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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering if people think that my age is going to be to much of a problem... I’m not talking about not either because I know we’re in a lockdown and tbh at the moment I wouldn’t wanna risk anything  but yea do you think I should stay or just give up?  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Whilst age may rule you out for some just focus on those whose age criteria you do fit.
Remember too it's as much about you the person and how you present yourself through your interactions with the site (profile, pics, messages, forum posts) as anything - so make sure those are always positive and a good representation of you  |
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Personally I enjoy older men but if things were different and all that I wouldn’t rule out younger but it would take more convincing. I guess some fab younger guys in the past have behaved for lack of a better word “badly” which can be off putting but if that’s not you then you’re already half way there so it’s just a waiting game
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As everyone has said ..patience and be yourself and all about personal choice and mrs4 quite likes the younger male but other factors do count as well ...but best of luck and most of all never ever forget ..this is meant to be fun ..and of enjoyable  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whilst age may rule you out for some just focus on those whose age criteria you do fit.
Remember too it's as much about you the person and how you present yourself through your interactions with the site (profile, pics, messages, forum posts) as anything - so make sure those are always positive and a good representation of you "
As always great advice 
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you enjoy the banter and interaction then stay and if you’re not enjoying it then leave.
Much like anything in life really.
Best of luck op.
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This |
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"Just wondering if people think that my age is going to be to much of a problem... I’m not talking about not either because I know we’re in a lockdown and tbh at the moment I wouldn’t wanna risk anything but yea do you think I should stay or just give up? "
If I said yes you should give up and you do, then you should give up.
If I said give up but you say,
No I appreciate there are a lot fewer people looking for certain demographics but I’ll stick with it because I’m going to find somebody with a like mind and wants to me, then stick around my young friend.  |
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Ur age wont be for everyone i wouldnt worry about it to much being 18 im in a even worse boat than u if looking at it as an ossue but once people are able to meet again im sure youll be able to find some interest |
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Depends on your expectations.
If you expect to make connections and get meets from the site you'll likely be banging your head against a brick wall.
If you expect to go to clubs, organised socials and use the site to keep in touch with those you may meet at such events or to keep an eye out for events themselves, then you should meet those expectations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering if people think that my age is going to be to much of a problem... I’m not talking about not either because I know we’re in a lockdown and tbh at the moment I wouldn’t wanna risk anything but yea do you think I should stay or just give up? "
Everybody has the right to be on here, but to answer your question, yes your age will be a problem. For many, but maybe not for all.
You will see this quite often on here so should you stay or go? Your choice.
But if you stay take a tip. The forums are full of single guys moaning about never getting any meets ( when we can of course! ), don't become another one.
Whether people are interested or not, just accept it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Were quite young and we haven't really had any negative comments about our age.
We tend to find we get on with people older than us as (not all) but some people our age or younger cannot string a sentence together or hold a conversation
We've had a MMF with a 37 year old and a couple who are 35 so I wouldn't be put off by thinking your age will put people off, everyone has their own preferences, as long as we are attracted to them and they have a nice personality, age doesn't matter to us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Were quite young and we haven't really had any negative comments about our age.
We tend to find we get on with people older than us as (not all) but some people our age or younger cannot string a sentence together or hold a conversation
We've had a MMF with a 37 year old and a couple who are 35 so I wouldn't be put off by thinking your age will put people off, everyone has their own preferences, as long as we are attracted to them and they have a nice personality, age doesn't matter to us "
Very very different for couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You asked à similar question nearly 3 mths ago and we are still in a lockdown, it's a strange time and no one is getting to meet anyone.. "
The impatience of the young hey!! |
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Mixed feelings here
I’m very much interested in a young guy ( remembering my thoughts at that age it would be a dream) especially a young fit guy who could probably repeat all night
Nata prefers someone a little more experienced |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Were quite young and we haven't really had any negative comments about our age.
We tend to find we get on with people older than us as (not all) but some people our age or younger cannot string a sentence together or hold a conversation
We've had a MMF with a 37 year old and a couple who are 35 so I wouldn't be put off by thinking your age will put people off, everyone has their own preferences, as long as we are attracted to them and they have a nice personality, age doesn't matter to us
Very very different for couples. "
Yeah I get that. Just sort of awnsering his question that no we wouldn't be bothered about his age, whilst also adding in a little about our experience that's all. |
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"Age is just a number its how you act that's important some 21 can be very mature some can act like they still need their arse wiped by their mum lol Don't give it it will happen in time x "
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Hello OP
Firstly, you will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. Don't get into arguements over it; the world has changed and how people meet today is different to how it was 10 years ago, let alone 30 or 40. There is nothing you can do about your age, so don't fret.
Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc. There is no point contacting people hundreds of miles away if you cannot 100% commit to a meet.
Some will give you a chance, some won't, but we wish you luck |
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"Hello OP
Firstly, you will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. Don't get into arguements over it; the world has changed and how people meet today is different to how it was 10 years ago, let alone 30 or 40. There is nothing you can do about your age, so don't fret.
Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc. There is no point contacting people hundreds of miles away if you cannot 100% commit to a meet.
Some will give you a chance, some won't, but we wish you luck "
Good point about changing times - people can compartmentalise much more easily online. Many older people might be attracted to a 21 year old that they meet in person but their online criteria will rule out that possibility. Perhaps our romantic lives are the poorer for feeding the algorithm? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering if people think that my age is going to be to much of a problem... I’m not talking about not either because I know we’re in a lockdown and tbh at the moment I wouldn’t wanna risk anything but yea do you think I should stay or just give up? "
How can you be too young, you are the age you are don't be so look at me I need to get attention..
Everyone has preferences and if your not it then you look for someone who does prefer men your age.. Its not rocket science |
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