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Cedes thread reminded me a bit of my situation .
I've lived in my home town virtually all my life but due to recent changes and a lot of shit once I've saved enough I will moving away from here onto pastures new .
But my question is ... Has anybody else lived in a particular place most of their lives decided to relocate somewhere completely different, did you regret it , and how was it settling in a new strange place . Thankyou xx |
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over a year ago
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Hey Grumps. I’ve moved so many times and to so many strange places around the world where I haven’t known anyone. Yes, it’s hard but also exhilarating. My next move will be in summer- new job, new town, new life. It’s difficult but necessary, sort of the same for you I’m guessing. It’ll be fine  |
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over a year ago
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Yes moved from derbyshire, to london, to Edinburgh back to london then resided back to derbyshire. Id never be anywhere else now i enjoyed london and met some awesome people ultimately the place wasnt for me... i missed family & friends too much.  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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Never had a home town, moved around as a child up until we moved here 20 years ago for work.
All of our close friends live around the country, with some living in other countries.
I can see it being daunting if you have (childhood/work) friends, family or other dependencies, but these days with the ease of travel and communication its not that hard to live away from where you work or your friends/family.
The most daunting thing is making sure where you move to is a decent area, which can be hard if you don’t know the area.
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"Hey Grumps. I’ve moved so many times and to so many strange places around the world where I haven’t known anyone. Yes, it’s hard but also exhilarating. My next move will be in summer- new job, new town, new life. It’s difficult but necessary, sort of the same for you I’m guessing. It’ll be fine "
I hope so  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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I moved across the country when I turned 30. And life is so very much better now. I'm considering moving again at some point, but who knows.
You'll have an amazing adventure Fucknugget....  |
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"Yes moved from derbyshire, to london, to Edinburgh back to london then resided back to derbyshire. Id never be anywhere else now i enjoyed london and met some awesome people ultimately the place wasnt for me... i missed family & friends too much. "
I get that . Slightly different as I have a sister but the rest of my family are long gone and as for friends , less said the better, so I dont think I'll miss anyone which could make it easier I guess |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
Yes, I left my home town which in Suffolk to move here when I was 24 but I wasn't single. It was something we had to do to improve our futures, not for a negative reason.
It's not something I've ever regretted as there's not many job opportunities that way for our children. I've got a great circle of friends and being in the middle of the country makes everywhere a little more accessible. I suppose the only thing I truly miss is not having the seaside on my doorstep. |
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"I’ve always been a roamer, so opposite of you, to the point I’ve never bought a house as see that as settled and where would be the question, just seems all to final "
I can see the appeal in that I honestly can Spurs |
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over a year ago
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I’ve lived in the North West, a couple of places in the South West and a few in the South East. I have friends all around the country and it’s great. Go for it |
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"I've been all over the country, I'm the black sheep of the family. Both my sisters live within 5 minutes of my dad.
I want to see places, not stick to one county  "
Yep I'm starting to feel that way |
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over a year ago
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Yes and no and moved back
Yes because it was a wasted 7 years off my life and only moved for them
No because for all the bad there were good points in it |
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"Never had a home town, moved around as a child up until we moved here 20 years ago for work.
All of our close friends live around the country, with some living in other countries.
I can see it being daunting if you have (childhood/work) friends, family or other dependencies, but these days with the ease of travel and communication its not that hard to live away from where you work or your friends/family.
The most daunting thing is making sure where you move to is a decent area, which can be hard if you don’t know the area.
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I've no idea where yet anyway, probably 6-12 months at least so I shall do the research |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
I moved away from here when I was nineteen and then down south when I was 24, spent 16 years In Essex before moving back, was pretty daunting moving somewhere new where I knew noone and had no family near but it was ok and I settled quite quickly |
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Moved from Loondon to Lpool to go to college, and never went back. 20 idd years later I moved 20 miles down the coast just before lockdown and love it.
I'd say do your research and go for it.
You can always move again if it doesn't work out.
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"I moved across the country when I turned 30. And life is so very much better now. I'm considering moving again at some point, but who knows.
You'll have an amazing adventure Fucknugget.... "
Yeah I know you did, its just scary but I need to do it x |
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I've always moved, only visited the place I was actually born for the first time 49 yrs later lol I've lived in 5 countries on 3 continents, every county south of the M4 and I'm actually a northerner but lived all over!
I love it ... looking into actually moving up north in the future! It gets harder as you get older to meet people but it'll all be fine! Totally recommend it ... a great adventure for you |
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"Yes, I left my home town which in Suffolk to move here when I was 24 but I wasn't single. It was something we had to do to improve our futures, not for a negative reason.
