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Have you lost your hot years to the pandemic ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Or were you hot years along time ago, or maybe you were never hot at all ?
Imagine being the hottest you’ve ever been and being on lockdown, what a fucker.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The calendar should be set back 18 months. Let's say July the 1st should become 01/01/20 ,I do feel cheated ... "
Forgive me for offering an outsiders point of view but I don't think your hot years are behind you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The calendar should be set back 18 months. Let's say July the 1st should become 01/01/20 ,I do feel cheated ...
Forgive me for offering an outsiders point of view but I don't think your hot years are behind you "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kind of as, at the beginning of last year I was feeling really good and excited about future meets. But I have now lost my "everything" to stinky cancer and doubt any hotness will return after treatment & surgery  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got thinking about this. I hope not, but I do think my physical best (in my own opinion) might have gone.  I do look forward to what might be, and I hope others have their best years ahead, and I know them?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Kind of as, at the beginning of last year I was feeling really good and excited about future meets. But I have now lost my "everything" to stinky cancer and doubt any hotness will return after treatment & surgery . "
Sorry to hear that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well my skins been clear and hairs been the nicest it's been in ages with my Diys grown long and healthy but downside is I've put on weight need to loose about 2 stone  |
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"Kind of as, at the beginning of last year I was feeling really good and excited about future meets. But I have now lost my "everything" to stinky cancer and doubt any hotness will return after treatment & surgery . "
Hey thats a very sad position but please dont give in. Life does return to normal with an edge and most of sexy is within your mind not body personality of a winner is very attractive xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I’m 50 now. Everything’s gonna start going south I reckon
Gravity always wins! "
Do you know how much strength it took to hold them boobs up in that pic?! Lucky you can’t see the strain on my face! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah I’m 50 now. Everything’s gonna start going south I reckon
Gravity always wins!
Do you know how much strength it took to hold them boobs up in that pic?! Lucky you can’t see the strain on my face!"
Take a photo of them when you’re in the bath, that way the water does the hard work! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm really glad lockdown was in a year when I'm not hot anymore 
If this was 10yrs ago I woukd have been furious "
If it was 1998 I would have been raging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everybody's got the fever
That is something you all know
Fever isn't such a new thing
Fever started long ago...
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If that's what you meant by being hot. ^
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Kind of as, at the beginning of last year I was feeling really good and excited about future meets. But I have now lost my "everything" to stinky cancer and doubt any hotness will return after treatment & surgery . "
I’m sorry to hear that! I hope you’re doing ok? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone is hot in there own way. All this judgemental crap about looks is why there is so much trouble in the world. If your genuine and a decent person then that is what should count. Haveing a small waist and big tits or haveing a body full of steriods doesnt make you a nice person. |
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"Everyone is hot in there own way. All this judgemental crap about looks is why there is so much trouble in the world. If your genuine and a decent person then that is what should count. Haveing a small waist and big tits or haveing a body full of steriods doesnt make you a nice person."
"Hot" is also how you feel, moreso in my opinion. I've let myself go, I've not been looking after myself physically which yes, does impact how you feel mentally.
I feel lousy, deflated and right at this point I know I could be quite snappy.
I'm not sure I know of anyone with a snappy attitude that's hot. Troubled perhaps, an arsehole perhaps.... not hot.
So yes, the pandemic has definitely impacted my "hotness" |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Everyone is hot in there own way. All this judgemental crap about looks is why there is so much trouble in the world. If your genuine and a decent person then that is what should count. Haveing a small waist and big tits or haveing a body full of steriods doesnt make you a nice person."
Interesting take, that’s also judgemental of those that do have that though. Let’s not forget that physical attraction plays a part in actually wanting to have sex with someone too.
Personality is important, of course but people are attracted to different things, it’s not shallow to find physical characteristics attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone is hot in there own way. All this judgemental crap about looks is why there is so much trouble in the world. If your genuine and a decent person then that is what should count. Haveing a small waist and big tits or haveing a body full of steriods doesnt make you a nice person.
"Hot" is also how you feel, moreso in my opinion. I've let myself go, I've not been looking after myself physically which yes, does impact how you feel mentally.
