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What is it with women seeking bbc "only" and not one of them is married to a black man
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over a year ago
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"I see this mostly with couples which makes me think it's more the husbands fantasy than woman.
What do the rest of you reckon? "
We think it's a choice made by the couple.
Maybe single guys just don't understand how couples decide things. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I see this mostly with couples which makes me think it's more the husbands fantasy than woman.
What do the rest of you reckon?
We think it's a choice made by the couple.
Maybe single guys just don't understand how couples decide things."
Honesty I don't think it's made by the couple it seems to be a man's thing. I mean you don't see many single women asking for bbc only.
I wrote another thread asking what do women like about cucks and hardly anyone talked in it but if I'd of worded towards men it would of been different. Makes me think women are doing for their husbands and not their own enjoyment. |
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"I see this mostly with couples which makes me think it's more the husbands fantasy than woman.
What do the rest of you reckon? "
I reckon it's not you they are looking for,so why concern yourself?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I see this mostly with couples which makes me think it's more the husbands fantasy than woman.
What do the rest of you reckon?
I reckon it's not you they are looking for,so why concern yourself?
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So do you agree that it's usually the husbands idea? |
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"I see this mostly with couples which makes me think it's more the husbands fantasy than woman.
What do the rest of you reckon?
I reckon it's not you they are looking for,so why concern yourself?
So do you agree that it's usually the husbands idea? "
No,I don't agree
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This topic has been discussed a few times.
You’ll get the usual spiel about fab being a place of fantasy and thats what ppl are indulging in, porn plays a big influence, a few ppl will actually inform you they married to a black man so youre OP holds not water. Each fo their own i think OP. If black guys are happy to join couples for fun, then whats the harm? If couples want to seek out a black guy, as hes different to what they have at home, whats the harm? |
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"I reckon you have too much time on your hands OP.
No I like to get to the bottom of things. Speak the truth. "
Of all the things to get to the bottom off, I think it at the bottom of most peoples list, way below alien abduction, loch Ness monster and Gemma Collins TV career. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This topic has been discussed a few times.
You’ll get the usual spiel about fab being a place of fantasy and thats what ppl are indulging in, porn plays a big influence, a few ppl will actually inform you they married to a black man so youre OP holds not water. Each fo their own i think OP. If black guys are happy to join couples for fun, then whats the harm? If couples want to seek out a black guy, as hes different to what they have at home, whats the harm? "
No harm just saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wouldn't know having not conducted an exhaustive survey.
However... controversial point here ... I have experienced a number of meets/potential meets where one party seems less keen than the other and the impression is that one is going along with it for the sake of the other. It is not something I am comfortable with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wouldn't know having not conducted an exhaustive survey.
However... controversial point here ... I have experienced a number of meets/potential meets where one party seems less keen than the other and the impression is that one is going along with it for the sake of the other. It is not something I am comfortable with."
Now that is the impression I've been getting on here and I know not many of you want to hear this but I'll say things how it see it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't know having not conducted an exhaustive survey.
However... controversial point here ... I have experienced a number of meets/potential meets where one party seems less keen than the other and the impression is that one is going along with it for the sake of the other. It is not something I am comfortable with."
Same. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you had chips every day wouldn't you want a jacket potato now and then?"
They want it all the time..
I only want bbc.. Only bbc need apply.. If you are white don't message me.. I can't say this enough black men only!!!
On and on and on like that.. Well ffs go and marry a black man and be done with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see this mostly with couples which makes me think it's more the husbands fantasy than woman.
What do the rest of you reckon? "
Why should they be married to a black man?
If you lined up everyone you'd ever fucked would it be like a Robert Palmer video? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I see this mostly with couples which makes me think it's more the husbands fantasy than woman.
What do the rest of you reckon?
Why should they be married to a black man?
If you lined up everyone you'd ever fucked would it be like a Robert Palmer video?"
Well if their preference. I love black women more than white or Asian in general and I would date them and all if I had the chance, not just fuck them because of a different skin tone.
I don't know I haven't seen Robert palmer |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"If you had chips every day wouldn't you want a jacket potato now and then?
They want it all the time..
I only want bbc.. Only bbc need apply.. If you are white don't message me.. I can't say this enough black men only!!!
