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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello there,
I'm an Asian straight guy in my 30s of Pakistani origin. I just want to know why are non Asian Guys reluctant to make a move or even bed Asian women or they feel like its a move for them not to make.
Myself, coming from a vast majority Asian neighbourhood, I have missed out making friends with non Asian people and was hoping that I can achieve this from here and even guys who want to date Asian women, hang out in Asian areas with myself, or whatever and maybe if so needs be I can introduce you to some myself.
There is no place and time for racism. We are bleed the same.
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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I don't think there is an issue, its just people's preferences I suppose. At the end of the day, its about first impressions, having that spark with someone, same wavelength and attraction. I generally have no issues talking to anyone |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
My ex wife was from South East Asia, lived in South East Asia for 10 years and didn't see any problems with this.
To say it is a reluctance of the 'non asian guys' is a presumtion solely based on them being'non asian' and race.
Perhaps in the UK it is more about cummunity segregation that is the problem not the choices of people. How many asian women to men on fab, then how many in your area, which ones are married or not married etc.
Race has noting to do with my attraction to someone, it's the mental, emotional and physical attraction I'm looking for. Not at attraction based on race. |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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I grew up in East London which has a good mix of many cultures. Most of my mates were either black or Asian, as were my girlfriends. I've always enjoyed meeting people of different cultures, especially when you get to try their food   |
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Not sure if it's changed these days, but you did used to hear stories of brothers battering guys who were chasing their sister etc. Might put someone off.
It's far more likely to see and Asian guy with a white lady than the opposite, especially in the Pakistani community. More likely with Indian lady's in my experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My mom is English and my dad is Asian and they are still happily married. She still hates it when he doesn't do the dishes though. Sorry, kinda went off track there a bit lol
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I think it's a genetic thing, not his fault. Men evolved away from doing dishes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not sure if it's changed these days, but you did used to hear stories of brothers battering guys who were chasing their sister etc. Might put someone off.
It's far more likely to see and Asian guy with a white lady than the opposite, especially in the Pakistani community. More likely with Indian lady's in my experience. "
This is exactly what I was going to follow up with, its double standards but why... Like Asian guys sleep with any race which is fine but if there sister was to date/sleep with a non Asian guy... Then.....! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not sure if it's changed these days, but you did used to hear stories of brothers battering guys who were chasing their sister etc. Might put someone off.
It's far more likely to see and Asian guy with a white lady than the opposite, especially in the Pakistani community. More likely with Indian lady's in my experience. "
Myself being Pakistani. This is what I was going to discuss.. Myself I wouldn't mind, but I know a lot who would. |
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"Not sure if it's changed these days, but you did used to hear stories of brothers battering guys who were chasing their sister etc. Might put someone off.
It's far more likely to see and Asian guy with a white lady than the opposite, especially in the Pakistani community. More likely with Indian lady's in my experience.
This is exactly what I was going to follow up with, its double standards but why... Like Asian guys sleep with any race which is fine but if there sister was to date/sleep with a non Asian guy... Then.....! "
Getting to the why then.
It's no shock that an awful lot of men (all races) see women as disposable, no more than a hole to fuck.
Do you think it could be that Asian men are more aware of this thought process and toxic behaviour within men on the whole and therefore trying to protect their sisters? If that was the case though wouldn't they be not wanting their sisters near any men at all?
Or is it subconscious, folks from other races seen as inferior? Or could it simply be that the cultural differences may mean that non Asian men aren't seen as having the same values due to upbringing therefore not "good enough" for their sister/niece/cousin etc? |
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"Not sure if it's changed these days, but you did used to hear stories of brothers battering guys who were chasing their sister etc. Might put someone off.
It's far more likely to see and Asian guy with a white lady than the opposite, especially in the Pakistani community. More likely with Indian lady's in my experience.
