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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know that there is about a teaspoon full of sympathy in the world for men with big dick problems, so I decided to to some research.
The average maximum depth of a vagina is 5-7 inches. Obviously there will be some women above this figure but they seem to be a small minority.
I have had relationships break down due to the size of my cock,but most people seem to find this unbelievable,but guys who are over 9 inches will understand this as our cocks can be as much as 4 inches too big for some women. It's hard for a man to not get excited during sex and make a few deep thrusts, especially during ejaculation, but these few moments can cause bruising to the cervix that can take weeks to heal properly.
As a teenager I really wasn't certain that I was bigger than average until I met a girl who was much more experienced than me and she asked me if I had a big cock. I said "I think so" then got it out and that was the first time I saw someone's mouth drop open in surprise when seeing it.
As I moved into adulthood and joined sports teams, showering became a issue as my teammates noticed my cock and I was a target of mockery and jealousy.
Over the years I have learned to be a lot more gentle during sex and I sometimes wonder how many other well endowed guys have had bad experiences due to their penis size? |
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"I don’t actually think the OP is that big. A lot of two hands pulling it out going on.
I’d say 7’ maximum. Can see from the no hand shots."
OP is definitely bigger than 7inch you can clearly see that on his pics... shame I cant say the same as you seen as though you have no photos on your profile |
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"I don’t actually think the OP is that big. A lot of two hands pulling it out going on.
I’d say 7’ maximum. Can see from the no hand shots.
OP is definitely bigger than 7inch you can clearly see that on his pics... shame I cant say the same as you seen as though you have no photos on your profile"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t have that problem (luckily?) but we’ve met two or three guys who have very big cocks and what you say is right. It’s not just the guy who has to hold back though, the woman has to beware pushing back too hard or else it can hurt.
It was becoming a problem with a guy we met and so we asked a friend what the solution is. She’d bragged that her guy had a massive cock and had worked out that either from behind or the woman on top so she can control thrust depth.
Since then it’s been great! I’m told that big ones are great to play with and suck which makes up for it a bit and also that sometimes long ones are girth good and that that is a very good thing. She sighs I’ve heard etc do seem to lend weight to that claim.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As someone who’s had anal sex with a lot of very well endowed men, I agree that it can be an issue. You do get used to taking them balls deep and, as casual sex, that’s quite a thrill.
However, my last bf was nearly 10” and thick. There were times when we had to be very gentle because a previous session hadn’t been.
I’m trans, if you weren’t aware, and I now have a vagina. I want to enjoy vaginal sex from now on with anal as a treat. This now will limit my choice of men based on the size of his manhood. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know that there is about a teaspoon full of sympathy in the world for men with big dick problems, so I decided to to some research.
The average maximum depth of a vagina is 5-7 inches. Obviously there will be some women above this figure but they seem to be a small minority.
I have had relationships break down due to the size of my cock,but most people seem to find this unbelievable,but guys who are over 9 inches will understand this as our cocks can be as much as 4 inches too big for some women. It's hard for a man to not get excited during sex and make a few deep thrusts, especially during ejaculation, but these few moments can cause bruising to the cervix that can take weeks to heal properly.
As a teenager I really wasn't certain that I was bigger than average until I met a girl who was much more experienced than me and she asked me if I had a big cock. I said "I think so" then got it out and that was the first time I saw someone's mouth drop open in surprise when seeing it.
As I moved into adulthood and joined sports teams, showering became a issue as my teammates noticed my cock and I was a target of mockery and jealousy.
Over the years I have learned to be a lot more gentle during sex and I sometimes wonder how many other well endowed guys have had bad experiences due to their penis size?"
Do you warn women in advance before things get heated? Obviously on a site such as this she will have seen your pics first.
I met a man who was far too big for me. He had pics on his profile that made his cock look 'normal' size. If I'd realised beforehand I wouldn't have met him. |
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"Do you warn women in advance before things get heated? Obviously on a site such as this she will have seen your pics first.
I met a man who was far too big for me. He had pics on his profile that made his cock look 'normal' size. If I'd realised beforehand I wouldn't have met him. "
That's certainly not the type of catfish I'm used to hearing about. |
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I adore big cocks especially thick ones with a bulbous head too, even better if it's with 2 well endowed guys taking both in one hole, like my last visit to the tropics male sauna in Portsmouth for their tgirl sessions. Where I was double penetrated a couple of times. I have had many gang bangs and spit roasts by many guys, and a majority of them have been over 7 inches, I even have a 22 inch double ended dildo which is very thick, to which half of it is inside me. I can even do deep throat on well endowed guys taking the full length no matter what size, so far there hasn't been a cock I cant take in either end. |
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It can’t be much fun for a man who has to take it easy. Or the lady receiving it, I wouldn’t be able to fully relax if I’d been hurt before.
