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It very much depends on our mood I think. Sometimes you need that rough and ready,downright dirty sex. The kind where you can let go of everything else and just become primal. Other times ( usually after a long week) it's more about intimacy and something that is more based on emotion often lends itself to a softer more loving style of sex. It's a bit like food, sometimes we want a salad and sometimes we crave a dirty take away hehe. |
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"How about yes and no...
With someone I trust and know well, in the right mood yes.
Absolutely not without the trust first "
Yes, this for me too. I need to know they'll understand my non verbal cues of how far to go. |
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A while back before fab I met a slut at her masters orders and wow what an exhilarating meet ! Now am pretty vanilla if am honest but the kink and the naughtiest he had me do to her left a lasting impression on all !!! |
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Depends how rough. I don't like hair pulling or slapping with excessive force. Plus it would only happen with a very trusted partner who knows me well enough to recognise my limits. |
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"Surely if a guys not very alpha male it feels fake and a little stupid him acting rough?
Always wondered this....."
There’s at least two parties involved. Why does it have to be the male? |
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Yes. I like it very rough. But I could only ever do this with someone I trust.
I know there are men who hear you say it and then think you're nothing but a fuck toy and I would hate to fall into bed with someone like that. |
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"Surely if a guys not very alpha male it feels fake and a little stupid him acting rough?
Always wondered this....."
It's fantastic if the man is dominant as I think it comes very naturally to them! But if not, it is fun to try and there's nothing wrong wrong a little roleplay.
And as said above, a woman can be rough too. |
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I like it rough, hair pulling, slapping, impact play etc, but only with the person I trust to listen to me and respond without hesitation, and who knows me well enough to read my non verbal cues.
Boundaries and consent are vital. |
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"I like it rough, hair pulling, slapping, impact play etc, but only with the person I trust to listen to me and respond without hesitation, and who knows me well enough to read my non verbal cues.
Boundaries and consent are vital."
Totally agree with this. Part of the success of these activities is the ability of the person delivering the roughness to interpret how the other person is feeling and act appropriately. Control is vital. But when it happens and it is good. My iota good xx   |
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It's something that can be great fun between two people who know and understand each other's limits
Being able to see non verbal cue's and reading how far they can be pushed.
It's more than just rough sex, finding out about each other exploring and getting to know each other on such an intimate level is so rewarding
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Sometimes depending on the mood amd I like it being pretty equal so there is a proper struggle and not all one sided.
Hard fuckery where there is pain involved as you're fucking is awesome too, I want to be pinned, bitten, punched and slapped and love being able to give it in return as well |
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