On and on and on like that.. Well ffs go and marry a black man and be done with it "
You didn't understand what I was saying.
Chips is the white husband, jacket taters are the black men.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you had chips every day wouldn't you want a jacket potato now and then?
They want it all the time..
I only want bbc.. Only bbc need apply.. If you are white don't message me.. I can't say this enough black men only!!!
On and on and on like that.. Well ffs go and marry a black man and be done with it
You didn't understand what I was saying.
Chips is the white husband, jacket taters are the black men.
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I preffer fries but okay |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I see this mostly with couples which makes me think it's more the husbands fantasy than woman.
What do the rest of you reckon?
Why should they be married to a black man?
If you lined up everyone you'd ever fucked would it be like a Robert Palmer video?
Well if their preference. I love black women more than white or Asian in general and I would date them and all if I had the chance, not just fuck them because of a different skin tone.
I don't know I haven't seen Robert palmer "
Growing up in my part of London there weren't many black or Asian men compared to white men.
I remember having a crush on an upper 6 black boy when I was lower 6 but he didn't notice me.
Maybe these women didn't meet a black man they wanted to marry.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you had chips every day wouldn't you want a jacket potato now and then?
They want it all the time..
I only want bbc.. Only bbc need apply.. If you are white don't message me.. I can't say this enough black men only!!!
On and on and on like that.. Well ffs go and marry a black man and be done with it
You didn't understand what I was saying.
Chips is the white husband, jacket taters are the black men.
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What are potato waffles then ? |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"If you had chips every day wouldn't you want a jacket potato now and then?
They want it all the time..
I only want bbc.. Only bbc need apply.. If you are white don't message me.. I can't say this enough black men only!!!
On and on and on like that.. Well ffs go and marry a black man and be done with it
You didn't understand what I was saying.
Chips is the white husband, jacket taters are the black men.
What are potato waffles then ? "
The smelly boy with snot on his face everyone avoided in the playground. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you had chips every day wouldn't you want a jacket potato now and then?
They want it all the time..
I only want bbc.. Only bbc need apply.. If you are white don't message me.. I can't say this enough black men only!!!
On and on and on like that.. Well ffs go and marry a black man and be done with it
You didn't understand what I was saying.
Chips is the white husband, jacket taters are the black men.
What are potato waffles then ? "
I don't know I don't know what it's got to do with the price of fish at the moment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you had chips every day wouldn't you want a jacket potato now and then?
They want it all the time..
I only want bbc.. Only bbc need apply.. If you are white don't message me.. I can't say this enough black men only!!!
On and on and on like that.. Well ffs go and marry a black man and be done with it
You didn't understand what I was saying.
Chips is the white husband, jacket taters are the black men.
What are potato waffles then ?
The smelly boy with snot on his face everyone avoided in the playground."
The OP ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you had chips every day wouldn't you want a jacket potato now and then?
They want it all the time..
I only want bbc.. Only bbc need apply.. If you are white don't message me.. I can't say this enough black men only!!!
On and on and on like that.. Well ffs go and marry a black man and be done with it
You didn't understand what I was saying.
Chips is the white husband, jacket taters are the black men.
What are potato waffles then ?
The smelly boy with snot on his face everyone avoided in the playground.
The OP ?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How bad is this thread. How difference is the preference of the colour of the cock any different from when you guys specify tall blond n think chunky don’t applying.
Grow up it’s a big site with lots of different preferences just roll with it.
I get a load of messages from black guys thinking they can offer me something special but then I get it from white guts as well n the truth is your cock is not the important thing infact it’s totally irrelevant to some of us (n no I’m not a lesbian) before it is accused however that it in my list to try...
ffs guys you need to sexualise our minds make us excited I’m anticipation. My mind is my sexual tool n if you as a person can get my mind working I can assure you the size or the colour of your cock will not make it any better than that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How bad is this thread. How difference is the preference of the colour of the cock any different from when you guys specify tall blond n think chunky don’t applying.
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In many cases, I'd say it's very different |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a man's world
N that’s the moment you went wrong lol
But it wouldn't be nothing without a woman or a girl  "
You see, man made the cars to take us over the road
Man made the train to carry the heavy load
Man made electric light to take us out of the dark
Man made the boat for the water, like Noah made the ark
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By (user no longer on site)
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Honesty I don't think it's made by the couple it seems to be a man's thing. I mean you don't see many single women asking for bbc only. "
I’d have to disagree with you on this one OP. There are numerous single women’s profiles on here who are looking for bbc only.