It's not something I've ever regretted as there's not many job opportunities that way for our children. I've got a great circle of friends and being in the middle of the country makes everywhere a little more accessible. I suppose the only thing I truly miss is not having the seaside on my doorstep."
You'll know more than anyone on here lol. After 40 years here I'll miss the town , just nothing left for me here any more |
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"I’ve lived in the North West, a couple of places in the South West and a few in the South East. I have friends all around the country and it’s great. Go for it "
That's the scary thing , I have no idea where atm  |
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"I moved away from here when I was nineteen and then down south when I was 24, spent 16 years In Essex before moving back, was pretty daunting moving somewhere new where I knew noone and had no family near but it was ok and I settled quite quickly "
That's a positive sign then , cheers |
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"Moved from Loondon to Lpool to go to college, and never went back. 20 idd years later I moved 20 miles down the coast just before lockdown and love it.
I'd say do your research and go for it.
You can always move again if it doesn't work out.
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Oh I'll do the research, when I decide where I'll ask fabbers in that area for advice too |
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"Haven’t had the balls to do it yet but something I want to do.
You live in the best city in the world (imo). Anything else just won't cut it"
Maybe but I’ve lived here all my life and it’s way too manic for me these days. I rarely go into the centre of town now and stick to quiet places for drinks or whatever, I can do that in soooo many other places with what I feel would be a better lifestyle. |
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"I've always moved, only visited the place I was actually born for the first time 49 yrs later lol I've lived in 5 countries on 3 continents, every county south of the M4 and I'm actually a northerner but lived all over!
I love it ... looking into actually moving up north in the future! It gets harder as you get older to meet people but it'll all be fine! Totally recommend it ... a great adventure for you "
I hope it is , just scary and lonely to start with I guess |
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Apart from a while as a baby I have lived in my town for my whole life. My direct family are all within 5 miles. I had the chance to move abroad with my mum when I was 12 but stayed with my dad.
After meeting T on here, he moved in with us from the next county (@ 1 hour away) but goes back every day as his business is based at his family home.
J x
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"Apart from a while as a baby I have lived in my town for my whole life. My direct family are all within 5 miles. I had the chance to move abroad with my mum when I was 12 but stayed with my dad.
After meeting T on here, he moved in with us from the next county (@ 1 hour away) but goes back every day as his business is based at his family home.
J x
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Aww that's lovely too , everyone's happy at least |
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"I’ve lived in the North West, a couple of places in the South West and a few in the South East. I have friends all around the country and it’s great. Go for it
That's the scary thing , I have no idea where atm "
Out of all the places I’ve lived Devon is the one I’d go back to. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve lived in the North West, a couple of places in the South West and a few in the South East. I have friends all around the country and it’s great. Go for it
That's the scary thing , I have no idea where atm
Out of all the places I’ve lived Devon is the one I’d go back to. "
That's because Devon is wonderful |
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"Apart from a while as a baby I have lived in my town for my whole life. My direct family are all within 5 miles. I had the chance to move abroad with my mum when I was 12 but stayed with my dad.
After meeting T on here, he moved in with us from the next county (@ 1 hour away) but goes back every day as his business is based at his family home.
J x
Aww that's lovely too , everyone's happy at least "
Once we’re not tied here for education reasons we will look at moving perhaps half way. Will probably end up paying more for a smaller house though |
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"I’ve lived in the North West, a couple of places in the South West and a few in the South East. I have friends all around the country and it’s great. Go for it
That's the scary thing , I have no idea where atm
Out of all the places I’ve lived Devon is the one I’d go back to.
That's because Devon is wonderful "
It really is. My plan has always been to retire in Spain but I’m a bit torn these days between the two I must admit! |
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"I’ve always been a roamer, so opposite of you, to the point I’ve never bought a house as see that as settled and where would be the question, just seems all to final
I can see the appeal in that I honestly can Spurs "
I guess I’m just used to it, I never lived near family as a kid, teenage years spent away from home and when I left home I must have moved five times in the first four years. I didn’t know any different, thought it was what everyone did until you realise actually we are the oddity. I still live no where near my parents, family or friends. I’m settled where I am now but in 4-5 years time I’ve got a decision to make, will that be my final move I’ve no idea.
Good luck with it Grumpy. |
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"I’ve lived in the North West, a couple of places in the South West and a few in the South East. I have friends all around the country and it’s great. Go for it
That's the scary thing , I have no idea where atm
Out of all the places I’ve lived Devon is the one I’d go back to.
