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What do you actually want

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

From fab (when normality returns)? See it as a way to advertise yourself as it were. Ie: a FWB, someone just to fuck, a relationship, just to swing, to meet lots of different people, just friendship, just here for the forums?

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By *.R.MMan over a year ago

Norfolk

"From fab (when normality returns)? See it as a way to advertise yourself as it were. Ie: a FWB, someone just to fuck, a relationship, just to swing, to meet lots of different people, just friendship, just here for the forums?

Forums and cake

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Forums and cake

Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would like a friendship thing, maybe turning into fwb, then the chance of a relationship

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

Lots of friends, ideally with benefits

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By *riar BelisseWoman over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I will be on here just to go to and arrange fab social parties and chat in the forums

Most of my playtime is off fab now

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I will be on here just to go to and arrange fab social parties and chat in the forums

Most of my playtime is off fab now"

Oh do you arrange socials? Like the MLS kind of thing? x

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

Probably just the forums now. Lockdown has opened my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I would like a friendship thing, maybe turning into fwb, then the chance of a relationship

I like that. I hope you do lovely x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Probably just the forums now. Lockdown has opened my eyes. "

Even if /when normality resumes?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Lots of friends, ideally with benefits

Male and female Lacey?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Same thing as now tbh. In terms of sex/meeting I want a single woman for giggles and sexual exploration and adventure. In terms of the forum I want a place to chuckle, talk shit and express myself and expand my tiny little mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Meet cpls. Make good friends also. Go to organised socials, banta in the forums, and eat cake if anyone is sharing

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Same thing as now tbh. In terms of sex/meeting I want a single woman for giggles and sexual exploration and adventure. In terms of the forum I want a place to chuckle, talk shit and express myself and expand my tiny little mind

Just one woman?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To meet (socially) at least some of the people I chat with regularly. That still feels a long way off and perhaps people will have different feelings in normal times so who knows?

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By *tephanjMan over a year ago

Kettering

I would love to find someone to chat with and maybe meet on odd occasions but they would need to be local to me

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"Probably just the forums now. Lockdown has opened my eyes.

Even if /when normality resumes?"

My hotlist has shrunk dramatically

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Friendships, Forums and Fucks.. all the F's

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Meet cpls. Make good friends also. Go to organised socials, banta in the forums, and eat cake if anyone is sharing

Haha cake is popular here

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

3 regular dinner party guests.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Probably just the forums now. Lockdown has opened my eyes. "

Lockdown has turned people into something I'm often ever so slightly ashamed to be a part of

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I will certainly be looking to meet when this is over

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"3 regular dinner party guests. "

Separately or altogether?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I will be on here just to go to and arrange fab social parties and chat in the forums

Most of my playtime is off fab now

Oh do you arrange socials? Like the MLS kind of thing? x "

Whats MLS stand for?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I will certainly be looking to meet when this is over "

Great to see you back x

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By *acDreamyMan over a year ago

Wirral

"Lots of friends, ideally with benefits

Great answer!

I think I would like a few friends, potentially with benefits so I can explore some things.

I would love some couple play with my wife too. X

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"I will be on here just to go to and arrange fab social parties and chat in the forums

Most of my playtime is off fab now

Oh do you arrange socials? Like the MLS kind of thing? x

Whats MLS stand for? "

Manchester Lounge Social.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I will be on here just to go to and arrange fab social parties and chat in the forums

Most of my playtime is off fab now

Oh do you arrange socials? Like the MLS kind of thing? x

Whats MLS stand for? "

Manchester lounge social x

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Too much it would seem.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I will certainly be looking to meet when this is over

Great to see you back x"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Probably just the forums now. Lockdown has opened my eyes.

Lockdown has turned people into something I'm often ever so slightly ashamed to be a part of

As in?

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By *riar BelisseWoman over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"I will be on here just to go to and arrange fab social parties and chat in the forums

Most of my playtime is off fab now

Oh do you arrange socials? Like the MLS kind of thing? x "

Similar to the MLS yes. I arrange them down in Southampton, we had one just before lockdown that was fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Probably just the forums now. Lockdown has opened my eyes.

