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If your going to put the above statement out and also add 'guys dont ask to meet during covid, ill report you' but then log on every day and be amazed that people are meeting. If i was taking a break and not engaging with anyone i wouldn't announce it then preceed to engage with people and have a rant when guys ask if you wanna meet. Id just log off until it blows over rather than not do what i claim im doing. Is meeting during lockdown right, no, will people do it...yes. your on fab.com where it clearly says on some profiles there up for it so for fucks sake you can't be amazed when it goes on. Your not taking a break you are engaging and your doing it on a platform where most do wanna meet so you clearly like taking the moral high ground. All you've illustrated is that men generally dont read profiles properly so they assume your saying you want to meet and ping you a message. Technically you could put it down to being a sadomasicist or if your that amazed by people meeting during lockdown. Meeting during lockdown wrong...yes, taking the moral highground fix a cheap win. Like most the mass genocide of jews by the nazis was beyond most people comprehension and wrong, but i then wouldn't join nazisdating.com and everytime i logged on and be amazed and dumbfounded that most people are not very tolerant and think that Hitler wasnt that bad just misunderstood. What i do is.... assume people on nazisdating.com are not very nice and id take for granted they think hitler is seen as an ok dude. I wouldnt join it and tell people im not dating nazis right now and that hitler was bang out of order and most evil person ever because id be pointing out the obvious to people who don't need to be lectured to by someone who cant deliver on their promises....of not engaging |
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over a year ago
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"If your going to put the above statement out and also add 'guys dont ask to meet during covid, ill report you' but then log on every day and be amazed that people are meeting. If i was taking a break and not engaging with anyone i wouldn't announce it then preceed to engage with people and have a rant when guys ask if you wanna meet. Id just log off until it blows over rather than not do what i claim im doing. Is meeting during lockdown right, no, will people do it...yes. your on fab.com where it clearly says on some profiles there up for it so for fucks sake you can't be amazed when it goes on. Your not taking a break you are engaging and your doing it on a platform where most do wanna meet so you clearly like taking the moral high ground. All you've illustrated is that men generally dont read profiles properly so they assume your saying you want to meet and ping you a message. Technically you could put it down to being a sadomasicist or if your that amazed by people meeting during lockdown. Meeting during lockdown wrong...yes, taking the moral highground fix a cheap win. Like most the mass genocide of jews by the nazis was beyond most people comprehension and wrong, but i then wouldn't join nazisdating.com and everytime i logged on and be amazed and dumbfounded that most people are not very tolerant and think that Hitler wasnt that bad just misunderstood. What i do is.... assume people on nazisdating.com are not very nice and id take for granted they think hitler is seen as an ok dude. I wouldnt join it and tell people im not dating nazis right now and that hitler was bang out of order and most evil person ever because id be pointing out the obvious to people who don't need to be lectured to by someone who cant deliver on their promises....of not engaging "
I'm not amazed that people are meeting
I dont find it in the least bit amazing
I find it extremely fucking sad |
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"If your going to put the above statement out and also add 'guys dont ask to meet during covid, ill report you' but then log on every day and be amazed that people are meeting. If i was taking a break and not engaging with anyone i wouldn't announce it then preceed to engage with people and have a rant when guys ask if you wanna meet. Id just log off until it blows over rather than not do what i claim im doing. Is meeting during lockdown right, no, will people do it...yes. your on fab.com where it clearly says on some profiles there up for it so for fucks sake you can't be amazed when it goes on. Your not taking a break you are engaging and your doing it on a platform where most do wanna meet so you clearly like taking the moral high ground. All you've illustrated is that men generally dont read profiles properly so they assume your saying you want to meet and ping you a message. Technically you could put it down to being a sadomasicist or if your that amazed by people meeting during lockdown. Meeting during lockdown wrong...yes, taking the moral highground fix a cheap win. Like most the mass genocide of jews by the nazis was beyond most people comprehension and wrong, but i then wouldn't join nazisdating.com and everytime i logged on and be amazed and dumbfounded that most people are not very tolerant and think that Hitler wasnt that bad just misunderstood. What i do is.... assume people on nazisdating.com are not very nice and id take for granted they think hitler is seen as an ok dude. I wouldnt join it and tell people im not dating nazis right now and that hitler was bang out of order and most evil person ever because id be pointing out the obvious to people who don't need to be lectured to by someone who cant deliver on their promises....of not engaging "
Now just breathe.....
I get what you’re saying, but unfortunately the majority won’t.....
It’s like beating a dead horse around here sometimes.... |
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Wow. Its a day for those posts I guess.