That's because Devon is wonderful "
Haha it has its attractions I guess  |
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"Apart from a while as a baby I have lived in my town for my whole life. My direct family are all within 5 miles. I had the chance to move abroad with my mum when I was 12 but stayed with my dad.
After meeting T on here, he moved in with us from the next county (@ 1 hour away) but goes back every day as his business is based at his family home.
J x
Aww that's lovely too , everyone's happy at least
Once we’re not tied here for education reasons we will look at moving perhaps half way. Will probably end up paying more for a smaller house though "
Sounds a plan , all the best for that |
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Not from the Uk moved here as a teen. Moved around a lot. Quite like this part of the world for the moment but miss the call of the sea. I have got one move left I reckon in the UK before I retire so perhaps the Cotswolds next.Then retire home to listen to the sea and do nothing.
I admire people who up sticks and go for it. |
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"I’ve lived in the North West, a couple of places in the South West and a few in the South East. I have friends all around the country and it’s great. Go for it
That's the scary thing , I have no idea where atm
Out of all the places I’ve lived Devon is the one I’d go back to.
That's because Devon is wonderful
It really is. My plan has always been to retire in Spain but I’m a bit torn these days between the two I must admit! "
Both lovely x |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Yes, I left my home town which in Suffolk to move here when I was 24 but I wasn't single. It was something we had to do to improve our futures, not for a negative reason.
It's not something I've ever regretted as there's not many job opportunities that way for our children. I've got a great circle of friends and being in the middle of the country makes everywhere a little more accessible. I suppose the only thing I truly miss is not having the seaside on my doorstep.
You'll know more than anyone on here lol. After 40 years here I'll miss the town , just nothing left for me here any more "
We won't move now until our children have left home and settled, probably to the coast somewhere.
It's easier to move away from home when you have no family ties. That was where I was (unfortunately) when I was in my twenties.
You have to make more of an effort when you're new somewhere, to make friends etc. It wasn't easy because I was quite shy so had to take myself out of my comfort zone!
When you've made that decision to move away, and it's a big one, you kind of disattach yourself from the area. Hope you find what/where you're looking for |
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"I’ve lived in the North West, a couple of places in the South West and a few in the South East. I have friends all around the country and it’s great. Go for it
That's the scary thing , I have no idea where atm
Out of all the places I’ve lived Devon is the one I’d go back to.
That's because Devon is wonderful
It really is. My plan has always been to retire in Spain but I’m a bit torn these days between the two I must admit!
Both lovely x"
Who me and posh? |
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"I left home to live and work in west berlin when i was 17. i have moved around lots since then but never returned to living where i grew up. personally i like moving on every once in a while."
Theres a voice, keeps on calling me |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I’ve lived in the North West, a couple of places in the South West and a few in the South East. I have friends all around the country and it’s great. Go for it
That's the scary thing , I have no idea where atm
Out of all the places I’ve lived Devon is the one I’d go back to.
That's because Devon is wonderful
It really is. My plan has always been to retire in Spain but I’m a bit torn these days between the two I must admit!
Both lovely x
Who me and posh? "
We are, aren't we..... |
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"I’ve always been a roamer, so opposite of you, to the point I’ve never bought a house as see that as settled and where would be the question, just seems all to final
I can see the appeal in that I honestly can Spurs
I guess I’m just used to it, I never lived near family as a kid, teenage years spent away from home and when I left home I must have moved five times in the first four years. I didn’t know any different, thought it was what everyone did until you realise actually we are the oddity. I still live no where near my parents, family or friends. I’m settled where I am now but in 4-5 years time I’ve got a decision to make, will that be my final move I’ve no idea.
Good luck with it Grumpy. "
Thanks , much appreciated Chick |
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"Not from the Uk moved here as a teen. Moved around a lot. Quite like this part of the world for the moment but miss the call of the sea. I have got one move left I reckon in the UK before I retire so perhaps the Cotswolds next.Then retire home to listen to the sea and do nothing.
I admire people who up sticks and go for it. "
Cheers, wont be just yet but I will be doing it |
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"Yes, I left my home town which in Suffolk to move here when I was 24 but I wasn't single. It was something we had to do to improve our futures, not for a negative reason.
It's not something I've ever regretted as there's not many job opportunities that way for our children. I've got a great circle of friends and being in the middle of the country makes everywhere a little more accessible. I suppose the only thing I truly miss is not having the seaside on my doorstep.
You'll know more than anyone on here lol. After 40 years here I'll miss the town , just nothing left for me here any more
We won't move now until our children have left home and settled, probably to the coast somewhere.
It's easier to move away from home when you have no family ties. That was where I was (unfortunately) when I was in my twenties.