Even if /when normality resumes?

My hotlist has shrunk dramatically "

Mines increased but I use it for all sorts of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A good friend that I can laugh and get naked with

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Probably just the forums now. Lockdown has opened my eyes.

Lockdown has turned people into something I'm often ever so slightly ashamed to be a part of

In what way? You mean people who still want to meet?

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By *.R.MMan over a year ago

Norfolk

Do you think old normal will ever return?

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By *X2019Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Fwb/someone to fuck around and explore with, maybe leading to something more

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A good friend that I can laugh and get naked with

Sounds perfect

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would like to meet like minded people in clubs and socials..I'd like to experience new things... Maybe a swingers social /holiday or extended weekender

I'd definitely like to find friends to chat to about shared interests and the lifestyle in general

Other things are less clear... but I have zero interest in being a notch

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do you think old normal will ever return? "

No. Personally I don’t, not exactly as it was.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Local FWB, maybe a swinging partner in the future but that's a long way off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Too much it would seem."

Haha. We all want too much I think!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Probably just the forums now. Lockdown has opened my eyes.

Even if /when normality resumes?

My hotlist has shrunk dramatically

Mines increased but I use it for all sorts of reasons. "

We do the same. Mainly to remember those we do not want to meet if being honest. Although there are a few in there we havw been chatting to also.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Probably just the forums now. Lockdown has opened my eyes.

Lockdown has turned people into something I'm often ever so slightly ashamed to be a part of

In what way? You mean people who still want to meet? "

I'm actually not gonna answer that fully if it's ok, it's be an easy

. In short I think we've just seen the worst side of people/humanity slip out from under the mask in a fit of insecurity and selfishness I guess x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"To meet (socially) at least some of the people I chat with regularly. That still feels a long way off and perhaps people will have different feelings in normal times so who knows? "

True but nice to get the ball rolling as such

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll use Fab how I always use it - to talk bollocks on the forum and the occasional meet.

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By *inchyorksMan over a year ago

huddersfield

I would love to connect with a local cuckold couple and become their regular bull, date a hotwife almost!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Probably just the forums now. Lockdown has opened my eyes.

Lockdown has turned people into something I'm often ever so slightly ashamed to be a part of

In what way? You mean people who still want to meet?

I'm actually not gonna answer that fully if it's ok, it's be an easy

. In short I think we've just seen the worst side of people/humanity slip out from under the mask in a fit of insecurity and selfishness I guess x"

That’s fine. I agree but I do think this whole thing has also brought out the best in people too. I really do x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'll use Fab how I always use it - to talk bollocks on the forum and the occasional meet.

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sounds similar to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would like to meet like minded people in clubs and socials..I'd like to experience new things... Maybe a swingers social /holiday or extended weekender

I'd definitely like to find friends to chat to about shared interests and the lifestyle in general

Other things are less clear... but I have zero interest in being a notch "

Thats the thing on here most are after just more notches on their bedposts. We want friendships and great sex with regulars if possible.

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By *blasiansCouple over a year ago

Wakefield

"Friendships, Forums and Fucks.. all the F's

Fun, forums, friendly folk

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

"3 regular dinner party guests.

Separately or altogether?"

Together. The evenings don’t have to be about sex, just liberated discussion, good food/wine, flirting. That kind of thing.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

1. Forums

2. Clubs, especially making new friends on the scene

3. Occasionally a meet

4. Keep in touch with friends

5. Relationships would be nice but not expecting one to happen, but who knows

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By *imon_hydeMan over a year ago

Stockport

To connect and actually meet people, going to a coffee shop is almost a fantasy now.

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"Probably just the forums now. Lockdown has opened my eyes.

Even if /when normality resumes?

My hotlist has shrunk dramatically

Mines increased but I use it for all sorts of reasons.

We do the same. Mainly to remember those we do not want to meet if being honest. Although there are a few in there we havw been chatting to also. "

If I have zero interest in meeting anyone I just block. They’re only in my hotlist if I think something may potentially happen in the future but as I mentioned this list is dwindling these days.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Do you think old normal will ever return? "

Nope, normal is never static anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"3 regular dinner party guests.