Myself being Pakistani. This is what I was going to discuss.. Myself I wouldn't mind, but I know a lot who would. "
I'm glad you're being honest about this, I think without these discussions a lot of us wouldn't have a clue really. People often get jumped on for being racist when they only have limited experience and can only reference what they've seen themselves. People can sometimes ask questions that come across blunt or rude and for the most part I don't believe that to be the case, I think it's more to do with lack of open discussion previously.
So thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure if it's changed these days, but you did used to hear stories of brothers battering guys who were chasing their sister etc. Might put someone off.
It's far more likely to see and Asian guy with a white lady than the opposite, especially in the Pakistani community. More likely with Indian lady's in my experience.
Myself being Pakistani. This is what I was going to discuss.. Myself I wouldn't mind, but I know a lot who would.
I'm glad you're being honest about this, I think without these discussions a lot of us wouldn't have a clue really. People often get jumped on for being racist when they only have limited experience and can only reference what they've seen themselves. People can sometimes ask questions that come across blunt or rude and for the most part I don't believe that to be the case, I think it's more to do with lack of open discussion previously.
So thank you."
If people can't openly ask questions and discuss things then nothing will change.
I used to ask questions and encourage debate but got tired of being jumped on all the time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Like myself, I want to make friends outside my race as I did miss out on that. It is something I really would like to do, having typical lad banter etc you know even have mfm and gangbangs etc I'm fully straight. However, this is kinda frowned upon in the Asian community and it seems a very big taboo. And myself, I'm even there if there guys who do want to meet Asian women etc but don't have the confidence. So do PM me if you think you can relate to this.
And back to the topic, it seems its a taboo and there is a lack of confidence and also the aspect of having double standards. I mean I'm sure if you was to ask a vast majority of Pakistani males, about dating there sister/cousin/niece it wouldn't go exactly well. So my question is why the double standards. Especially if Britain is a multicultural country???!! |
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"Like myself, I want to make friends outside my race as I did miss out on that. It is something I really would like to do, having typical lad banter etc you know even have mfm and gangbangs etc I'm fully straight. However, this is kinda frowned upon in the Asian community and it seems a very big taboo. And myself, I'm even there if there guys who do want to meet Asian women etc but don't have the confidence. So do PM me if you think you can relate to this.
And back to the topic, it seems its a taboo and there is a lack of confidence and also the aspect of having double standards. I mean I'm sure if you was to ask a vast majority of Pakistani males, about dating there sister/cousin/niece it wouldn't go exactly well. So my question is why the double standards. Especially if Britain is a multicultural country???!! "
Could it be that sex is seen as something that serves a reproductive purpose then rather than something enjoyable with it being taboo? Or maybe seen as something so precious you only give it to those you love?
When I've been to clubs I've only seen one Asian couple and they were lovely.
The majority of single guys that I've encountered have been quite grabby as in fondling me as I've walked past without seeking permission which doesn't do any favours and kinda reinforces the preconceived notion that women are seen as "lesser" within the community, which I don't get at all because some friends I have the woman certainly is the boss of the relationship, but again that's just a couple of relationships, a snapshot.
I can't answer the why the double standards, and it sure as shit won't be across the board. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our son is on route to marry a beautiful young lady from Bangladesh and the only problem we had was the clash of cultures with regard to honor killings but thankfully her family or more to the point her father has accepted him into their family and he converted to the Muslim faith in September so they can do the Nicka (spelt wrong) and live together.
It’s 2021 and things are so much more open with respect to everything but you will still get blinkered people but hey ho life goes on.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Our son is on route to marry a beautiful young lady from Bangladesh and the only problem we had was the clash of cultures with regard to honor killings but thankfully her family or more to the point her father has accepted him into their family and he converted to the Muslim faith in September so they can do the Nicka (spelt wrong) and live together.
It’s 2021 and things are so much more open with respect to everything but you will still get blinkered people but hey ho life goes on.
T"
Yes that's a total different situation, my point was casual relationships etc, dating etc not exactly marriage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Our son is on route to marry a beautiful young lady from Bangladesh and the only problem we had was the clash of cultures with regard to honor killings but thankfully her family or more to the point her father has accepted him into their family and he converted to the Muslim faith in September so they can do the Nicka (spelt wrong) and live together.