I feel lousy, deflated and right at this point I know I could be quite snappy.
I'm not sure I know of anyone with a snappy attitude that's hot. Troubled perhaps, an arsehole perhaps.... not hot.
So yes, the pandemic has definitely impacted my "hotness""
If your happy being natural and who you are that makes me think someone is a decent person rather than the shallow fake gym look a lot of men and woman think is attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep truly wasted year.
I’ve never been so confident & happy with my body..
However I think I’ve still got plenty of hot years to come, this is just the start! |
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"Everyone is hot in there own way. All this judgemental crap about looks is why there is so much trouble in the world. If your genuine and a decent person then that is what should count. Haveing a small waist and big tits or haveing a body full of steriods doesnt make you a nice person.
"Hot" is also how you feel, moreso in my opinion. I've let myself go, I've not been looking after myself physically which yes, does impact how you feel mentally.
I feel lousy, deflated and right at this point I know I could be quite snappy.
I'm not sure I know of anyone with a snappy attitude that's hot. Troubled perhaps, an arsehole perhaps.... not hot.
So yes, the pandemic has definitely impacted my "hotness""
Absolutely agree with you about the perception of hotness.
To me it’s about a feeling within you not an outward appearance, you don’t have to have model looks to be ‘hot’.
Someone whose head space and mental health is right where they need it to be can give them a ‘glow’ which is visible and vice versa. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Everyone is hot in there own way. All this judgemental crap about looks is why there is so much trouble in the world. If your genuine and a decent person then that is what should count. Haveing a small waist and big tits or haveing a body full of steriods doesnt make you a nice person.
"Hot" is also how you feel, moreso in my opinion. I've let myself go, I've not been looking after myself physically which yes, does impact how you feel mentally.
I feel lousy, deflated and right at this point I know I could be quite snappy.
I'm not sure I know of anyone with a snappy attitude that's hot. Troubled perhaps, an arsehole perhaps.... not hot.
So yes, the pandemic has definitely impacted my "hotness"
If your happy being natural and who you are that makes me think someone is a decent person rather than the shallow fake gym look a lot of men and woman think is attractive. "
It’s ironic that you’re attaching value statements to how people look but complain how judgement of appearance is what’s wrong with the world.
Attraction takes many forms, as do people’s bodies, we all find beauty in different things, so perhaps you shouldn’t be so fast to dismiss other people’s feelings.
It’s deeply hypocritical to claim the moral high ground just so you can dismiss people other than yourself. Truth be told; it’s lack of respect that is really why there’s so much trouble in the world
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"Everyone is hot in there own way. All this judgemental crap about looks is why there is so much trouble in the world. If your genuine and a decent person then that is what should count. Haveing a small waist and big tits or haveing a body full of steriods doesnt make you a nice person.
"Hot" is also how you feel, moreso in my opinion. I've let myself go, I've not been looking after myself physically which yes, does impact how you feel mentally.
I feel lousy, deflated and right at this point I know I could be quite snappy.
I'm not sure I know of anyone with a snappy attitude that's hot. Troubled perhaps, an arsehole perhaps.... not hot.
So yes, the pandemic has definitely impacted my "hotness"
If your happy being natural and who you are that makes me think someone is a decent person rather than the shallow fake gym look a lot of men and woman think is attractive.
It’s ironic that you’re attaching value statements to how people look but complain how judgement of appearance is what’s wrong with the world.
Attraction takes many forms, as do people’s bodies, we all find beauty in different things, so perhaps you shouldn’t be so fast to dismiss other people’s feelings.
It’s deeply hypocritical to claim the moral high ground just so you can dismiss people other than yourself. Truth be told; it’s lack of respect that is really why there’s so much trouble in the world
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Agree with you here Tea.
I must also ask, how the fuck is the gym look shallow and fake? How?
Are gymnasts and athletes shallow and fake? I thought they were dedicated not shallow and fake. These people we cheer for and admire when they're doing it for the country. Oh, but if someone shows themselves that dedication for whatever reason it makes them shallow and fake. Exercise is medically proven to improve your mental health. It just does, it releases the good stuff round your brain.
Not everyone who goes to the gym, looks after their body, has a small waist and big tits etc is vain, fake or shallow.
