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"I thought this was going to be a thread asking for videos of men putting clothes on. I'm strangely disappointed and yet not."
I thought that too 
I don’t know why but I love watching men put on shirts when they’re all fresh and smelling delicious. I also like it when they get undressed. Also when they don’t know I’m staring at them. I just like being a pervert really |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"I thought this was going to be a thread asking for videos of men putting clothes on. I'm strangely disappointed and yet not.
I thought that too
I don’t know why but I love watching men put on shirts when they’re all fresh and smelling delicious. I also like it when they get undressed. Also when they don’t know I’m staring at them. I just like being a pervert really "
Yes. This. Most definitely.
Except I'm a sweet and innocent angel. Not a pervert. |
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"I thought this was going to be a thread asking for videos of men putting clothes on. I'm strangely disappointed and yet not.
I thought that too
I don’t know why but I love watching men put on shirts when they’re all fresh and smelling delicious. I also like it when they get undressed. Also when they don’t know I’m staring at them. I just like being a pervert really
Yes. This. Most definitely.
Except I'm a sweet and innocent angel. Not a pervert."
Lies |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I thought this was going to be a thread asking for videos of men putting clothes on. I'm strangely disappointed and yet not.
I thought that too
I don’t know why but I love watching men put on shirts when they’re all fresh and smelling delicious. I also like it when they get undressed. Also when they don’t know I’m staring at them. I just like being a pervert really
Yes. This. Most definitely.
Except I'm a sweet and innocent angel. Not a pervert.
Lies "
Can I watch you get dressed? And undressed? For research  
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"Why do blokes like wearing women’s lingerie
If they're like me then they often won't have a clue why themselves.
Trust me it would make life easier if I didn't have a compulsion to do this."
Would it . Make life easier ? .. genuinely interested |
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"Why do blokes like wearing women’s lingerie
If they're like me then they often won't have a clue why themselves.
Trust me it would make life easier if I didn't have a compulsion to do this.
Would it . Make life easier ? .. genuinely interested "
For most of my life it would have done yes. Not having to hide this side of me, never having the fear of coming out to someone I was getting close to and the fear of rejection by them.
Not having the huge need to dress to satisfy the feelings inside that can end up hurting your own mind.
A few times the worry of someone outing you and having to rapidly purge to hide everything.
The flip side of that though is that I love who I am and if there was no fear of the things I do worry about then life would have been so much happier and a lot more simple.
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"Why do blokes like wearing women’s lingerie
If they're like me then they often won't have a clue why themselves.
Trust me it would make life easier if I didn't have a compulsion to do this.
Would it . Make life easier ? .. genuinely interested
For most of my life it would have done yes. Not having to hide this side of me, never having the fear of coming out to someone I was getting close to and the fear of rejection by them.
Not having the huge need to dress to satisfy the feelings inside that can end up hurting your own mind.
A few times the worry of someone outing you and having to rapidly purge to hide everything.
The flip side of that though is that I love who I am and if there was no fear of the things I do worry about then life would have been so much happier and a lot more simple.
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It’s awful when it’s fearful .. I had that , many do . Managed to bung all that fear in the bin thankfully ..
I feel for you , truly ... msg if you ever need a chat .. no strings |
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"Why do blokes like wearing women’s lingerie
If they're like me then they often won't have a clue why themselves.
Trust me it would make life easier if I didn't have a compulsion to do this.
Would it . Make life easier ? .. genuinely interested
For most of my life it would have done yes. Not having to hide this side of me, never having the fear of coming out to someone I was getting close to and the fear of rejection by them.
Not having the huge need to dress to satisfy the feelings inside that can end up hurting your own mind.
A few times the worry of someone outing you and having to rapidly purge to hide everything.
The flip side of that though is that I love who I am and if there was no fear of the things I do worry about then life would have been so much happier and a lot more simple.
"
Agree, if I could take a pill tomorrow and all the desires go away I would. However I would be concerned about what else it would change in my personality as well.
But I truly feel my life would’ve been easier without this consistent need to express a feminine side to myself.  |
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"Why do blokes like wearing women’s lingerie
If they're like me then they often won't have a clue why themselves.
