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Men 55+ are we written off?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a thought...... Are we too old to be at this game? "
I'm of the thinking the best is yet to come... its not what we think though but how we are percieved by others.
I'm only forty 11 btw  |
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Not a man I know, but hubby seems to thing our time is up! We are 47 & 48 now but I think age is just a number. What do you think? I would hate to think that I have no fun to lock forward to post lockdown |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Nope. Some of the sexiest guys I know are over 55.
Is this why your age limit is set to 52? "
I'm not entirely sure why it is. I should change that probably. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope. Some of the sexiest guys I know are over 55.
Is this why your age limit is set to 52?
I'm not entirely sure why it is. I should change that probably.
Good girl!  "
Posh is one of the best...  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Nope. Some of the sexiest guys I know are over 55.
Is this why your age limit is set to 52?
I'm not entirely sure why it is. I should change that probably.
Good girl!
Posh is one of the best... "
Aww Ace.... thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope. Some of the sexiest guys I know are over 55.
Is this why your age limit is set to 52?
I'm not entirely sure why it is. I should change that probably.
Good girl!
Posh is one of the best...
Aww Ace.... thanks "
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
I have noticed that a lot of what I am looking for single ladies and couples have their upper age limit of 50 - 55 which is fair enough it’s their right and preference.When I hit 50 I accepted that there would be less opportunity’s to message certain ladies and couples because of my age and their age filters. I find for me going to a members only club , spa and London socials work best for me.I don’t believe over 50’s are written off by all it’s just a preference for some which I understand and respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm the wrong side of 60 & am finding it very hard to get any interest,so many people have 50 or 55 as their upper age limit with "only" after it,so limits the number of people I can message. I do find it fustrating at times. But ever the optimist I'm still here,though for how much longer remains to be seen. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Most definitely not. I know very sexy men of 55 plus. 
And yes my filters are set lower but they aren't set in stone it's to cut down on messages and guys who are a lot older lying about their age which happened when I set them higher. If I see a guy ai like I can make first contact and hope they like me back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My upper limit is my age (53) as in life I've always ended up with younger lol but since being on fab (7 years!) I get more self-entitled grief off guys older than me than any other ages ... so I changed to lower than me sorry! I really don't care that you can go hours and hours (not being able to cum isn't my thing) I don't care if you think you're experienced (prefer fun and a laugh) can rarely accommodate (found this to be a poor unsuspecting wife!) or have to wait for a cockring or a pill to work (even worse take it before on the assumption you'll be getting some!) 
I know I'm generalising but this has honestly been my limited experience, so on this profile I block anyone older than me! Socials, parties and clubs are the only way I'll meet older guys from now on ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a man I know, but hubby seems to thing our time is up! We are 47 & 48 now but I think age is just a number. What do you think? I would hate to think that I have no fun to lock forward to post lockdown "
You’re pictures tell a different and more compelling story! |
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I've had a lot of grief for my age limits. I think meeting upto 20 years older is pretty open but hey. When I was in my early 20s, my age limit was mid 30s so my upper age limit has gotten further from my own age as I've gotten older and I have no reason to believe that won't continue. I've known swingers in their 80s. I don't believe there's an age limit on it. Carry on as long as you like  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say I had a lot more fun up to the age of 55 than I have in my mid to late 50’s, on here or on the dating scene. In my experience women in their late(ish) 40’s are quite interested in Guys in their early 50’s. However I have seen that when women get to they’re early 50’s they are more interested in Guys in their 40’s.
Just my experience. |
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"Just a thought...... Are we too old to be at this game? "
Absolutely not.
There's lots of older people on the scene and several successful older guys on here.
Get to clubs when they re-open and show that you're more than just a cock on Fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must admit i havn't given my age much thought at all. I just get on with it and enjoy myself. If it wasn't for Covid, i'd still be meeting. Can't wait to get back to some normality and start where i left off last year |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
The only person that can decide if you're "too old" for this OP is you - and it's no different from the decision *anyone* takes, regardless of age, that decides this lifestyle is not for them.
Age is not a limitation in itself, yes your choice may be more limited as you pass outside of some peoples age filters, but that's no different from being outside any other filters or requirements or preferences others' may have.
It's just a case of finding those whose age criteria you do meet and focussing on them - I only joined the site when I was almost 51 and have no complaints whatsoever about my experience or doubts about my age restricting me. |
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"Not a man I know, but hubby seems to thing our time is up! We are 47 & 48 now but I think age is just a number. What do you think? I would hate to think that I have no fun to lock forward to post lockdown "
57 & 53 here .....and we’ve had this same conversation a few times in the last 10 months !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While that is just above my maximum age limit, I would make an exception for the right person (I know, generous of me, hey!). I've seen some men in their 50s on here and wipe the floor with some of the young guys on here. |
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I think when people put a upper age range in... 50 55 are nice round numbers people just put without any thought! Just because that seemed a nice number!
Pity though as someone who is 55 could be fitter better kept and experienced than someone 20 years younger!
All because it was a nice round number lol |
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