interested in. It's so much easier than going through all the messages us women receive and saves the blokes from messaging me xx |
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"Yes I do this from time to time.
If someone catches my eye I’m more than happy to message first.
Although I sometimes start off with a fab of their photos, and if they then look at my profile & fab my photos I figure a message may be well received.
It’s actually proven to be quite successful. Xx"
Does it work both ways of you have had your photos fabbed and a wink but no message then you would message the person? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I do this from time to time.
If someone catches my eye I’m more than happy to message first.
Although I sometimes start off with a fab of their photos, and if they then look at my profile & fab my photos I figure a message may be well received.
It’s actually proven to be quite successful. Xx
Does it work both ways of you have had your photos fabbed and a wink but no message then you would message the person?"
Not for me personally. |
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By *oungJayyMan
over a year ago
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I have noticed a few times even when woman get messages from people that they're searching for, they're typically overwhelmed by messages from those that they don't, so this may be beneficial to see women message first, I must admit I've very rarely had a message from a woman first (if ever, unless they've been fake)
So yeah, ladies out there, send those messages to those that catch your eye! You never know |
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I like to use my status updates and profile to initiate likeminded conversations Instead of trawling for men, as many blokes don't list my kinks as an Interest so this works for me instead
Couples for hot husband play however I will go direct to a couple I like and message them |
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"Take matters into their own hands and specifically search for what their looking for and reach out to men on Fab?
I’ve done it a few times and it’s much more successful than trawling through messages x"
I do but rarely find a profile I'd want to message  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I do this from time to time.
If someone catches my eye I’m more than happy to message first.
Although I sometimes start off with a fab of their photos, and if they then look at my profile & fab my photos I figure a message may be well received.
It’s actually proven to be quite successful. Xx"
Ahhh so you use the well known "tactical Fab"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have initiated first many a time (prior to covid). I don't recall it ever working out .
The odd initial wink has tho 
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You're hot so why not  I feel the same though with many I see on Fab but if you don’t ask eh |
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