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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you feel obligated or under pressure to accommodate meets? (Please draw on pre covid experiences or plans for post covid, as no one was meeting during the pandemic?! )
But yes do you feel its always down to you to host? Do any men prefer not to have randoms in their home and opt for hotels or club only. Im curious.....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not in the slightest, and if that were felt the meet wouldn't be happening.
All of my non-social meets have been in a hotel or club with all costs shared equally between us."
I’d say thats fair! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No not at all. I like my privacy and more than fine with booking a hotel, but having strangers in my homes a no no. If it became a regular meet then yes id be fine with having them round. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think this is another part of the difficulties for single guys on Fab.
Not accommodating, which could be for any number of valid reasons often leads to the rolling eye emoji and an assumption they are married. |
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My private and fab life are completely seperate entities and private is how i would like to keep it; i have family and friends who would not understand my life choice...
As in real life, Fab too has its share of loony loony nut jobs, present company excluded.
Im not talking about those that suffer from mental health issues but those who are just a bit strange or become overly possessive..
I have met a few people on Fab who seemed ok initially when chatting and fortunately, i always insist on meeting socially first as i would not trust them not to turn up at my doorstep after i met them face to face..
Mutual environments are definitely the best place to meet, whether hotel, club or outdoors..
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