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To be honest , I tend to get a bit confused when I see post like these.
Maybe the way it’s put it how the comments come across.
The site is predominantly white and quite a few people support interracial sex while others want to explore their taboo.
Maybe because I’m younger I find it a bit awkward compared to others. My social circles don’t throw around black men and white women during a conversation. We just say man and woman , it puts me off when someone says they find someone attractive by their race.
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"To be honest , I tend to get a bit confused when I see post like these.
Maybe the way it’s put it how the comments come across.
The site is predominantly white and quite a few people support interracial sex while others want to explore their taboo.
Maybe because I’m younger I find it a bit awkward compared to others. My social circles don’t throw around black men and white women during a conversation. We just say man and woman , it puts me off when someone says they find someone attractive by their race.
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Which makes it odd that you have watermelon as part of your user name |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest , I tend to get a bit confused when I see post like these.
Maybe the way it’s put it how the comments come across.
The site is predominantly white and quite a few people support interracial sex while others want to explore their taboo.
Maybe because I’m younger I find it a bit awkward compared to others. My social circles don’t throw around black men and white women during a conversation. We just say man and woman , it puts me off when someone says they find someone attractive by their race.
Which makes it odd that you have watermelon as part of your user name "
Where are you trying to go with that ?
I was eating a watermelon and I’m a fan of fitness. So I put the two together for my username.
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"To be honest , I tend to get a bit confused when I see post like these.
Maybe the way it’s put it how the comments come across.
The site is predominantly white and quite a few people support interracial sex while others want to explore their taboo.
Maybe because I’m younger I find it a bit awkward compared to others. My social circles don’t throw around black men and white women during a conversation. We just say man and woman , it puts me off when someone says they find someone attractive by their race.
Which makes it odd that you have watermelon as part of your user name
Where are you trying to go with that ?
I was eating a watermelon and I’m a fan of fitness. So I put the two together for my username.
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Are you really not aware of the racial overtones of watermelon when referring to a black person ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest , I tend to get a bit confused when I see post like these.
Maybe the way it’s put it how the comments come across.
The site is predominantly white and quite a few people support interracial sex while others want to explore their taboo.
Maybe because I’m younger I find it a bit awkward compared to others. My social circles don’t throw around black men and white women during a conversation. We just say man and woman , it puts me off when someone says they find someone attractive by their race.
Which makes it odd that you have watermelon as part of your user name
Where are you trying to go with that ?
I was eating a watermelon and I’m a fan of fitness. So I put the two together for my username.
Are you really not aware of the racial overtones of watermelon when referring to a black person ?"
I just wanted you to confirm what you were getting at.
I made a username without having any thought of that. If I wasn’t black and had the same username , would you of thought to point that out ?
It’s actions like this that I find weird. |
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But I’m going to take your thoughts and make a change to it.
As you don’t know me and other people of fab may share the same view. I can see where you’re coming from but didn’t think someone would look into like that. |
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"To be honest , I tend to get a bit confused when I see post like these.
Maybe the way it’s put it how the comments come across.
The site is predominantly white and quite a few people support interracial sex while others want to explore their taboo.
Maybe because I’m younger I find it a bit awkward compared to others. My social circles don’t throw around black men and white women during a conversation. We just say man and woman , it puts me off when someone says they find someone attractive by their race.
Which makes it odd that you have watermelon as part of your user name
Where are you trying to go with that ?
I was eating a watermelon and I’m a fan of fitness. So I put the two together for my username.
Are you really not aware of the racial overtones of watermelon when referring to a black person ?"
I’m not |
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"But I’m going to take your thoughts and make a change to it.
As you don’t know me and other people of fab may share the same view. I can see where you’re coming from but didn’t think someone would look into like that."
I want it noted that I don't share the same view. I'm sure that the majority won't either. Very sure. |
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"To be honest , I tend to get a bit confused when I see post like these.
Maybe the way it’s put it how the comments come across.
The site is predominantly white and quite a few people support interracial sex while others want to explore their taboo.