I'm engaging with you now replying to your forum post. Shall I not do that and hide in my "no sex allowed bunker"? I still don't want to meet you or anyone else now. But I like it here and won't be told what to do or where to go..  |
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"Wow. Its a day for those posts I guess.
I'm engaging with you now replying to your forum post. Shall I not do that and hide in my "no sex allowed bunker"? I still don't want to meet you or anyone else now. But I like it here and won't be told what to do or where to go.. "
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over a year ago
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"Has someone taken your free speech away? Want me to have a word? I'm a screaming leftie, they'll listen to me."
Don't you just hate it when you get home from Sainsburys and those pesky liberals have stolen your free speech again. Tsk. |
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You sound a very angry guy there OP, I'd be very surprised if anyone would want to meet you going from 0-Nazi in less than 10 seconds like that..?
We all got the right to come on fab despite us not meeting, thats right meaning civil liberties and not wing  |
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"You sound a very angry guy there OP, I'd be very surprised if anyone would want to meet you going from 0-Nazi in less than 10 seconds like that..?
We all got the right to come on fab despite us not meeting, thats right meaning civil liberties and not wing "
0- nazi
Haha. I'm definitely using that |
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"Has someone taken your free speech away? Want me to have a word? I'm a screaming leftie, they'll listen to me.
Don't you just hate it when you get home from Sainsburys and those pesky liberals have stolen your free speech again. Tsk. "
I've said, time and time again, you cant say anything these days. I've said it on Twitter, on Facebook, on Sky news, on fox news, when the BBC put me on question time, in the daily mail, the express, the Sun... you can't say anything these days |
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Poor grammar and use of full stops in places they shouldn't be...aside, in my rant know they haven't...and balls for admitting to being on the left. Why is everyone so afraid these days to say what they feel....social media is so vanilla and bland. People think the 'one show' is hard hitting !gritty news |
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"Has someone taken your free speech away? Want me to have a word? I'm a screaming leftie, they'll listen to me.
Don't you just hate it when you get home from Sainsburys and those pesky liberals have stolen your free speech again. Tsk.
Mirth
I've said, time and time again, you cant say anything these days. I've said it on Twitter, on Facebook, on Sky news, on fox news, when the BBC put me on question time, in the daily mail, the express, the Sun... you can't say anything these days"
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People aren’t afraid to say what they think, however there are ways to say it without being insulting to others
As for your OP, apart from the obvious of what is going on right now, everyone can choose, if or when they meet or who they meet. However, the rules are the rules right now and also the site rules, so the site is used (just as it was pre virus) in different ways |
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over a year ago
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OP some of us are active purely to engage on the forums.
Just because we are online it doesn’t mean we are looking for a meet.
Having said that, it still doesn’t stop people from messaging us to ask.
Does that make us in the wrong because we were online and our profile clearly states we’re not meeting?
If the site is making you so irritated maybe it’s you who should be offline  |
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Insulting...thats a stretch to be fair. At most an unnecessary rant best kept in my head. As for the site, it sets out rules, but when alot of people clearly state on their profile that they have met, want to and enjoy what they did...how does the site wiggle out of that one. It should ban profiles like that but then have a third (wild guess) of people left on it...there not going to do that. |
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"Insulting...thats a stretch to be fair. At most an unnecessary rant best kept in my head. As for the site, it sets out rules, but when alot of people clearly state on their profile that they have met, want to and enjoy what they did...how does the site wiggle out of that one. It should ban profiles like that but then have a third (wild guess) of people left on it...there not going to do that. "
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"OP some of us are active purely to engage on the forums.
Just because we are online it doesn’t mean we are looking for a meet.
Having said that, it still doesn’t stop people from messaging us to ask.
Does that make us in the wrong because we were online and our profile clearly states we’re not meeting?
If the site is making you so irritated maybe it’s you who should be offline "
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"OP some of us are active purely to engage on the forums.
Just because we are online it doesn’t mean we are looking for a meet.
Having said that, it still doesn’t stop people from messaging us to ask.
Does that make us in the wrong because we were online and our profile clearly states we’re not meeting?