It’s 2021 and things are so much more open with respect to everything but you will still get blinkered people but hey ho life goes on.
T
Yes that's a total different situation, my point was casual relationships etc, dating etc not exactly marriage. "
Strangely enough they are indeed dating and all her brothers and sisters are also dating non Asian people.
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"Our son is on route to marry a beautiful young lady from Bangladesh and the only problem we had was the clash of cultures with regard to honor killings but thankfully her family or more to the point her father has accepted him into their family and he converted to the Muslim faith in September so they can do the Nicka (spelt wrong) and live together.
It’s 2021 and things are so much more open with respect to everything but you will still get blinkered people but hey ho life goes on.
T
Yes that's a total different situation, my point was casual relationships etc, dating etc not exactly marriage. "
Doesn't every relationship start out as casual dating though? I'm sure they entered into their relationship wanting to get to know each other, not intent on marriage at first sight. |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"Our son is on route to marry a beautiful young lady from Bangladesh and the only problem we had was the clash of cultures with regard to honor killings but thankfully her family or more to the point her father has accepted him into their family and he converted to the Muslim faith in September so they can do the Nicka (spelt wrong) and live together.
It’s 2021 and things are so much more open with respect to everything but you will still get blinkered people but hey ho life goes on.
T
Yes that's a total different situation, my point was casual relationships etc, dating etc not exactly marriage. "
Surely every relationship starts out as casual, then develops into something deeper or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And the aspect of making non Asian friends to have a laugh and good time ie mfm, gang bangs etc. It seems that's looked down upon too. "
Most will check your profile out and may be put off to be fair op but crack on and enjoy your fab adventure!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"And the aspect of making non Asian friends to have a laugh and good time ie mfm, gang bangs etc. It seems that's looked down upon too.
Most will check your profile out and may be put off to be fair op but crack on and enjoy your fab adventure!!
T"
But that's the thing though? Why?? |
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"And the aspect of making non Asian friends to have a laugh and good time ie mfm, gang bangs etc. It seems that's looked down upon too.
Most will check your profile out and may be put off to be fair op but crack on and enjoy your fab adventure!!
T
But that's the thing though? Why?? "
Wanting to be taught the 'Secrets' of a good marriage from other guys sounds odd.
Also, payment being fine. What does that even mean? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"And the aspect of making non Asian friends to have a laugh and good time ie mfm, gang bangs etc. It seems that's looked down upon too.
Most will check your profile out and may be put off to be fair op but crack on and enjoy your fab adventure!!
T
But that's the thing though? Why??
Wanting to be taught the 'Secrets' of a good marriage from other guys sounds odd.
Also, payment being fine. What does that even mean?"
OK, myself Im planning to settle down if that makes sense. So I was just wondering to get some 'training' if that makes sense |
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"And the aspect of making non Asian friends to have a laugh and good time ie mfm, gang bangs etc. It seems that's looked down upon too.
Most will check your profile out and may be put off to be fair op but crack on and enjoy your fab adventure!!
T
But that's the thing though? Why??
Wanting to be taught the 'Secrets' of a good marriage from other guys sounds odd.
Also, payment being fine. What does that even mean?
OK, myself Im planning to settle down if that makes sense. So I was just wondering to get some 'training' if that makes sense "
No, it really doesn't. Not to me anyway.
It sounds like some sort of code words that you have to be part of a secret circle to understand |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"And the aspect of making non Asian friends to have a laugh and good time ie mfm, gang bangs etc. It seems that's looked down upon too.
Most will check your profile out and may be put off to be fair op but crack on and enjoy your fab adventure!!
T
But that's the thing though? Why??
Wanting to be taught the 'Secrets' of a good marriage from other guys sounds odd.
Also, payment being fine. What does that even mean?
