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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My message was deleted without a reply, rather than receive a "no thanks" message.
It lets me know where I stand, and I don't get the false hope of seeing "1 unread" 
How about you?
(This probably only applies to the men; women probably see "306 unread" and don't get the same rush that I do from "1 unread" ) |
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"My message was deleted without a reply, rather than receive a "no thanks" message.
It lets me know where I stand, and I don't get the false hope of seeing "1 unread"
How about you?
(This probably only applies to the men; women probably see "306 unread" and don't get the same rush that I do from "1 unread" )"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're the only man I've ever heard say that. Usually they're saying a polite reply costs nothing  "
Yeah, those threads infuriate me. Some blokes here have such a sense of entitlement... not a great quality. |
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"You're the only man I've ever heard say that. Usually they're saying a polite reply costs nothing
Yeah, those threads infuriate me. Some blokes here have such a sense of entitlement... not a great quality."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Another tip for guys: if you message a woman to compliment her on her pics, and she just replies with "thanks", that's all it is. A polite conversation-stopper. Do not pursue! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another tip for guys: if you message a woman to compliment her on her pics, and she just replies with "thanks", that's all it is. A polite conversation-stopper. Do not pursue! "
Thanks for that, there was me going to get measured up for a wedding suit. |
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"Another tip for guys: if you message a woman to compliment her on her pics, and she just replies with "thanks", that's all it is. A polite conversation-stopper. Do not pursue! "
I think we should all just accept it mate, i don't get many messages
And say when I'm interested.
I think the girls would have a hard time replying to all to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I honestly couldn't care much if my message sits unread, gets deleted or I get a no thanks etc.
I'm fucking awesome!! My friends here will confirm this "
This is the right energy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Another tip for guys: if you message a woman to compliment her on her pics, and she just replies with "thanks", that's all it is. A polite conversation-stopper. Do not pursue!
Thanks for that, there was me going to get measured up for a wedding suit. "
Well that's ruined my next tip: when to get measured up for a wedding suit and when not to  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Another tip for guys: if you message a woman to compliment her on her pics, and she just replies with "thanks", that's all it is. A polite conversation-stopper. Do not pursue!
I think we should all just accept it mate, i don't get many messages
And say when I'm interested.
I think the girls would have a hard time replying to all to be honest. "
Definitely. I think a lot of guys see a message and take it as a green light, regardless of the content. Sometimes you just need to read between the lines a little. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The majority of the people I've said "no thank you" to this year have replied to thank me for actually replying to their message. No abuse and no hassle.   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The majority of the people I've said "no thank you" to this year have replied to thank me for actually replying to their message. No abuse and no hassle. "
I'm glad to hear that. Usually on here women just report insults and abuse when they say no thanks  |
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"Another tip for guys: if you message a woman to compliment her on her pics, and she just replies with "thanks", that's all it is. A polite conversation-stopper. Do not pursue! "
Funny. I always thought that was an open invitation to bombard her with further unwanted messages. Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love logging in to see 1 unread or an extra couple of people have looked at my profile it’s the little things like that on here that get my hopes up "
Yeah it's definitely good... I just prefer it to be from someone actually interested in me |
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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago
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"Even when I do politely reply with a no thanks, some men then reply back with something vile and uncalled for. Cant win sometimes "
This, has made me tend not to reply as I got more abuse for saying thankyou but no trying to be polite and respectful.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually just see a read and deleted message or just read with no reply, but I just take it on the chin
I'm guessing that the women get bombarded with messages and sometimes it's overwhelming and annoying for them |
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We try to reply to every decent message we get but most of our mail comes from guys who clearly haven't read our profile (even if they say they have) to find out where we are, what we're looking for etc. first. We find it bizarre but if they can't be bothered, we can't.
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