Separately or altogether?

Together. The evenings don’t have to be about sex, just liberated discussion, good food/wine, flirting. That kind of thing. "

I like that. I love just socialising. There are so many people I’d like to meet on here purely for that. Moreso just for that if I’m honest x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To reach my goal of taking over the fab world and claiming my birthright as the fab king where all my loyal fab subjects will follow me and fall at my feet to worship the one true fab leader.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

I have no idea.

Probably the same as I am now but with the removal of the brain block with regards to meeting people. There are a few people I want to meet, none with a purely sexual purpose tho and sex would defo be on the back burner.

Keeping up to date with the Brum social.

I've decided to use that as my ti_eline. See how I feel then and it will either be a welcome back to the old sexual me, or a farewell to fab with possibly the odd club visit now n then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"3 regular dinner party guests.

Separately or altogether?

Together. The evenings don’t have to be about sex, just liberated discussion, good food/wine, flirting. That kind of thing. "

Or it could turn in to a naked food fight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To meet a new life partner. Who gets this life. Who doesn’t let it rule them but occasionally will say, get a shower we’re going to the club. Someone willing to give in. Allow her self to belong to. Generally looking for that utopian woman. I know exists.

I just need to be seen above the crowd.... need some fucking stilts first mind

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By *acDreamyMan over a year ago

Wirral

I hope things can return to normal. I have chatted to some lovely people on here and it would be a shame not to be able to meet even if nothing happened in a sexy way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Probably just the forums now. Lockdown has opened my eyes.

Even if /when normality resumes?

My hotlist has shrunk dramatically

Mines increased but I use it for all sorts of reasons.

We do the same. Mainly to remember those we do not want to meet if being honest. Although there are a few in there we havw been chatting to also.

If I have zero interest in meeting anyone I just block. They’re only in my hotlist if I think something may potentially happen in the future but as I mentioned this list is dwindling these days. "

Are you looking for more a regular thing Mr M or to meet different people?

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By *.R.MMan over a year ago

Norfolk

"Do you think old normal will ever return?

No. Personally I don’t, not exactly as it was. "

No I don’t either, what I would like is a fwb

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By *wist my nipplesCouple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

A handful of local men for hotwifing, some likeminded couples for exploration, fora for fun/navel gazing/escapism. Not asking for much

Mrs kf x

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I'd like to attend some socials, I miss those. I'll keep posting in the fora because I enjoy reading differing opinions - it's fascinating how people interpret the world and the written word.

As far as meeting people? I'm not sure right now in all honesty. There's one I'm considering meeting, perhaps and maybe. Anything else, it would be a bit down the line. Oh apart from seeing my close friends because I miss them a lot! It's been over a year since I saw most of them and that's too long.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just to swing, meet like minded people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have no idea.

Keeping up to date with the Brum social.

I've decided to use that as my ti_eline. See how I feel then and it will either be a welcome back to the old sexual me, or a farewell to fab with possibly the odd club visit now n then.

I’m a bit like that Peach. I’m really not sure what the fuck I want to be honest x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have no idea.

Keeping up to date with the Brum social.

I've decided to use that as my ti_eline. See how I feel then and it will either be a welcome back to the old sexual me, or a farewell to fab with possibly the odd club visit now n then.

Chin up peachy. We all been there and hurt&used. Dust yourself down gal.get the fetish b

Gear on and fuck the hurt out of your system without getting emotionally attached. You will get there i am sure. It sucks and hurts like fuck but dont give up or give in ok. Chat anytime, if your down drop us a message. I am sure we can cheer you up as i am dull as fuck but love to banta. John.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd like to attend some socials, I miss those. I'll keep posting in the fora because I enjoy reading differing opinions - it's fascinating how people interpret the world and the written word.

It really is too long. I miss my friends soooo much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm only here for the Socials and forms.

Because when things return to normality I will get what I want from going to clubs or parties.

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

To have a small circle of friends for social nights out ending in fun. We are also open to different scenarios with sexy friends.

For Mrs to have some special lady friends for drinks and girly fun without Mr.