OK, myself Im planning to settle down if that makes sense. So I was just wondering to get some 'training' if that makes sense
No, it really doesn't. Not to me anyway.
It sounds like some sort of code words that you have to be part of a secret circle to understand "
LOL! Not at all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And the aspect of making non Asian friends to have a laugh and good time ie mfm, gang bangs etc. It seems that's looked down upon too.
Most will check your profile out and may be put off to be fair op but crack on and enjoy your fab adventure!!
T
But that's the thing though? Why??
Wanting to be taught the 'Secrets' of a good marriage from other guys sounds odd.
Also, payment being fine. What does that even mean?
OK, myself Im planning to settle down if that makes sense. So I was just wondering to get some 'training' if that makes sense "
No it really doesn’t make sense and therein lies the problem you are facing on your fab adventure.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think its preference, i met a gorgeous asian on here a while back were still intouch as friends but shes very funny about being seen meeting so we meet for a coffee at mine occasionally.  |
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"Hello there,
I'm an Asian straight guy in my 30s of Pakistani origin. I just want to know why are non Asian Guys reluctant to make a move or even bed Asian women or they feel like its a move for them not to make.
Myself, coming from a vast majority Asian neighbourhood, I have missed out making friends with non Asian people and was hoping that I can achieve this from here and even guys who want to date Asian women, hang out in Asian areas with myself, or whatever and maybe if so needs be I can introduce you to some myself.
There is no place and time for racism. We are bleed the same.
Regards "
There's room for everyone in this life. Hope you find what you're seeking. Good luck with it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think its preference, i met a gorgeous asian on here a while back were still intouch as friends but shes very funny about being seen meeting so we meet for a coffee at mine occasionally. "
How did it go Asian as in? |
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"And the aspect of making non Asian friends to have a laugh and good time ie mfm, gang bangs etc. It seems that's looked down upon too.
Most will check your profile out and may be put off to be fair op but crack on and enjoy your fab adventure!!
T
But that's the thing though? Why??
Wanting to be taught the 'Secrets' of a good marriage from other guys sounds odd.
Also, payment being fine. What does that even mean?
OK, myself Im planning to settle down if that makes sense. So I was just wondering to get some 'training' if that makes sense
No, it really doesn't. Not to me anyway.
It sounds like some sort of code words that you have to be part of a secret circle to understand
LOL! Not at all! "
You're gonna have to explain what you actually mean.
No inverted commas, no hinting at something. Basic to the point no beating around the bush.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think its preference, i met a gorgeous asian on here a while back were still intouch as friends but shes very funny about being seen meeting so we meet for a coffee at mine occasionally.
How did it go Asian as in? "
Shes Pakistani asian. She runs themed club nights now at a well known club. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think its preference, i met a gorgeous asian on here a while back were still intouch as friends but shes very funny about being seen meeting so we meet for a coffee at mine occasionally.
How did it go Asian as in?
Shes Pakistani asian. She runs themed club nights now at a well known club. "
So then what was the issue then? Sorry just trying to understand |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"And the aspect of making non Asian friends to have a laugh and good time ie mfm, gang bangs etc. It seems that's looked down upon too.
Most will check your profile out and may be put off to be fair op but crack on and enjoy your fab adventure!!
T
But that's the thing though? Why??
Wanting to be taught the 'Secrets' of a good marriage from other guys sounds odd.
Also, payment being fine. What does that even mean?
OK, myself Im planning to settle down if that makes sense. So I was just wondering to get some 'training' if that makes sense
No, it really doesn't. Not to me anyway.
It sounds like some sort of code words that you have to be part of a secret circle to understand
LOL! Not at all!
You're gonna have to explain what you actually mean.
No inverted commas, no hinting at something. Basic to the point no beating around the bush.
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Just polishing the skills! |
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"And the aspect of making non Asian friends to have a laugh and good time ie mfm, gang bangs etc. It seems that's looked down upon too.
Most will check your profile out and may be put off to be fair op but crack on and enjoy your fab adventure!!
