But please don't dismiss all meets as being illegal activities. Sometimes they are just a coping mechanism for singletons. We deserve physical contact too!

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

I'd rather go without sex than risk catching covid!

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By *man_4Man over a year ago

London

Nope, just been trying to speak with and get to know people for when things are safe again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm pretty sure quite a few have going by the douches in my inbox and no that's not a euphemism I'm a virgin thanks

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By *reya73Woman over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I wouldnt blame anyone for having some intimacy during all this time. It's human nature and everyone has different needs as far as mental health wellbeing is concerned. Cuddles, affection, sex and intimacy for many are part of staying well.

I'm not talking about swinging or 'carrying on as normal' sexual activity and lots of partners. But in my opinion, there are worse things we can do in these times than to allow some connection. It really depends on everyone's different circumstances.

I'm lucky to have a partner who is my bubble. But between March and june/July we couldn't see each other and it was tough. I remember having a long, gorgeous, healing cuddle with a friend when I was really struggling and very isolated. How can that be so wrong?

I watched my mum cave in and grab her granddaughter for a hug.. They both cried and needed it so much.

All contact, travel, trips to the shops, kids in school etc is a calculated risk. We need to make our own informed choices and find a balance around needs vs risk.

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"I'm single and live alone.

I'm allowed a support bubble. All my friends bubbled with family. I have no local family.

I'm also allowed to change my support bubble as long as I wait 10 days between being in close contact with someone.

In addition I'm tested weekly through work.

So, if I have 2 meets a month I'm not breaking any rules.

I'm not actually meeting twice a month. It's not easy to trust a man on here when he says he's being careful!

But please don't dismiss all meets as being illegal activities. Sometimes they are just a coping mechanism for singletons. We deserve physical contact too! "

Yes us singles need contact also but I'd rather suffer than risk other people's health and my own.

Already lost one family member and he didn't even go anywhere apart from shop

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By *tudiousPipWoman over a year ago

W Yorks

"Yes us singles need contact also but I'd rather suffer than risk other people's health and my own.

Already lost one family member and he didn't even go anywhere apart from shop"

And that's grand! Suffer away!

Some of us are so emotionally damaged from working through Covid, the only physical touch we've had for nearly a year being those who are sick or injured.

No hugs. No cuddles. Just work.

I applaud you if you've lived this and survived.

If this isn't your experience then I politely invite you to shut up.

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"Yes us singles need contact also but I'd rather suffer than risk other people's health and my own.

Already lost one family member and he didn't even go anywhere apart from shop

And that's grand! Suffer away!

Some of us are so emotionally damaged from working through Covid, the only physical touch we've had for nearly a year being those who are sick or injured.

No hugs. No cuddles. Just work.

I applaud you if you've lived this and survived.

If this isn't your experience then I politely invite you to shut up. "

I've worked through the whole thing also and I've had zero human contact and I suffer with anxiety and depression and have to spend all my spare time alone so I don't risk passing anything on to the people I work with because I'm not a selfish person.

So right back at you!!

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By *ornyharry39Man over a year ago

Sheffield

Your telling me no ones met since start last lockdown you are kidding we all horny devils haha I can’t be expected to not meet anyone being a singleton for that long fair enough couples don’t have to they got each other but singletons need sex too on a weekly basis or I’d this just me being too horny every week and the right hand just doesn’t do it for me ??

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By *stbury DavenportMan over a year ago

Nottingham

I have been alone for 345 days. My conscience is clear.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes us singles need contact also but I'd rather suffer than risk other people's health and my own.

Already lost one family member and he didn't even go anywhere apart from shop

And that's grand! Suffer away!

Some of us are so emotionally damaged from working through Covid, the only physical touch we've had for nearly a year being those who are sick or injured.

No hugs. No cuddles. Just work.

I applaud you if you've lived this and survived.

If this isn't your experience then I politely invite you to shut up.

So right back at you!! "

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I'm single and live alone.

I'm allowed a support bubble. All my friends bubbled with family. I have no local family.

I'm also allowed to change my support bubble as long as I wait 10 days between being in close contact with someone.

In addition I'm tested weekly through work.

So, if I have 2 meets a month I'm not breaking any rules.

I'm not actually meeting twice a month. It's not easy to trust a man on here when he says he's being careful!

But please don't dismiss all meets as being illegal activities. Sometimes they are just a coping mechanism for singletons. We deserve physical contact too! "

Just because you can doesn’t mean you should! There is an air of ‘responsibility’ in here somewhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I haven’t , my whole social circle is taking it very seriously as a few people close to us have had Covid.

I’ll have to catch up on my sexual adventures once everything calms down. Before I was frustrated but now I’m just able to get over it a lot easier.

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By *tudiousPipWoman over a year ago

W Yorks

I think that the fact that I've only touched sick or injured people was missed by those who eviscerated me.

I'd find it much easier to be in lockdown touching nobody...

I was dealing with giving frontline care to people sick with Covid when nobody was there to give care to me. For 10 months, until I left my job as an emotionally broken husk of a person.

But I guess there's no room for nuance here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Realised when i looked in my calendar that last weekend marked a full year since i hugged my mum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think that the fact that I've only touched sick or injured people was missed by those who eviscerated me.

I'd find it much easier to be in lockdown touching nobody...

I was dealing with giving frontline care to people sick with Covid when nobody was there to give care to me. For 10 months, until I left my job as an emotionally broken husk of a person.

But I guess there's no room for nuance here. "

I think you are hurting but please try not to lash out here x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope stuck to the rules as I had Covid over Christmas self isolation for me for 3 weeks was so bloody ill with it although am ok now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No but not for the want of trying, but I hardly met before the pandemic on here due to having a small penis and been a shit fuck

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By *ike 321Man over a year ago

west midlands

??????right on so many levels !!!

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By *asIsaCouple over a year ago

harrow

"I'm single and live alone.

I'm allowed a support bubble. All my friends bubbled with family. I have no local family.

I'm also allowed to change my support bubble as long as I wait 10 days between being in close contact with someone.

In addition I'm tested weekly through work.

So, if I have 2 meets a month I'm not breaking any rules.

I'm not actually meeting twice a month. It's not easy to trust a man on here when he says he's being careful!

But please don't dismiss all meets as being illegal activities. Sometimes they are just a coping mechanism for singletons. We deserve physical contact too! "

Reckless and bloody selfish

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By *tudiousPipWoman over a year ago

W Yorks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What lockdown

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By *ayTTV/TS over a year ago

Porthmadog

Nope, full time carer for a vulnerable person so not taking any risks. Had plenty of offers so I assume plenty of people are

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By *wistedTooCouple over a year ago

Frimley

Not at all and will not until it’s in a better place to do so.

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By *ip7Man over a year ago

caister

Wanking myself to death ,may try for a meet once I get my jab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No .but there's still plenty of people on here who are asking for meets. I know that we are all horny but we must not meet during this pandemic common sense and all that

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