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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cheeky one this is
But how many sexual partners have you had ?
I know someone in the industry she's passed 400 and it got me thinking mine must be around the 100 mark
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheeky one this is
But how many sexual partners have you had ?
I know someone in the industry she's passed 400 and it got me thinking mine must be around the 100 mark
Not that many lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheeky one this is
But how many sexual partners have you had ?
I know someone in the industry she's passed 400 and it got me thinking mine must be around the 100 mark
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But are you happy?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cant image id ever reach 400 lol "
Depends on your lifestyle, if you're just after a couple of FWBs and the occasional meet yes.
If you prefer one offs and have one or two meets a week that's 50-100 a year. A handful of club events, parties, gangbangs etc. a year can be 5-20 at a time. So another 25-100 a year. It doesn't take many years on the scene to get into solid triple figures. A few more years for potentially 4 figures. I've spoken to a few women on here in 4 figures and one at around 4000. Xx |
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"My wife’s 53 and had 1, boring lol."
It doesn’t make her boring at all! Would you rather she had had 400+ cocks? If she likes sex every day of the week with you, over one year that is 365 times. Would you prefer if that had been 365 different guys?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife’s 53 and had 1, boring lol.
It doesn’t make her boring at all! Would you rather she had had 400+ cocks? If she likes sex every day of the week with you, over one year that is 365 times. Would you prefer if that had been 365 different guys? "
Where did I say over 400 |
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"My wife’s 53 and had 1, boring lol.
It doesn’t make her boring at all! Would you rather she had had 400+ cocks? If she likes sex every day of the week with you, over one year that is 365 times. Would you prefer if that had been 365 different guys?
Where did I say over 400"
You didn’t, I posed the question would you rather she had over 400, as opposed to your classification of ‘boring’ for only having the one lover  |
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"I was thinking about posting this exact same question last night!
I stopped counting at 40 when I was in my teens. I genuinely have no idea now. I was trying to work it out last night.   "
Wow! 40 in your teens? That's impressive! |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
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I would say 40. Including 6 long term relationships.
The rest I would say 10 were women and couples I met regularly and the result were encounters in parties or single encounters
I dont kid myself that as a mux race deaf guy I am everyone's cup of tea. However those that I do meet tend to be more than once.
So I would say in my favour its quantity over quality |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you've had more than 20 as a woman and more than 40 as a man then you're one of life's losers.
Never satisfied,greedy and so shallow you wouldnt need a rubber ring near you if you were a swimming pool.
I'm on 39.
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IF we're talking about penetration, I'm quite picky and the number is 31. I can even remember the name of every single one - at least the name they gave me.
If we include oral....no clue....there were times when I'd wear myself out to the point of a cut tongue frenulum and dehydration giving cunnilingus at parties.
My regular partners down the years are an interesting bunch. One worked as an escort and had several hundred men before we got together and easily another hundred while we were an item. I don't date monogamous women so they've all had sex with other people. |
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By *had0wMan
over a year ago
Southampton |
"Cheeky one this is
But how many sexual partners have you had ?
I know someone in the industry she's passed 400 and it got me thinking mine must be around the 100 mark
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"Industry"??? Are you a hooker or something? |
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By *had0wMan
over a year ago
Southampton |
"Cheeky one this is
But how many sexual partners have you had ?
I know someone in the industry she's passed 400 and it got me thinking mine must be around the 100 mark
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But to answer your question..... less than 30 |
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I am pretty sure this will put people off however only 6 for me.
I have however tried most things but always 1 on 1 and I do have a very vivid imagination and am willing to try anything Once.
Hopefully that's not too much of a bad thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am pretty sure this will put people off however only 6 for me.
I have however tried most things but always 1 on 1 and I do have a very vivid imagination and am willing to try anything Once.
Hopefully that's not too much of a bad thing "
Definitely not a bad thing, since less is more if we are to consider having had meaningful, blissful long lasting relationship with someone special as opposed to 100’s of meaningless flings. |
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"I am pretty sure this will put people off however only 6 for me.
I have however tried most things but always 1 on 1 and I do have a very vivid imagination and am willing to try anything Once.
Hopefully that's not too much of a bad thing
Definitely not a bad thing, since less is more if we are to consider having had meaningful, blissful long lasting relationship with someone special as opposed to 100’s of meaningless flings. "
Exactly that however I would imagine that the majority of people aren't looking for that here.
The people I make contact with generally ask for experienced play partners which is a shame. |
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"I was thinking about posting this exact same question last night!
I stopped counting at 40 when I was in my teens. I genuinely have no idea now. I was trying to work it out last night.