T
But that's the thing though? Why??
Wanting to be taught the 'Secrets' of a good marriage from other guys sounds odd.
Also, payment being fine. What does that even mean?
OK, myself Im planning to settle down if that makes sense. So I was just wondering to get some 'training' if that makes sense
No, it really doesn't. Not to me anyway.
It sounds like some sort of code words that you have to be part of a secret circle to understand
LOL! Not at all!
You're gonna have to explain what you actually mean.
No inverted commas, no hinting at something. Basic to the point no beating around the bush.
Just polishing the skills! "
Nope. Still makes no sense at all.
Are you a little bit not straight at all and in fact wanting to meet men before you settle down? That's all I can come up with by trying to join the dots of secrets, training and polishing skills. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And the aspect of making non Asian friends to have a laugh and good time ie mfm, gang bangs etc. It seems that's looked down upon too.
Most will check your profile out and may be put off to be fair op but crack on and enjoy your fab adventure!!
T
But that's the thing though? Why??
Wanting to be taught the 'Secrets' of a good marriage from other guys sounds odd.
Also, payment being fine. What does that even mean?
OK, myself Im planning to settle down if that makes sense. So I was just wondering to get some 'training' if that makes sense
No, it really doesn't. Not to me anyway.
It sounds like some sort of code words that you have to be part of a secret circle to understand
LOL! Not at all!
You're gonna have to explain what you actually mean.
No inverted commas, no hinting at something. Basic to the point no beating around the bush.
Just polishing the skills!
Nope. Still makes no sense at all.
Are you a little bit not straight at all and in fact wanting to meet men before you settle down? That's all I can come up with by trying to join the dots of secrets, training and polishing skills."
Yes I am straight |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And the aspect of making non Asian friends to have a laugh and good time ie mfm, gang bangs etc. It seems that's looked down upon too.
Most will check your profile out and may be put off to be fair op but crack on and enjoy your fab adventure!!
T
But that's the thing though? Why??
Wanting to be taught the 'Secrets' of a good marriage from other guys sounds odd.
Also, payment being fine. What does that even mean?
OK, myself Im planning to settle down if that makes sense. So I was just wondering to get some 'training' if that makes sense
No, it really doesn't. Not to me anyway.
It sounds like some sort of code words that you have to be part of a secret circle to understand
LOL! Not at all!
You're gonna have to explain what you actually mean.
No inverted commas, no hinting at something. Basic to the point no beating around the bush.
Just polishing the skills!
Nope. Still makes no sense at all.
Are you a little bit not straight at all and in fact wanting to meet men before you settle down? That's all I can come up with by trying to join the dots of secrets, training and polishing skills."
LOL! You make me laugh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hello there,
I'm an Asian straight guy in my 30s of Pakistani origin. I just want to know why are non Asian Guys reluctant to make a move or even bed Asian women or they feel like its a move for them not to make.
Myself, coming from a vast majority Asian neighbourhood, I have missed out making friends with non Asian people and was hoping that I can achieve this from here and even guys who want to date Asian women, hang out in Asian areas with myself, or whatever and maybe if so needs be I can introduce you to some myself.
There is no place and time for racism. We are bleed the same.
Regards
There's room for everyone in this life. Hope you find what you're seeking. Good luck with it. "
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"And the aspect of making non Asian friends to have a laugh and good time ie mfm, gang bangs etc. It seems that's looked down upon too.
Most will check your profile out and may be put off to be fair op but crack on and enjoy your fab adventure!!
T
But that's the thing though? Why??
Wanting to be taught the 'Secrets' of a good marriage from other guys sounds odd.
Also, payment being fine. What does that even mean?
OK, myself Im planning to settle down if that makes sense. So I was just wondering to get some 'training' if that makes sense
No, it really doesn't. Not to me anyway.
It sounds like some sort of code words that you have to be part of a secret circle to understand
LOL! Not at all!
You're gonna have to explain what you actually mean.