You have to make more of an effort when you're new somewhere, to make friends etc. It wasn't easy because I was quite shy so had to take myself out of my comfort zone!
When you've made that decision to move away, and it's a big one, you kind of disattach yourself from the area. Hope you find what/where you're looking for "
Me too , I'll get there cheers |
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"I’ve lived in the North West, a couple of places in the South West and a few in the South East. I have friends all around the country and it’s great. Go for it
That's the scary thing , I have no idea where atm
Out of all the places I’ve lived Devon is the one I’d go back to.
That's because Devon is wonderful
It really is. My plan has always been to retire in Spain but I’m a bit torn these days between the two I must admit!
Both lovely x
Who me and posh? "
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"I’ve lived in the North West, a couple of places in the South West and a few in the South East. I have friends all around the country and it’s great. Go for it
That's the scary thing , I have no idea where atm
Out of all the places I’ve lived Devon is the one I’d go back to.
That's because Devon is wonderful
It really is. My plan has always been to retire in Spain but I’m a bit torn these days between the two I must admit!
Both lovely x
Who me and posh?
We are, aren't we..... "
Not too modest then |
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over a year ago
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I’ve moved slightly (from near SpCardiff to near to Swansea).
At the moment I am tied by family roots, but when my kids are older and my mum passes away, I hope to be able to move.
Although no idea where. I like West Wales and I love Cornwall, but depends on the cost of living. |
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"I lived in Bognor Regis most of my life and moved to Wales a few years ago and I prefer it here, Can't stand being in a noisy town now at all. "
Now you see that's my quandary, a quiet village somewhere is appealing, but the convenience of a town for shopping transport etc is important, so it's a big decision |
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Lived in inner city Birmingham moved out to Worcester 16 years ago and wild horses couldn't drag us back there ever.
Its bad enough working there from time to time but we couldn't live there again. |
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"I’ve moved slightly (from near SpCardiff to near to Swansea).
At the moment I am tied by family roots, but when my kids are older and my mum passes away, I hope to be able to move.
Although no idea where. I like West Wales and I love Cornwall, but depends on the cost of living."
Oh absolutely. That's my first port of call in the research department |
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I find it odd when people haven't moved around and I'm a bit jealous that they liked the place they grew up in. You'll be fine op. No decision is final. |
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Spent about 12 years living no where near home, wouldnt say i hated it, because it wasnt to bad and i could easily nip home on the weekends when i could. Spent a year and a bit in German, hated that though.
But for me, theres nothing better then hearing a geordie accent and kmowing im home, where people can actually understand what i say haha. |
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"I find it odd when people haven't moved around and I'm a bit jealous that they liked the place they grew up in. You'll be fine op. No decision is final. "
I also find those who never move very odd people |
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I’m planning a move from Liverpool to Athens. It will be a huge move for me, I’ve lived in the same town my whole life. Life is so painfully short so it’s now or never |
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"Lived in inner city Birmingham moved out to Worcester 16 years ago and wild horses couldn't drag us back there ever.
Its bad enough working there from time to time but we couldn't live there again."
I like the city centre but I dont know all that much about the living areas , conditions of Birmingham so I'll take your word for it |
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"I lived in Bognor Regis most of my life and moved to Wales a few years ago and I prefer it here, Can't stand being in a noisy town now at all.
Now you see that's my quandary, a quiet village somewhere is appealing, but the convenience of a town for shopping transport etc is important, so it's a big decision "
I'm only a 10 minute drive from Swansea Town and there's shops local to me and yet I'm surrounded by lots of farmland. It's perfect, couldn't live miles away from everything. |
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"I find it odd when people haven't moved around and I'm a bit jealous that they liked the place they grew up in. You'll be fine op. No decision is final. "
The decision in itself is more or less done . Its now just where / work/ transport etc |
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Lived in my hometown for over 30 years. Went to juniors and senior school 5 mins from my parent's house. Got a job at a SEN school next to my senior school. Worked there for 13 years.
Didn't drive. Lived at home. Then I met my boyfriend at age 32 and within a year had moved out, learnt to drive, left my job and hometown to move to Oxford. Did agency work in different schools.
Now we are living in Gran Canaria, moved here during COVID-19, Brexit and Christmas! Opening a club over here which we are getting ready at the moment. Lots of work and DIY and grafting but it's worth it because I thought my life was mapped out one way and it completely changed.
We've travelled all over the place, Argentina, Sweden, Corfu, Florence, Barcelona, Monaco. And I never thought I would do any of that stuff. I'm very lucky |
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"Spent about 12 years living no where near home, wouldnt say i hated it, because it wasnt to bad and i could easily nip home on the weekends when i could. Spent a year and a bit in German, hated that though.
