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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
If someone you see everyday gives you flowers to show you he is interested, does that come across..
Desperate
Needy
Cheesy
Psychopath
Or or or... does that depend on how good-looking the man is 
Be real.. |
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over a year ago
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"Every day is too much, and flowers aren’t for everyone. I’m not keen on cut flowers personally. I prefer a plant."
Here’s a plant for you Fallen one and I think(only think) they don’t give you flowers every day but you see them everyday  ..I’ve confused myself now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another
That is what I meant ! "
I knew what you meant OP.
I’d be pleasantly surprised and accept them graciously  |
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another
That is what I meant !
I knew what you meant OP.
I’d be pleasantly surprised and accept them graciously "
Ah okay,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another
That is what I meant !
I knew what you meant OP.
I’d be pleasantly surprised and accept them graciously
Ah okay, "
Now give me the flowers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another
That is what I meant !
I knew what you meant OP.
I’d be pleasantly surprised and accept them graciously "
What if they were roses with daisy chasers in a marmite wrapper?.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another
That is what I meant !
I knew what you meant OP.
I’d be pleasantly surprised and accept them graciously
What if they were roses with daisy chasers in a marmite wrapper?.."
Errrrrrmmmmmmmm yes |
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"Ahhhh I misunderstood, sorry OP, I thought you meant buying flowers every day.
I get what you mean now, would find it delightful and I'd be quite flattered.
Mrs"
Thank you, no problem |
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another
That is what I meant !
I knew what you meant OP.
I’d be pleasantly surprised and accept them graciously
Ah okay,
Now give me the flowers "
Blue rose or rainbow
Or both ?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Every day is too much, and flowers aren’t for everyone. I’m not keen on cut flowers personally. I prefer a plant.
Here’s a plant for you Fallen one and I think(only think) they don’t give you flowers every day but you see them everyday ..I’ve confused myself now "
Oh haha! I REALLY must start reading things properly!
Op, I think if it is a random stranger it could be a bit embarrassing for them, do you know them at all, or just to say hi to? |
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"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another
That is what I meant !
I knew what you meant OP.
I’d be pleasantly surprised and accept them graciously
Ah okay,
Now give me the flowers
Blue rose or rainbow
Or both ?
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The whole shop please, I love flowers |
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another
That is what I meant !
I knew what you meant OP.
I’d be pleasantly surprised and accept them graciously
Ah okay,
Now give me the flowers
Blue rose or rainbow
Or both ?
The whole shop please, I love flowers "
One of each I shall do, with one fake one so you can keep it and it never dies  |
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"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another
That is what I meant ! "
If our only interaction was hi and bye, like someone you see on the way to work or something, I’d probably find it a bit weird.
It really depends on the man and the context for me, as to whether I’d find it nice or creepy. And that’s not just about his looks. |
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If it was a stranger that saw me most days it would peak my interest and start a conversation.
If it was a work colleague... well there's a couple that I know are interested and I've made it fairly clear that I'm not... so it would be weird.
If it was the one guy that I fancy at work -and he knows I do then I'd be chuffed. |
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"If it was a stranger that saw me most days it would peak my interest and start a conversation.
If it was a work colleague... well there's a couple that I know are interested and I've made it fairly clear that I'm not... so it would be weird.
If it was the one guy that I fancy at work -and he knows I do then I'd be chuffed. "
Eee ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If someone you see everyday gives you flowers to show you he is interested, does that come across..
Desperate
Needy
Cheesy
Psychopath
Or or or... does that depend on how good-looking the man is
Be real.."
None of those, it shows he is thoughtful and is thinking of you
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Has she noticed you do you think like you have noticed her?
If I was given flowers by a stranger I'd think it was over the top.
I worked in a shop once and a regular customer gave me flowers which was sweet.
A complete stranger... I'd rather they struck up a conversation first. |
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"It’s sweet but a little weird, I’d question the motive if every day.
Besides, flowers can last a while and I don’t have enough vases for a daily bunch, weekly, yes"
See further up
Sees her everyday. The flower gesture is a one off |
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"It’s sweet but a little weird, I’d question the motive if every day.
