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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, and my profile clearly states I wont accept random friend requests. I do leave them there for a week in the hope they will mesagae, other deleted and blocked as can't follow a simple request. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they’re offline, and if we want a quick perv at friend pics.. then maybe unfriend.
I have been known to do this from time to time."
Lol... aybe I'm missing a trick, i just delete all mine |
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"If they’re offline, and if we want a quick perv at friend pics.. then maybe unfriend.
I have been known to do this from time to time.
Lol... aybe I'm missing a trick, i just delete all mine"
If I wanna peep on the sly without them knowing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they’re offline, and if we want a quick perv at friend pics.. then maybe unfriend.
I have been known to do this from time to time.
Lol... aybe I'm missing a trick, i just delete all mine"
You might as well. If they’re rude enough to request without saying hey, you might as well look before rejecting. Unless they don’t have any or are not attractive, in which case it’s a block, then delete. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever actually accepted one from someone they have never chatted too??  "
Reading through the replies looks like most wouldn’t.
I would you always delete and block if required.
Maybe I’m too trusting..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I do. I imagine them with their cock in their hand ready to see some filth. They click on my Friends pics and see my finger in my pie.....
And then they quickly Unfriend me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would only accept them briefly when the sender is offline to peek at their pics and then remove them as a friend. Usually only cock pics anyway 
Her x"
That's the bit i don't get lol.. You know it's just cock, so why bother? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do then wait until they’re offline and have a peek at their profiles then remove them!  "
I do this often. Dont know why people bother sending me friends requests cause I've nae private pictures  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Its one of my fab pet peeves. And no, just because we chatter on the forum it doesn't mean you should send one without messaging.
* Quickly deletes request *  "
Can you do that? |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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No, never. My friends list is kept purely for people who I have met in person & actually consider to be friends, I say this on my profile, but of course most don't bother to read that
I don't delete requests though, just leave them sitting pending as it stops them being able to send another one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Its one of my fab pet peeves. And no, just because we chatter on the forum it doesn't mean you should send one without messaging.
* Quickly deletes request *
Can you do that?
No idea  "
I admit to doing it once when tipsy then being horrified about it. There was no way to delete it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never done it and deleted the odd one I've got but all of my private pics are my face.
I didn't think people set cock pictures to private  It seems the done thing on here to be balls out, dick in everyone's face.
That being said I hate having my cock as my profile picture. For comedy, yes. But other than that I much rather a body shot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never done it and deleted the odd one I've got but all of my private pics are my face.
I didn't think people set cock pictures to private It seems the done thing on here to be balls out, dick in everyone's face.
That being said I hate having my cock as my profile picture. For comedy, yes. But other than that I much rather a body shot."
It's a good comedy |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"I've never done it and deleted the odd one I've got but all of my private pics are my face.
I didn't think people set cock pictures to private It seems the done thing on here to be balls out, dick in everyone's face.
That being said I hate having my cock as my profile picture. For comedy, yes. But other than that I much rather a body shot."
Nah 2 things, really either they are using friends list as some kinda verifications, more friends etc.
But on our couples profile it was primarily picture hunters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never done it and deleted the odd one I've got but all of my private pics are my face.
I didn't think people set cock pictures to private It seems the done thing on here to be balls out, dick in everyone's face.
That being said I hate having my cock as my profile picture. For comedy, yes. But other than that I much rather a body shot.
It's a good comedy "
I've got a couple more in the pipeline just for you haha |
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"No. Its one of my fab pet peeves. And no, just because we chatter on the forum it doesn't mean you should send one without messaging.
* Quickly deletes request *
Can you do that?
No idea
I admit to doing it once when tipsy then being horrified about it. There was no way to delete it. "
Tip 1. Dr*nk and fab dont mix  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never done it and deleted the odd one I've got but all of my private pics are my face.
I didn't think people set cock pictures to private It seems the done thing on here to be balls out, dick in everyone's face.
That being said I hate having my cock as my profile picture. For comedy, yes. But other than that I much rather a body shot.
Nah 2 things, really either they are using friends list as some kinda verifications, more friends etc.
But on our couples profile it was primarily picture hunters"
That seems mad to me. Surely if you want pictures just google them? There's plenty of amateur porn out there if that's your thing..
There's nowt queer as folk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. If they cannot be arsed to make an effort to chat to us for a while before sending a request i cannot be arsed to add them as a friend. Do not understand their logic in sending a friend request without even attempting to chat. John |
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"was actually under the impression if you like the look of someone and want to be updated you added them as a friend.
I've now learnt the hard lesson of them not accepting my requests
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If your interest in someone a nice introductory message and a face pic is always going to get a more favourable response hun and read their profile as people sometimes as you to use a certain word in your message to prove you read the profile. That way you should get a response even if it’s a no thank you. At least you will know either way. Most folk just ignore or delete requests from someone they haven’t swapped a t least a few messages with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally depends on the profile sending it whether I’ll accept or not. Yes, it’s lazy to send a request without chatting, but it has led places in the past on my previous profiles.
Bear in mind I have men blocked, so the handful of unrequited requests I’d get in a year aren’t like the numbers women and couples would |
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"was actually under the impression if you like the look of someone and want to be updated you added them as a friend.
I've now learnt the hard lesson of them not accepting my requests
If your interest in someone a nice introductory message and a face pic is always going to get a more favourable response hun and read their profile as people sometimes as you to use a certain word in your message to prove you read the profile. That way you should get a response even if it’s a no thank you. At least you will know either way. Most folk just ignore or delete requests from someone they haven’t swapped a t least a few messages with. "
Its more they message me, or continue liking my pics so I give them an add and they don't accept.
Slightly confusing, but I'd never just randomly add |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"was actually under the impression if you like the look of someone and want to be updated you added them as a friend.
I've now learnt the hard lesson of them not accepting my requests
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Hotlist them instead and you can see their updates on that feed x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"was actually under the impression if you like the look of someone and want to be updated you added them as a friend.
I've now learnt the hard lesson of them not accepting my requests
Hotlist them instead and you can see their updates on that feed x"
Oooh, you be a crafty and sensible one.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. It deters me from wanting to know them. I think some gyys mix it up with adding you to their hotlist, with the added bonus of some extra photos for wank fodder "
I use my hotlist for this. If I want to chat and don't have a first message in my mind straight away I'll add someone to my hotlist. Or, if I know it's not going to happen (say geography wise) then I might add so I can have a little perv every now and again.
I only add people as friends if we've spoken for a while and I wouldn't feel awkward adding them.
In my head, my little litmus test is, if you wouldn't feel comfortable answering the question "Erm..Why have you added me?" then don't add them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do - so long as they are photo verified as who they claim to be and have a good selection of photos we'd be tempted. However you have to have one or 2 public to entice us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s funny to get them from men with no photos, not a lot of info on profile and a friend request out of the blue.
Always ignore them.
Now if a lady does it then it may be different
#thinkwithmydick  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No absolutely not,and as it says on our profile,any sent from someone we haven't met,a private note will be put on their profile,saying so,and should they send any correspondence at a later date,it will be ignored,unopened.
Which is a shame,as we have had to ignore some lovely profiles over the years  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive complained about this a few times and raised it in the fab site suggestions. The responses implied i was getting my knickers in a twist about something so small. So from there i just ignore ppl who send unsolicited friend request. What more can you do?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever actually accepted one from someone they have never chatted too?? "
Nope and we won't. We like to exchange face pictures and have a chat before we even contemplate on accepting friend requests.
Dont stop people sending them though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope
I'm not bothered about getting attention and pic collectors do nothing for me.
So what's the point.
Those I consider friends are on my friends list not strangers x |
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