But for me, theres nothing better then hearing a geordie accent and kmowing im home, where people can actually understand what i say haha. "
Totally valid point yes |
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"I find it odd when people haven't moved around and I'm a bit jealous that they liked the place they grew up in. You'll be fine op. No decision is final.
The decision in itself is more or less done . Its now just where / work/ transport etc "
I can see why you're struggling. I've always had a reason for moving ... uni work kids etc. I could imagine a blank canvas being totally daunting. Think I'd be tempted to tour the country in a camper van if I didn't really know!! |
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"I find it odd when people haven't moved around and I'm a bit jealous that they liked the place they grew up in. You'll be fine op. No decision is final.
I also find those who never move very odd people "
Oh I've moved 16 times lol , just always here though |
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"I’m planning a move from Liverpool to Athens. It will be a huge move for me, I’ve lived in the same town my whole life. Life is so painfully short so it’s now or never "
Absofuckinlutely, go for it , I wish you all the best xx |
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"I lived in Bognor Regis most of my life and moved to Wales a few years ago and I prefer it here, Can't stand being in a noisy town now at all.
Now you see that's my quandary, a quiet village somewhere is appealing, but the convenience of a town for shopping transport etc is important, so it's a big decision
I'm only a 10 minute drive from Swansea Town and there's shops local to me and yet I'm surrounded by lots of farmland. It's perfect, couldn't live miles away from everything. "
Fair point and yes I like that option |
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"I’m planning a move from Liverpool to Athens. It will be a huge move for me, I’ve lived in the same town my whole life. Life is so painfully short so it’s now or never
Absofuckinlutely, go for it , I wish you all the best xx"
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Lived in Scotland all live up until 13 years ago when I moved to Leeds. Now in a position where I have been offered an amazing opportunity but its in the Isle of Man. Usually I wouldn't hesitate but something is stopping me from going. |
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"Lived in my hometown for over 30 years. Went to juniors and senior school 5 mins from my parent's house. Got a job at a SEN school next to my senior school. Worked there for 13 years.
Didn't drive. Lived at home. Then I met my boyfriend at age 32 and within a year had moved out, learnt to drive, left my job and hometown to move to Oxford. Did agency work in different schools.
Now we are living in Gran Canaria, moved here during COVID-19, Brexit and Christmas! Opening a club over here which we are getting ready at the moment. Lots of work and DIY and grafting but it's worth it because I thought my life was mapped out one way and it completely changed.
We've travelled all over the place, Argentina, Sweden, Corfu, Florence, Barcelona, Monaco. And I never thought I would do any of that stuff. I'm very lucky "
Wow, just Wow !! That's amazing, sounds wonderful |
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"I find it odd when people haven't moved around and I'm a bit jealous that they liked the place they grew up in. You'll be fine op. No decision is final.
The decision in itself is more or less done . Its now just where / work/ transport etc
I can see why you're struggling. I've always had a reason for moving ... uni work kids etc. I could imagine a blank canvas being totally daunting. Think I'd be tempted to tour the country in a camper van if I didn't really know!!"
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"I’m planning a move from Liverpool to Athens. It will be a huge move for me, I’ve lived in the same town my whole life. Life is so painfully short so it’s now or never
Absofuckinlutely, go for it , I wish you all the best xx
Thankyou "
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"Lived in Scotland all live up until 13 years ago when I moved to Leeds. Now in a position where I have been offered an amazing opportunity but its in the Isle of Man. Usually I wouldn't hesitate but something is stopping me from going."
Do you have any idea what though ?? |
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"I find it odd when people haven't moved around and I'm a bit jealous that they liked the place they grew up in. You'll be fine op. No decision is final.
The decision in itself is more or less done . Its now just where / work/ transport etc
I can see why you're struggling. I've always had a reason for moving ... uni work kids etc. I could imagine a blank canvas being totally daunting. Think I'd be tempted to tour the country in a camper van if I didn't really know!!
If I drove then I probably would "
Oh fuck... don't move anywhere rural then. That solved that one!! |
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"I find it odd when people haven't moved around and I'm a bit jealous that they liked the place they grew up in. You'll be fine op. No decision is final.
The decision in itself is more or less done . Its now just where / work/ transport etc
I can see why you're struggling. I've always had a reason for moving ... uni work kids etc. I could imagine a blank canvas being totally daunting. Think I'd be tempted to tour the country in a camper van if I didn't really know!!
If I drove then I probably would
Oh fuck... don't move anywhere rural then. That solved that one!!"
