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By *udepaul OP Man
over a year ago
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Morning. How is everyone? Lockdown has been a roller coaster of a ride but right now I’m dropping like a stone. Not looking for anything except saying if you feel the same and want a friendly word or two then I’m here. Stay safe and well everyone |
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Plenty of people have found this lockdown very tough. As with other intense feelings like depression, when you’re in the middle of it, it feels like it will be forever.
It definitely won’t be, so it’s ok to find it hard going but things will improve |
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over a year ago
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"I have been quite down throughout but last few weeks been much worse.
Libido is virtually non existent and wondering if I would be useless when meetings are safe again.    "
I think you’re amazing |
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I feel ya OP. It's been fucking shit , but you are not alone in this .
I would imagine almost every single person or someone that lives alone is feeling it atm , me included . But stay strong and talk to people you trust and it will help  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel ya OP. It's been fucking shit , but you are not alone in this .
I would imagine almost every single person or someone that lives alone is feeling it atm , me included . But stay strong and talk to people you trust and it will help "
I think YOU are amazing. |
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"I feel ya OP. It's been fucking shit , but you are not alone in this .
I would imagine almost every single person or someone that lives alone is feeling it atm , me included . But stay strong and talk to people you trust and it will help
I think YOU are amazing. "
Awww cheers dude |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel ya OP. It's been fucking shit , but you are not alone in this .
I would imagine almost every single person or someone that lives alone is feeling it atm , me included . But stay strong and talk to people you trust and it will help
I think YOU are amazing. "
Have you checked the forum rules to see if this is considered spamming the forums? |
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What helps me when the black dog descends is to focus on one good thing however small. It may be how soft my cats for feels or even an amusing post on here. This can be enough driftwood to keep me afloat that day.
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By *udepaul OP Man
over a year ago
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"Plenty of people have found this lockdown very tough. As with other intense feelings like depression, when you’re in the middle of it, it feels like it will be forever.
It definitely won’t be, so it’s ok to find it hard going but things will improve "
thanks for taking the time  |
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By *udepaul OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have been quite down throughout but last few weeks been much worse.
Libido is virtually non existent and wondering if I would be useless when meetings are safe again. "
I know that feeling, very little has been giving me a rise recently, can't wait to feel the sun on my back and I'm hoping that does the job. Hang in there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Juzt do something, anything, even if its just a sit down shower?
Anything that you do is an achievement, sometimes the hardest thing of all is to just keep going.
Sending hugs freely xx |
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By *udepaul OP Man
over a year ago
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"I feel ya OP. It's been fucking shit , but you are not alone in this .
I would imagine almost every single person or someone that lives alone is feeling it atm , me included . But stay strong and talk to people you trust and it will help "
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By *udepaul OP Man
over a year ago
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"I feel ya OP. It's been fucking shit , but you are not alone in this .
I would imagine almost every single person or someone that lives alone is feeling it atm , me included . But stay strong and talk to people you trust and it will help
I think YOU are amazing.
Have you checked the forum rules to see if this is considered spamming the forums?"
Hi, sorry if I've broken any rules, didn't mean to, there's no other intention to the message, I don't post much to the forums, keep meaning to. I'll check on the rules going forward. |
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By *udepaul OP Man
over a year ago
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"What helps me when the black dog descends is to focus on one good thing however small. It may be how soft my cats for feels or even an amusing post on here. This can be enough driftwood to keep me afloat that day.
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I certainly do that, you got a cat, I have a dog, keeps me smiling, except when he's barking in the middle of the night |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel ya OP. It's been fucking shit , but you are not alone in this .
I would imagine almost every single person or someone that lives alone is feeling it atm , me included . But stay strong and talk to people you trust and it will help
I think YOU are amazing.
Have you checked the forum rules to see if this is considered spamming the forums?
Hi, sorry if I've broken any rules, didn't mean to, there's no other intention to the message, I don't post much to the forums, keep meaning to. I'll check on the rules going forward."
This wasn't about you, but about the post above. Your post is fine x |
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By *udepaul OP Man
over a year ago
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"Juzt do something, anything, even if its just a sit down shower?
Anything that you do is an achievement, sometimes the hardest thing of all is to just keep going.
Sending hugs freely xx"
thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel ya OP. It's been fucking shit , but you are not alone in this .
I would imagine almost every single person or someone that lives alone is feeling it atm , me included . But stay strong and talk to people you trust and it will help
I think YOU are amazing.
Have you checked the forum rules to see if this is considered spamming the forums?
Hi, sorry if I've broken any rules, didn't mean to, there's no other intention to the message, I don't post much to the forums, keep meaning to. I'll check on the rules going forward."
You’ve not broken any rules. That post was aimed at me. Big hugs to you. It’s tough right now. One day at a time. I have a dog too and walking him helps me. Ax |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lost my mum and dad before Christmas and its been the toughest thing to face each day. Sometimes i forget and it hits again...do what you need to do each day to get through it and make sure to love everyone in your life you hold dear.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's Ok to feel like crap, it's a shitty situation we're all in. All we can do is keep our heads above water and know that at some point it will pass. Hang in there x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I feel your pain OP. I can recommend getting into the forums more. When I'm feeling low I force myself to post on a few different threads and the interaction gives me a bit of a boost.
Alternatively, as said above, long nature walks with my dog are a godsend right now.
Keep smiling mate, feel free to message if you ever need an ear  |
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By *udepaul OP Man
over a year ago
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"I feel your pain OP. I can recommend getting into the forums more. When I'm feeling low I force myself to post on a few different threads and the interaction gives me a bit of a boost.
Alternatively, as said above, long nature walks with my dog are a godsend right now.
Keep smiling mate, feel free to message if you ever need an ear "
Thanks for that |
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By *udepaul OP Man
over a year ago
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"Lost my mum and dad before Christmas and its been the toughest thing to face each day. Sometimes i forget and it hits again...do what you need to do each day to get through it and make sure to love everyone in your life you hold dear.."
I’m so sorry to hear that. My heart goes out to you. Stay safe and strong, it would be what they want for you x |
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