My husband is a good size and in certain positions it can go a little too deep but I love getting to the point where I’m telling him to fuck me harder and we both lose control a bit. I can’t imagine that happening if he was any bigger.
Lou x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do you warn women in advance before things get heated? Obviously on a site such as this she will have seen your pics first.
I met a man who was far too big for me. He had pics on his profile that made his cock look 'normal' size. If I'd realised beforehand I wouldn't have met him.
That's certainly not the type of catfish I'm used to hearing about. "
To pre-warn someone on a date about my monster cock, would be perceived as boasting and gives the impression that all I want is sex. When dating it's better not mentioning it and let them find out in the bedroom if or when it happens. |
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"I don’t actually think the OP is that big. A lot of two hands pulling it out going on.
I’d say 7’ maximum. Can see from the no hand shots."
I’d say for someone who regularly boasts about his own penis you seem mighty envious of other well endowed men. Not a nice trait.
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Actually I don’t think the OP is making a “humble brag” why would he? In the forum? I don’t think he needs to brag about things, his profile pics show his size 
But what he does bring up is a very human aspect of a fantasy. And the challenges he has faced because of something he has very little control over. The size of his penis.
Years ago I was considered “big” but over the last few years I have found that not so much. I remain the same size, however I think with the advent of more porn, more people looking for NSA etc. That I have dropped into the “average” category and rarely now encounter people that say “where are you going with that” or such like. I’m still careful, because as the OP says, you want to be a considerate lover, however I find that women are less intimidated by my size. Maybe I was never that big in the first place? Maybe the bar for “big” is now higher? Not sure.
One thing I do know, is that I can’t do anything about it, but the way some men talk about it you would think they had a direct hand (pardon the pun) in the size of manhood that life dealt them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you warn women in advance before things get heated? Obviously on a site such as this she will have seen your pics first.
I met a man who was far too big for me. He had pics on his profile that made his cock look 'normal' size. If I'd realised beforehand I wouldn't have met him.
That's certainly not the type of catfish I'm used to hearing about.
To pre-warn someone on a date about my monster cock, would be perceived as boasting and gives the impression that all I want is sex. When dating it's better not mentioning it and let them find out in the bedroom if or when it happens. "
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"Do you warn women in advance before things get heated? Obviously on a site such as this she will have seen your pics first.
I met a man who was far too big for me. He had pics on his profile that made his cock look 'normal' size. If I'd realised beforehand I wouldn't have met him.
That's certainly not the type of catfish I'm used to hearing about.
To pre-warn someone on a date about my monster cock, would be perceived as boasting and gives the impression that all I want is sex. When dating it's better not mentioning it and let them find out in the bedroom if or when it happens.
Fair point.. "
Also I don't think many women would warn a date about the size of their vagina beforehand. |
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I don’t see what the problem is really. I have known a lot of women who can take and love a dick of the OP size. There’s loads of them on here. He just needs to find women like that. OP if you’re struggling DM me and I can put you in touch with a few |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you warn women in advance before things get heated? Obviously on a site such as this she will have seen your pics first.
I met a man who was far too big for me. He had pics on his profile that made his cock look 'normal' size. If I'd realised beforehand I wouldn't have met him.
That's certainly not the type of catfish I'm used to hearing about.
To pre-warn someone on a date about my monster cock, would be perceived as boasting and gives the impression that all I want is sex. When dating it's better not mentioning it and let them find out in the bedroom if or when it happens.
Fair point..
Also I don't think many women would warn a date about the size of their vagina beforehand. "
 Mine is short but very wide. Like a tuna can. I really should warn them their cock won't touch the sides. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Actually I don’t think the OP is making a “humble brag” why would he? In the forum? I don’t think he needs to brag about things, his profile pics show his size
But what he does bring up is a very human aspect of a fantasy. And the challenges he has faced because of something he has very little control over. The size of his penis.
Years ago I was considered “big” but over the last few years I have found that not so much. I remain the same size, however I think with the advent of more porn, more people looking for NSA etc. That I have dropped into the “average” category and rarely now encounter people that say “where are you going with that” or such like. I’m still careful, because as the OP says, you want to be a considerate lover, however I find that women are less intimidated by my size. Maybe I was never that big in the first place? Maybe the bar for “big” is now higher? Not sure.
One thing I do know, is that I can’t do anything about it, but the way some men talk about it you would think they had a direct hand (pardon the pun) in the size of manhood that life dealt them. "
Porn is definitely a problem because we are fooled by camera angles and the use of very short people into believing that is a reflection of real life. Most women in porn are under 5ft 2" tall and many of the guys are quite short with a few exceptions.