If the site is making you so irritated maybe it’s you who should be offline "
Agree with all of that |
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"If your going to put the above statement out and also add 'guys dont ask to meet during covid, ill report you' but then log on every day and be amazed that people are meeting. If i was taking a break and not engaging with anyone i wouldn't announce it then preceed to engage with people and have a rant when guys ask if you wanna meet. Id just log off until it blows over rather than not do what i claim im doing. Is meeting during lockdown right, no, will people do it...yes. your on fab.com where it clearly says on some profiles there up for it so for fucks sake you can't be amazed when it goes on. Your not taking a break you are engaging and your doing it on a platform where most do wanna meet so you clearly like taking the moral high ground. All you've illustrated is that men generally dont read profiles properly so they assume your saying you want to meet and ping you a message. Technically you could put it down to being a sadomasicist or if your that amazed by people meeting during lockdown. Meeting during lockdown wrong...yes, taking the moral highground fix a cheap win. Like most the mass genocide of jews by the nazis was beyond most people comprehension and wrong, but i then wouldn't join nazisdating.com and everytime i logged on and be amazed and dumbfounded that most people are not very tolerant and think that Hitler wasnt that bad just misunderstood. What i do is.... assume people on nazisdating.com are not very nice and id take for granted they think hitler is seen as an ok dude. I wouldnt join it and tell people im not dating nazis right now and that hitler was bang out of order and most evil person ever because id be pointing out the obvious to people who don't need to be lectured to by someone who cant deliver on their promises....of not engaging
Now just breathe.....
I get what you’re saying, but unfortunately the majority won’t.....
It’s like beating a dead horse around here sometimes...."
This is what happens when i cant find my valium and killing time....post whats literally on my mind, and not bother to spell check or review |
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"If your going to put the above statement out and also add 'guys dont ask to meet during covid, ill report you' but then log on every day and be amazed that people are meeting. If i was taking a break and not engaging with anyone i wouldn't announce it then preceed to engage with people and have a rant when guys ask if you wanna meet. Id just log off until it blows over rather than not do what i claim im doing. Is meeting during lockdown right, no, will people do it...yes. your on fab.com where it clearly says on some profiles there up for it so for fucks sake you can't be amazed when it goes on. Your not taking a break you are engaging and your doing it on a platform where most do wanna meet so you clearly like taking the moral high ground. All you've illustrated is that men generally dont read profiles properly so they assume your saying you want to meet and ping you a message. Technically you could put it down to being a sadomasicist or if your that amazed by people meeting during lockdown. Meeting during lockdown wrong...yes, taking the moral highground fix a cheap win. Like most the mass genocide of jews by the nazis was beyond most people comprehension and wrong, but i then wouldn't join nazisdating.com and everytime i logged on and be amazed and dumbfounded that most people are not very tolerant and think that Hitler wasnt that bad just misunderstood. What i do is.... assume people on nazisdating.com are not very nice and id take for granted they think hitler is seen as an ok dude. I wouldnt join it and tell people im not dating nazis right now and that hitler was bang out of order and most evil person ever because id be pointing out the obvious to people who don't need to be lectured to by someone who cant deliver on their promises....of not engaging
I'm not amazed that people are meeting
I dont find it in the least bit amazing
I find it extremely fucking sad"
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"If your going to put the above statement out and also add 'guys dont ask to meet during covid, ill report you' but then log on every day and be amazed that people are meeting. If i was taking a break and not engaging with anyone i wouldn't announce it then preceed to engage with people and have a rant when guys ask if you wanna meet. Id just log off until it blows over rather than not do what i claim im doing. Is meeting during lockdown right, no, will people do it...yes. your on fab.com where it clearly says on some profiles there up for it so for fucks sake you can't be amazed when it goes on. Your not taking a break you are engaging and your doing it on a platform where most do wanna meet so you clearly like taking the moral high ground. All you've illustrated is that men generally dont read profiles properly so they assume your saying you want to meet and ping you a message. Technically you could put it down to being a sadomasicist or if your that amazed by people meeting during lockdown. Meeting during lockdown wrong...yes, taking the moral highground fix a cheap win. Like most the mass genocide of jews by the nazis was beyond most people comprehension and wrong, but i then wouldn't join nazisdating.com and everytime i logged on and be amazed and dumbfounded that most people are not very tolerant and think that Hitler wasnt that bad just misunderstood. What i do is.... assume people on nazisdating.com are not very nice and id take for granted they think hitler is seen as an ok dude. I wouldnt join it and tell people im not dating nazis right now and that hitler was bang out of order and most evil person ever because id be pointing out the obvious to people who don't need to be lectured to by someone who cant deliver on their promises....of not engaging
I'm not amazed that people are meeting
I dont find it in the least bit amazing
I find it extremely fucking sad"