Maybe because I’m younger I find it a bit awkward compared to others. My social circles don’t throw around black men and white women during a conversation. We just say man and woman , it puts me off when someone says they find someone attractive by their race.
Which makes it odd that you have watermelon as part of your user name
Where are you trying to go with that ?
I was eating a watermelon and I’m a fan of fitness. So I put the two together for my username.
Are you really not aware of the racial overtones of watermelon when referring to a black person ?
I just wanted you to confirm what you were getting at.
I made a username without having any thought of that. If I wasn’t black and had the same username , would you of thought to point that out ?
It’s actions like this that I find weird."
Of course I wouldn't have thought like that if you weren't black. . But you made a point of how you and your friends don't see people by their colour and I pointed out that your username specifically had black overtones. |
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"To be honest , I tend to get a bit confused when I see post like these.
Maybe the way it’s put it how the comments come across.
The site is predominantly white and quite a few people support interracial sex while others want to explore their taboo.
Maybe because I’m younger I find it a bit awkward compared to others. My social circles don’t throw around black men and white women during a conversation. We just say man and woman , it puts me off when someone says they find someone attractive by their race.
Which makes it odd that you have watermelon as part of your user name
Where are you trying to go with that ?
I was eating a watermelon and I’m a fan of fitness. So I put the two together for my username.
Are you really not aware of the racial overtones of watermelon when referring to a black person ?
I just wanted you to confirm what you were getting at.
I made a username without having any thought of that. If I wasn’t black and had the same username , would you of thought to point that out ?
It’s actions like this that I find weird.
Of course I wouldn't have thought like that if you weren't black. . But you made a point of how you and your friends don't see people by their colour and I pointed out that your username specifically had black overtones."
It came across to me that he and his friend don’t discuss the black and white dimension of attraction. Just men and women.
Everyone ‘sees’ skin colour. It’s what first impression you see due to that that makes the difference and much of that is down to life experience as little children see it no differently to fat, thin, tall etc. It’s just something to notice with no preconception. |
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Everyone has their kinks, and for some fetishizing black men with bigger cocks than maybe their white husband has is one of them.
If the couple isnt looking for you OP then move on to the next who might be looking for someone just like you. |
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"To be honest , I tend to get a bit confused when I see post like these.
Maybe the way it’s put it how the comments come across.
The site is predominantly white and quite a few people support interracial sex while others want to explore their taboo.
Maybe because I’m younger I find it a bit awkward compared to others. My social circles don’t throw around black men and white women during a conversation. We just say man and woman , it puts me off when someone says they find someone attractive by their race.
Which makes it odd that you have watermelon as part of your user name
Where are you trying to go with that ?
I was eating a watermelon and I’m a fan of fitness. So I put the two together for my username.
Are you really not aware of the racial overtones of watermelon when referring to a black person ?
I just wanted you to confirm what you were getting at.
I made a username without having any thought of that. If I wasn’t black and had the same username , would you of thought to point that out ?
It’s actions like this that I find weird.
Of course I wouldn't have thought like that if you weren't black. . But you made a point of how you and your friends don't see people by their colour and I pointed out that your username specifically had black overtones."
Correct , my social circle are all from different backgrounds. Have experienced racism and don’t judge people by their race. It’s the people that are familiar with the use of the word and match it to my race that I have an issue with
But it’s the internet and people are allowed to voice their opinions |
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Maybe because I’m younger I find it a bit awkward compared to others. My social circles don’t throw around black men and white women during a conversation. We just say man and woman , it puts me off when someone says they find someone attractive by their race.
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That is a good point.
Race play is definitely a generational thing.
Younger people are definitely more colour blind now than they were even 20yrs ago.
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"I see this mostly with couples which makes me think it's more the husbands fantasy than woman.
What do the rest of you reckon? "
Well, I've always thought it best not to make sweeping generalisations. I personally know of women who were attracted to black guys and used to go to
particular nightclubs specifically to hook up with black guys. |
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I have a slim blonde as my partner, when I swing I fancy something different.
So does she. In the same way I like the look of red heads also, she also likes darker skin tones and enjoys the occasional BBC for fun (plus the extra 2” is a preference also!!)
Let’s not make it into anything more than it needs to be in an overly woke world. Stating BBC as a preference on Fab can be nothing more than thinning down potential playmates |
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Maybe they have joined fab so they can have a bit of variety and are specifically looking for someone different from their partner.