We also enjoy the fab social events the club scene and parties, and would like to host our own one day.

The forum is also interesting at times and is a good way to interact with different people.

Jeez we sound like we want a lot

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By *wist my nipplesCouple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"A handful of local men for hotwifing, some likeminded couples for exploration, fora for fun/navel gazing/escapism. Not asking for much

Mrs kf x"

Oh, and finally getting to some socials! Would love to have more swinging friends, not necessarily for play, but for open friendship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lots of friends, ideally with benefits

This x

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

"3 regular dinner party guests.

Separately or altogether?

Together. The evenings don’t have to be about sex, just liberated discussion, good food/wine, flirting. That kind of thing.

I like that. I love just socialising. There are so many people I’d like to meet on here purely for that. Moreso just for that if I’m honest x"

Just so, getting a little dressed up, being completely relaxed around people, enjoying laughter and debate, seeing body language, responding to body language. Just a little group of “friends” that don’t feel pressured, feel equal, who can laugh at themselves and project empathy in equal measure.

This last year has been one of reflection and I think that is how I would like to do things going forward, make each “meet” an occasion of worth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have no idea.

Keeping up to date with the Brum social.

I've decided to use that as my ti_eline. See how I feel then and it will either be a welcome back to the old sexual me, or a farewell to fab with possibly the odd club visit now n then.

I’m a bit like that Peach. I’m really not sure what the fuck I want to be honest x"

Chin up nora. I never thought id find my partner in crime but jenny came along. Someone for everyone out there.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"I have no idea.

Keeping up to date with the Brum social.

I've decided to use that as my ti_eline. See how I feel then and it will either be a welcome back to the old sexual me, or a farewell to fab with possibly the odd club visit now n then.

I’m a bit like that Peach. I’m really not sure what the fuck I want to be honest x"

I've seen a darker side to humanity than I thought existed scale wise. I thought before I was maybe being too cynical due to past hurts etc, but I'm not. It's clearly more widespread than the odd few.

I cherish the friends I've made, but not some of the lessons I've learnt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I won’t answer everyone as I feel like I’m spamming! But I’m loving the answers x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only returned through covid as it's something more fun than nothing ... not really looking for anything 'fab' but I felt that way when I left the beginning of last year after years on here. It all got a little too ...

I'm going to participate fully in life having the best adventures that I can, with real live people (no internet) for fun and laughs!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

"3 regular dinner party guests.

Separately or altogether?

Together. The evenings don’t have to be about sex, just liberated discussion, good food/wine, flirting. That kind of thing.

Or it could turn in to a naked food fight

This too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"3 regular dinner party guests.

Separately or altogether?

Together. The evenings don’t have to be about sex, just liberated discussion, good food/wine, flirting. That kind of thing.

I like that. I love just socialising. There are so many people I’d like to meet on here purely for that. Moreso just for that if I’m honest x

This last year has been one of reflection and I think that is how I would like to do things going forward, make each “meet” an occasion of worth. "

Good thought buddy

john

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have no idea.

Keeping up to date with the Brum social.

I've decided to use that as my ti_eline. See how I feel then and it will either be a welcome back to the old sexual me, or a farewell to fab with possibly the odd club visit now n then.

I’m a bit like that Peach. I’m really not sure what the fuck I want to be honest x

I cherish the friends I've made, but not some of the lessons I've learnt."

I agree. I’ve learnt plenty of lessons on here for sure x

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I would really love to find a fwb on the same wavelength as me.

I'd also like to find a small group of local ladies for just normal nights out. So far that hasn't happened for me, feels bad.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"3 regular dinner party guests.

Separately or altogether?

Together. The evenings don’t have to be about sex, just liberated discussion, good food/wine, flirting. That kind of thing.

Or it could turn in to a naked food fight

This too

Only ever done one naked food fight. But was all male lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I only returned through covid as it's something more fun than nothing ... not really looking for anything 'fab' but I felt that way when I left the beginning of last year after years on here. It all got a little too ...

I'm going to participate fully in life having the best adventures that I can, with real live people (no internet) for fun and laughs! "

I have met and chat to some wonderful people from here (though off here) and I'm very much going to meet them!