Besides, flowers can last a while and I don’t have enough vases for a daily bunch, weekly, yes
See further up
Sees her everyday. The flower gesture is a one off "
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"If someone you see everyday gives you flowers to show you he is interested, does that come across..
Desperate
Needy
Cheesy
Psychopath
Or or or... does that depend on how good-looking the man is
Be real.."
I'd think that's quite a sweet thing to do, then take it from there...ie: looks, personality, chemistry...maybe take his phone number. |
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"Someone who saw me every day would know I prefer flowers to grow in their natural habitat.
I'd like to think that they would simply ask if they could take me for a coffee."
What if she dont drink coffee ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was sent flowers at work every week for 9 consecutive weeks last year, from someone who I have zero interest in. I had to ask the florist not to accept any more orders from the man.
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"Someone who saw me every day would know I prefer flowers to grow in their natural habitat.
I'd like to think that they would simply ask if they could take me for a coffee.
What if she dont drink coffee ? "
Then get what she wants! |
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"I was sent flowers at work every week for 9 consecutive weeks last year, from someone who I have zero interest in. I had to ask the florist not to accept any more orders from the man.
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That is bit nutty, and crazy and definitely psychopath. |
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"Someone who saw me every day would know I prefer flowers to grow in their natural habitat.
I'd like to think that they would simply ask if they could take me for a coffee.
What if she dont drink coffee ?
Then get what she wants!"
Okay. |
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"Nobody has ever given me flowers so I'd probably be really happy. But I'd much prefer some kind of succulent haha "
I gave M a cactus for our first valentine's because he's a prick
He actually did get me a succulent for valentine's this year, prefer a pot plant |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would feel awkward.
Like... what is his intention/expectation? How am I supposed to react... and will he get angry if I don't react in the 'right' way? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it was someone I know, I’d think it was sweet. If it was a stranger, I’d be very uncomfortable.
What is so uncomfortable about it ?
Like in general "
I’d just feel awkward. Why is he doing that? What does he expect in return? I wouldn’t like it at all. |
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"Nobody has ever given me flowers so I'd probably be really happy. But I'd much prefer some kind of succulent haha
I gave M a cactus for our first valentine's because he's a prick
He actually did get me a succulent for valentine's this year, prefer a pot plant "
This woman..aah |
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"If it was someone I know, I’d think it was sweet. If it was a stranger, I’d be very uncomfortable.
What is so uncomfortable about it ?
Like in general
I’d just feel awkward. Why is he doing that? What does he expect in return? I wouldn’t like it at all."
I understand, well not all men wish for something in return, some or a few select can be genuine x |
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"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez."
I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.
Which is a bit cheap actually. |
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez.
I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.
Which is a bit cheap actually. "
Haha I love this, perhaps you can suggest something better ?? |
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"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez.
I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.
Which is a bit cheap actually.
Haha I love this, perhaps you can suggest something better ??"
Can you give a bit more context how you meet this person? Just at work? At the school gates? Do you, er, talk to them?
I'd be thinking talking first |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it was someone I know, I’d think it was sweet. If it was a stranger, I’d be very uncomfortable.
What is so uncomfortable about it ?
Like in general
I’d just feel awkward. Why is he doing that? What does he expect in return? I wouldn’t like it at all."
I agree. It’s a bit much. I’m a plant lover rather than cut flowers anyway, but I’d rather have a conversation first. |
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez.
I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.
Which is a bit cheap actually.
Haha I love this, perhaps you can suggest something better ??
Can you give a bit more context how you meet this person? Just at work? At the school gates? Do you, er, talk to them?
I'd be thinking talking first "
I see her on my way to work, she lives on top of my road, usually we never said hello or exchanged any type of acknowledgement, now a smile, and hi bye type of thing. I see her when she finishes work also, which is like 3 to 5 times a week. |
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"If it was someone I know, I’d think it was sweet. If it was a stranger, I’d be very uncomfortable.
What is so uncomfortable about it ?
Like in general
I’d just feel awkward. Why is he doing that? What does he expect in return? I wouldn’t like it at all.
I agree. It’s a bit much. I’m a plant lover rather than cut flowers anyway, but I’d rather have a conversation first. "
She may not like plants ? So I rather give flowers bit more of a nice statement from what I seen before |
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"If it was someone I know, I’d think it was sweet. If it was a stranger, I’d be very uncomfortable.
