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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I personally find kissing to me the most intimate thing whether during sex or just on a date. I've noticed over the years the art of kissing has died out, people just want a "wham bam thank you mam" sort of meet. Sex has become soleless and disposable, sort of like a ready meal fuck.
I could count the amount of good Bjs I've received on 1 hand and have fingers to spare. What ever happend to getting to know your partner? I mean even if it's a casual thing or a FWB situation. Don't people meet for socials and get a feel for each other? Discuss sex and what they find erotic?,
At 35 am I an old head? Have I turned into those grumpy old people who say "back in my day....." |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I'm on a few dating sites and girls don't seem to be that into it. They like kissing sure but they don't seem invested in a kiss if you know what i mean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You will be in the majority here, loads of people love kissing , and say it's a deal breaker for them if someone doesn't like to kiss."
I agree 100% deal breaker for me xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like to kiss but for me it's not the most important thing. For me it's touch, being embraced, our hands caressing and exploring each other. Using my lips to kiss his neck and chest, and him mine. That turns me on so much, more than just standard kissing, but that doesn't mean I like it rushed and impersonal either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I personally find kissing to me the most intimate thing whether during sex or just on a date. I've noticed over the years the art of kissing has died out, people just want a "wham bam thank you mam" sort of meet. Sex has become soleless and disposable, sort of like a ready meal fuck.
I could count the amount of good Bjs I've received on 1 hand and have fingers to spare. What ever happend to getting to know your partner? I mean even if it's a casual thing or a FWB situation. Don't people meet for socials and get a feel for each other? Discuss sex and what they find erotic?,
At 35 am I an old head? Have I turned into those grumpy old people who say "back in my day....." "
Sex without love is an empty and soul less experience.
But as empty soul less experiences go' its got to be one of the best! |
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"I like to kiss but for me it's not the most important thing. For me it's touch, being embraced, our hands caressing and exploring each other. Using my lips to kiss his neck and chest, and him mine. That turns me on so much, more than just standard kissing, but that doesn't mean I like it rushed and impersonal either."
Love this is so insite full for use guys but I do love a deep passionate kiss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Love to kiss during sex not a deal breaker if someone doesn’t like to know some couples over the years that it was definitely a no no
I always ask before hand nothing worse then going for me mid way and have them pull back and ends the meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Nah for me if my partner doesn't kiss i can't sexually connect. When i go on dates i determine if i want to see them purely on the first kiss (whether 1st date or 2nd) if the kiss is dead then I'll know she isn't on my wavelength sexually so i can't see her again.
A good kiss is everything and sets the whole mood and tempo for me. I've met a couple of women on here and they weren't big on kissing hense only met once. Guess i was naive at the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I personally find kissing to me the most intimate thing whether during sex or just on a date. I've noticed over the years the art of kissing has died out, people just want a "wham bam thank you mam" sort of meet. Sex has become soleless and disposable, sort of like a ready meal fuck.
I could count the amount of good Bjs I've received on 1 hand and have fingers to spare. What ever happend to getting to know your partner? I mean even if it's a casual thing or a FWB situation. Don't people meet for socials and get a feel for each other? Discuss sex and what they find erotic?,
At 35 am I an old head? Have I turned into those grumpy old people who say "back in my day....."
Sex without love is an empty and soul less experience.
But as empty soul less experiences go' its got to be one of the best!"
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"I personally find kissing to me the most intimate thing whether during sex or just on a date. I've noticed over the years the art of kissing has died out, people just want a "wham bam thank you mam" sort of meet. Sex has become soleless and disposable, sort of like a ready meal fuck.
I could count the amount of good Bjs I've received on 1 hand and have fingers to spare. What ever happend to getting to know your partner? I mean even if it's a casual thing or a FWB situation. Don't people meet for socials and get a feel for each other? Discuss sex and what they find erotic?,
At 35 am I an old head? Have I turned into those grumpy old people who say "back in my day....." "
We meet for socials, get a feel for our prospective partners and discuss our likes and dislikes but we don't kiss them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I personally find kissing to me the most intimate thing whether during sex or just on a date. I've noticed over the years the art of kissing has died out, people just want a "wham bam thank you mam" sort of meet. Sex has become soleless and disposable, sort of like a ready meal fuck.
I could count the amount of good Bjs I've received on 1 hand and have fingers to spare. What ever happend to getting to know your partner? I mean even if it's a casual thing or a FWB situation. Don't people meet for socials and get a feel for each other? Discuss sex and what they find erotic?,
At 35 am I an old head? Have I turned into those grumpy old people who say "back in my day....." "
Totally agree. Kissing before , during and after sex is a winner every time |
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"Nah for me if my partner doesn't kiss i can't sexually connect. When i go on dates i determine if i want to see them purely on the first kiss (whether 1st date or 2nd) if the kiss is dead then I'll know she isn't on my wavelength sexually so i can't see her again.
A good kiss is everything and sets the whole mood and tempo for me. I've met a couple of women on here and they weren't big on kissing hense only met once. Guess i was naive at the time. "
Totally agree with this. Everything for me is determined by kissing!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've only spoken to one man on here who didn't kiss. He didn't give oral either so I wondered if he was just after a suck and fuck, which I don't want.
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Probably was.
I won't name names but i went on a social with someone off here and we had a drink sat at the table. She was talking about her oral skills and it got me hot, really wanted to test her skills haha. After the date went in for a kiss and smelled a bit of bad breath so made a swift B-line to her cheek. Now most guys would just meet her and not kiss and just get a bj and sex but for me that's not an option. Its so important. Sex is about quality not quantity for me but each to their own. Someome people have crazy meets on here. I rather keep it fewer but better |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I get compliments on my kissing skills! 
I'm totally into kissing. No kissing = no connection, no connection = no sex. I could kiss for hours. "
Everyone says that haha. 1 thing guys do is lie to women about their kissing and BJ skills. Its because they want more when when they are in a drought.
But i totally get you. I have a fetish for it. I could do a just kissing meet and not even have sex |
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I’ve got to be honest for myself I find that kissing is the best part and I’m the same op i feel like I’m old fashioned. I would rather get to know someone a bit and enjoy a kiss than a wham bam session as it feels empty and soulless. |
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