Trust me it would make life easier if I didn't have a compulsion to do this.
Would it . Make life easier ? .. genuinely interested
For most of my life it would have done yes. Not having to hide this side of me, never having the fear of coming out to someone I was getting close to and the fear of rejection by them.
Not having the huge need to dress to satisfy the feelings inside that can end up hurting your own mind.
A few times the worry of someone outing you and having to rapidly purge to hide everything.
The flip side of that though is that I love who I am and if there was no fear of the things I do worry about then life would have been so much happier and a lot more simple.
Agree, if I could take a pill tomorrow and all the desires go away I would. However I would be concerned about what else it would change in my personality as well.
But I truly feel my life would’ve been easier without this consistent need to express a feminine side to myself. "
That's very sad but having worked with women who said they'd divorce their husbands if they discovered that they were cross dressers I can empathise. |
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"Why do blokes like wearing women’s lingerie
If they're like me then they often won't have a clue why themselves.
Trust me it would make life easier if I didn't have a compulsion to do this.
Would it . Make life easier ? .. genuinely interested
For most of my life it would have done yes. Not having to hide this side of me, never having the fear of coming out to someone I was getting close to and the fear of rejection by them.
Not having the huge need to dress to satisfy the feelings inside that can end up hurting your own mind.
A few times the worry of someone outing you and having to rapidly purge to hide everything.
The flip side of that though is that I love who I am and if there was no fear of the things I do worry about then life would have been so much happier and a lot more simple.
Agree, if I could take a pill tomorrow and all the desires go away I would. However I would be concerned about what else it would change in my personality as well.
But I truly feel my life would’ve been easier without this consistent need to express a feminine side to myself.
That's very sad but having worked with women who said they'd divorce their husbands if they discovered that they were cross dressers I can empathise. "
Its a story I've heard a lot, some would have been able to get through it if it hadn't been for the lies that had been told to try and cover it up but again I can understand that need to try and cover it up because of the consequences that can happen when you're found out.
Ita a very tough one to deal with for a lot of different factors. |
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"Why do blokes like wearing women’s lingerie
If they're like me then they often won't have a clue why themselves.
Trust me it would make life easier if I didn't have a compulsion to do this.
Would it . Make life easier ? .. genuinely interested
For most of my life it would have done yes. Not having to hide this side of me, never having the fear of coming out to someone I was getting close to and the fear of rejection by them.
Not having the huge need to dress to satisfy the feelings inside that can end up hurting your own mind.
A few times the worry of someone outing you and having to rapidly purge to hide everything.
The flip side of that though is that I love who I am and if there was no fear of the things I do worry about then life would have been so much happier and a lot more simple.
Agree, if I could take a pill tomorrow and all the desires go away I would. However I would be concerned about what else it would change in my personality as well.
But I truly feel my life would’ve been easier without this consistent need to express a feminine side to myself.
That's very sad but having worked with women who said they'd divorce their husbands if they discovered that they were cross dressers I can empathise.
Its a story I've heard a lot, some would have been able to get through it if it hadn't been for the lies that had been told to try and cover it up but again I can understand that need to try and cover it up because of the consequences that can happen when you're found out.
Ita a very tough one to deal with for a lot of different factors."
Me getting caught quite early by my partner was the best thing that happened to me. I still would like to dress but don't have the urge that I once had when I first started |
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"Why do blokes like wearing women’s lingerie
If they're like me then they often won't have a clue why themselves.
Trust me it would make life easier if I didn't have a compulsion to do this.
Would it . Make life easier ? .. genuinely interested
For most of my life it would have done yes. Not having to hide this side of me, never having the fear of coming out to someone I was getting close to and the fear of rejection by them.
Not having the huge need to dress to satisfy the feelings inside that can end up hurting your own mind.
A few times the worry of someone outing you and having to rapidly purge to hide everything.
The flip side of that though is that I love who I am and if there was no fear of the things I do worry about then life would have been so much happier and a lot more simple.