Mandingo, for example is rumoured to be about 5'6" or 5'7" and about we are told his cock is 12 inches, but he is nearer to 9.5 inches, which is still huge, but if you put him with a 4'10" skinny
girl his cock looks like a tree trunk!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also I don't think many women would warn a date about the size of their vagina beforehand.
What if the bloke really liked yodelling and could appreciate a good echo? "
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being gentle and warming up slowly is the key... i love big cocks so be happy to chat to nice gentlemen who are well endowed. Some women have massive boobies and some men appreciate and adapt. Can't it be the same for men? |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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I dont really go on dick size ive had big men and ive had average , had cracking sex with both , i have to like who's its attached to if I dont ,you could be the best sex in the world I still wouldn't be interested |
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"I don’t actually think the OP is that big. A lot of two hands pulling it out going on.
I’d say 7’ maximum. Can see from the no hand shots."
No wonder there's never as many pringles or as much wine as I think! |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
I feel your pain OP.
I've had to turn men down, who seem really lovely, because their penis is too long.
The cervix is supposed to be pushed out of the way if the penis is longer than the vaginal cavity, but it just seems to bang against mine. At some angles an over 7 inch puts pressure on my bladder and that is very painful too.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I don’t actually think the OP is that big. A lot of two hands pulling it out going on.
I’d say 7’ maximum. Can see from the no hand shots.
I’d say for someone who regularly boasts about his own penis you seem mighty envious of other well endowed men. Not a nice trait.
Lou x
Quite the opposite Lou.
I pay compliments.
I do however call out people who say they’re huge and gigantic when in fact they’re neither "
Photos make penises look smaller too.
I've been totally flabbergasted when a man whose penis I've seen in photos has undressed, because it has been huge.
I've looked at the OP's photos and it does look much longer than 7".
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have
Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have
Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are
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I'll lie and say a robin's egg is too big for me. |
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"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have
Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are
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It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have
Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are
I'll lie and say a robin's egg is too big for me."
well obviously!
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have
Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are
It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge "
Women would need a pressure gauge surely? The more pressure the tighter the vagina? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have
Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are
It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge "
good plan!
But won't we need the sky remotes for context?
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have
Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are
I'll lie and say a robin's egg is too big for me.
well obviously!
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Might put that on my profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Pringles and sky remote are pushed in to the leg and start below the balls.
It’s 7’ - no bigger.
The guys with tape measure that start at 1.5 inches are my favourite.
No envy here - I have proof I am gigantic.
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I'd be interested to see an alternative angle to all your pics if your "gigantic" 'lol' I could make my dick look like that from your angles... Just saying |
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"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have
Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are
It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge
Women would need a pressure gauge surely? The more pressure the tighter the vagina?"
I might make a video of me cracking walnuts in mine |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have
Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are
It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge
good plan!
But won't we need the sky remotes for context?
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We would need different size sausages.
I'll be a chipolata. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have
Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are
It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge
Women would need a pressure gauge surely? The more pressure the tighter the vagina?
I might make a video of me cracking walnuts in mine "
And picking the shell pieces out afterwards? |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have
Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are
It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge
Women would need a pressure gauge surely? The more pressure the tighter the vagina?
I might make a video of me cracking walnuts in mine "
go on then n i watch so I can learn to do it to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have
Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are
It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge
Women would need a pressure gauge surely? The more pressure the tighter the vagina?
I might make a video of me cracking walnuts in mine go on then n i watch so I can learn to do it to "
yeah I have skillz I might change my username to cracknutswithmyvag
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Pringles and sky remote are pushed in to the leg and start below the balls.
It’s 7’ - no bigger.
The guys with tape measure that start at 1.5 inches are my favourite.
No envy here - I have proof I am gigantic.
No envy at all, none whatsoever, I mean you sound really cool and breezy about it and not at all like someone who sounds really bothered by it.
Ah there he is. My biggest fan haha
Right on Q"
You make it soooooooo easy, if you look, your comment got about 8 replies, but you only replied back to me, means so much, thanks dude.  |
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By *oxychicWoman
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"Maybe women should start threads about what size vag's they have
Hold tubes of pringles and sky remotes next to them and humble brag about how many messages they get because of how tight they are
It’s difficult to judge the size accurately so buy a few tubs of plasticine and shove it inside. Then when you pull it out it’s easier to judge
Women would need a pressure gauge surely? The more pressure the tighter the vagina?
I might make a video of me cracking walnuts in mine go on then n i watch so I can learn to do it to
yeah I have skillz I might change my username to cracknutswithmyvag
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'll be honest. If I see an above average pic on a profile, I'm out.
I think sometimes it's down to prior experience that put off. Not all will take into account the pain or damage they can cause and hammer at it without a thought for the poor uterus taking a beating or tears they can cause. Though not every VWE man will be the same the anxiety around it is off putting for some. |
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