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By *ockbone1 OP Man
over a year ago
Sheffield |
Like I used to go to a lot of munches in the before time, like the under 25, the under 30s whatever, for the fetish community, they were all
Up for having new people and seeing how it went down, I’ve been to a few with the swingers and it felt so horrible like you weren’t meant to be there ect, can we build for a similar community or is that just how it is? |
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For me, I've become far more aware that within the swinging community there are plenty of liars, cheats and those who prey on the vulnerable.
Basically people looking for easy targets in an environment where there's very little that can be proven and a wealth of people to prey on.
That for me has made me very sceptical of people on the whole and being on high alert for red flags and signs that things aren't what they may seem.
It's pretty sad that things are this way but unfortunately it seems to be necessary so you don't end up a victim or collateral damage. |
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over a year ago
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"For me, I've become far more aware that within the swinging community there are plenty of liars, cheats and those who prey on the vulnerable.
Basically people looking for easy targets in an environment where there's very little that can be proven and a wealth of people to prey on.
That for me has made me very sceptical of people on the whole and being on high alert for red flags and signs that things aren't what they may seem.
It's pretty sad that things are this way but unfortunately it seems to be necessary so you don't end up a victim or collateral damage."
its a really interesting point... and this site can be a case in point I think. I've found the vast majority of people on here to be welcoming / tolerant / up for a laugh; but there are a few who, to be blunt, are pretty bitchy and sometimes downright rude. couple that with the revelations that there are private message groups apparently that share screenshots and slag people off, and its understandable why a lot of people can be guarded to the point of suspicion.
I'd like to think most on here are genuine, but the idiot few can spoil it for the sound many  I guess when the world reopens and socials etc start happening, it'll be easier to gauge people properly! |
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"For me, I've become far more aware that within the swinging community there are plenty of liars, cheats and those who prey on the vulnerable.
Basically people looking for easy targets in an environment where there's very little that can be proven and a wealth of people to prey on.
That for me has made me very sceptical of people on the whole and being on high alert for red flags and signs that things aren't what they may seem.
It's pretty sad that things are this way but unfortunately it seems to be necessary so you don't end up a victim or collateral damage.
its a really interesting point... and this site can be a case in point I think. I've found the vast majority of people on here to be welcoming / tolerant / up for a laugh; but there are a few who, to be blunt, are pretty bitchy and sometimes downright rude. couple that with the revelations that there are private message groups apparently that share screenshots and slag people off, and its understandable why a lot of people can be guarded to the point of suspicion.
I'd like to think most on here are genuine, but the idiot few can spoil it for the sound many I guess when the world reopens and socials etc start happening, it'll be easier to gauge people properly!"
With people I don't know my brain also questions "do you 'get it' or are you a chancer who sees women as no more than vaginas"
It takes me a while to suss people out and I prefer to pick up on their "in person" vibe. Not just how they speak to me but also how they conduct themselves around others too. People can act and say the right things to your face because they want something from you at that moment in time. |
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