Agree with all that. But the ones that are genuinely surprised everyday they log on, and like to tell us so, is completely disingenuous, tad patronising...it just irritates me, no more than that. |
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"If your going to put the above statement out and also add 'guys dont ask to meet during covid, ill report you' but then log on every day and be amazed that people are meeting. If i was taking a break and not engaging with anyone i wouldn't announce it then preceed to engage with people and have a rant when guys ask if you wanna meet. Id just log off until it blows over rather than not do what i claim im doing. Is meeting during lockdown right, no, will people do it...yes. your on fab.com where it clearly says on some profiles there up for it so for fucks sake you can't be amazed when it goes on. Your not taking a break you are engaging and your doing it on a platform where most do wanna meet so you clearly like taking the moral high ground. All you've illustrated is that men generally dont read profiles properly so they assume your saying you want to meet and ping you a message. Technically you could put it down to being a sadomasicist or if your that amazed by people meeting during lockdown. Meeting during lockdown wrong...yes, taking the moral highground fix a cheap win. Like most the mass genocide of jews by the nazis was beyond most people comprehension and wrong, but i then wouldn't join nazisdating.com and everytime i logged on and be amazed and dumbfounded that most people are not very tolerant and think that Hitler wasnt that bad just misunderstood. What i do is.... assume people on nazisdating.com are not very nice and id take for granted they think hitler is seen as an ok dude. I wouldnt join it and tell people im not dating nazis right now and that hitler was bang out of order and most evil person ever because id be pointing out the obvious to people who don't need to be lectured to by someone who cant deliver on their promises....of not engaging
I'm not amazed that people are meeting
I dont find it in the least bit amazing
I find it extremely fucking sad
Agree with all that. But the ones that are genuinely surprised everyday they log on, and like to tell us so, is completely disingenuous, tad patronising...it just irritates me, no more than that. "
I dont really understand what you mean
Can you elaborate please? |
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was pleased at the beginning that this site tried to stop people meeting, taking down some functionality like the meeting facility
unfortunately none of us knew how long this would go on for and the restrictions
i recently closed down a dating profile, and noted there was no statement about not meeting on there.
can't stop people's behaviour and i get asked to meet daily, mainly from newbies. presumably as OP has joined in weeks there is a resumption to meet whether socially or more
unfortunately swingers are hedonistic, so more likely to have a certain attitude. i don't like the idiots, as whore-moans kick in, and can affect mindset and decisions. but i would think that it might partly be mental health as sex does help though not an excuse for putting others at risk |
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"Hold my hands up...the 0-nazis was very good "
All it takes is a little humour, anger only leads to the dark side...
Some are meeting I know but despite all of our frustrations regarding covid the vast majority aren't.
People take breaks all the time on here but most of us have very good fab friends so we come on to chat to them, we might even be chatting with future meets in mind too.
Its not about complying to fab rules but not meeting is the right thing to do atm, it could save your life so remember...
HANDS, FACE, SPACE UND KIEN FICKEN UM KUMPEL 
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"If your going to put the above statement out and also add 'guys dont ask to meet during covid, ill report you' but then log on every day and be amazed that people are meeting. If i was taking a break and not engaging with anyone i wouldn't announce it then preceed to engage with people and have a rant when guys ask if you wanna meet. Id just log off until it blows over rather than not do what i claim im doing. Is meeting during lockdown right, no, will people do it...yes. your on fab.com where it clearly says on some profiles there up for it so for fucks sake you can't be amazed when it goes on. Your not taking a break you are engaging and your doing it on a platform where most do wanna meet so you clearly like taking the moral high ground. All you've illustrated is that men generally dont read profiles properly so they assume your saying you want to meet and ping you a message. Technically you could put it down to being a sadomasicist or if your that amazed by people meeting during lockdown. Meeting during lockdown wrong...yes, taking the moral highground fix a cheap win. Like most the mass genocide of jews by the nazis was beyond most people comprehension and wrong, but i then wouldn't join nazisdating.com and everytime i logged on and be amazed and dumbfounded that most people are not very tolerant and think that Hitler wasnt that bad just misunderstood. What i do is.... assume people on nazisdating.com are not very nice and id take for granted they think hitler is seen as an ok dude. I wouldnt join it and tell people im not dating nazis right now and that hitler was bang out of order and most evil person ever because id be pointing out the obvious to people who don't need to be lectured to by someone who cant deliver on their promises....of not engaging
I'm not amazed that people are meeting
I dont find it in the least bit amazing
I find it extremely fucking sad
Agree with all that. But the ones that are genuinely surprised everyday they log on, and like to tell us so, is completely disingenuous, tad patronising...it just irritates me, no more than that.
I dont really understand what you mean
Can you elaborate please?"
I'll try but could make it more confusing. Wish i had your measured writing, honestly good use of English, i have a one (too fast) speed setting approach. Right...