It’s awful when it’s fearful .. I had that , many do . Managed to bung all that fear in the bin thankfully ..
I feel for you , truly ... msg if you ever need a chat .. no strings "
Oh im happy now and will only ever spark something up with full knowledge of my dressing side, my recent relationships have all come from it so I know iya better out early even if it does cut your options pool down greatly.
The rewards of coming out early are huge and outweigh the reduction in people you may meet  |
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"Why do blokes like wearing women’s lingerie
If they're like me then they often won't have a clue why themselves.
Trust me it would make life easier if I didn't have a compulsion to do this.
Would it . Make life easier ? .. genuinely interested
For most of my life it would have done yes. Not having to hide this side of me, never having the fear of coming out to someone I was getting close to and the fear of rejection by them.
Not having the huge need to dress to satisfy the feelings inside that can end up hurting your own mind.
A few times the worry of someone outing you and having to rapidly purge to hide everything.
The flip side of that though is that I love who I am and if there was no fear of the things I do worry about then life would have been so much happier and a lot more simple.
Agree, if I could take a pill tomorrow and all the desires go away I would. However I would be concerned about what else it would change in my personality as well.
But I truly feel my life would’ve been easier without this consistent need to express a feminine side to myself.
That's very sad but having worked with women who said they'd divorce their husbands if they discovered that they were cross dressers I can empathise.
Its a story I've heard a lot, some would have been able to get through it if it hadn't been for the lies that had been told to try and cover it up but again I can understand that need to try and cover it up because of the consequences that can happen when you're found out.
Ita a very tough one to deal with for a lot of different factors.
Me getting caught quite early by my partner was the best thing that happened to me. I still would like to dress but don't have the urge that I once had when I first started"
interesting why less of an urge ? No chance of getting caught anymore? |
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"Why do blokes like wearing women’s lingerie
If they're like me then they often won't have a clue why themselves.
Trust me it would make life easier if I didn't have a compulsion to do this.
Would it . Make life easier ? .. genuinely interested
For most of my life it would have done yes. Not having to hide this side of me, never having the fear of coming out to someone I was getting close to and the fear of rejection by them.
Not having the huge need to dress to satisfy the feelings inside that can end up hurting your own mind.
A few times the worry of someone outing you and having to rapidly purge to hide everything.
The flip side of that though is that I love who I am and if there was no fear of the things I do worry about then life would have been so much happier and a lot more simple.
Agree, if I could take a pill tomorrow and all the desires go away I would. However I would be concerned about what else it would change in my personality as well.
But I truly feel my life would’ve been easier without this consistent need to express a feminine side to myself.
That's very sad but having worked with women who said they'd divorce their husbands if they discovered that they were cross dressers I can empathise.
Its a story I've heard a lot, some would have been able to get through it if it hadn't been for the lies that had been told to try and cover it up but again I can understand that need to try and cover it up because of the consequences that can happen when you're found out.
Ita a very tough one to deal with for a lot of different factors."
Yes I think lying to cover it up would be difficult to overcome. I was thinking of a conversation where someone asked me what I'd do if my partner said he wanted to try cross dressing. I replied that we'd been married a long time and I'd have to at least consider it. That was when the others said they would seriously consider divorce except for the only man who kept very quiet |
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"It's a funny old world isn't it, when a woman I can dress entirely in men's clothes and nobody would bat an eyelid but a man dressed in woman's clothes causes all sorts of reactions"
Its the false rumours that can surround people who crossdress, from something as simple as you're doing it to attract men (I dont even like men) to the worst I've ever had shouted in my face more than once I dont even dare hint at in the forum.
Life as a crossdresser has a lot of unhappiness that comes with it.
Thankfully a place like fab and those that accept and like the whole thing alleviate that greatly and have brought me a great deal of joy and friends |
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"Why do blokes like wearing women’s lingerie
If they're like me then they often won't have a clue why themselves.
Trust me it would make life easier if I didn't have a compulsion to do this.
Would it . Make life easier ? .. genuinely interested
For most of my life it would have done yes. Not having to hide this side of me, never having the fear of coming out to someone I was getting close to and the fear of rejection by them.