Only because of the expense of driving , it's a huge financial drain and I've managed for over 40 years |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
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The move was a big one for me. Not as big as some. As they almost speak the same language here as where I moved from (but now even after 15 years I do ask what something means)
I did a pro's and con's they were basically equal but with stay on a better foot.
I did move, the deciding factor was "regret" I knew I would have regretted if i hadn't moved much more. And I still feel the same.
Peeks and troughs in the new area, but that is life.
I have another move coming up too. |
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"I find it odd when people haven't moved around and I'm a bit jealous that they liked the place they grew up in. You'll be fine op. No decision is final.
The decision in itself is more or less done . Its now just where / work/ transport etc
I can see why you're struggling. I've always had a reason for moving ... uni work kids etc. I could imagine a blank canvas being totally daunting. Think I'd be tempted to tour the country in a camper van if I didn't really know!!
If I drove then I probably would
Oh fuck... don't move anywhere rural then. That solved that one!!
Only because of the expense of driving , it's a huge financial drain and I've managed for over 40 years "
Yeah I sometimes wish I'd considered the cost travel involved in living semi rural... but its worth it for us otherwise we'd move. |
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I've lived in Southampton all my life in lots of the different parts of it, as it ticks all of my boxes I've no intention of moving, but I like to travel a couple of times a month to different places.
My retirement plans are eventually to move abroad and tour further afield |
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"The move was a big one for me. Not as big as some. As they almost speak the same language here as where I moved from (but now even after 15 years I do ask what something means)
I did a pro's and con's they were basically equal but with stay on a better foot.
I did move, the deciding factor was "regret" I knew I would have regretted if i hadn't moved much more. And I still feel the same.
Peeks and troughs in the new area, but that is life.
I have another move coming up too. "
Anywhere exciting?? |
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"I find it odd when people haven't moved around and I'm a bit jealous that they liked the place they grew up in. You'll be fine op. No decision is final.
The decision in itself is more or less done . Its now just where / work/ transport etc
I can see why you're struggling. I've always had a reason for moving ... uni work kids etc. I could imagine a blank canvas being totally daunting. Think I'd be tempted to tour the country in a camper van if I didn't really know!!
If I drove then I probably would
Oh fuck... don't move anywhere rural then. That solved that one!!
Only because of the expense of driving , it's a huge financial drain and I've managed for over 40 years
Yeah I sometimes wish I'd considered the cost travel involved in living semi rural... but its worth it for us otherwise we'd move. "
Completely, whatever works best for you |
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I moved here from another country. .. and you aren't getting rid of me;-)
On a serious note, it went well, but I always made en effort to adapt and integrate. X |
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"I've lived in Southampton all my life in lots of the different parts of it, as it ticks all of my boxes I've no intention of moving, but I like to travel a couple of times a month to different places.
My retirement plans are eventually to move abroad and tour further afield "
I nearly moved there 2 years ago . Right by the Ferry Dock |
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"Cedes thread reminded me a bit of my situation .
I've lived in my home town virtually all my life but due to recent changes and a lot of shit once I've saved enough I will moving away from here onto pastures new .
But my question is ... Has anybody else lived in a particular place most of their lives decided to relocate somewhere completely different, did you regret it , and how was it settling in a new strange place . Thankyou xx"
I lived in my home town for 22 years... I've now lived in Derbyshire for pretty much the same amount of time... I dont regret it. I'm still hoping to move to Sicily eventually xx |
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"I moved here from another country. .. and you aren't getting rid of me;-)
On a serious note, it went well, but I always made en effort to adapt and integrate. X"
I never knew this did I lol?? Or have I forgot where your originally from ??  |
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"Cedes thread reminded me a bit of my situation .
I've lived in my home town virtually all my life but due to recent changes and a lot of shit once I've saved enough I will moving away from here onto pastures new .
But my question is ... Has anybody else lived in a particular place most of their lives decided to relocate somewhere completely different, did you regret it , and how was it settling in a new strange place . Thankyou xx I lived in my home town for 22 years... I've now lived in Derbyshire for pretty much the same amount of time... I dont regret it. I'm still hoping to move to Sicily eventually xx"
Ooh yay . I've never been but sounds awesome |
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I grew up and lived in Huyton for 29 years, I moved down to Sussex 20 years ago to move in with a girlfriend also due to getting a decent job.
I still miss merseyside though. |
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"I grew up and lived in Huyton for 29 years, I moved down to Sussex 20 years ago to move in with a girlfriend also due to getting a decent job.
I still miss merseyside though."