Everytime you log on you are not surprised by how people choose to act. When you log on and you see people breaking the rules of lockdown, your sad but dont fall off your chair shocked because you 'cant comprehend and wrap your head around why people are doing it still, do they not realise we still have covid to deal with on fridays, ' because you know thats the state of play, from when you logged on yesterday and day before and day before that. So people are not surprised and dumbfounded, unless they have no recollection of what the sites being like everyday since march 2020. So why say it, why lecture to people on a site where lets face it...people are more free to express themselves than they ever would on Facebook. Anyone can say what they want, when they want. But flip side is i can say if something irritates me and that i dont think they are not surprised at all...so i add patronising to it as well. I should have just said 'those people wind me up' not a couple paragraphs or better still not said anything, as it just irritates me, it should seem like it annoys me and makes me angry which it doesnt really. Wasn't expecting anyone to comment. I find it hard enough with my profile as it is to not come across indignant and zero patience northerner...so this has helped, not. That said...lockdown is boring and like everyone depressed on some level, this killed an hour otherwise time spent overthinking should i buy a dog or not as have too much spare time on my hands, no kids and living on own am i doing loopy shit....and how would i know anyway |
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I can’t read the wall of text but a/ the site has to take a stance that doesn’t put it at risk from authorities b/ if people just want to use forums and not meet that’s fine c/ people will always break / bend rules , wander into any city centre today and you’ll see that d/ get over it and stop whining it’s boring |
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"Has someone taken your free speech away? Want me to have a word? I'm a screaming leftie, they'll listen to me."
Let’s try this again without all the blasted auto-INcorrect!
A screaming leftie of the Arthur Scargill ilk? I’m a waffling rightie. Shall we have a drink and I’ll listen to you scream as closely as Thatcher did to Scargill.
Halcyon days, eh? That was when the left really were left and not a load of righties pretending to be ‘left’ for popularity and stealing our ideas. |
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"I can’t read the wall of text but a/ the site has to take a stance that doesn’t put it at risk from authorities b/ if people just want to use forums and not meet that’s fine c/ people will always break / bend rules , wander into any city centre today and you’ll see that d/ get over it and stop whining it’s boring "
Thats a short, more concise version of what i said only adding it irritates me. Having to take Q&A and explain it meant i looked like a dick and was whining. I was over my irritation after i pressed send |
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"Has someone taken your free speech away? Want me to have a word? I'm a screaming leftie, they'll listen to me.
Don't you just hate it when you get home from Sainsburys and those pesky liberals have stolen your free speech again. Tsk.
I've said, time and time again, you cant say anything these days. I've said it on Twitter, on Facebook, on Sky news, on fox news, when the BBC put me on question time, in the daily mail, the express, the Sun... you can't say anything these days"
Shush!!! Speech will no longer be free. It’s 5 pence per word up to 12 letters long and no more than 4 syllables.  |
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"Poor grammar and use of full stops in places they shouldn't be...aside, in my rant know they haven't...and balls for admitting to being on the left. Why is everyone so afraid these days to say what they feel....social media is so vanilla and bland. People think the 'one show' is hard hitting !gritty news "
“Balls for admitting to being on the left”?! I must have giant steel ones for admitting to being on the right then!! 
Yes, I’ve said it. Let loose the hounds of hell, you lefties. I’m ready for you......with a pot of tea and some sandwiches and home made sausage rolls.
Not your definition of right, of course. We are British, after all.  We’d gladly link arms with fellow lefties if those damned Nazis dare rear their heads to cause harm again.  |
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"It looks too long to read. Can anyone let me know the shorter version, please? Thanks."
Some people i find on here patronising and it irritated me. Did a post saying that. ..rest is typical forum stuff and me explaining and expanding on nothing more than a rant |
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"It looks too long to read. Can anyone let me know the shorter version, please? Thanks.
Some people i find on here patronising and it irritated me. Did a post saying that. ..rest is typical forum stuff and me explaining and expanding on nothing more than a rant"
Why are they patronising? And what is a typical forum stuff? |
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"It looks too long to read. Can anyone let me know the shorter version, please? Thanks.
Some people i find on here patronising and it irritated me. Did a post saying that. ..rest is typical forum stuff and me explaining and expanding on nothing more than a rant
Why are they patronising? And what is a typical forum stuff?"
 . Lazy lady! I have only skimmed the very surface at the top but we’d probably know the answers you your questions if we read it all. |
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Wow, someone has their knickers in a twist, r u ok hun?
I’m not meeting, not just because of covid but for other very valid reasons. Doesn’t mean I shouldn’t be on here, it’s not just a dial a meet site.
I’m here to talk to people, it tends to be of the non sex nature which I’m preferring at the moment. And I have some good friends here, I catch up with them. Or I’m on the forums, whether I’m commenting or floating around. Doesn’t mean I shouldn’t be here.