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I'm gonna throw another angle on it, but again, back to the "feel" side.
Part of me feeling hot is feeling confident.
I'm confident in my values and morals, but I'm not confident in the values and morals of others.
Remember that whole being deflated thing I mentioned earlier. It's interlinked.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm gonna throw another angle on it, but again, back to the "feel" side.
Part of me feeling hot is feeling confident.
I'm confident in my values and morals, but I'm not confident in the values and morals of others.
Remember that whole being deflated thing I mentioned earlier. It's interlinked.
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I so agree with this |
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over a year ago
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"Everyone is hot in there own way. All this judgemental crap about looks is why there is so much trouble in the world. If your genuine and a decent person then that is what should count. Haveing a small waist and big tits or haveing a body full of steriods doesnt make you a nice person.
"Hot" is also how you feel, moreso in my opinion. I've let myself go, I've not been looking after myself physically which yes, does impact how you feel mentally.
I feel lousy, deflated and right at this point I know I could be quite snappy.
I'm not sure I know of anyone with a snappy attitude that's hot. Troubled perhaps, an arsehole perhaps.... not hot.
So yes, the pandemic has definitely impacted my "hotness"
If your happy being natural and who you are that makes me think someone is a decent person rather than the shallow fake gym look a lot of men and woman think is attractive.
It’s ironic that you’re attaching value statements to how people look but complain how judgement of appearance is what’s wrong with the world.
Attraction takes many forms, as do people’s bodies, we all find beauty in different things, so perhaps you shouldn’t be so fast to dismiss other people’s feelings.
It’s deeply hypocritical to claim the moral high ground just so you can dismiss people other than yourself. Truth be told; it’s lack of respect that is really why there’s so much trouble in the world
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Think you missed the point of my post but since you are on about looks i personally look younger than my age so i still attract younger girls but my point was looks are not everything in a person as i dont dismiss others because they may not be "hot" |
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"Everyone is hot in there own way. All this judgemental crap about looks is why there is so much trouble in the world. If your genuine and a decent person then that is what should count. Haveing a small waist and big tits or haveing a body full of steriods doesnt make you a nice person.
"Hot" is also how you feel, moreso in my opinion. I've let myself go, I've not been looking after myself physically which yes, does impact how you feel mentally.
I feel lousy, deflated and right at this point I know I could be quite snappy.
I'm not sure I know of anyone with a snappy attitude that's hot. Troubled perhaps, an arsehole perhaps.... not hot.
So yes, the pandemic has definitely impacted my "hotness"
If your happy being natural and who you are that makes me think someone is a decent person rather than the shallow fake gym look a lot of men and woman think is attractive.
It’s ironic that you’re attaching value statements to how people look but complain how judgement of appearance is what’s wrong with the world.
Attraction takes many forms, as do people’s bodies, we all find beauty in different things, so perhaps you shouldn’t be so fast to dismiss other people’s feelings.
It’s deeply hypocritical to claim the moral high ground just so you can dismiss people other than yourself. Truth be told; it’s lack of respect that is really why there’s so much trouble in the world
Think you missed the point of my post but since you are on about looks i personally look younger than my age so i still attract younger girls but my point was looks are not everything in a person as i dont dismiss others because they may not be "hot""
I don't think he did miss the point as I read it in the same way, you seemed to be making the judgement and point that those who DO have bodies that are worked on, aren't hot because they're shallow and fake. You made a judgment on the who they, their values etc are based on how they look. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ha, I saw this on Twitter as well! I'm hoping my hot years are after lockdown, one day I'm going to have my ugly duckling to swan moment surely."
Thank you for pointing out the inspiration Meli, I’ll quote my sources next time. I’ve seen numerous accounts on social media, whinging that they’ve lost their hot years to the pandemic, it was getting on my tits, it might be tongue in cheek, but fuck me, people need to get a grip. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In my opinion hotness as everyone's putting it, is more about confidence and telling ourselves are hot.
Just be happy in your own body whatever shape or size or the so called perfect look.
End of the day the person your with should feel some attraction to you, if not do you really want to be sleeping with that person?