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Lots of friends, ideally with benefits

Male and female Lacey?"

Yep yep

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

Not sure what I want from here anymore. Maybe just let things fizzle out and step away from the scene.

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By *.R.MMan over a year ago

Norfolk

A fwb with big boobs

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm going to participate fully in life having the best adventures that I can, with real live people (no internet) for fun and laughs! "

Good on you! It has made me reflect a little and realise I perhaps took a lot for granted. Even just nights out with my friends, weekends away etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd love to find an FWB

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"Probably just the forums now. Lockdown has opened my eyes.

Even if /when normality resumes?

My hotlist has shrunk dramatically

Mines increased but I use it for all sorts of reasons.

We do the same. Mainly to remember those we do not want to meet if being honest. Although there are a few in there we havw been chatting to also.

If I have zero interest in meeting anyone I just block. They’re only in my hotlist if I think something may potentially happen in the future but as I mentioned this list is dwindling these days.

Are you looking for more a regular thing Mr M or to meet different people? "

Regular would be good but if I don’t find that then the forums it is and I’d be happy with that

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd love to find an FWB"

Just one or a few?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I would really love to find a fwb on the same wavelength as me.

I'd also like to find a small group of local ladies for just normal nights out. So far that hasn't happened for me, feels bad. "

We said a while ago we’d meet up didn’t we as we’re not far. Perhaps we could arrange it. There are some other ladies not far from us too. That would be good to have some nights out x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have no idea.

Keeping up to date with the Brum social.

I've decided to use that as my ti_eline. See how I feel then and it will either be a welcome back to the old sexual me, or a farewell to fab with possibly the odd club visit now n then.

I’m a bit like that Peach. I’m really not sure what the fuck I want to be honest x

I cherish the friends I've made, but not some of the lessons I've learnt."

People you have avoid are the fuckers with alteria motives or their own agendas who dont give a fuck if they hurt others to get it. I been there with the meal ticket women i dated and the fucker i divorced who took everything. Grow rhino thickness skin peachy. You got the flaps to get through this. (could not say balls as you aint got any

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By *hatawasteMan over a year ago

stafford

Good friendship first and foremost some kind of soul ate even eventually .

Someone with intelligence and an ability to have a proper chat and get to know with. Someone with an open mind but who isn't a serial shagger all the time and looking for meets when we get back out again ..so a bit sexy a bit fun a bit intelligent conversation over a coffee or a nice wine. Possibly a real dog walk not a dogging walk.. and we will see what happens.Someinr the same ish age but bit with an attitude 10 years younger.. Or even a woman 10 or 15 years younger!

Strangely after all this I have found Covid has changed my priorities.. They are changing more towards vanilla friends or friends with benefits rather than swinger and will probably get back on POF again and spend less time fruitlessly searching for a real person to get to know on here ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not sure what I want from here anymore. Maybe just let things fizzle out and step away from the scene."

Dont be silly sparky. Dust yourself down gal. You would miss this banta amyway

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"I have no idea.

Keeping up to date with the Brum social.

I've decided to use that as my ti_eline. See how I feel then and it will either be a welcome back to the old sexual me, or a farewell to fab with possibly the odd club visit now n then.

I’m a bit like that Peach. I’m really not sure what the fuck I want to be honest x

I cherish the friends I've made, but not some of the lessons I've learnt.

) "

Oh I totally got the balls, they're where most women have tits

With me, this place gives me a voice. There's no point having a voice if people aren't listening

This says so much ....

https://youtu.be/u9Dg-g7t2l4

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

Someone to have laughs and life adventures with, including sexual and otherwise. Whether that be here or from a dating site, who knows.

I’m fed up of casual. I want something more. Life is too short.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman over a year ago

Hampshire

.Bukakke

.Sex

.Suck cock

.Socialise

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By *ruebameMan over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I want to find someone for lots of fuckery and friendship must be willing to explore in a little lets just say exotic play

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

fwb amd bi men threesome... got feb.. but not threesome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"fwb amd bi men threesome... got feb.. but not threesome

We got a bi male lined up when safe to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I want to find someone for lots of fuckery and friendship must be willing to explore in a little lets just say exotic play

Exotic or downright scary?

