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I've lost interest in men
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"I can't be bothered flirting,perving or fabbing    "
That’s ok. We all go through phases of being interested in things and then losing that interest.
Perhaps something else could amuse you for a while instead.
I hope you’re feeling well other than that. Xx |
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I had five tinder matches recently and ended up just unmatching, as I honestly couldn’t be bothered having endless conversations going nowhere. Previously a coffee meet would happen, but as that’s off the cards for quite awhile, I don’t see the point.
So I just ended up hiding my profile on the site and realising that I’ll be on my own for quite sometime |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Men are a ballache, use that time and energy you'd have spent on them learning to knit or looking up rescue cats. "
I've got 2 rescue cats which would make knitting a challenge  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had five tinder matches recently and ended up just unmatching, as I honestly couldn’t be bothered having endless conversations going nowhere. Previously a coffee meet would happen, but as that’s off the cards for quite awhile, I don’t see the point.
So I just ended up hiding my profile on the site and realising that I’ll be on my own for quite sometime "
I think that's it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots of people seem to have lost their mojo during lockdown.
How do you feel in day to day life?
If it's just men in general, take a break from fab and concentrate on yourself for a while. "
It's everything. |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
"Lots of people seem to have lost their mojo during lockdown.
How do you feel in day to day life?
If it's just men in general, take a break from fab and concentrate on yourself for a while.
It's everything."
Then you need to speak to somebody, have you got family or a close friend you can talk to. If it's something more then you need to address this.
How are you feeling?
Are you having any social interaction with friends or family? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pandemic lockdown libido is definitely a thing, add some enforced isolation along with it and before you know it you're talking to yourself and not wanting to go out anymore."
Yeah  someone made a comment along these lines yesterday I think.
Or maybe it was 6 months ago. Time means nothing anymore.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get a grip u have 1 life booo hooo"
That’s really unkind. People are allowed to be having a tough time and to ask for support.
It’d be pretty awful if we couldn’t. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pandemic lockdown libido is definitely a thing, add some enforced isolation along with it and before you know it you're talking to yourself and not wanting to go out anymore."
So true 
I rarely see anyone anymore and my mojo has done a runner
I'd rather eat pancakes than have sex  |
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"Get a grip u have 1 life booo hooo"
Dude, I came on this morning and my god you're making it difficult for me not to lose my shit.
Rude, disrespectful and a perfect example of "how not to man"
Have some empathy? Compassion?
Or perhaps you came on your period too. |
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Had similar conversation earlier this week. For me I’m just not feeling it or wanting to do it, but been like that most the year .... I see it as the mind has switched off, you can’t urge for something you can’t feel anytime soon, so the body’s way of coping without having to deal with the teasing.
I’m in no doubt when the time is right that switch will be flicked and it will shoot back into life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get a grip u have 1 life booo hooo
It's a fair point. It's only been 11 months. We are still alive but many aren't.
Hope you are ok. "
11 months on my own. Loss of interest in men sounds trivial but it's only bit of fun I had left,been on here. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
From BBC website:
'With more than 118,000 people in the UK now having died with coronavirus, many of us may end up feeling a bit numb. This is not unusual, psychologist Dr Meg Arroll tells BBC Newsbeat, and is a form of self-preservation. She says that some people may be suffering from "compassion fatigue". If you're feeling out of touch with your emotions, there are things you can do to help, including remembering it is OK not to be OK at the moment, looking after your physical health and taking time out for yourself'
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