Not having the huge need to dress to satisfy the feelings inside that can end up hurting your own mind.
A few times the worry of someone outing you and having to rapidly purge to hide everything.
The flip side of that though is that I love who I am and if there was no fear of the things I do worry about then life would have been so much happier and a lot more simple.
Agree, if I could take a pill tomorrow and all the desires go away I would. However I would be concerned about what else it would change in my personality as well.
But I truly feel my life would’ve been easier without this consistent need to express a feminine side to myself.
That's very sad but having worked with women who said they'd divorce their husbands if they discovered that they were cross dressers I can empathise.
Its a story I've heard a lot, some would have been able to get through it if it hadn't been for the lies that had been told to try and cover it up but again I can understand that need to try and cover it up because of the consequences that can happen when you're found out.
Ita a very tough one to deal with for a lot of different factors.
Me getting caught quite early by my partner was the best thing that happened to me. I still would like to dress but don't have the urge that I once had when I first started interesting why less of an urge ? No chance of getting caught anymore? "
She didn't approve, but she was still willing to let me do it with her, but I realised its better if I stop because before I got caught I was buying outfits and heels etc at a rapid rate. It was getting out of control so getting caught was a reality check for me tbh. Although I think I look sexy when I dress haha, so I do miss it a little |
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I’ve dressed since my teens and love it.
Think it looks good and feels great
I fully dress when time allows
These days not much due to Covid
But hope to get back to my normal route soon |
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"It's a funny old world isn't it, when a woman I can dress entirely in men's clothes and nobody would bat an eyelid but a man dressed in woman's clothes causes all sorts of reactions
Its the false rumours that can surround people who crossdress, from something as simple as you're doing it to attract men (I dont even like men) to the worst I've ever had shouted in my face more than once I dont even dare hint at in the forum.
Life as a crossdresser has a lot of unhappiness that comes with it.
Thankfully a place like fab and those that accept and like the whole thing alleviate that greatly and have brought me a great deal of joy and friends "
I'm sorry we live in a world like that.
We used to see a guy in Tunbridge Wells who wore a gorgeous, classic, t skirt suit. He was just going about his business and harming no one but people stared, sniggered and openly laughed. |
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"Why do blokes like wearing women’s lingerie
If they're like me then they often won't have a clue why themselves.
Trust me it would make life easier if I didn't have a compulsion to do this.
Would it . Make life easier ? .. genuinely interested
For most of my life it would have done yes. Not having to hide this side of me, never having the fear of coming out to someone I was getting close to and the fear of rejection by them.
Not having the huge need to dress to satisfy the feelings inside that can end up hurting your own mind.
A few times the worry of someone outing you and having to rapidly purge to hide everything.
The flip side of that though is that I love who I am and if there was no fear of the things I do worry about then life would have been so much happier and a lot more simple.
It’s awful when it’s fearful .. I had that , many do . Managed to bung all that fear in the bin thankfully ..
I feel for you , truly ... msg if you ever need a chat .. no strings
Oh im happy now and will only ever spark something up with full knowledge of my dressing side, my recent relationships have all come from it so I know iya better out early even if it does cut your options pool down greatly.
The rewards of coming out early are huge and outweigh the reduction in people you may meet "
My Wife knew very early in our relationship and it was never a problem. To be honest the majority of women who I’ve been in a relationship with have had no issues either. But I do try to find the right time to tell them and be prepared of the questions that’ll be asked.
The older I get the more I’m feeling that I’m not apologising about who I am, if they don’t like it, then go. But if you’re accepting and open minded about this other part of me, well you’ll find a loyal and decent man who’ll appreciate what he’s found in you.
Ever the optimist me |
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"It's a funny old world isn't it, when a woman I can dress entirely in men's clothes and nobody would bat an eyelid but a man dressed in woman's clothes causes all sorts of reactions
Its the false rumours that can surround people who crossdress, from something as simple as you're doing it to attract men (I dont even like men) to the worst I've ever had shouted in my face more than once I dont even dare hint at in the forum.