Only natural, Northampton will always be my home town , just sometimes when theres nothing left for you , the best thing is to move on |
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As a young proud northerner I lived and worked in London for many years didn't regret it one bit.
It is initially daunting leaving your hometown but you soon make new friends with the right attitude.
I'm moving again permanently soon a bit further north my hometown will always be just that. I can find happiness wherever I lay my hat. Best of luck OP. |
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"As a young proud northerner I lived and worked in London for many years didn't regret it one bit.
It is initially daunting leaving your hometown but you soon make new friends with the right attitude.
I'm moving again permanently soon a bit further north my hometown will always be just that. I can find happiness wherever I lay my hat. Best of luck OP."
Thankyou , much appreciated |
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"Cedes thread reminded me a bit of my situation .
I've lived in my home town virtually all my life but due to recent changes and a lot of shit once I've saved enough I will moving away from here onto pastures new .
But my question is ... Has anybody else lived in a particular place most of their lives decided to relocate somewhere completely different, did you regret it , and how was it settling in a new strange place . Thankyou xx"
Left my hometown in Sweden when I was 22, moved to England for love(Met Od and he swept me off my feet). We then moved about 80 miles away from his hometown(Od got a new job so we had to relocate)and have been settled here ever since. This is home but I don’t think I’ll ever stop missing my friends and family and being close to them. I don’t miss a place, but I miss the people. But the beauty of the world we live in(or pre covid at least) they are only a short plane journey/drive away.
Good luck with your move!! Freya x |
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I emigrated over 10,000 miles away to a country I'd never been to before, no job, nowhere to live and didn't know anyone...
It was the biggest adventure I've ever undertook and had circumstances not been what they were I'd still be living in Perth Australia now,I spent 10yrs there and I'm still a perminent resident.
I'm now living in the same village I grew up in, the people I see and old friends never moved out and haven't changed or done anything different with their lives. I often hear them whinge that they should've done this or had the opportunity to do that...
I say no matter where you go or what you do in life get out there and live it, we're a longtime dead and this ain't a rehearsal
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"Cedes thread reminded me a bit of my situation .
I've lived in my home town virtually all my life but due to recent changes and a lot of shit once I've saved enough I will moving away from here onto pastures new .
But my question is ... Has anybody else lived in a particular place most of their lives decided to relocate somewhere completely different, did you regret it , and how was it settling in a new strange place . Thankyou xx
Left my hometown in Sweden when I was 22, moved to England for love(Met Od and he swept me off my feet). We then moved about 80 miles away from his hometown(Od got a new job so we had to relocate)and have been settled here ever since. This is home but I don’t think I’ll ever stop missing my friends and family and being close to them. I don’t miss a place, but I miss the people. But the beauty of the world we live in(or pre covid at least) they are only a short plane journey/drive away.
Good luck with your move!! Freya x "
Wow I love this story . So happy for you |
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"I emigrated over 10,000 miles away to a country I'd never been to before, no job, nowhere to live and didn't know anyone...
It was the biggest adventure I've ever undertook and had circumstances not been what they were I'd still be living in Perth Australia now,I spent 10yrs there and I'm still a perminent resident.
I'm now living in the same village I grew up in, the people I see and old friends never moved out and haven't changed or done anything different with their lives. I often hear them whinge that they should've done this or had the opportunity to do that...
I say no matter where you go or what you do in life get out there and live it, we're a longtime dead and this ain't a rehearsal
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Absolutely, wise words |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
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"The move was a big one for me. Not as big as some. As they almost speak the same language here as where I moved from (but now even after 15 years I do ask what something means)
I did a pro's and con's they were basically equal but with stay on a better foot.
I did move, the deciding factor was "regret" I knew I would have regretted if i hadn't moved much more. And I still feel the same.
Peeks and troughs in the new area, but that is life.
I have another move coming up too.
Anywhere exciting?? "
Everywhere is exciting when its new.
Am still finding great places. Will be the same once I move again |
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"The move was a big one for me. Not as big as some. As they almost speak the same language here as where I moved from (but now even after 15 years I do ask what something means)
I did a pro's and con's they were basically equal but with stay on a better foot.
I did move, the deciding factor was "regret" I knew I would have regretted if i hadn't moved much more. And I still feel the same.
Peeks and troughs in the new area, but that is life.
I have another move coming up too.
Anywhere exciting??
Everywhere is exciting when its new.
Am still finding great places. Will be the same once I move again "
That is a good point actually, very valid |
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I'm moving to Ireland this year away from my family and my whole life which I have lived in Manchester. I have nothing here worth staying for. 
