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Can someone tell me what I'm doing wrong
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Men often struggle on Fab. It's not impossible, but it can be hard to get a conversation going.
Things are different/ potentially more difficult due to the pandemic.
Think about whether your profile (text, pictures) and messages present you in your best and most appealing light, and be sure to consider the wishes of the people you're messaging by reading and respecting their profiles. |
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There are thousands of guys sitting around hoping for a message or some interest in them, by the very few women on the site.
This is your second time you’ve posted on the forums, so maybe post some more so your profile is seen. But ensure your profile is the best it can be as well.
COVID isn’t helping as not many people even fancy chatting either, so the site is a lot quieter than it was 18 months ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi Op. Looking at your Friends list with Kitty and Posh Totty on it, I would say you are doing fairly well. Go in the chat rooms or chat in the Forums, that might help and remember, people aren't meeting and haven't been active for a long time because of Covid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even in normal times, most men really struggle on here.
It's not just lack of meeting at the moment - I find that people are feeling burned out and depressed and just aren't talking so much.
Check your profile and pictures to see what impression you are giving off. Also ask yourself honestly what type of messages you are sending. Do you stand out? |
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"Hi can anyone help me please I'm been on here 6 weeks and only 5 people have talked to me. What am I doing wrong? Help please"
If you've had five conversations in six weeks I don't think you have any idea how bloody well you are doing. You must be doing something right. You should be encouraged by that a keep improving. |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
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"Hi can anyone help me please I'm been on here 6 weeks and only 5 people have talked to me. What am I doing wrong? Help please
If you've had five conversations in six weeks I don't think you have any idea how bloody well you are doing. You must be doing something right. You should be encouraged by that a keep improving."
Yup, I don't think I've had five conversations in six months never mind six weeks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi can anyone help me please I'm been on here 6 weeks and only 5 people have talked to me. What am I doing wrong? Help please"
same here bud! Taken all the right steps... to become a member etc but very few views or conversation, does make you feel your not good enough.
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