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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a man who is predominantly attracted to woman, but has a small thing for men, I state this on my
Profile by showing myself under bi-curious and set my inbox to accept mails from men and woman.
However, why do so many guys message when their profile literally tells you they aren’t bi/gay 
While I’m under the opinion that a man wanting another man to ‘empty him  ‘ is not a straight act, many here seem to think so. Must be the ‘fab straight’
Am I the only one who thinks this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a man who is predominantly attracted to woman, but has a small thing for men, I state this on my
Profile by showing myself under bi-curious and set my inbox to accept mails from men and woman.
However, why do so many guys message when their profile literally tells you they aren’t bi/gay
While I’m under the opinion that a man wanting another man to ‘empty him ‘ is not a straight act, many here seem to think so. Must be the ‘fab straight’
Am I the only one who thinks this?"
No you are not alone!!
T |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
Just one of those things really. Im straight but I'll chat to anyone. I do get messages from guys giving compliments on my pics and telling me what they would like to do. I thank them for the compliment and just explain I'm not into guys but I'm happy to chat and they seem OK with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bi women are very accepted by anyone. Bi or gay aren't and carry stigma.
Been on here 10 years and found that many straight men are bi. I am bi curious yet state straight as I got some many useless idiotsstating: wanna unload , quickie, etc ..boring and pointless . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a man who is predominantly attracted to woman, but has a small thing for men, I state this on my
Profile by showing myself under bi-curious and set my inbox to accept mails from men and woman.
However, why do so many guys message when their profile literally tells you they aren’t bi/gay
While I’m under the opinion that a man wanting another man to ‘empty him ‘ is not a straight act, many here seem to think so. Must be the ‘fab straight’
Am I the only one who thinks this?"
Maybe they like to keep this curiosity a secret as they rarely act on it? People are difficult and multi faceted sometimes .. it might be something they still try and repress
But anyway, you did the right thing if u are fully comfortable with urself and are attracted to men at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People do things usually because they can do them 
What other folk put on their profile is entirely their own business and you know you can simply ignore or block them if they offend you or if you aren't interested fella. Live and let live I reckon 
(do you ever reply?) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi women are very accepted by anyone. Bi or gay aren't and carry stigma.
Been on here 10 years and found that many straight men are bi. I am bi curious yet state straight as I got some many useless idiotsstating: wanna unload , quickie, etc ..boring and pointless . "
Agree,I see a lot of single women profiles stating not into bi men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be happy with your own sexuality
Be confident with your own sexuality
A man with confidence and volition is, to me, far sexier than a denier, appeaser or hoodwinker
That will, of course, take you off some peoples sexual radar
So be it |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
When you see some profiles saying:
NO GAY OR BI MEN WILL BE MET UNDER ANY CIRCS AND IF YOU HAVE A VERI FROM A TGIRL WE WON'T MEET YOU EITHER!!!!!!
you can understand it. Some people are really silly about such things, assuming that a bi guy only needs to see another guy to turn into a ravening foaming at the mouth sex addict.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you see some profiles saying:
NO GAY OR BI MEN WILL BE MET UNDER ANY CIRCS AND IF YOU HAVE A VERI FROM A TGIRL WE WON'T MEET YOU EITHER!!!!!!
you can understand it. Some people are really silly about such things, assuming that a bi guy only needs to see another guy to turn into a ravening foaming at the mouth sex addict. "
I know what you're saying Tina, but it just gets tiring
I felt it was a two part epiphany
Firstly, it's OK and who I sleep with doesn't devalue me, the man
Secondly, some people might not want to shag me because of it
and that's OK too
Far be it from me to expedite or challenge the way other guys find their peace with it though |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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"When you see some profiles saying:
NO GAY OR BI MEN WILL BE MET UNDER ANY CIRCS AND IF YOU HAVE A VERI FROM A TGIRL WE WON'T MEET YOU EITHER!!!!!!
you can understand it. Some people are really silly about such things, assuming that a bi guy only needs to see another guy to turn into a ravening foaming at the mouth sex addict. "
Exactly this it's stupid and quite prejudice, I mean like girls too but I'm not gonna pounce on a straight girl in a couple just because of my tendancies, men always get the raw end of the deal when it comes to the bi tag |
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By *orteMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
It's all just labels and it has its place as a guide but it is classifying something which is a spectrum which has problems. Are you greeny blue? Or even orangey blue? People are weird talk to them and if they are too puce for you then they should accept that you are not for each other. |
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