No inverted commas, no hinting at something. Basic to the point no beating around the bush.
Just polishing the skills!
Nope. Still makes no sense at all.
Are you a little bit not straight at all and in fact wanting to meet men before you settle down? That's all I can come up with by trying to join the dots of secrets, training and polishing skills."
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
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Many communities are quite insular despite claims we are a multicultural society. People may live side by side with someone from another culture but by and large people tend to stick to their own kind. There are exceptions to the rule obviously. Some cultures may be perceived as being more hospitable to outsiders and some more adverse to the idea. Some communities are more closely tied to their faith and religion so that presents another barrier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think its preference, i met a gorgeous asian on here a while back were still intouch as friends but shes very funny about being seen meeting so we meet for a coffee at mine occasionally.
How did it go Asian as in?
Shes Pakistani asian. She runs themed club nights now at a well known club.
So then what was the issue then? Sorry just trying to understand "
Who said theres a issue?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think its preference, i met a gorgeous asian on here a while back were still intouch as friends but shes very funny about being seen meeting so we meet for a coffee at mine occasionally.
How did it go Asian as in?
Shes Pakistani asian. She runs themed club nights now at a well known club.
So then what was the issue then? Sorry just trying to understand
Who said theres a issue? "
As in being seen with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And the aspect of making non Asian friends to have a laugh and good time ie mfm, gang bangs etc. It seems that's looked down upon too.
Most will check your profile out and may be put off to be fair op but crack on and enjoy your fab adventure!!
T
But that's the thing though? Why??
Wanting to be taught the 'Secrets' of a good marriage from other guys sounds odd.
Also, payment being fine. What does that even mean?
OK, myself Im planning to settle down if that makes sense. So I was just wondering to get some 'training' if that makes sense
No, it really doesn't. Not to me anyway.
It sounds like some sort of code words that you have to be part of a secret circle to understand
LOL! Not at all!
You're gonna have to explain what you actually mean.
No inverted commas, no hinting at something. Basic to the point no beating around the bush.
Just polishing the skills!
Nope. Still makes no sense at all.
Are you a little bit not straight at all and in fact wanting to meet men before you settle down? That's all I can come up with by trying to join the dots of secrets, training and polishing skills.
Yes I am straight "
Really!!!!!!!
I’d try telling your profile and wank buddy that .
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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"Hello there,
I'm an Asian straight guy in my 30s of Pakistani origin. I just want to know why are non Asian Guys reluctant to make a move or even bed Asian women or they feel like its a move for them not to make.
Myself, coming from a vast majority Asian neighbourhood, I have missed out making friends with non Asian people and was hoping that I can achieve this from here and even guys who want to date Asian women, hang out in Asian areas with myself, or whatever and maybe if so needs be I can introduce you to some myself.
There is no place and time for racism. We are bleed the same.
Regards "
. I am a non Asian guy that has met and played with Asians couples at a club and a Asian lady at a spa.I have always found Asian ladies attractive and sexy and I have no problem going out for a coffee , meal , adult fun with Asian ladies. |
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"I think its preference, i met a gorgeous asian on here a while back were still intouch as friends but shes very funny about being seen meeting so we meet for a coffee at mine occasionally.
How did it go Asian as in?
Shes Pakistani asian. She runs themed club nights now at a well known club.
So then what was the issue then? Sorry just trying to understand
Who said theres a issue?
As in being seen with you"
Her family wouldnt approve, i said on afew occasions lets go out for a meal ect but she declined, we ended up meeting 30 miles away in country pubs ect and she was fine.in Her self she was very westernised also in her dress wear, but it was purely her family wouldnt approve. |
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"I think its preference, i met a gorgeous asian on here a while back were still intouch as friends but shes very funny about being seen meeting so we meet for a coffee at mine occasionally.
How did it go Asian as in?
Shes Pakistani asian. She runs themed club nights now at a well known club.
So then what was the issue then? Sorry just trying to understand
Who said theres a issue?