Oh and I know quite a few single white females who would not say no to Idris Elba |
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"I see this mostly with couples which makes me think it's more the husbands fantasy than woman.
What do the rest of you reckon?
Why should they be married to a black man?
If you lined up everyone you'd ever fucked would it be like a Robert Palmer video?
Well if their preference. I love black women more than white or Asian in general and I would date them and all if I had the chance, not just fuck them because of a different skin tone.
I don't know I haven't seen Robert palmer "
You're probably too young to remember him. 
He did a pop video with a load of women who were made up to look identical.
My point being, people are attracted to different things. They aren't always identical. |
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I’d never heard of the watermelon thing and had to google it. I would never have never had made that association.
As for ladies looking for well endowed black men then surely that’s up to them? If they’re not looking for you, don’t worry about it.
We’re not looking for clones of ourselves, how boring would that be? Or perhaps they’ve learned that by stating they only want BBC they prevent the thousands of average white men from messaging them.
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Why does it matter to you OP?
People, whether single or part of a couple, are entitled to have preferences. Your assumption that the female is just going along with things to please her man suggests that you either have little understanding of being part of a couple, or possibly that you have an antiquated view of women.
I've seen many people on here, male, female & couples, who are quite specific in what they are looking for & they have every right to do so. If you aren't what they are looking for then just accept that & move on.
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Honesty I don't think it's made by the couple it seems to be a man's thing. I mean you don't see many single women asking for bbc only.
I’d have to disagree with you on this one OP. There are numerous single women’s profiles on here who are looking for bbc only.
V"
Yeah and I bet most of them are part of a couple when you read the profile |
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"Everyone has their kinks, and for some fetishizing black men with bigger cocks than maybe their white husband has is one of them.
If the couple isnt looking for you OP then move on to the next who might be looking for someone just like you."
I'm not looking for a couple |
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"Why does the op care, I like woman but most of them on here want BBC, so hey ho life carries on regardless "
I don't realy care infact I find it very sexy white women having sex with black men but I see it mostly the man in the relationship wants it more. I'd like to see women who seek out bbc because they love it and not their husbands. |
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"Why does it matter to you OP?
People, whether single or part of a couple, are entitled to have preferences. Your assumption that the female is just going along with things to please her man suggests that you either have little understanding of being part of a couple, or possibly that you have an antiquated view of women.
I've seen many people on here, male, female & couples, who are quite specific in what they are looking for & they have every right to do so. If you aren't what they are looking for then just accept that & move on.
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You that as if it bothers me that they care not looking for me and that's not the case. I don't want to meet a couple. |
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"Why does the op care, I like woman but most of them on here want BBC, so hey ho life carries on regardless
I don't realy care infact I find it very sexy white women having sex with black men but I see it mostly the man in the relationship wants it more. I'd like to see women who seek out bbc because they love it and not their husbands. "
The woman I have known believe me are doing it for themselves.
Hubby has no complaints |
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"Why does the op care, I like woman but most of them on here want BBC, so hey ho life carries on regardless
I don't realy care infact I find it very sexy white women having sex with black men but I see it mostly the man in the relationship wants it more. I'd like to see women who seek out bbc because they love it and not their husbands.
The woman I have known believe me are doing it for themselves.
Hubby has no complaints "
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"Why does the op care, I like woman but most of them on here want BBC, so hey ho life carries on regardless
I don't realy care infact I find it very sexy white women having sex with black men but I see it mostly the man in the relationship wants it more. I'd like to see women who seek out bbc because they love it and not their husbands. "
.where do you see it's the man that wants it where his partner doesn't?
Where?
What guys are running the single female ,meet verified, profiles?
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"Everyone has their kinks, and for some fetishizing black men with bigger cocks than maybe their white husband has is one of them.
If the couple isnt looking for you OP then move on to the next who might be looking for someone just like you.
I'm not looking for a couple "
Then why the post bitching about couples looking for BBC's? |
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Growing up in my part of London there weren't many black or Asian men compared to white men.
I remember having a crush on an upper 6 black boy when I was lower 6 but he didn't notice me.
Maybe these women didn't meet a black man they wanted to marry.
