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Squirting question..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just curious, does every girl squirt if done correctly or do some girls not? If they do then what's the actual best way of getting it done..like Ill always make the girl cum loads but I want the waterworks in my face tbh?????? replies appreciated..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not every woman can squirt and not every woman likes to squirt ither
Guys need to stop putting so much emphasis on it to be honest not really the be all and end all
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not everyone can squirt, and some of us only do it sometimes.
It really isn't that important, and it doesn't always indicate an orgasm."
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Of course not, just a curious question and it's answered now so thanks for that! Interesting to know not all girls enjoy it too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious, does every girl squirt if done correctly or do some girls not? If they do then what's the actual best way of getting it done..like Ill always make the girl cum loads but I want the waterworks in my face tbh?????? replies appreciated.. "
You are asking the Holy grail of questions here!
If she doesn't, could she with someone else?
If she does, will she do it with everyone?
Who knows. All I know is that I have never, don't want to and good luck to those who do.
Oh, there are apparently some good YouTube videos on this matter to help you men achieve this, so I read a while ago.
Have fun |
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It’s different for each woman ... I never squirted in my life until I met my now ex fb and it was a shock to say the least but he made me squirt every time we met and it felt weird but amazing at the same time  |
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I'm a squirter and I like to ask guys their occurrences of coming across women who squirt.
It actually seems like it's not that common at all, but I think it's more likely guys who do not know the right techniques and women who are not comfortable enough to fully relax |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In 26 years I’ve helped one lady do it, she used to get very very wet and it was something she was very keen to try, it took a lot of patience and failed attempts! The first time it happened it was amazing and the taste is very very different to wee(just throwing that in before the ‘it’s piss’ crowd turn up)
After the first time she would pretty much squirt every time we had sex, I’d know it was about to happen as inside her vagina would feel very engorged and almost be pushing me out! Sometimes there would be a lot of liquid and other times very little, I believe there’s a very fine line between a woman squirting and just relaxing her bladder, as I’ve been with a couple of ladies that said they were squirters but it was definitely wee(in my opinion)
Side note all the above is from my experience and I’m in no way a medical professional or expert.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Apparently not everyone can so putting pressure is a no no. There are videos and articles online which can give you some guidance but best to ask a woman first if she wants to... |
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"Apparently not everyone can so putting pressure is a no no. There are videos and articles online which can give you some guidance but best to ask a woman first if she wants to... "
Give women the choice of what happens to their body? 
We didn’t get where we are today by doing rubbish like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently not everyone can so putting pressure is a no no. There are videos and articles online which can give you some guidance but best to ask a woman first if she wants to... "
Exactly this! Me and my ‘friend’ did a hell of a lot of reading and practicing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently not everyone can so putting pressure is a no no. There are videos and articles online which can give you some guidance but best to ask a woman first if she wants to...
Give women the choice of what happens to their body?
We didn’t get where we are today by doing rubbish like this "
I'm glad you didn't add "and it worked" or "good, old patriarchy days"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve only met 2 people that have made me gush, there is a technique to it I think but I’ve no idea what it is "
Similar in a sense.. not everyone can cause it. And I am glad it doesn't always happen. |
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By *ub23Man
over a year ago
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I’ve seen a few comments that men don’t have the technique but surely the technique differs on the women’s likes/dislikes?
Btw I’ve never been with a women that does squirt, I’d probably like to know about it before hand if possible  |
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"I’ve seen a few comments that men don’t have the technique but surely the technique differs on the women’s likes/dislikes?
Btw I’ve never been with a women that does squirt, I’d probably like to know about it before hand if possible "
This is where google is your best friend guys. Plenty tips and youtube videos there to help you learn more. |
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By *an4funMan
over a year ago
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"Squirting is an small amount of fluid release, anything more is wee. Gushers are in porn and its wee. Take it from a gynae nurse ! "
I' m glad you said that I wanted to but was scared that I would be shot down |
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"Squirting is an small amount of fluid release, anything more is wee. Gushers are in porn and its wee. Take it from a gynae nurse !
I' m glad you said that I wanted to but was scared that I would be shot down "
It's always good for a chuckle at first but then you rapidly realise that men and women become anxious about achieving this physiological (medical) marvel. Women lubricate and ejaculate, but squirting copious amounts without the physical structures to support them is just porn driving a market without any reflection of medical reality. Same as Porn men do not ejaculate pints of Gaviscon, however much it looks like spunk...  |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I blame porn.
In all seriousness, it wasn’t even a ‘thing’ to do until a few years ago. Now it’s suddenly *the* thing that every guy feels they should elicit in order for the woman to enjoy herself.
It really isn’t though. Everyone is different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any woman can squirt after all it’s female ejaculation. If that’s not the case there’d have to be a medical issue. Isn’t it like asking can if all guys can ejaculate !
It’s a case of understanding the body and how it responds sexually. Some simply mistake squirting for the urge to pee so hold off instead of releasing that’s what it amounts to.
Don’t get me wrong it feels different at first but like any other sexual practice you get used to it the more confident you become and how comfortable you are with your partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Squirting is an small amount of fluid release, anything more is wee. Gushers are in porn and its wee. Take it from a gynae nurse ! "
My lady can gush and trust me it’s definitely not pee ! |
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"Any woman can squirt after all it’s female ejaculation. If that’s not the case there’d have to be a medical issue. Isn’t it like asking can if all guys can ejaculate !
It’s a case of understanding the body and how it responds sexually. Some simply mistake squirting for the urge to pee so hold off instead of releasing that’s what it amounts to.
Don’t get me wrong it feels different at first but like any other sexual practice you get used to it the more confident you become and how comfortable you are with your partner. "
Useful how you phrase this. There is a distinct connection between the "relaxing" and the release particularly, when you consider the quantities.
First off there is nowhere for women to store the cupfuls of fluid some suggest.
Also consider men and women have parasympathetic nerves that govern urination during full erection but you can learn to relax them by specific massage (or following trauma). Its really obvious in men (try peeing with a hard on) but women are the same; however in practice their nerves are more accessible to being "confused" by massage to release and therefore open to 'learning to squirt' (hence some women describe squirting as different and unconnected to orgasm).
The fluid output is also complicated by fact that the urethral outlet is right alongside the skenes glands (homologous to prostate but lacking peristalsis) which is broadly considered to be the source of the ejaculate for women (ml's not litres). Finally add in that urine changes directly in relation to diet and stress (inc pleasure) so wee may not always be the same wee.
All adds up to earlier comment of amounts determining content. Ejaculate small amounts yep - plastic sheets or across the room and its going to be a chunk of wee.
Whatever you like - enjoy it, but others should not look at it and say they are more or less because they cannot do it. Some can burp to order. Not all want to. |
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