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That first message
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Messages I don't open... (Maybe this will help):
"Hey"
"How's you?"
"I'd love to stick my cock in..."
"Would you like to on this?"
"I'd love to (inset any sexual comment made before ever speaking to said person)"
"Why don't you reply, are you stuck up?"
"Bitch"
"Wouldn't fuck you anyway, you're fat"
Hope that helps. Don't be that guy lol. |
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By *avhonaWoman
over a year ago
Away with the faeries |
I'd love to be able to go back to the very first message I've received from anyone I'm still friends/chatting to.
I'd venture to guess that the themes running throughout those lovely first messages included humour, combined with some intelligence and a show of some passing interest in my profile, something I'd said in forum or even a picture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, I have cake
Or
FAF
Seriously, what might work for one may not work for the other. Read their profile and then just be yourself. "
Cake definatly works   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm looking for coherent sentences and an overall feeling when reading any message that this is a genuine person with good intentions."
Yes this! Coherent sentences... I can only dream of receiving one of those. 
Love your profile name and status!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We just want someone to string a sentence together, something a bit more than 'Hi' or How's U'. Also be nice if they have read the profile instead of asking questions that it would have plainly answered! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you all reply to the messages that have made an effort even if they are not your type?"
Some don't but don't take it personally. They can't keep up with the messages and the 'but whyyyy not' replies when they say no thank you.
I'm doing a profile experiment. 2.5 hrs ago I updated my profile, one pic and shite text. I have 89 messages so far.
Oh now 91, up since I started typing this reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not telling you my opening message, it's too good! Don't do the 'can I ask you a question?' thing, it's over used and a bit manipulative. Pick out something on their profile, if they mentioned Star wars, stick in an obscure reference that shows you really read their profile. If their profile is pretty much empty, it's really not worth the effort and just do a copy and paste. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you all reply to the messages that have made an effort even if they are not your type?
Some don't but don't take it personally. They can't keep up with the messages and the 'but whyyyy not' replies when they say no thank you.
I'm doing a profile experiment. 2.5 hrs ago I updated my profile, one pic and shite text. I have 89 messages so far.
Oh now 91, up since I started typing this reply. "
And how many have the hilarious joke 'I can fill you in later'?
60% lol |
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Let's face it. There is no formula.. everything depends from the person who receive it. With some works a simple "hi, how are you" with others filthy message straight away and others the story of your life. So just put interesting picts of yourself and write whatever you feel..be yourself is always the solution and if they don't reply, their lost  |
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"Messages I don't open... (Maybe this will help):
"Hey"
"How's you?"
"I'd love to stick my cock in..."
"Would you like to on this?"
"I'd love to (inset any sexual comment made before ever speaking to said person)"
"Why don't you reply, are you stuck up?"
"Bitch"
"Wouldn't fuck you anyway, you're fat"
Hope that helps. Don't be that guy lol."
Thays wjere i must gobwrong, probably lots of other reasons too but my manners always revert to
"How are you?" Always thought that was being polite...
Need a rethink now  |
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To be honest I think alot of the messages sent to individuals can be based on the profile the sender is sending to..
I'll explain through example.
Anyone should able to walk down a street wearing whatever they want. Without fear or intimidation or lude comments.
This can also be said about a person's profile. It could be full of sexual references,sexy images. Text describing everything under the sun.
Messages recieved without fear or intimidation or lude comments.
Unfortunately we are breeding Neanderthal behaviours and desensitization through social media and social conditioning.
Respect and being respectful to others has been given the heave in alot of cases!!!!!
So you have to educate them before they decide to send a message.
I hate the fact that as an individual I have to sensor myself because of the idiots of the world!
But that is the only way I know I can reduce and limit the amount of drivel in my inbox...
Amelia
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"To be honest I think alot of the messages sent to individuals can be based on the profile the sender is sending to..
I'll explain through example.
Anyone should able to walk down a street wearing whatever they want. Without fear or intimidation or lude comments.
This can also be said about a person's profile. It could be full of sexual references,sexy images. Text describing everything under the sun.
Messages recieved without fear or intimidation or lude comments.
Unfortunately we are breeding Neanderthal behaviours and desensitization through social media and social conditioning.
Respect and being respectful to others has been given the heave in alot of cases!!!!!
So you have to educate them before they decide to send a message.
I hate the fact that as an individual I have to sensor myself because of the idiots of the world!
But that is the only way I know I can reduce and limit the amount of drivel in my inbox...
Amelia
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Unfortunately the world is still full of idiot with limited brain. But i appreciate you are still trying to educate them instead of burning them, keeping your sensitivity in some how "protect". Be proud of yourself, always!! |
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"To be honest I think alot of the messages sent to individuals can be based on the profile the sender is sending to..
I'll explain through example.
Anyone should able to walk down a street wearing whatever they want. Without fear or intimidation or lude comments.
This can also be said about a person's profile. It could be full of sexual references,sexy images. Text describing everything under the sun.
Messages recieved without fear or intimidation or lude comments.
Unfortunately we are breeding Neanderthal behaviours and desensitization through social media and social conditioning.
Respect and being respectful to others has been given the heave in alot of cases!!!!!
So you have to educate them before they decide to send a message.
I hate the fact that as an individual I have to sensor myself because of the idiots of the world!
But that is the only way I know I can reduce and limit the amount of drivel in my inbox...
Amelia
Unfortunately the world is still full of idiot with limited brain. But i appreciate you are still trying to educate them instead of burning them, keeping your sensitivity in some how "protect". Be proud of yourself, always!! "
Always me... never compromise me as an individual xxx
Profile is designed to out the drivvel..... |
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"To be honest I think alot of the messages sent to individuals can be based on the profile the sender is sending to..
I'll explain through example.
Anyone should able to walk down a street wearing whatever they want. Without fear or intimidation or lude comments.
This can also be said about a person's profile. It could be full of sexual references,sexy images. Text describing everything under the sun.
Messages recieved without fear or intimidation or lude comments.
Unfortunately we are breeding Neanderthal behaviours and desensitization through social media and social conditioning.
Respect and being respectful to others has been given the heave in alot of cases!!!!!
So you have to educate them before they decide to send a message.
I hate the fact that as an individual I have to sensor myself because of the idiots of the world!
But that is the only way I know I can reduce and limit the amount of drivel in my inbox...
Amelia
Unfortunately the world is still full of idiot with limited brain. But i appreciate you are still trying to educate them instead of burning them, keeping your sensitivity in some how "protect". Be proud of yourself, always!!
Always me... never compromise me as an individual xxx
Profile is designed to out the drivvel....."
Fab removed "we ed" ... funny as fuck!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A considered yet not overly long introduction to who they are and what they're about. Good SPaG, a photo if no public ones on their profile and preferably minus the genital pics.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Messages I don't open... (Maybe this will help):
"Hey"
"How's you?"
"I'd love to stick my cock in..."
"Would you like to on this?"
"I'd love to (inset any sexual comment made before ever speaking to said person)"
"Why don't you reply, are you stuck up?"
"Bitch"
"Wouldn't fuck you anyway, you're fat"
Hope that helps. Don't be that guy lol.
Thays wjere i must gobwrong, probably lots of other reasons too but my manners always revert to
"How are you?" Always thought that was being polite...
Need a rethink now "
I've messaged you privately x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is true, but wouldn’t you have more effort into someone that has made a real committed message "
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If your profile is interesting then a ‘hi’ or questioning opening message like ‘hi how are you this fine day ?’ is fine.
But if your profile is lacking of pictures and an interesting profile text, then your opening message had better be brilliant and enticing  |
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