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Thanks for your grown up response to this thread!
I agree, for my own part I'm a white woman, married to a black man (30yrs) but his skin colour is incidental to who he is.
As a student I dated black men, white men and an Asian guy who was lovely and none of them did I fetishise due to their colour, it just so happens I married a black man.
But back to your point about opportunity. To turn it round my hubby dated almost exclusively white women and in the past has been accused of fetishizing them, but it's not true.
Growing up in the 70's/80's his 'exposure' was almost exclusively to white people (minor public school, red brick university etc), so to have a black partner would mean having a dedication to going out and finding one which is as questionable as the obsession some people have with black men from a sexual perspective. |
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Honesty I don't think it's made by the couple it seems to be a man's thing. I mean you don't see many single women asking for bbc only.
I’d have to disagree with you on this one OP. There are numerous single women’s profiles on here who are looking for bbc only.
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Your just assuming here V.
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Honesty I don't think it's made by the couple it seems to be a man's thing. I mean you don't see many single women asking for bbc only.
I’d have to disagree with you on this one OP. There are numerous single women’s profiles on here who are looking for bbc only.
V
Your just assuming here V.
get some facts before you post"
Assuming?? The facts are there plain to see. I couldn’t care less if women want a multicoloured all singing all dancing cock. There are plenty of female profiles on here that request bbc. |
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Growing up in my part of London there weren't many black or Asian men compared to white men.
I remember having a crush on an upper 6 black boy when I was lower 6 but he didn't notice me.
Maybe these women didn't meet a black man they wanted to marry.
Thanks for your grown up response to this thread!
I agree, for my own part I'm a white woman, married to a black man (30yrs) but his skin colour is incidental to who he is.
As a student I dated black men, white men and an Asian guy who was lovely and none of them did I fetishise due to their colour, it just so happens I married a black man.
But back to your point about opportunity. To turn it round my hubby dated almost exclusively white women and in the past has been accused of fetishizing them, but it's not true.
Growing up in the 70's/80's his 'exposure' was almost exclusively to white people (minor public school, red brick university etc), so to have a black partner would mean having a dedication to going out and finding one which is as questionable as the obsession some people have with black men from a sexual perspective."
So true - I grew up in the 70's / 80's and the only other black people I knew were my dad and his side of the family who all lived either in the Caribbean or in London.
There were no black families where I grew up in the Home Counties - so I only had white boyfriends. |
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Yes the BBC fantasy is more my husband's. But it definitely turns me on because of how much it turns me on. For me a good body, mutual attraction and respect, similar interests (in the bedroom) are far more important than skin colour. But it's got to work for both of us ....it can be hard work finding someone to tick all those boxes. |
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Honesty I don't think it's made by the couple it seems to be a man's thing. I mean you don't see many single women asking for bbc only.
I’d have to disagree with you on this one OP. There are numerous single women’s profiles on here who are looking for bbc only.
V
Your just assuming here V.
get some facts before you post
Assuming?? The facts are there plain to see. I couldn’t care less if women want a multicoloured all singing all dancing cock. There are plenty of female profiles on here that request bbc."
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Growing up in my part of London there weren't many black or Asian men compared to white men.
I remember having a crush on an upper 6 black boy when I was lower 6 but he didn't notice me.
Maybe these women didn't meet a black man they wanted to marry.
Thanks for your grown up response to this thread!
I agree, for my own part I'm a white woman, married to a black man (30yrs) but his skin colour is incidental to who he is.
As a student I dated black men, white men and an Asian guy who was lovely and none of them did I fetishise due to their colour, it just so happens I married a black man.
But back to your point about opportunity. To turn it round my hubby dated almost exclusively white women and in the past has been accused of fetishizing them, but it's not true.
Growing up in the 70's/80's his 'exposure' was almost exclusively to white people (minor public school, red brick university etc), so to have a black partner would mean having a dedication to going out and finding one which is as questionable as the obsession some people have with black men from a sexual perspective.
So true - I grew up in the 70's / 80's and the only other black people I knew were my dad and his side of the family who all lived either in the Caribbean or in London.
There were no black families where I grew up in the Home Counties - so I only had white boyfriends."
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Honesty I don't think it's made by the couple it seems to be a man's thing. I mean you don't see many single women asking for bbc only.