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By *ruebameMan over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

"I want to find someone for lots of fuckery and friendship must be willing to explore in a little lets just say exotic play

Exotic or downright scary?

Shhh exotic sounds better reel you in then you may just like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone to have laughs and life adventures with, including sexual and otherwise. Whether that be here or from a dating site, who knows.

I’m fed up of casual. I want something more. Life is too short."

They are out there. I met jenny on tinder. She tried the professional sites but most on there were to boring and up themselves. Then she found me on tinder and now stuck with my worthless arse

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I want to find someone for lots of fuckery and friendship must be willing to explore in a little lets just say exotic play

Exotic or downright scary?

Shhh exotic sounds better reel you in then you may just like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To have a small circle of friends for social nights out ending in fun. We are also open to different scenarios with sexy friends.

For Mrs to have some special lady friends for drinks and girly fun without Mr.

We also enjoy the fab social events the club scene and parties, and would like to host our own one day.

The forum is also interesting at times and is a good way to interact with different people.

Jeez we sound like we want a lot

No it sounds perfect

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By *ookie46Woman over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Friendship, forums and organised socials

If looking for something extra it will be from my couples profile

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

"3 regular dinner party guests.

Separately or altogether?

Together. The evenings don’t have to be about sex, just liberated discussion, good food/wine, flirting. That kind of thing.

I like that. I love just socialising. There are so many people I’d like to meet on here purely for that. Moreso just for that if I’m honest x

This last year has been one of reflection and I think that is how I would like to do things going forward, make each “meet” an occasion of worth. "

Where's our invitation, this sounds right up our street

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Genuine, lovely friends that like talking and cuddles that I can have sex with

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

I want everything and nothing. I see it as just another place (of similar minded people) for outreach and potentially have/do things with similar minded people.

Friendship, FWB, hell I'm not even against finding love and a full ever lasting relationship from it if that option were to ever present itself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I want everything and nothing. I see it as just another place (of similar minded people) for outreach and potentially have/do things with similar minded people.

Friendship, FWB, hell I'm not even against finding love and a full ever lasting relationship from it if that option were to ever present itself. "

Pretty open minded then. Plenty have found on love on here x

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By *ubmissive guyMan over a year ago

Liverpool

Without wishing to lower the tone. I joined FAB in the hope of finding a nice local Female into receiving oral/facesitting, but I think thats the kind of thing people do in there 20s not my age. so like a lot of people have said make more friends

you can never have to many friends, especially FAB friends. Keeping in touch with people during lockdown has kept me sane-ish over the last 12 months. Just receiving, the occasional flirty message has been as welcome as a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Without wishing to lower the tone. I joined FAB in the hope of finding a nice local Female into receiving oral/facesitting, but I think thats the kind of thing people do in there 20s not my age. so like a lot of people have said make more friends

Not lowering the tone at all! People are here for all different reasons. I’m just interested to read then x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not lowering the tone at all! People are here for all different reasons. I’m just interested to read then x"

*them

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By *ruebameMan over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

O to hell with it i want someone that actually wants me as I am no shit just me and my ways that actually like the same things as me spinning cross paddles whips and all

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"O to hell with it i want someone that actually wants me as I am no shit just me and my ways that actually like the same things as me spinning cross paddles whips and all

you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think I just want to feel wanted,and excited by the feeling of wanting someone else, badly.

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By *ruebameMan over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

"O to hell with it i want someone that actually wants me as I am no shit just me and my ways that actually like the same things as me spinning cross paddles whips and all

you "

you to now get on my cross and take whats coming

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thinking about it, I'm not really sure. I've only been on here during lockdown and have no idea what to do if things are back to normal. I'm so lost, what am I even doing here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"O to hell with it i want someone that actually wants me as I am no shit just me and my ways that actually like the same things as me spinning cross paddles whips and all

you

you to now get on my cross and take whats coming

does it spin?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just the forums now. I chat to a few select ladies about random stuff until they get bored and wander away..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Think I just want to feel wanted,and excited by the feeling of wanting someone else, badly."