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Ha, I saw this on Twitter as well! I'm hoping my hot years are after lockdown, one day I'm going to have my ugly duckling to swan moment surely.
Thank you for pointing out the inspiration Meli, I’ll quote my sources next time. I’ve seen numerous accounts on social media, whinging that they’ve lost their hot years to the pandemic, it was getting on my tits, it might be tongue in cheek, but fuck me, people need to get a grip. "
Any time C J.
People are clearly tetchy and agitated, social media is an outlet and bemoaning what they feel they've missed out on with others helps them feel less alone. I know a couple of my friends have said similar, admittedly I did think it was a bit ott but I don't know why they feel that way. Maybe their biological clock is ticking? Maybe they are lonely and regretting their passing youth that they see as being wasted. It's a bit dramatic I agree but we're all prone to the odd bit now and again. |
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"Ha, I saw this on Twitter as well! I'm hoping my hot years are after lockdown, one day I'm going to have my ugly duckling to swan moment surely.
Thank you for pointing out the inspiration Meli, I’ll quote my sources next time. I’ve seen numerous accounts on social media, whinging that they’ve lost their hot years to the pandemic, it was getting on my tits, it might be tongue in cheek, but fuck me, people need to get a grip.
Any time C J.
People are clearly tetchy and agitated, social media is an outlet and bemoaning what they feel they've missed out on with others helps them feel less alone. I know a couple of my friends have said similar, admittedly I did think it was a bit ott but I don't know why they feel that way. Maybe their biological clock is ticking? Maybe they are lonely and regretting their passing youth that they see as being wasted. It's a bit dramatic I agree but we're all prone to the odd bit now and again."
Hmmm, I can kind of understand this. There are people who are wired/nurtured/conditioned into thinking they only have time for themselves and the confidence that goes with it once they've completed their other tasks.
Now these tasks can go from tiny to huge. Their focus goes on work, family, house, chores that need doing and keeping everyone else happy. Once they've finally got all that lot done "Woohoo, right, let's find me"
They found themselves and were relaxed enough to start appreciating themselves and all they've achieved. Their "success" at building the life they have adds to their confidence which in turn fuels them feeling "hot"
Pandemic.
Well fuck. Back to square one. Some will have lost jobs and all that, feeling like they're having to start from the beginning again and do all that rebuilding and taking care of everyone else bla bla bla and after another decade they might be someone close to where they were 14 months ago.
I dunno if I conveyed the very well. |
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I have never been 'hot'. Not what I'd count as 'hot' anyway. I've been hot enough in the past..... There's no way I could get to 'hot' these days..... and that was way before the pandemic.... If your bonfire is hot .. then i'm not glowing, i'm an ember but no way am I out.
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"Ha, I saw this on Twitter as well! I'm hoping my hot years are after lockdown, one day I'm going to have my ugly duckling to swan moment surely.
Thank you for pointing out the inspiration Meli, I’ll quote my sources next time. I’ve seen numerous accounts on social media, whinging that they’ve lost their hot years to the pandemic, it was getting on my tits, it might be tongue in cheek, but fuck me, people need to get a grip.
Any time C J.
People are clearly tetchy and agitated, social media is an outlet and bemoaning what they feel they've missed out on with others helps them feel less alone. I know a couple of my friends have said similar, admittedly I did think it was a bit ott but I don't know why they feel that way. Maybe their biological clock is ticking? Maybe they are lonely and regretting their passing youth that they see as being wasted. It's a bit dramatic I agree but we're all prone to the odd bit now and again.
Hmmm, I can kind of understand this. There are people who are wired/nurtured/conditioned into thinking they only have time for themselves and the confidence that goes with it once they've completed their other tasks.
Now these tasks can go from tiny to huge. Their focus goes on work, family, house, chores that need doing and keeping everyone else happy. Once they've finally got all that lot done "Woohoo, right, let's find me"
They found themselves and were relaxed enough to start appreciating themselves and all they've achieved. Their "success" at building the life they have adds to their confidence which in turn fuels them feeling "hot"
Pandemic.
Well fuck. Back to square one. Some will have lost jobs and all that, feeling like they're having to start from the beginning again and do all that rebuilding and taking care of everyone else bla bla bla and after another decade they might be someone close to where they were 14 months ago.