What is so uncomfortable about it ?
Like in general
I’d just feel awkward. Why is he doing that? What does he expect in return? I wouldn’t like it at all.
I agree. It’s a bit much. I’m a plant lover rather than cut flowers anyway, but I’d rather have a conversation first. "
She also may not like flowers, I also take that point on |
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"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez.
I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.
Which is a bit cheap actually.
Haha I love this, perhaps you can suggest something better ??
Can you give a bit more context how you meet this person? Just at work? At the school gates? Do you, er, talk to them?
I'd be thinking talking first
I see her on my way to work, she lives on top of my road, usually we never said hello or exchanged any type of acknowledgement, now a smile, and hi bye type of thing. I see her when she finishes work also, which is like 3 to 5 times a week."
OK woah fella, woah
Right now, flowers would be weird.
Find a reason to have a quick word with her. Isn't the traffic getting worse. I love how the trees look on the spring. Did you see what that idiot at number 14 put outside his garage.
Etc etc
Flowers anytime after that is socially acceptable |
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"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez.
I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.
Which is a bit cheap actually.
Haha I love this, perhaps you can suggest something better ??
Can you give a bit more context how you meet this person? Just at work? At the school gates? Do you, er, talk to them?
I'd be thinking talking first
I see her on my way to work, she lives on top of my road, usually we never said hello or exchanged any type of acknowledgement, now a smile, and hi bye type of thing. I see her when she finishes work also, which is like 3 to 5 times a week."
In my opinion, flowers would be way too much at this point. I'd try striking up a proper conversation and/or asking her out for a drink. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez.
I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.
Which is a bit cheap actually.
Haha I love this, perhaps you can suggest something better ??
Can you give a bit more context how you meet this person? Just at work? At the school gates? Do you, er, talk to them?
I'd be thinking talking first
I see her on my way to work, she lives on top of my road, usually we never said hello or exchanged any type of acknowledgement, now a smile, and hi bye type of thing. I see her when she finishes work also, which is like 3 to 5 times a week."
I was wondering what you meant, and after reading that I'd think it was just a bit weird! |
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"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez.
I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.
Which is a bit cheap actually.
Haha I love this, perhaps you can suggest something better ??
Can you give a bit more context how you meet this person? Just at work? At the school gates? Do you, er, talk to them?
I'd be thinking talking first
I see her on my way to work, she lives on top of my road, usually we never said hello or exchanged any type of acknowledgement, now a smile, and hi bye type of thing. I see her when she finishes work also, which is like 3 to 5 times a week.
I was wondering what you meant, and after reading that I'd think it was just a bit weird! "
I think she might start thinking you're stalking her so I'd say pass on the flowers and when you see her just say excuse me and start a conversation maybe |
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"Nobody has ever given me flowers so I'd probably be really happy. But I'd much prefer some kind of succulent haha
I gave M a cactus for our first valentine's because he's a prick
He actually did get me a succulent for valentine's this year, prefer a pot plant
This woman..aah "
If you can't have a laugh with your other half where's the fun? But to answer your OP I'd personally find it a bit awkward, but I'm an awkward person with public displays of affection |
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"Nobody has ever given me flowers so I'd probably be really happy. But I'd much prefer some kind of succulent haha
I gave M a cactus for our first valentine's because he's a prick
He actually did get me a succulent for valentine's this year, prefer a pot plant
This woman..aah
If you can't have a laugh with your other half where's the fun? But to answer your OP I'd personally find it a bit awkward, but I'm an awkward person with public displays of affection "
I'm getting you a huge bunch and sending one of those singer grams  |
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"Nobody has ever given me flowers so I'd probably be really happy. But I'd much prefer some kind of succulent haha
I gave M a cactus for our first valentine's because he's a prick
He actually did get me a succulent for valentine's this year, prefer a pot plant
This woman..aah
If you can't have a laugh with your other half where's the fun? But to answer your OP I'd personally find it a bit awkward, but I'm an awkward person with public displays of affection
I'm getting you a huge bunch and sending one of those singer grams "
I would literally die on the spot |
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"Nobody has ever given me flowers so I'd probably be really happy. But I'd much prefer some kind of succulent haha
I gave M a cactus for our first valentine's because he's a prick
He actually did get me a succulent for valentine's this year, prefer a pot plant
This woman..aah
If you can't have a laugh with your other half where's the fun? But to answer your OP I'd personally find it a bit awkward, but I'm an awkward person with public displays of affection
I'm getting you a huge bunch and sending one of those singer grams
I would literally die on the spot "
Definitely don't want that |
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"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez.