Life as a crossdresser has a lot of unhappiness that comes with it.
Thankfully a place like fab and those that accept and like the whole thing alleviate that greatly and have brought me a great deal of joy and friends
I'm sorry we live in a world like that.
We used to see a guy in Tunbridge Wells who wore a gorgeous, classic, t skirt suit. He was just going about his business and harming no one but people stared, sniggered and openly laughed. "
Yep, I've seen others like this around too and admire their grit and determination for doing so.
It doesn't harm anyone, they are often scared but elated to be out like this too and its hard for me to acknowledge them because I know what their reaction could be.....fear of why I'm smiling at them or saying hello when the reality from me is a friendly face to let them know they're OK.
You have a pm too by the way of what I cant say on here. |
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"Why do blokes like wearing women’s lingerie
If they're like me then they often won't have a clue why themselves.
Trust me it would make life easier if I didn't have a compulsion to do this.
Would it . Make life easier ? .. genuinely interested
For most of my life it would have done yes. Not having to hide this side of me, never having the fear of coming out to someone I was getting close to and the fear of rejection by them.
Not having the huge need to dress to satisfy the feelings inside that can end up hurting your own mind.
A few times the worry of someone outing you and having to rapidly purge to hide everything.
The flip side of that though is that I love who I am and if there was no fear of the things I do worry about then life would have been so much happier and a lot more simple.
It’s awful when it’s fearful .. I had that , many do . Managed to bung all that fear in the bin thankfully ..
I feel for you , truly ... msg if you ever need a chat .. no strings
Oh im happy now and will only ever spark something up with full knowledge of my dressing side, my recent relationships have all come from it so I know iya better out early even if it does cut your options pool down greatly.
The rewards of coming out early are huge and outweigh the reduction in people you may meet
My Wife knew very early in our relationship and it was never a problem. To be honest the majority of women who I’ve been in a relationship with have had no issues either. But I do try to find the right time to tell them and be prepared of the questions that’ll be asked.
The older I get the more I’m feeling that I’m not apologising about who I am, if they don’t like it, then go. But if you’re accepting and open minded about this other part of me, well you’ll find a loyal and decent man who’ll appreciate what he’s found in you.
Ever the optimist me "
And this is exactly what I have found too by sharing this side of me from the outset. I have things to offer that many men don't because of it yet I can still find the car, repair the toilet and have a bloody beard that is so in vogue right now lol. |
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"Why do blokes like wearing women’s lingerie
If they're like me then they often won't have a clue why themselves.
Trust me it would make life easier if I didn't have a compulsion to do this.
Would it . Make life easier ? .. genuinely interested
For most of my life it would have done yes. Not having to hide this side of me, never having the fear of coming out to someone I was getting close to and the fear of rejection by them.
Not having the huge need to dress to satisfy the feelings inside that can end up hurting your own mind.
A few times the worry of someone outing you and having to rapidly purge to hide everything.
The flip side of that though is that I love who I am and if there was no fear of the things I do worry about then life would have been so much happier and a lot more simple.
It’s awful when it’s fearful .. I had that , many do . Managed to bung all that fear in the bin thankfully ..
I feel for you , truly ... msg if you ever need a chat .. no strings
Oh im happy now and will only ever spark something up with full knowledge of my dressing side, my recent relationships have all come from it so I know iya better out early even if it does cut your options pool down greatly.
The rewards of coming out early are huge and outweigh the reduction in people you may meet
My Wife knew very early in our relationship and it was never a problem. To be honest the majority of women who I’ve been in a relationship with have had no issues either. But I do try to find the right time to tell them and be prepared of the questions that’ll be asked.
The older I get the more I’m feeling that I’m not apologising about who I am, if they don’t like it, then go. But if you’re accepting and open minded about this other part of me, well you’ll find a loyal and decent man who’ll appreciate what he’s found in you.
Ever the optimist me
And this is exactly what I have found too by sharing this side of me from the outset. I have things to offer that many men don't because of it yet I can still find the car, repair the toilet and have a bloody beard that is so in vogue right now lol."
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