As in being seen with you
Her family wouldnt approve, i said on afew occasions lets go out for a meal ect but she declined, we ended up meeting 30 miles away in country pubs ect and she was fine.in Her self she was very westernised also in her dress wear, but it was purely her family wouldnt approve."
That's what I'm trying to say. Why this! It's not needed at all |
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"I think its preference, i met a gorgeous asian on here a while back were still intouch as friends but shes very funny about being seen meeting so we meet for a coffee at mine occasionally.
How did it go Asian as in?
Shes Pakistani asian. She runs themed club nights now at a well known club.
So then what was the issue then? Sorry just trying to understand
Who said theres a issue?
As in being seen with you
Her family wouldnt approve, i said on afew occasions lets go out for a meal ect but she declined, we ended up meeting 30 miles away in country pubs ect and she was fine.in Her self she was very westernised also in her dress wear, but it was purely her family wouldnt approve.
That's what I'm trying to say. Why this! It's not needed at all"
Its daft, all i can think is her parents may have more traditional beliefs, i remember when we visited a club and went back to the hotel that night she was lay with me staring and said, 'this is what ive wanted to feel, myself truly myself' i questioned her and she just said 'in another life maybe'. That made me feel quite sad for her. |
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Op to be brutally honest I've never met an Asian lady so couldn't say if I'd have a sexual relationship with one ,I'm not saying I wouldn't but to be honest I can't see it happening as I don't live near an Asian community and there's not exactly a lot of Asian women ladies on fab from my area,and as I said on another forum and t shouldn't boil down to colour or race it's wether u find the person attractive |
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"I think its preference, i met a gorgeous asian on here a while back were still intouch as friends but shes very funny about being seen meeting so we meet for a coffee at mine occasionally.
How did it go Asian as in?
Shes Pakistani asian. She runs themed club nights now at a well known club.
So then what was the issue then? Sorry just trying to understand
Who said theres a issue?
As in being seen with you
Her family wouldnt approve, i said on afew occasions lets go out for a meal ect but she declined, we ended up meeting 30 miles away in country pubs ect and she was fine.in Her self she was very westernised also in her dress wear, but it was purely her family wouldnt approve.
That's what I'm trying to say. Why this! It's not needed at all
Its daft, all i can think is her parents may have more traditional beliefs, i remember when we visited a club and went back to the hotel that night she was lay with me staring and said, 'this is what ive wanted to feel, myself truly myself' i questioned her and she just said 'in another life maybe'. That made me feel quite sad for her. "
Totally agree! |
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"There is no place and time for racism. We are bleed the same."
So true!
My interest in meeting people is not determined by their race, creed or colour. I've seen some amazing asian and black ladies who I'd very much love to be with. It's down to the person. we are all one species. |
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"There is no place and time for racism. We are bleed the same.
So true!
My interest in meeting people is not determined by their race, creed or colour. I've seen some amazing asian and black ladies who I'd very much love to be with. It's down to the person. we are all one species."
Exactly |
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When I was in mt late teens I had an asian friend who wanted to take things further, I was seeing someone at the time though. I regret it now as she had the most amazing legs and always wore tights which drove me wild, my then girlfriend strangely didn't have an issue with me running my hands up them either- odd!
Anyway, she told me about being stalked by her brothers and her mum beating her with a shoe before being disowned as she had a white boyfriend. So sad.
Back on topic, I would love to meet an Asian woman now. No issues with race for me whatsoever. |
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"When I was in mt late teens I had an asian friend who wanted to take things further, I was seeing someone at the time though. I regret it now as she had the most amazing legs and always wore tights which drove me wild, my then girlfriend strangely didn't have an issue with me running my hands up them either- odd!
Anyway, she told me about being stalked by her brothers and her mum beating her with a shoe before being disowned as she had a white boyfriend. So sad.