I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.
Which is a bit cheap actually.
Haha I love this, perhaps you can suggest something better ??
Can you give a bit more context how you meet this person? Just at work? At the school gates? Do you, er, talk to them?
I'd be thinking talking first
I see her on my way to work, she lives on top of my road, usually we never said hello or exchanged any type of acknowledgement, now a smile, and hi bye type of thing. I see her when she finishes work also, which is like 3 to 5 times a week."
Yeah, no. Now is not the appropriate time for flowers, you’ll most likely weird her out. I did say in my earlier reply that it would be weird in this scenario, but I guess that wasn’t what you wanted to hear. Try talking to her first, don’t just spring flowers on her out of the blue. And don’t just have one brief conversation and then go in with flowers, either - see whether she seems interested in talking to you, if she looks happy to see you, that sort of thing. If she seems to be just being polite, or always wants to cut it short, or anything like that - leave it. |
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"I know I'm a bit weird with stuff like this, but honestly, I'd rather he just said something. I'd find flowers a bit cringe if they were a complete surprise."
I agree - better to say “We should go for a coffee when it’s allowed” and wait for the reaction. |
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"I know I'm a bit weird with stuff like this, but honestly, I'd rather he just said something. I'd find flowers a bit cringe if they were a complete surprise.
I agree - better to say “We should go for a coffee when it’s allowed” and wait for the reaction."
Just seen that you live on the same road - def do not give flowers as if she is just being polite she may think you are going to stalk her. |
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If you’re both single and you’re interested in her I think it’s perfectly acceptable and quite sweet to send her some flowers. This would have been a perfectly normal way of expressing interest before the days of internet dating. Maybe I’m just old.
Lou x
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
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"If you’re both single and you’re interested in her I think it’s perfectly acceptable and quite sweet to send her some flowers. This would have been a perfectly normal way of expressing interest before the days of internet dating. Maybe I’m just old.
Lou x
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Best response, and I definitely like this one
I guess those days of expressing that someone is interested in you have gone far far away and ideas like this are considered awkward and put me on the spot how will I live type ! |
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"If you’re both single and you’re interested in her I think it’s perfectly acceptable and quite sweet to send her some flowers. This would have been a perfectly normal way of expressing interest before the days of internet dating. Maybe I’m just old.
Lou x
Best response, and I definitely like this one
I guess those days of expressing that someone is interested in you have gone far far away and ideas like this are considered awkward and put me on the spot how will I live type !"
I was offered flowers once. It was very uncomfortable for me because I then had to explain to this guy who I barely knew that while it was a nice gesture - I had a boyfriend and so I wasn't interested. He didn't take it very well and it was just awkward all around. |
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If I saw a fella every day and had the odd conversation exchanged with him and he brought me flowers one day, I'd accept gracefully - but then I'm single - I might feel slightly differently if I were in an LTR. |
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"If I saw a fella every day and had the odd conversation exchanged with him and he brought me flowers one day, I'd accept gracefully - but then I'm single - I might feel slightly differently if I were in an LTR.
When can I send you flowers 
Well obviously I understand your point, but like why do people feel uncomfortable and why is it awkward ? Have most people lost the art of being confident and say omg thank you, its so nice, or have the guys absolutely gone up and beyond to make women think its a psychopath act to do if they get told no ? I mean,ci been rejected before I smiled and said thank you for your time and walked 9ff smiling knowing I tried and I told her how I felt."