I dunno if I conveyed the very well."
Pretty f*ckin well from where I'm standing.
Too many people pulling each other down rather than just letting them be.
Just breath people!!  
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"Ha, I saw this on Twitter as well! I'm hoping my hot years are after lockdown, one day I'm going to have my ugly duckling to swan moment surely.
Thank you for pointing out the inspiration Meli, I’ll quote my sources next time. I’ve seen numerous accounts on social media, whinging that they’ve lost their hot years to the pandemic, it was getting on my tits, it might be tongue in cheek, but fuck me, people need to get a grip.
Any time C J.
People are clearly tetchy and agitated, social media is an outlet and bemoaning what they feel they've missed out on with others helps them feel less alone. I know a couple of my friends have said similar, admittedly I did think it was a bit ott but I don't know why they feel that way. Maybe their biological clock is ticking? Maybe they are lonely and regretting their passing youth that they see as being wasted. It's a bit dramatic I agree but we're all prone to the odd bit now and again."
Is it really that dramatic though? A year is a long time. Maybe not to someone who has already had a lot of experiences in life but people in their 20s/30s might see it differently. Personally this has set me back years in many areas; relationships, career, finances. I do genuinely feel like I'm wasting my best years (so far). |
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By *eliWoman
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I know a couple of my friends have said similar, admittedly I did think it was a bit ott but I don't know why they feel that way. Maybe their biological clock is ticking? Maybe they are lonely and regretting their passing youth that they see as being wasted. It's a bit dramatic I agree but we're all prone to the odd bit now and again.
Is it really that dramatic though? A year is a long time. Maybe not to someone who has already had a lot of experiences in life but people in their 20s/30s might see it differently. Personally this has set me back years in many areas; relationships, career, finances. I do genuinely feel like I'm wasting my best years (so far). "
This is where my privilege is undoubtedly shining through and for that I apologise. I'm secure in terms of a relationship, finances and career so I hadn't considered it too much from the other perspective. A year is a long time when you're in the middle of sorting various parts of your life out, not even mentioning the knock on effect it has had on several industries and careers.
I do think it is a bit dramatic yes, but it's probably also said deliberately tongue in cheek yet serious to highlight wasted time for those of a certain demographic. I hope you're able to soon get back on track in the areas that are important to you - it must have been difficult. |
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"Ha, I saw this on Twitter as well! I'm hoping my hot years are after lockdown, one day I'm going to have my ugly duckling to swan moment surely.
Thank you for pointing out the inspiration Meli, I’ll quote my sources next time. I’ve seen numerous accounts on social media, whinging that they’ve lost their hot years to the pandemic, it was getting on my tits, it might be tongue in cheek, but fuck me, people need to get a grip.
Any time C J.
People are clearly tetchy and agitated, social media is an outlet and bemoaning what they feel they've missed out on with others helps them feel less alone. I know a couple of my friends have said similar, admittedly I did think it was a bit ott but I don't know why they feel that way. Maybe their biological clock is ticking? Maybe they are lonely and regretting their passing youth that they see as being wasted. It's a bit dramatic I agree but we're all prone to the odd bit now and again.
Hmmm, I can kind of understand this. There are people who are wired/nurtured/conditioned into thinking they only have time for themselves and the confidence that goes with it once they've completed their other tasks.
Now these tasks can go from tiny to huge. Their focus goes on work, family, house, chores that need doing and keeping everyone else happy. Once they've finally got all that lot done "Woohoo, right, let's find me"
They found themselves and were relaxed enough to start appreciating themselves and all they've achieved. Their "success" at building the life they have adds to their confidence which in turn fuels them feeling "hot"
Pandemic.
Well fuck. Back to square one. Some will have lost jobs and all that, feeling like they're having to start from the beginning again and do all that rebuilding and taking care of everyone else bla bla bla and after another decade they might be someone close to where they were 14 months ago.
I dunno if I conveyed the very well."
I totally understand this; it's exactly how I feel. I've had many setbacks this past year which are purely down to the pandemic. After trying to establish my career for ages it all got knocked down and I'm overall in a much worse position than I was at the start of 2020.