Yes. I need that I want you as much as you want me thing. Without that forget it.

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By *irtyfuxCouple over a year ago

Norfolk! NOT

We already have one regular male playmate, but shes greedy and would like another and a vwe bbc bull for treats. A couple of couples would be ideal to enjoy fine wine and food with along with sexy fun in and out the bedroom and holidays away together, as would a unicorn and or trans women.

We just added this to our profile for what we ideally want after restrictions are lifted. We know we are reaching for the stars

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"fwb amd bi men threesome... got feb.. but not threesome

We got a bi male lined up when safe to meet

lucky you.. i haven't been really lucky at all in that department

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We already have one regular male playmate, but shes greedy and would like another and a vwe bbc bull for treats. A couple of couples would be ideal to enjoy fine wine and food with along with sexy fun in and out the bedroom and holidays away together, as would a unicorn and or trans women.

We just added this to our profile for what we ideally want after restrictions are lifted. We know we are reaching for the stars

You never know. A lot of us are probably reaching for the stars with what we want x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just one woman? "

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The occasional musings in the forums - I’m not looking for anything else from here anymore.

I can’t imagine anyone interesting me enough to want to meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To fulfil fantasies and have a lot of naughty fun!

Also on the look out to chat with other couples so we can party together with others that have the same lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Friendships to end some of the enduring loneliness; its been acute through Covid.

If they are into film photography too that would be a real bonus, a female film tog to go out and about with would be nice.

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By *inky and the brain 1Couple over a year ago

near Halesowen

"To fulfil fantasies and have a lot of naughty fun!

Also on the look out to chat with other couples so we can party together with others that have the same lifestyle

same here , we can't wait for Chams to reopen Tbh!

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple over a year ago

Sunderland

Ultimately we're looking for the answer to life the universe and everything.

Failing that a FFM. Or many FFM...

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

I'm here for the sex, but I'm also looking for friendship with some of the sex.

Whilst looking for the FWB I will see if any hot men need are desperate enough to want sex with me.

While I'm waiting for them to message me I'll pop on and off of the forums.

I like a nice London social too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looking for my life partner and muse.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Someone who takes life as it comes, fwb or one off's I'll just play it by ear.

Got to be fun though as we've all been through a shit time with covid

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Enlightenment.

A feeling I belong.

Group socials with people that have similar outlooks.

A distraction from real life.

Friendship.

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

We miss group socials, meeting new people and catching up with friends.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think I just want to feel wanted,and excited by the feeling of wanting someone else, badly.

Yes. I need that I want you as much as you want me thing. Without that forget it. "

Marry me!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Think I just want to feel wanted,and excited by the feeling of wanting someone else, badly.

Yes. I need that I want you as much as you want me thing. Without that forget it.

Marry me!!"

On your knees with something very sparkly and expensive and I’ll think about it

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By *ruebameMan over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

"O to hell with it i want someone that actually wants me as I am no shit just me and my ways that actually like the same things as me spinning cross paddles whips and all

you

you to now get on my cross and take whats coming

does it spin?"

It spins if you want it to just think of the beautiful view you could have of my delightful balls

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"O to hell with it i want someone that actually wants me as I am no shit just me and my ways that actually like the same things as me spinning cross paddles whips and all

you

you to now get on my cross and take whats coming

does it spin?

It spins if you want it to just think of the beautiful view you could have of my delightful balls

Ah man it’s a catch 22! You know how much I love the balls but I’m sick on fairground rides!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All i want from Fab is to be able to arrange to meet bi guys, who match my preferences, for NSA sex in a particular club. That's what i have been doing for many years before covid turned up !

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By *ruebameMan over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

"O to hell with it i want someone that actually wants me as I am no shit just me and my ways that actually like the same things as me spinning cross paddles whips and all

you

you to now get on my cross and take whats coming

does it spin?

It spins if you want it to just think of the beautiful view you could have of my delightful balls

Ah man it’s a catch 22! You know how much I love the balls but I’m sick on fairground rides! "
ffs just get on and ride me will you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think I just want to feel wanted,and excited by the feeling of wanting someone else, badly.