I’d have to disagree with you on this one OP. There are numerous single women’s profiles on here who are looking for bbc only.
V
Your just assuming here V.
get some facts before you post
Assuming?? The facts are there plain to see. I couldn’t care less if women want a multicoloured all singing all dancing cock. There are plenty of female profiles on here that request bbc."
You posted an assumption, _ased on what _ases are you quantifying "numerous"? I doubt you checked anything. |
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Honesty I don't think it's made by the couple it seems to be a man's thing. I mean you don't see many single women asking for bbc only.
I’d have to disagree with you on this one OP. There are numerous single women’s profiles on here who are looking for bbc only.
V
Your just assuming here V.
get some facts before you post
Assuming?? The facts are there plain to see. I couldn’t care less if women want a multicoloured all singing all dancing cock. There are plenty of female profiles on here that request bbc.
You posted an assumption, _ased on what _ases are you quantifying "numerous"? I doubt you checked anything. "
I've seen several single female profiles specifically looking for BBC. I've not felt the need to keep a tally of exactly how many, but they are certainly out there.
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Honesty I don't think it's made by the couple it seems to be a man's thing. I mean you don't see many single women asking for bbc only.
I’d have to disagree with you on this one OP. There are numerous single women’s profiles on here who are looking for bbc only.
V
Your just assuming here V.
get some facts before you post
Assuming?? The facts are there plain to see. I couldn’t care less if women want a multicoloured all singing all dancing cock. There are plenty of female profiles on here that request bbc. "
If there were 2 women's profiles in here wanting bbc, then that can be interpreted as "numerous" it isn't rocket science ffs.
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Honesty I don't think it's made by the couple it seems to be a man's thing. I mean you don't see many single women asking for bbc only.
I’d have to disagree with you on this one OP. There are numerous single women’s profiles on here who are looking for bbc only.
V
Your just assuming here V.
get some facts before you post
Assuming?? The facts are there plain to see. I couldn’t care less if women want a multicoloured all singing all dancing cock. There are plenty of female profiles on here that request bbc.
If there were 2 women's profiles in here wanting bbc, then that can be interpreted as "numerous" it isn't rocket science ffs.
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Honesty I don't think it's made by the couple it seems to be a man's thing. I mean you don't see many single women asking for bbc only.
I’d have to disagree with you on this one OP. There are numerous single women’s profiles on here who are looking for bbc only.
V
Your just assuming here V.
get some facts before you post
Assuming?? The facts are there plain to see. I couldn’t care less if women want a multicoloured all singing all dancing cock. There are plenty of female profiles on here that request bbc.
If there were 2 women's profiles in here wanting bbc, then that can be interpreted as "numerous" it isn't rocket science ffs.
What’s your problem? Why the aggression? "
Btw, do a forum search on “Queen of Spades” It might just show you how many women are looking for bbc. |
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"I see this mostly with couples which makes me think it's more the husbands fantasy than woman.
What do the rest of you reckon? "
It’s normal to desire something you don’t have...so each to their own.
I’ve no issues with it. I’m sure if a black lady said white cock only that would be ok with you though?! |
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I've seen several single female profiles specifically looking for BBC. I've not felt the need to keep a tally of exactly how many, but they are certainly out there.
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Honesty I don't think it's made by the couple it seems to be a man's thing. I mean you don't see many single women asking for bbc only.
I’d have to disagree with you on this one OP. There are numerous single women’s profiles on here who are looking for bbc only.
V
Your just assuming here V.
get some facts before you post
Assuming?? The facts are there plain to see. I couldn’t care less if women want a multicoloured all singing all dancing cock. There are plenty of female profiles on here that request bbc.
If there were 2 women's profiles in here wanting bbc, then that can be interpreted as "numerous" it isn't rocket science ffs.
What’s your problem? Why the aggression? "
Moi? All I'm saying is you're posting statements as if they're fact, using a generalisation. "numerous" meaning great in number wwhen you don't really know.
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"If you had chips every day wouldn't you want a jacket potato now and then?
They want it all the time..
I only want bbc.. Only bbc need apply.. If you are white don't message me.. I can't say this enough black men only!!!
On and on and on like that.. Well ffs go and marry a black man and be done with it
You didn't understand what I was saying.