I understand the other side of it as well where people who haven't been impacted as much maybe have gotten tired of hearing people moan about it.
But this situation is difficult for everyone and people all have different ways of handling it. For some, social media is their only outlet. So I do think a bit of empathy would go a long way. |
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I know a couple of my friends have said similar, admittedly I did think it was a bit ott but I don't know why they feel that way. Maybe their biological clock is ticking? Maybe they are lonely and regretting their passing youth that they see as being wasted. It's a bit dramatic I agree but we're all prone to the odd bit now and again.
Is it really that dramatic though? A year is a long time. Maybe not to someone who has already had a lot of experiences in life but people in their 20s/30s might see it differently. Personally this has set me back years in many areas; relationships, career, finances. I do genuinely feel like I'm wasting my best years (so far).
This is where my privilege is undoubtedly shining through and for that I apologise. I'm secure in terms of a relationship, finances and career so I hadn't considered it too much from the other perspective. A year is a long time when you're in the middle of sorting various parts of your life out, not even mentioning the knock on effect it has had on several industries and careers.
I do think it is a bit dramatic yes, but it's probably also said deliberately tongue in cheek yet serious to highlight wasted time for those of a certain demographic. I hope you're able to soon get back on track in the areas that are important to you - it must have been difficult."
Thank you lovely xx
I'm happy to hear that your life hasn't been impacted too much and hope it keeps going from strength to strength
And yeah I totally get what you mean. Saying that you're worried about wasting your hotness could convey so many different things, but a tongue in cheek comment is usually much easier to post than a heartfelt declaration of anxiety and/or loneliness. |
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Pretty f*ckin well from where I'm standing.
Too many people pulling each other down rather than just letting them be.
Just breath people!!
Jo.Xx
Jo, you almost swore. Jo! "
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I just can't bring myself to do it Meli.
Waaaahhh what's wrong with me, For fucks sake?!?!?
Oh look I did it!
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over a year ago
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I've never been hot. Thankfully there will always be desperate men who will shag a damp hole in the wall. Even more currently due to lockdown celibacy. Going to be a damp summer. |
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"I've never been hot. Thankfully there will always be desperate men who will shag a damp hole in the wall. Even more currently due to lockdown celibacy. Going to be a damp summer. "
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"Or were you hot years along time ago, or maybe you were never hot at all ?
Imagine being the hottest you’ve ever been and being on lockdown, what a fucker.
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You know how they cyrogenically froze Walt Disney's head?
Well I did that with my "hotness" at the start of lockdown 1.
I foolishly defrosted it slightly just before lockdown2 but once I realized I was a bit premature I popped it back in the liquid nitrogen/vodka preservative bath, with only slight frost damage.
Once Lockdown3 is over I will thaw my hotness out and ta da!
Peak hotness restored
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"Kind of as, at the beginning of last year I was feeling really good and excited about future meets. But I have now lost my "everything" to stinky cancer and doubt any hotness will return after treatment & surgery . "
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"Kind of as, at the beginning of last year I was feeling really good and excited about future meets. But I have now lost my "everything" to stinky cancer and doubt any hotness will return after treatment & surgery . "
Really sorry to see this Dana. It kinda puts things in perspective.
Wishing you strength and best wishes for recovery xx |
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Well as an oldie on here I just view it that I am now on my third stage of life -
0-30 was growing up without a care and mostly thinking of myself
30-60 was always putting my family before myself
60+ is me time again.
Sex starts and ends in the brain and I feel as sexy as ever and intend to enjoy myself. Bring on fun |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"I mean I feel like I have aha "
We could have another 20 years of lockdown and you'd probably still come out alright with peak hotness intact.
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Yeah my 20s were my peak too... Oh how I would love to look like that again. Lockdown definitely chipped away and being in 40s it's a bloody tough struggle.. But I'm working my ass off now to work it back a little |
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over a year ago
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Not hot years...they're long behind me but I'm losing important time with my grandkids and family. I'm not a spring chicken and I don't have time left to be locked down and isolated. I've been really positive throughout but all of a sudden it's getting me very blue. I want my life back. What's left of it. |
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Past it now though, I’m a decrepit mess 