Some people don't like being approached by strangers full stop. |
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"If I saw a fella every day and had the odd conversation exchanged with him and he brought me flowers one day, I'd accept gracefully - but then I'm single - I might feel slightly differently if I were in an LTR. "
When can I send you flowers
Well obviously I understand your point, but like why do people feel uncomfortable and why is it awkward ? Have most people lost the art of being confident and say omg thank you, its so nice, or have the guys absolutely gone up and beyond to make women think its a psychopath act to do if they get told no ? I mean, i been rejected before I smiled and said thank you for your time and walked off smiling knowing I tried and I told her how I felt. |
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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago
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"If I saw a fella every day and had the odd conversation exchanged with him and he brought me flowers one day, I'd accept gracefully - but then I'm single - I might feel slightly differently if I were in an LTR.
When can I send you flowers
Well obviously I understand your point, but like why do people feel uncomfortable and why is it awkward ? Have most people lost the art of being confident and say omg thank you, its so nice, or have the guys absolutely gone up and beyond to make women think its a psychopath act to do if they get told no ? I mean,ci been rejected before I smiled and said thank you for your time and walked 9ff smiling knowing I tried and I told her how I felt.
Some people don't like being approached by strangers full stop."
Strong statement that, but okay.
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"If I saw a fella every day and had the odd conversation exchanged with him and he brought me flowers one day, I'd accept gracefully - but then I'm single - I might feel slightly differently if I were in an LTR.
When can I send you flowers
Well obviously I understand your point, but like why do people feel uncomfortable and why is it awkward ? Have most people lost the art of being confident and say omg thank you, its so nice, or have the guys absolutely gone up and beyond to make women think its a psychopath act to do if they get told no ? I mean,ci been rejected before I smiled and said thank you for your time and walked 9ff smiling knowing I tried and I told her how I felt.
Some people don't like being approached by strangers full stop."
But if we never approached strangers we’d all be alone wouldn’t we? Everyone is a stranger until you meet/speak to them.
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"If I saw a fella every day and had the odd conversation exchanged with him and he brought me flowers one day, I'd accept gracefully - but then I'm single - I might feel slightly differently if I were in an LTR.
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Well obviously I understand your point, but like why do people feel uncomfortable and why is it awkward ? Have most people lost the art of being confident and say omg thank you, its so nice, or have the guys absolutely gone up and beyond to make women think its a psychopath act to do if they get told no ? I mean,ci been rejected before I smiled and said thank you for your time and walked 9ff smiling knowing I tried and I told her how I felt.
Some people don't like being approached by strangers full stop.
But if we never approached strangers we’d all be alone wouldn’t we? Everyone is a stranger until you meet/speak to them.
Lou x "
I know that, it doesn't bother me in the slightest. I am the person who randomly helps you with your shopping, picks you up at a bus stop in the cold or rain.
Some people don't like it though. |
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"If I saw a fella every day and had the odd conversation exchanged with him and he brought me flowers one day, I'd accept gracefully - but then I'm single - I might feel slightly differently if I were in an LTR.
When can I send you flowers
Well obviously I understand your point, but like why do people feel uncomfortable and why is it awkward ? Have most people lost the art of being confident and say omg thank you, its so nice, or have the guys absolutely gone up and beyond to make women think its a psychopath act to do if they get told no ? I mean, i been rejected before I smiled and said thank you for your time and walked off smiling knowing I tried and I told her how I felt."
OK, you would - but many men do not take rejection well and it makes us wary. |
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"If I saw a fella every day and had the odd conversation exchanged with him and he brought me flowers one day, I'd accept gracefully - but then I'm single - I might feel slightly differently if I were in an LTR.
When can I send you flowers
Well obviously I understand your point, but like why do people feel uncomfortable and why is it awkward ? Have most people lost the art of being confident and say omg thank you, its so nice, or have the guys absolutely gone up and beyond to make women think its a psychopath act to do if they get told no ? I mean, i been rejected before I smiled and said thank you for your time and walked off smiling knowing I tried and I told her how I felt.
OK, you would - but many men do not take rejection well and it makes us wary. "
I totally get that, my approach is different from Men, I go as a man. |
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"If I saw a fella every day and had the odd conversation exchanged with him and he brought me flowers one day, I'd accept gracefully - but then I'm single - I might feel slightly differently if I were in an LTR.