I’ve stated on my profile I’m not meeting for the foreseeable, it’s always assumed it’s because of covid, it’s not. But that statement also filters out those who’s intentions are to meet immediately |
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"If your going to put the above statement out and also add 'guys dont ask to meet during covid, ill report you' but then log on every day and be amazed that people are meeting. If i was taking a break and not engaging with anyone i wouldn't announce it then preceed to engage with people and have a rant when guys ask if you wanna meet. Id just log off until it blows over rather than not do what i claim im doing. Is meeting during lockdown right, no, will people do it...yes. your on fab.com where it clearly says on some profiles there up for it so for fucks sake you can't be amazed when it goes on. Your not taking a break you are engaging and your doing it on a platform where most do wanna meet so you clearly like taking the moral high ground. All you've illustrated is that men generally dont read profiles properly so they assume your saying you want to meet and ping you a message. Technically you could put it down to being a sadomasicist or if your that amazed by people meeting during lockdown. Meeting during lockdown wrong...yes, taking the moral highground fix a cheap win. Like most the mass genocide of jews by the nazis was beyond most people comprehension and wrong, but i then wouldn't join nazisdating.com and everytime i logged on and be amazed and dumbfounded that most people are not very tolerant and think that Hitler wasnt that bad just misunderstood. What i do is.... assume people on nazisdating.com are not very nice and id take for granted they think hitler is seen as an ok dude. I wouldnt join it and tell people im not dating nazis right now and that hitler was bang out of order and most evil person ever because id be pointing out the obvious to people who don't need to be lectured to by someone who cant deliver on their promises....of not engaging "
Obviously you are disgruntled because you expect people to want to chat and meet you.
Your reference to Hitler is extremely offensive.
I am not sure what you expect to gain from this rather boring forum post OP.
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"Wow, someone has their knickers in a twist, r u ok hun?
I’m not meeting, not just because of covid but for other very valid reasons. Doesn’t mean I shouldn’t be on here, it’s not just a dial a meet site.
I’m here to talk to people, it tends to be of the non sex nature which I’m preferring at the moment. And I have some good friends here, I catch up with them. Or I’m on the forums, whether I’m commenting or floating around. Doesn’t mean I shouldn’t be here.
I’ve stated on my profile I’m not meeting for the foreseeable, it’s always assumed it’s because of covid, it’s not. But that statement also filters out those who’s intentions are to meet immediately "
I just merely posted a rant, irritation level id say 0-nazi about a 6 at best. Justifying your profile in response to it if you want...it is a forum. My thought process for others responses didn't go beyond last word i wrote on first post. Shame were not all getting laid instead of forum chatting |
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"If your going to put the above statement out and also add 'guys dont ask to meet during covid, ill report you' but then log on every day and be amazed that people are meeting. If i was taking a break and not engaging with anyone i wouldn't announce it then preceed to engage with people and have a rant when guys ask if you wanna meet. Id just log off until it blows over rather than not do what i claim im doing. Is meeting during lockdown right, no, will people do it...yes. your on fab.com where it clearly says on some profiles there up for it so for fucks sake you can't be amazed when it goes on. Your not taking a break you are engaging and your doing it on a platform where most do wanna meet so you clearly like taking the moral high ground. All you've illustrated is that men generally dont read profiles properly so they assume your saying you want to meet and ping you a message. Technically you could put it down to being a sadomasicist or if your that amazed by people meeting during lockdown. Meeting during lockdown wrong...yes, taking the moral highground fix a cheap win. Like most the mass genocide of jews by the nazis was beyond most people comprehension and wrong, but i then wouldn't join nazisdating.com and everytime i logged on and be amazed and dumbfounded that most people are not very tolerant and think that Hitler wasnt that bad just misunderstood. What i do is.... assume people on nazisdating.com are not very nice and id take for granted they think hitler is seen as an ok dude. I wouldnt join it and tell people im not dating nazis right now and that hitler was bang out of order and most evil person ever because id be pointing out the obvious to people who don't need to be lectured to by someone who cant deliver on their promises....of not engaging "
Ha.... Brilliant. Have to agree with you. If you're taking a break then take a break and hide your profile.... It's not Rona science lol |
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Jesus, that took a wild left turn in to crazy-ville.
Tell you what OP, how about I use the site however I like while following government advice to help stop Covid spreading and continuing to fuck up the world? Cool? Cool |
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"I'm guessing you'd vote Trump if you could."
Im guessing you'd vote for all round bad guy Pol Pot if you could....of course you wouldn't, and id be making that assertion on just'a post' so nothing then. However, you did top trump my lazy hitler ref... by being more lazy with yours |
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"Jesus, that took a wild left turn in to crazy-ville.