Yes. I need that I want you as much as you want me thing. Without that forget it. "

Same here tbh

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By *izandpaulCouple over a year ago

merseyside

At present just quick glances at forums....can't take too much of them.

When normality..ish returns.

Back to clubs, parties but most of all swingers holidays.

Never really used forums before Covid apart from arranging meets and looking who is on holiday.

We did arrange a few socials. The people who show are brilliant but it must be about 75% timewasters and dreamers but worth it for the 25%.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Think I just want to feel wanted,and excited by the feeling of wanting someone else, badly.

Yes. I need that I want you as much as you want me thing. Without that forget it.

Same here tbh"

The grrrrrrrrr. The fiery passion

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

Good friends in and out of the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think I just want to feel wanted,and excited by the feeling of wanting someone else, badly.

Yes. I need that I want you as much as you want me thing. Without that forget it.

Same here tbh

The grrrrrrrrr. The fiery passion

That just gets better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

IF and it's a big IF I'm still here when this shit storm passes it'll just be for the forums and mainly just reading them at that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Think I just want to feel wanted,and excited by the feeling of wanting someone else, badly.

Yes. I need that I want you as much as you want me thing. Without that forget it.

Same here tbh

The grrrrrrrrr. The fiery passion

That just gets better

Oh definitely

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By *rispyDuckMan over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

All I really want from Fab is a 'good fuck, multiple orgasms, meet reg fuckbuddies & a bacon sandwich'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

FWB, chat and fun. We shall see what arrives when we can venture past the supermarket as a day out...

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By *indergirlWoman over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Meet some of the people I talk to on here, maybe find some friends with added benefits, more? Who knows?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing anymore I dont think, despite protests from my profile to the contrary. I've sunk my heart elsewhere and I shall leave it to slowly drown in peace....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nothing anymore I dont think, despite protests from my profile to the contrary. I've sunk my heart elsewhere and I shall leave it to slowly drown in peace....

Never say never!

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By *isAdventure69Woman over a year ago

Hampshire

Great sex with friendship thrown in whether from several individuals or just the one

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple over a year ago

Epsom

Wouldn’t say no to a new friend or two (with genuine folks with a personality would be nice) the rest would be a bonus...

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By *hagTonightMan over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I would like someone local to be naughty with, few times a week

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Achum to walj and cycle with , plus kisses and cwtches

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think I just want to feel wanted,and excited by the feeling of wanting someone else, badly.

Yes. I need that I want you as much as you want me thing. Without that forget it.

Same here tbh"

Sensual, you are one of the loveliest people I have spoken to on here and deserve that more than most x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I would like someone local to be naughty with, few times a week

A few times a week local would be perfect!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think I just want to feel wanted,and excited by the feeling of wanting someone else, badly.

Yes. I need that I want you as much as you want me thing. Without that forget it.

Marry me!!

On your knees with something very sparkly and expensive and I’ll think about it

I can only do a QVC ring

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m just here to be annoying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I so wanted to carry on where I left off and, at least, meet the few people left on my friends list. But, as you know, that's unlikely to happen now so I'll just have to settle for a natter in the Forums and oggling the hot bodies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'll use Fab how I always use it - to talk bollocks on the forum and the occasional meet.

Yep, perfect. That’s what I will most likely do too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m just here to be annoying

You fail

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I really don't know what I'll want. Partly because I don't really have a definitive answer at the moment either.

I do know I want to meet the friends I've made. And see the ones I've already met again.

I guess probably keep going with taking random photos?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks so much everyone. Some great comments and has perhaps made me think a lot too. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Achum to walj and cycle with , plus kisses and cwtches

Oh my typos golly

A chum to walk or cycle with heaps of chuckles , cwtches, kisses and splendid adventures

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Achum to walj and cycle with , plus kisses and cwtches

Oh my typos golly

A chum to walk or cycle with heaps of chuckles , cwtches, kisses and splendid adventures

"
haha I thought it was maybe written in Welsh Taff!

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