When can I send you flowers
Well obviously I understand your point, but like why do people feel uncomfortable and why is it awkward ? Have most people lost the art of being confident and say omg thank you, its so nice, or have the guys absolutely gone up and beyond to make women think its a psychopath act to do if they get told no ? I mean,ci been rejected before I smiled and said thank you for your time and walked 9ff smiling knowing I tried and I told her how I felt.
Some people don't like being approached by strangers full stop.
But if we never approached strangers we’d all be alone wouldn’t we? Everyone is a stranger until you meet/speak to them.
Lou x "
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"If I saw a fella every day and had the odd conversation exchanged with him and he brought me flowers one day, I'd accept gracefully - but then I'm single - I might feel slightly differently if I were in an LTR.
When can I send you flowers
Well obviously I understand your point, but like why do people feel uncomfortable and why is it awkward ? Have most people lost the art of being confident and say omg thank you, its so nice, or have the guys absolutely gone up and beyond to make women think its a psychopath act to do if they get told no ? I mean, i been rejected before I smiled and said thank you for your time and walked off smiling knowing I tried and I told her how I felt."
Good point but to be fair, I did say I "might" feel slightly differently..... I'd still confidently say thank you/indicate my appreciation for the thoughtful gesture |
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"If I saw a fella every day and had the odd conversation exchanged with him and he brought me flowers one day, I'd accept gracefully - but then I'm single - I might feel slightly differently if I were in an LTR.
When can I send you flowers
Well obviously I understand your point, but like why do people feel uncomfortable and why is it awkward ? Have most people lost the art of being confident and say omg thank you, its so nice, or have the guys absolutely gone up and beyond to make women think its a psychopath act to do if they get told no ? I mean, i been rejected before I smiled and said thank you for your time and walked off smiling knowing I tried and I told her how I felt.
Good point but to be fair, I did say I "might" feel slightly differently..... I'd still confidently say thank you/indicate my appreciation for the thoughtful gesture "
Its all a real man needs, that smile and to say thank you for thinking of me its all nothing beyond that rest depends on the person I guess. |
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"If I saw a fella every day and had the odd conversation exchanged with him and he brought me flowers one day, I'd accept gracefully - but then I'm single - I might feel slightly differently if I were in an LTR. "
If we had conversed then yes..I'd accept the flowers for the gesture that it was.
But if no convo it would be a bit much for me. |
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I love flowers but I think it would be very wasteful giving me a new bunch every single day.
Maybe buy a bouquet and give me one flower a day and then I'll have a beautiful floral arrangement by the end of the month. |
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"If I saw a fella every day and had the odd conversation exchanged with him and he brought me flowers one day, I'd accept gracefully - but then I'm single - I might feel slightly differently if I were in an LTR.
When can I send you flowers
Well obviously I understand your point, but like why do people feel uncomfortable and why is it awkward ? Have most people lost the art of being confident and say omg thank you, its so nice, or have the guys absolutely gone up and beyond to make women think its a psychopath act to do if they get told no ? I mean,ci been rejected before I smiled and said thank you for your time and walked 9ff smiling knowing I tried and I told her how I felt.
Some people don't like being approached by strangers full stop.
But if we never approached strangers we’d all be alone wouldn’t we? Everyone is a stranger until you meet/speak to them.
Lou x
I know that, it doesn't bother me in the slightest. I am the person who randomly helps you with your shopping, picks you up at a bus stop in the cold or rain.
Some people don't like it though."
Yes I’m like that too - but I think the fact they both live in the same road makes it a bit too close for comfort unless she has shown she is interested. |
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"Ahhhh I misunderstood, sorry OP, I thought you meant buying flowers every day.
I get what you mean now, would find it delightful and I'd be quite flattered.
Mrs"
What about if he was ugly as fuck?
Not you op I'm just asking if women would still be flattered if the guy was an uggo? |
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"Ahhhh I misunderstood, sorry OP, I thought you meant buying flowers every day.
I get what you mean now, would find it delightful and I'd be quite flattered.
Mrs
What about if he was ugly as fuck?
Not you op I'm just asking if women would still be flattered if the guy was an uggo?"
No way mate, definitely will be a case of Just leave me alone |
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Just say hello if you haven't already.
I need more information. I keep misunderstanding. 
so I’d just think it was sweet and thoughtful 