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over a year ago
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I find myself one day wanting a new person to lavish attention on ...
Then - I have days when I can’t think anything worse right now.
Now, what does this mean? Am I too old for this crap, or am I actually thinking I need a companion ?
These questions need answering please - beware, I’m fickle though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think we all have whims. You can enjoy them.
I often want to move...so I have a hobby of looking at houses I cant afford on rightmove.
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I do that too
And I think this is horrendously unfair on me
I like consistency |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think we all have whims. You can enjoy them.
I often want to move...so I have a hobby of looking at houses I cant afford on rightmove.
I do that too
And I think this is horrendously unfair on me
I like consistency"
I found a lovely villa in the south of France |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think we all have whims. You can enjoy them.
I often want to move...so I have a hobby of looking at houses I cant afford on rightmove.
I do that too
And I think this is horrendously unfair on me
I like consistency
I found a lovely villa in the south of France "
I found one in Italy |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I think (and as ever I'm possibly wrong), you're wanting the thrill of that new relationship energy - you know when you're first talking and everything is such a thrill? You can't wait to find out their favourite show, you find all their comments ever so hilarious and you get proper butterflies when ever they message.
But the rational you reminds you that changes, you realise the person is flawed and you can't be arsed dealing with the mundane of another's life and their issues.
Agreed with the part timer comment, you can see them without journeying on the relationship escalator. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think we all have whims. You can enjoy them.
I often want to move...so I have a hobby of looking at houses I cant afford on rightmove.
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Ohhh I love doing this 
I'm surrounded by houses I will never afford in my town - I Google the ones for sale nearby - it's nearly as good as getting to go inside 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think (and as ever I'm possibly wrong), you're wanting the thrill of that new relationship energy - you know when you're first talking and everything is such a thrill? You can't wait to find out their favourite show, you find all their comments ever so hilarious and you get proper butterflies when ever they message.
But the rational you reminds you that changes, you realise the person is flawed and you can't be arsed dealing with the mundane of another's life and their issues.
Agreed with the part timer comment, you can see them without journeying on the relationship escalator. "
This is so true .... 
I get put off easily too, which is rich coming from me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think (and as ever I'm possibly wrong), you're wanting the thrill of that new relationship energy - you know when you're first talking and everything is such a thrill? You can't wait to find out their favourite show, you find all their comments ever so hilarious and you get proper butterflies when ever they message.
But the rational you reminds you that changes, you realise the person is flawed and you can't be arsed dealing with the mundane of another's life and their issues.
Agreed with the part timer comment, you can see them without journeying on the relationship escalator. "
God you are wise xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think (and as ever I'm possibly wrong), you're wanting the thrill of that new relationship energy - you know when you're first talking and everything is such a thrill? You can't wait to find out their favourite show, you find all their comments ever so hilarious and you get proper butterflies when ever they message.
But the rational you reminds you that changes, you realise the person is flawed and you can't be arsed dealing with the mundane of another's life and their issues.
Agreed with the part timer comment, you can see them without journeying on the relationship escalator.
God you are wise xx"
She really is ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think (and as ever I'm possibly wrong), you're wanting the thrill of that new relationship energy - you know when you're first talking and everything is such a thrill? You can't wait to find out their favourite show, you find all their comments ever so hilarious and you get proper butterflies when ever they message.
But the rational you reminds you that changes, you realise the person is flawed and you can't be arsed dealing with the mundane of another's life and their issues.
Agreed with the part timer comment, you can see them without journeying on the relationship escalator.
God you are wise xx"
Extremely wise, should start a help column on here. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just think you/me can continue meeting people for fun if you/me want but there is always a chance something might just happen with someone. In the meantime don’t worry about it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I just think you/me can continue meeting people for fun if you/me want but there is always a chance something might just happen with someone. In the meantime don’t worry about it "
You? Me?
Thanks for the input |
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"I find myself one day wanting a new person to lavish attention on ...
Then - I have days when I can’t think anything worse right now.
Now, what does this mean? Am I too old for this crap, or am I actually thinking I need a companion ?
These questions need answering please - beware, I’m fickle though "
Everybody needs a little lavish attention done for them every so often.
We like it and enjoy the experience of it and yes we do miss it when its not there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find myself one day wanting a new person to lavish attention on ...
Then - I have days when I can’t think anything worse right now.
Now, what does this mean? Am I too old for this crap, or am I actually thinking I need a companion ?
These questions need answering please - beware, I’m fickle though
Everybody needs a little lavish attention done for them every so often.
We like it and enjoy the experience of it and yes we do miss it when its not there. "
I don’t miss it much ... just once a week or so
I’m too fickle |
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It just means that there are pros and cons to both being single and being in a relationship. All that's happening is sometimes you are seeing the pros and not the cons of one, and other times you are seeing it the other way round.
Unfortunately you can't have both at the same time. It's just life. I wouldn't let it worry you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It just means that there are pros and cons to both being single and being in a relationship. All that's happening is sometimes you are seeing the pros and not the cons of one, and other times you are seeing it the other way round.
Unfortunately you can't have both at the same time. It's just life. I wouldn't let it worry you. "
I don’t want a relationship.....
Companionship - maybe
Someone to flirt with , every 24 days or so
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't worry 5 mins with me and I'll make you wish you had given up years ago. ??
Boom
Boom
That's 2 more booms than you'd actually get.
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... I’m not keen on booms anyway |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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"I think we all have whims. You can enjoy them.
I often want to move...so I have a hobby of looking at houses I cant afford on rightmove.
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I wish I could move elsewhere but I can't move too far away from my kids which are my priority over anything else. So I'm stuck in the middle of nowhere for now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't worry 5 mins with me and I'll make you wish you had given up years ago. ??
Boom
Boom
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That's 2 more booms than you'd actually get. In a nice way..... FFS that sounded in fucking nice. I'm sorry for being a cock ffs...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Don't worry 5 mins with me and I'll make you wish you had given up years ago. ??
Boom
Boom
That's 2 more booms than you'd actually get. In a nice way..... FFS that sounded in fucking nice. I'm sorry for being a cock ffs...
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Shut up !! It was funny - I don’t often laugh on here, but I did with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It just means that there are pros and cons to both being single and being in a relationship. All that's happening is sometimes you are seeing the pros and not the cons of one, and other times you are seeing it the other way round.
Unfortunately you can't have both at the same time. It's just life. I wouldn't let it worry you. "
Exactly, when someone who hasn’t lived your life tells you how should react and feel makes me laugh. People can give advice because of life experience but we have to make our own decisions |
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