Tell you what OP, how about I use the site however I like while following government advice to help stop Covid spreading and continuing to fuck up the world? Cool? Cool "
And here I was just about to mail you for a sausage party.
How dare you respect your respiratory tract more than sticking your willy in the top of mine? |
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over a year ago
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"It looks too long to read. Can anyone let me know the shorter version, please? Thanks."
Posts like this always make me snort.
People complain when other people don't read their profiles yet they can't read a forum post. |
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I guess loads of people on here like to use the forum to keep social and pass the time as fab isn’t just a pure meeting site. (A-la-grindr or tinder for example)
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"Jesus, that took a wild left turn in to crazy-ville.
Tell you what OP, how about I use the site however I like while following government advice to help stop Covid spreading and continuing to fuck up the world? Cool? Cool
And here I was just about to mail you for a sausage party.
How dare you respect your respiratory tract more than sticking your willy in the top of mine? "
It is a lovely willy... Youll just have to be patient |
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"Wow. Its a day for those posts I guess.
I'm engaging with you now replying to your forum post. Shall I not do that and hide in my "no sex allowed bunker"? I still don't want to meet you or anyone else now. But I like it here and won't be told what to do or where to go.. "
No need to type anything out, what the lovely tuberose said. |
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"Jesus, that took a wild left turn in to crazy-ville.
Tell you what OP, how about I use the site however I like while following government advice to help stop Covid spreading and continuing to fuck up the world? Cool? Cool "
Use it to set up your own cult for all i care. i just popped a post of a thought as i was irritated. If i wanted to prompt fake outrage with people trying to get me hold a position on fab.com ' what site members can and cant do' id of used words to express that goal. I didn't express anything other than i was irritated!! |
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over a year ago
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I disagree! Fab is more than just a place to meet for a fuck. It's a community, and right now in lockdown people need that community and the friendships they've built even more than ever.
If you only view fab as a sex site, you won't understand that I guess. |
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"Poor grammar and use of full stops in places they shouldn't be...aside, in my rant know they haven't...and balls for admitting to being on the left. Why is everyone so afraid these days to say what they feel....social media is so vanilla and bland. People think the 'one show' is hard hitting !gritty news "
It's an epic rant! Welcome to the forums.
Have you seen the ones who complain about people messaging them but they still have ticks in the 'Looking for' bit of their profile? As in Looking For: Men, Couples etc.
It means that their profile will appear on the searches of men and couples looking for meets. Then they whine that people are mailing them asking for meets!
Usually with a wall of profile text about the sex they want and the people they want. |
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"I disagree! Fab is more than just a place to meet for a fuck. It's a community, and right now in lockdown people need that community and the friendships they've built even more than ever.
If you only view fab as a sex site, you won't understand that I guess."
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"If your going to put the above statement out and also add 'guys dont ask to meet during covid, ill report you' but then log on every day and be amazed that people are meeting. If i was taking a break and not engaging with anyone i wouldn't announce it then preceed to engage with people and have a rant when guys ask if you wanna meet. Id just log off until it blows over rather than not do what i claim im doing. Is meeting during lockdown right, no, will people do it...yes. your on fab.com where it clearly says on some profiles there up for it so for fucks sake you can't be amazed when it goes on. Your not taking a break you are engaging and your doing it on a platform where most do wanna meet so you clearly like taking the moral high ground. All you've illustrated is that men generally dont read profiles properly so they assume your saying you want to meet and ping you a message. Technically you could put it down to being a sadomasicist or if your that amazed by people meeting during lockdown. Meeting during lockdown wrong...yes, taking the moral highground fix a cheap win. Like most the mass genocide of jews by the nazis was beyond most people comprehension and wrong, but i then wouldn't join nazisdating.com and everytime i logged on and be amazed and dumbfounded that most people are not very tolerant and think that Hitler wasnt that bad just misunderstood. What i do is.... assume people on nazisdating.com are not very nice and id take for granted they think hitler is seen as an ok dude. I wouldnt join it and tell people im not dating nazis right now and that hitler was bang out of order and most evil person ever because id be pointing out the obvious to people who don't need to be lectured to by someone who cant deliver on their promises....of not engaging
Ha.... Brilliant. Have to agree with you. If you're taking a break then take a break and hide your profile.... It's not Rona science lol "
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"It looks too long to read. Can anyone let me know the shorter version, please? Thanks."
Basically I think he's saying that this is a site for meeting, and people who don't agree with meeting during covid should just log off and not moan about people having sex meets.
That because you log on, people will assume you are up for sex, and that's your fault for being on here, not theirs. |
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"It looks too long to read. Can anyone let me know the shorter version, please? Thanks.