Back on topic, I would love to meet an Asian woman now. No issues with race for me whatsoever. "
Wow! It's sad, hope you do find an Asian woman soon. |
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Interesting thread and perspectives. We have experience of family with mixed marriage, have met many nationalities and grew up with lots of non asian friends. The cross culture is absolutely beneficial , however we have encountered our fair share lack of understanding which sometime can make you think why bother. But overall the more people talk, communicate and try to understand the better it will be for society as a whole. |
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There is Zero reluctance, but far less opportunity.....
Asian women are incredibly hot! I've met and dated Indian and Pakistani women before, and hopefully will again! But the biggest item on my sexual bucket list is to meet an Asian couple for mmf!  |
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"Hello there,
I'm an Asian straight guy in my 30s of Pakistani origin. I just want to know why are non Asian Guys reluctant to make a move or even bed Asian women or they feel like its a move for them not to make.
Myself, coming from a vast majority Asian neighbourhood, I have missed out making friends with non Asian people and was hoping that I can achieve this from here and even guys who want to date Asian women, hang out in Asian areas with myself, or whatever and maybe if so needs be I can introduce you to some myself.
There is no place and time for racism. We are bleed the same.
Regards "
Oh well I’m very much a fan of an Asian lady |
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This is a great post for an open discussion about non asian guys wanting to meet asian women...in this day and age...ive seen more asian girls go with non asian guys...whether it known in the asian community or with that asian girls family...not 100% sure but i know any community loves gossip. ive known few asian girls that are happily married with non asian guys...majority are starting to move on but you do have some minority that just wont let that happen due to culture or in my opiniom respect within their community as this is what they mostly care about more than anything |
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"This is a great post for an open discussion about non asian guys wanting to meet asian women...in this day and age...ive seen more asian girls go with non asian guys...whether it known in the asian community or with that asian girls family...not 100% sure but i know any community loves gossip. ive known few asian girls that are happily married with non asian guys...majority are starting to move on but you do have some minority that just wont let that happen due to culture or in my opiniom respect within their community as this is what they mostly care about more than anything"
I agree with this post, I lived in Leicester for a few years and found 1st / 2nd generation Asian woman kept to themselves to show respect to their culture / community. the more approachable women had family who’d lived in the country longer and where 3rd / 4th etc generation.
I may be generalising, but this is my experience of the matter. |
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"This is a great post for an open discussion about non asian guys wanting to meet asian women...in this day and age...ive seen more asian girls go with non asian guys...whether it known in the asian community or with that asian girls family...not 100% sure but i know any community loves gossip. ive known few asian girls that are happily married with non asian guys...majority are starting to move on but you do have some minority that just wont let that happen due to culture or in my opiniom respect within their community as this is what they mostly care about more than anything
I agree with this post, I lived in Leicester for a few years and found 1st / 2nd generation Asian woman kept to themselves to show respect to their culture / community. the more approachable women had family who’d lived in the country longer and where 3rd / 4th etc generation.
I may be generalising, but this is my experience of the matter."
Yes but it shouldn't really be like that should it? |
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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago
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"Hello there,
I'm an Asian straight guy in my 30s of Pakistani origin. I just want to know why are non Asian Guys reluctant to make a move or even bed Asian women or they feel like its a move for them not to make.
Myself, coming from a vast majority Asian neighbourhood, I have missed out making friends with non Asian people and was hoping that I can achieve this from here and even guys who want to date Asian women, hang out in Asian areas with myself, or whatever and maybe if so needs be I can introduce you to some myself.
There is no place and time for racism. We are bleed the same.
Regards "
How do you mean racist. Asian oriental very sxy for me, I dont particularly go for Indian or pakistani woman, I dont find them attractive, thats not racist its self preference |
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I'd make a move to any women I find attractive regardless of their ethnicity, social, political or religious background.
However, I do find pathetic the ones who make a move in order to fuck someone of different backgrounds because they are looking for a bit of exotism so to speak.
As long as your approach is respectful and aware of cultural differences and based on a real attraction towards the woman in question, rather than desire to try someone 'different', I don't see why anyone who be reluctant to make a move. |
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