Wow! 40 in your teens? That's impressive! "
Depends which way you look at it I suppose! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was thinking about posting this exact same question last night!
I stopped counting at 40 when I was in my teens. I genuinely have no idea now. I was trying to work it out last night.
Wow! 40 in your teens? That's impressive!
Depends which way you look at it I suppose! "
I wouldn't say 40 in your teens is that unusual? Xx |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
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"I was thinking about posting this exact same question last night!
I stopped counting at 40 when I was in my teens. I genuinely have no idea now. I was trying to work it out last night.
Nothing wrong with that. You just have a high sex drive.
Wow! 40 in your teens? That's impressive!
Depends which way you look at it I suppose!
I wouldn't say 40 in your teens is that unusual? Xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am pretty sure this will put people off however only 6 for me.
I have however tried most things but always 1 on 1 and I do have a very vivid imagination and am willing to try anything Once.
Hopefully that's not too much of a bad thing
Definitely not a bad thing, since less is more if we are to consider having had meaningful, blissful long lasting relationship with someone special as opposed to 100’s of meaningless flings.
Exactly that however I would imagine that the majority of people aren't looking for that here.
The people I make contact with generally ask for experienced play partners which is a shame. "
We shouldn’t need to look for it, but to simply allow it to happen (what’s meant to be will be). Have met a few so called experts who’ve been anything but, and they’ve not managed to last more than 15-30mins. Better of not meeting individuals who insist on wanting experienced play partners (is their loss). Just be you and in the mindset of having nsa mutual fun, allowing the chemistry to happen without the need to build-up any expectations beforehand. If you’re this nice person then you are already an expert. |
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I do enjoy and am certainly not intimidated by women with lots of sexual experience. But I've had great fun with women who have only had a few partners.
I certainly enjoy the "naughtiness" of a woman in triple figures or higher, but that's just one (relatively small) factor in deciding who I'll play with. Hitting it off and just finding each other attractive is more important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheeky one this is
But how many sexual partners have you had ?
I know someone in the industry she's passed 400 and it got me thinking mine must be around the 100 mark
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400 isn't many. Unless she's 18 and then she's been busy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cheeky one this is
But how many sexual partners have you had ?
I know someone in the industry she's passed 400 and it got me thinking mine must be around the 100 mark
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Numbers mean nothing - I only remember people who I have had important relationships with - it’s a small number. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you've had more than 20 as a woman and more than 40 as a man then you're one of life's losers.
Never satisfied,greedy and so shallow you wouldnt need a rubber ring near you if you were a swimming pool.
I'm on 39.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cheeky one this is
But how many sexual partners have you had ?
I know someone in the industry she's passed 400 and it got me thinking mine must be around the 100 mark
"Industry"??? Are you a hooker or something?"
I do caming sometimes but I know many escorts girls that work on babestation in porn and stuff so industry girls |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont know.
I dont care.
I love love and love sex 
At a wild guess, between 150-200 in 16 sexually active years "
This includes females for the record which would make up about 30-40 I recon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cant image id ever reach 400 lol
Depends on your lifestyle, if you're just after a couple of FWBs and the occasional meet yes.
If you prefer one offs and have one or two meets a week that's 50-100 a year. A handful of club events, parties, gangbangs etc. a year can be 5-20 at a time. So another 25-100 a year. It doesn't take many years on the scene to get into solid triple figures. A few more years for potentially 4 figures. I've spoken to a few women on here in 4 figures and one at around 4000. Xx"
I can’t believe some would have 4000! Can’t even imagine it haha |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"Cheeky one this is
But how many sexual partners have you had ?
I know someone in the industry she's passed 400 and it got me thinking mine must be around the 100 mark
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10+ years escorting while I was at uni
20 years on the BDSM / swinging scenes.
I stopped counting many many many years ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For full, penetrative sex? Just 1. I’ve been with my husband since I was a teenager. But we’re open to changing that now, hence being on here.
Lou x "
Good for you. Great to hear couples who are long life lovers |
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"Embarrassed to admit that I’ve kept count, but currently at 63
What's embarrassing about that?
Just not very ‘cool’ to count, is it. "
Count and be proud, the sooner we stop stigmatising 'numbers' the better. |
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Count and be proud, the sooner we stop stigmatising 'numbers' the better."
The whole Madonna/whore dichotomy for women is awful. Then we add to that by saying a man who's had lots of partners is a stud, and that's somehow good.
While it's perfectly OK to talk about numbers of sex partners, it ultimately says nothing about the person's value as a human being. |
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