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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, Lads & Ladies...
I experienced a major troll here today. How do ye deal with such uncalled for unprovoked fked up behaviour. I normally ignore. But unfortunately I took the bait. Yes I know block and ignore but this guy needs to be called out. I have screenshots of his major disturbed abusive msgs.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The simple fact about trolls is that they need to be fed.
If you don't give them the satisfaction of a reply it pisses them off more than any reply can do. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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It is a shame there is no mechanism for reporting or warning others about abusive or unsafe people, however I also appreciate the can of worms that can open regarding policing it and making sure claims are genuine and not false.
Sadly all you can do is block and report, and try and either avoid trolls or if you are going to feed them try not to let it get to you and instead just try and over feed them with boredom. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry you had such an awful experience!
What was his problem?
It's probably easier said than done if someone has really wound you up but, yes... block and forget him.
It was totally crazy Shit. But thankfully a few Females mailed me after I put up a status about him. They were just saying he did the same to me
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I'm normally not this sensitive about a troll.
But anyway anyone who requests further screen shots of said troll. I have them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Iv had the same and got a warning for name and shaming him xx it’s vile you should be allowed to out someone if they are in the wrong xx"
Hi, you can't name them here. But you can name & shame in a status update x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately on the internet you can write any old bollocks at all and face little or no official punishment so your only defense on here is to report block ignore move on or as we do just play with their fucked up souls by replying with messages of love and light until they get bored and block you!!!
Sorry that you suffered shit as imho no one deserves that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv had the same and got a warning for name and shaming him xx it’s vile you should be allowed to out someone if they are in the wrong xx
Hi, you can't name them here. But you can name & shame in a status update x"
That was what I did and I got reported and a warning xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It is a shame there is no mechanism for reporting or warning others about abusive or unsafe people, however I also appreciate the can of worms that can open regarding policing it and making sure claims are genuine and not false.
Sadly all you can do is block and report, and try and either avoid trolls or if you are going to feed them try not to let it get to you and instead just try and over feed them with boredom."
Jeez luuuuvvving your photos #gorgeous X
Muchas Gracias for advice  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've reported people before, either unnecessarily rude people or spam/scammers.
I don't want tonsee them hurting others so I report and block.
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Exactly. I just couldn't believe the amount of Females who msged me today saying he did the same to me. I did name and shame him in a status But he's still here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't take it personally.
If he gets reported enough for the same shit he will be removed.
Trolls are a sad price to pay for any social media unfortunately.
I have had my fair share too |
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By *leeperMan
over a year ago
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"Don't take it personally.
If he gets reported enough for the same shit he will be removed.
Trolls are a sad price to pay for any social media unfortunately.
I have had my fair share too "
This ^
They take joy in your reactions |
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"Hi, Lads & Ladies...
I experienced a major troll here today. How do ye deal with such uncalled for unprovoked fked up behaviour. I normally ignore. But unfortunately I took the bait. Yes I know block and ignore but this guy needs to be called out. I have screenshots of his major disturbed abusive msgs.
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If you have screenshots I would message admin and attach photos of screen shots.
So sorry you had this encounter. Sadly seems to happen more often. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't take it personally.
If he gets reported enough for the same shit he will be removed.
Trolls are a sad price to pay for any social media unfortunately.
I have had my fair share too
This ^
They take joy in your reactions "
100% agree, the more they get a reaction the better they feel about themselves |
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We can only block, as well as report to Admin if inappropriate content, before looking after ourselves.
Naming and shaming will never be allowed and would likely escalate the problem, as much as the hurt caused may trigger a need for allaying their distress.
Sadly, the onus is on the hurt recipient, to remedy their own situation. It may mean that we have to take some time out from the forum or site or, otherwise seek support to help us to cope. It's obviously more difficult during the epidemic, as our emotional reserves are low and we're lacking in social contact.
Wishing you all the best OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, Lads & Ladies...
I experienced a major troll here today. How do ye deal with such uncalled for unprovoked fked up behaviour. I normally ignore. But unfortunately I took the bait. Yes I know block and ignore but this guy needs to be called out. I have screenshots of his major disturbed abusive msgs.
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What did he say? |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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Unfortunately opening up the scene to be internet facing has brought it to a much wider audience and abuse.
You only have to see these sites are now referred to as sex sites rather than lifestyle sites, which immediately implies there is something on offer, plus commercialisation, a complete miss understanding of what the scene is.
We have a couples profile but very rarely used now cos my partner will not come back on the site because of a plethora of bad treatment in messages/chat by males, females and couples that has got worse over the years, especially recently.
I use my old profile cos I don't want to be a male hiding behind a couples profile we still sort of active on the scene, which has its own ramifications, guess over years I've just become very thick skinned. But I will be gone from the site soon as most of our friends. I only believe it is going to get worse.
As in other posts, all you can do is use the the tools that you have and try and protect yourself, best tool is yourself, it is very difficult! As above take time out, regroup and come back stronger, believe there are still a lot of decent nice people on the site, but obscured by the darkness that seems to have fallen.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I read it in a Roughgide somewhere, that one trick is to keep them talking till daylight.
Hope that helps!?
Joking aside,its not nice and as they say in Gambia, it's nice to be nice.
Maybe they should give just a few messages to non supporters? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think most of them have learned it's easier to get a reply from a nasty abusive message than it is from what they perceive to be a nice one.
It's fucking cruel "
Yes for Def. Once they get a reaction they don't care and some definitely get enjoyment from upsetting women with their extreme abuse. They're like predators picking on vulnerable women and some target newbies. |
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