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First time at Killing Kittens party
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey so a cougar fuck buddy of mine has invited me to a Killing Kittens party when the club's open again and I'm torn. In my mind I think it'll be really hot but on the other I'm of an anxious disposition and struggle to get aroused when I feel that way. Any advice on relaxing and having a good time? Will I be the youngest one there? I'm not a tall guy either at only 5'3" so I feel like I might be a bit out of place... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol that's what I thought when I first heard about it but apparently it's this big worldwide community run by women for all sorts of sexual exploration...men can only join if they're invited by one of the members |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey Buxom, yeah I've been quite fortunate in that myself and her get on quite well in general. We both have other partners but I think for her I'm the only one she's actually proper friends with...guess that's the bonus I get for actually getting to know people I sleep with haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol that's what I thought when I first heard about it but apparently it's this big worldwide community run by women for all sorts of sexual exploration...men can only join if they're invited by one of the members "
Really? I didnt know that
I thought it was just like any other club, anyone can apply to join, but they reject alot of people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t think you would be the youngest just go along and see have a good time someone has invited you like buxom has said you must have something going for you look forward to it don’t over think things too much  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Don't all attendees have to be "approved" by the club and they have a reputation for only accepting a certain "type"? If so, even if they'd have me, which they wouldn't - it wouldn't be a club I'd want to attend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't all attendees have to be "approved" by the club and they have a reputation for only accepting a certain "type"? If so, even if they'd have me, which they wouldn't - it wouldn't be a club I'd want to attend."
I agree |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I wouldn't go. Any club that only allows people they deem attractive enough to be worthy is a bit naff. I like to meet a range of folk whom I might decide I fancy, rather than have it decided for me.  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Don't overthink it. I've been to a very similar club night and I remember right to the point of me going inside I was so convinced the organiser would say hang on, no, you can't go in, you don't fit the bill. It didn't happen. 
On the day itself, even in the run up to it, do things that have you feeling yourself - whether that's a haircut, a good shave, a nice long soak in the bath so your skin is ever so soft to the touch. On the night, don't drink too much, enjoy it and don't have any expectations about anything. Enjoy it for what it is, a chance to get dressed up and have fun.
Next time I go I'm going to stop overthinking as much and talk to people who try and flirt with me and not think I'm fraud.
So tl; dr? Pamper the beep out of yourself and don't overthink it. |
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"Hey so a cougar fuck buddy of mine has invited me to a Killing Kittens party when the club's open again and I'm torn. In my mind I think it'll be really hot but on the other I'm of an anxious disposition and struggle to get aroused when I feel that way. Any advice on relaxing and having a good time? Will I be the youngest one there? I'm not a tall guy either at only 5'3" so I feel like I might be a bit out of place..."
Go for it.... Enjoy it... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh is that what it is huh they discriminate on looks? I thought it might be based on what you're into or your ethics or something. That does sound a bit naff...I've enjoyed the company of women of all shapes sizes and ages and each one was special in their own way. I love the diversity in which we live I wouldn't wanna go somewhere that discourages that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh is that what it is huh they discriminate on looks? I thought it might be based on what you're into or your ethics or something. That does sound a bit naff...I've enjoyed the company of women of all shapes sizes and ages and each one was special in their own way. I love the diversity in which we live I wouldn't wanna go somewhere that discourages that"
Rumour has it, yes
That they only accept the beautiful ones |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ugh that's disgusting conduct...their website makes it sounds like they're empowering women but how does that work it they're not letting women join who don't look a certain way?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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God here we go again... First off killing kittens is not a club, it’s a community or organization that arranges parties, workshops and events. You OP actually have to be a member of killing kittens to attend a party. But if you aren’t in a couple then only women can invite men to go to parties. Exactly the same as clubs limiting the numbers of single guys to keep the balance. You would not be the youngest, they don’t vet people on looks... they have moved on 10 years later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive been to a fair few when i lived in london with my playmate, theyre great, no pressure, unsleezy & chilled.
If you get a invite dress to impress and have a good time it lead to some amazing mansion partys. id go to another in a heartbeat and plan too.  |
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Elitist nonsense.
The thing we have always liked about swinging is the all inclusive nature, everyone big or small, black or white or other.
Gender, look's...
Every club we have been too caters for all sorts and a club night is like box of chocolates a good mixture.
Any club that is so selective that you are pre judged on age ,size and looks is very Logan's run.
Naaa it's a pass from us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go and see for yourself. And enjoy. I wouldn't listen to advice from anyone (and especially those who haven't actually experienced it for themselves) as I like to make my own mind up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Damn seems like there's very polarised views about this place"
All i can say is listen to people that have been. All this about it being 'elitist'  you get people from all walks of life all ethnicities and strives of life.
I find kk parties cleaner and a much nicer safer setting.
What you dont get is suspect singles frantically frapping off a inch behind you stinking of fags and b o.
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"Hey so a cougar fuck buddy of mine has invited me to a Killing Kittens party when the club's open again and I'm torn. In my mind I think it'll be really hot but on the other I'm of an anxious disposition and struggle to get aroused when I feel that way. Any advice on relaxing and having a good time? Will I be the youngest one there? I'm not a tall guy either at only 5'3" so I feel like I might be a bit out of place..."
Go for it...you may surprise yourself ..not everybody gets the opportunity |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ew yeah Gatsby that sounds disgusting, have people no manners "
Im not saying all clubs are like this by any means but ive been to 3 'walk in' clubs and it wasnt our gig whatso ever |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ew yeah Gatsby that sounds disgusting, have people no manners
Im not saying all clubs are like this by any means but ive been to 3 'walk in' clubs and it wasnt our gig whatso ever "
Yeah I guess that applies to all things doesn't it, always a range on the market haha |
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"Damn seems like there's very polarised views about this place
All i can say is listen to people that have been. All this about it being 'elitist' you get people from all walks of life all ethnicities and strives of life.
I find kk parties cleaner and a much nicer safer setting.
What you dont get is suspect singles frantically frapping off a inch behind you stinking of fags and b o.
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It seems that have actually been have enjoyed them. And those that have not been have the opposite opinion. Go along op if you get a chance. Then you'll know for yourself. You'll be unlucky if you don't enjoy yourself. |
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