If you've got nothing to lose it is definitely worth taking a chance.  I hope it goes well for you. Xx |
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"I'm moving to Ireland this year away from my family and my whole life which I have lived in Manchester. I have nothing here worth staying for.
If you've got nothing to lose it is definitely worth taking a chance. I hope it goes well for you. Xx "
I hope it goes well , and you are spot on , there is nothing to stay for so just do it |
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"Lived in Scotland all live up until 13 years ago when I moved to Leeds. Now in a position where I have been offered an amazing opportunity but its in the Isle of Man. Usually I wouldn't hesitate but something is stopping me from going.
Do you have any idea what though ??"
Yes x |
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"Lived in Scotland all live up until 13 years ago when I moved to Leeds. Now in a position where I have been offered an amazing opportunity but its in the Isle of Man. Usually I wouldn't hesitate but something is stopping me from going.
Do you have any idea what though ??
Yes x"
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over a year ago
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I couldn't stay at home as my feet were too inchy, lived in Newcastle, Fleet, Chorley, Whilsmlow, Knaresborough and Kuala Lumper, Shah Alam.
Although I'm quite happy in the UK I don'y mind moving within the UK again, change is good, keepts the mind fresh.
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"I couldn't stay at home as my feet were too inchy, lived in Newcastle, Fleet, Chorley, Whilsmlow, Knaresborough and Kuala Lumper, Shah Alam.
Although I'm quite happy in the UK I don'y mind moving within the UK again, change is good, keepts the mind fresh.
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That's also a good point , its stale here now and a lot of recent bad memories so I need to freshen up |
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"Cedes thread reminded me a bit of my situation .
I've lived in my home town virtually all my life but due to recent changes and a lot of shit once I've saved enough I will moving away from here onto pastures new .
But my question is ... Has anybody else lived in a particular place most of their lives decided to relocate somewhere completely different, did you regret it , and how was it settling in a new strange place . Thankyou xx"
I don't have a home town as such, I've lost count of the times I've moved but I was in one city for a very long time whilst the children were growing up and I moved nearly two years ago (three times since then). I missed it dreadfully, tried hard to go back but it wasn't feasible.
I realised recently that it was familiarity I miss, not the place or the friends still there and I have a feeling it will always be like that.
I wish you well, I like moving and discovering new places and I hope you enjoy your new life. |
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"Cedes thread reminded me a bit of my situation .
I've lived in my home town virtually all my life but due to recent changes and a lot of shit once I've saved enough I will moving away from here onto pastures new .
But my question is ... Has anybody else lived in a particular place most of their lives decided to relocate somewhere completely different, did you regret it , and how was it settling in a new strange place . Thankyou xx
I don't have a home town as such, I've lost count of the times I've moved but I was in one city for a very long time whilst the children were growing up and I moved nearly two years ago (three times since then). I missed it dreadfully, tried hard to go back but it wasn't feasible.
I realised recently that it was familiarity I miss, not the place or the friends still there and I have a feeling it will always be like that.
I wish you well, I like moving and discovering new places and I hope you enjoy your new life."
Thankyou appreciated |
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"I'm moving to Ireland this year away from my family and my whole life which I have lived in Manchester. I have nothing here worth staying for.
If you've got nothing to lose it is definitely worth taking a chance. I hope it goes well for you. Xx "
That means you'll be even further away from me (but at least you won't be able to smell me!) Hope it all goes well though. |
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I can't offer you any advice as I haven't moved away from my hometown. The furthest I moved was 10 miles away. I now live 5 miles away.
We do wish you well in your move and hope you will find somewhere to settle and you can call your happy home. |
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"I can't offer you any advice as I haven't moved away from my hometown. The furthest I moved was 10 miles away. I now live 5 miles away.
We do wish you well in your move and hope you will find somewhere to settle and you can call your happy home."
Thankyou I appreciate that |
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I have moved around this country and Europe for work being the main reason.
I can only say for me it has given me additional motivation to make a success of the relocation.
Also you only get one life if you make the most of it, one life is all you need.
There are incredible places and inspirational people beyond the horizon, I promise you if you make the effort the rewards are there |
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2 weeks away from doing a hop skip and jump to another county, albeit a neighbouring one, but still 30+ miles away. I am more scared than excited but the scariness is exciting me.... I'll be in my own but have a couple of friends there and also joined Faceache groups in that area to set the groundwork for when we are set free.... this has been 8 years in the planning |
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I moved away from the place I grew up for work back in 2013, I was sad leaving my friends and family at the time but it's only 30 miles and I made new friends and a life in York after a while. I rarely ever go back to my hometown now, there's nothing for me there other than nostalgia for my younger days. |
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