Chips is the white husband, jacket taters are the black men.
What are potato waffles then ? "
Waffly versatile! |
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I've seen several single female profiles specifically looking for BBC. I've not felt the need to keep a tally of exactly how many, but they are certainly out there.
Thank you."
But.. Are they numerous? |
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I've seen several single female profiles specifically looking for BBC. I've not felt the need to keep a tally of exactly how many, but they are certainly out there.
Thank you.
But.. Are they numerous? "
It’s not important to anyone but you |
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Honesty I don't think it's made by the couple it seems to be a man's thing. I mean you don't see many single women asking for bbc only.
I’d have to disagree with you on this one OP. There are numerous single women’s profiles on here who are looking for bbc only.
V
Your just assuming here V.
get some facts before you post
Assuming?? The facts are there plain to see. I couldn’t care less if women want a multicoloured all singing all dancing cock. There are plenty of female profiles on here that request bbc.
If there were 2 women's profiles in here wanting bbc, then that can be interpreted as "numerous" it isn't rocket science ffs.
What’s your problem? Why the aggression?
Moi? All I'm saying is you're posting statements as if they're fact, using a generalisation. "numerous" meaning great in number wwhen you don't really know.
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Ah, I see what this is about!
Let’s just leave it here.
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I've seen several single female profiles specifically looking for BBC. I've not felt the need to keep a tally of exactly how many, but they are certainly out there.
Thank you.
But.. Are they numerous?
It’s not important to anyone but you"
... And anyone else who doesn't accept waffle as a retort is adequate. We are [numerous] |
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"Always find it interesting on here how people have such strong opinions on the preferences of others. "
Me too, I like what I like. Some are the same, others not. No ones the same and I’m not a fan of negative opinions towards others desires or preferences |
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As a blackman I see so many couple profiles saying no blacks, no Asians, should I have an issue. I also see interracial couples with a white man and black woman, and to which the profile says no blacks, should I cry. Where do I fit?
Ain't got a 10 inch cock, so that white couples looking for bbc won't want me, and the profiles who assume that I have a 10inch cock will pass me by cause they think I will hurt.
Where do I go? Lol. Popcorn time. |
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"As a blackman I see so many couple profiles saying no blacks, no Asians, should I have an issue. I also see interracial couples with a white man and black woman, and to which the profile says no blacks, should I cry. Where do I fit?
Ain't got a 10 inch cock, so that white couples looking for bbc won't want me, and the profiles who assume that I have a 10inch cock will pass me by cause they think I will hurt.
Where do I go? Lol. Popcorn time. "
Well your info is there on yer profile, except for your cock i think, i don't fe3l comfortable reading guys profiles lol. Their problem if they judge you |
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"If you had chips every day wouldn't you want a jacket potato now and then?
They want it all the time..
I only want bbc.. Only bbc need apply.. If you are white don't message me.. I can't say this enough black men only!!!
On and on and on like that.. Well ffs go and marry a black man and be done with it
You didn't understand what I was saying.
Chips is the white husband, jacket taters are the black men.
What are potato waffles then ?
Waffly versatile! "
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I am not looking to meet men because I don't need what I already have.
I guess it's similar for them. Why meeting white men if you can have something else than what you're used to. And if black men are happy to meet them I don't see an issue.
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Btw, do a forum search on “Queen of Spades” It might just show you how many women are looking for bbc."
Queen of Spades?
An apparently succinct porn derived play on words without any subtlety or appreciation of a derogatory term used historically to describe black people. |
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Btw, do a forum search on “Queen of Spades” It might just show you how many women are looking for bbc.
Queen of Spades?
An apparently succinct porn derived play on words without any subtlety or appreciation of a derogatory term used historically to describe black people. "
I believe so. There are many forum threads on the matter. |
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"If couples want to seek out a black guy, as hes different to what they have at home, whats the harm?"
This is certainly the case with us, and we also agree that:
"If black guys are happy to join couples for fun, then whats the harm?"
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"Does it matter?
What does it not matter if the woman does what she likes? "
Actually I think it's a very good question as undoubtedly there are and have been women on the swinging scene who are only participating forhubby/boyfriends needs. And many of us aren't but for the ones who are...good question,and yes could be looked at as a touchy subject but shouldn't be |
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