Basically I think he's saying that this is a site for meeting, and people who don't agree with meeting during covid should just log off and not moan about people having sex meets.
That because you log on, people will assume you are up for sex, and that's your fault for being on here, not theirs."
Succinctly put! |
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"I disagree! Fab is more than just a place to meet for a fuck. It's a community, and right now in lockdown people need that community and the friendships they've built even more than ever.
If you only view fab as a sex site, you won't understand that I guess."
I do kinda view it as a sex site yea... what it was set up as. If its your version of Facebook as well great. Always said what Facebook is missing is the sharing and making public thousands of cock pictures and amateur sex videos |
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"I disagree! Fab is more than just a place to meet for a fuck. It's a community, and right now in lockdown people need that community and the friendships they've built even more than ever.
If you only view fab as a sex site, you won't understand that I guess. "
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"If your going to put the above statement out and also add 'guys dont ask to meet during covid, ill report you' but then log on every day and be amazed that people are meeting. If i was taking a break and not engaging with anyone i wouldn't announce it then preceed to engage with people and have a rant when guys ask if you wanna meet. Id just log off until it blows over rather than not do what i claim im doing. Is meeting during lockdown right, no, will people do it...yes. your on fab.com where it clearly says on some profiles there up for it so for fucks sake you can't be amazed when it goes on. Your not taking a break you are engaging and your doing it on a platform where most do wanna meet so you clearly like taking the moral high ground. All you've illustrated is that men generally dont read profiles properly so they assume your saying you want to meet and ping you a message. Technically you could put it down to being a sadomasicist or if your that amazed by people meeting during lockdown. Meeting during lockdown wrong...yes, taking the moral highground fix a cheap win. Like most the mass genocide of jews by the nazis was beyond most people comprehension and wrong, but i then wouldn't join nazisdating.com and everytime i logged on and be amazed and dumbfounded that most people are not very tolerant and think that Hitler wasnt that bad just misunderstood. What i do is.... assume people on nazisdating.com are not very nice and id take for granted they think hitler is seen as an ok dude. I wouldnt join it and tell people im not dating nazis right now and that hitler was bang out of order and most evil person ever because id be pointing out the obvious to people who don't need to be lectured to by someone who cant deliver on their promises....of not engaging "
And this is why I bl..dy love fab forums, it's the gift that keeps giving and gets an early vote for rant of the year |
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" I do kinda view it as a sex site yea... what it was set up as. "
Or... It was set up as a networking site for swingers.
Depends on what you understand about the lifestyle part of swinging though I suppose xx |
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Someone needs a lie down in a darkened room...
I love vaguely incoherent ranters and mentally picking apart their poor grammar - gives me something to do when I'm NOT MEETING. |
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"Wow. Its a day for those posts I guess.
I'm engaging with you now replying to your forum post. Shall I not do that and hide in my "no sex allowed bunker"? I still don't want to meet you or anyone else now. But I like it here and won't be told what to do or where to go..
No need to type anything out, what the lovely tuberose said. "
Didn't suggest anything of the above....and telling people what they should do with their membership, didnt say that either. You managed to find something that was never written, to just tell me you'll do what you want, therefore disagreeing with a position i never had, held or alluded to. Wow..I wouldnt want that pointing out to me as id be joining Fake outrage 'extremely offensive' dude |
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"Wow. Its a day for those posts I guess.
I'm engaging with you now replying to your forum post. Shall I not do that and hide in my "no sex allowed bunker"? I still don't want to meet you or anyone else now. But I like it here and won't be told what to do or where to go..
No need to type anything out, what the lovely tuberose said.
Didn't suggest anything of the above....and telling people what they should do with their membership, didnt say that either. You managed to find something that was never written, to just tell me you'll do what you want, therefore disagreeing with a position i never had, held or alluded to. Wow..I wouldnt want that pointing out to me as id be joining Fake outrage 'extremely offensive' dude "
I don't really get your point at all. Enjoy your day ! |
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"Someone needs a lie down in a darkened room...
I love vaguely incoherent ranters and mentally picking apart their poor grammar - gives me something to do when I'm NOT MEETING."
My grammar requires no brain power, i am slightly dislektic but i wrote how it was in my head otherwise it would be worse...hard to imagine but yes worse |
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"That opening paragraph escalated quickly "
Just said it irritated me....first post on a forum...explains why social media is bland, free thought and opinions fading. People want Democracy...as long as it doesn't hurt their feelings |
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Another one looking for excuses as to why nobody wants to fuck him... As for me being on here and not meeting (even when there's no pandemic) or engaging... It's my profile, I will use it as I bloody like... But thanks for an insight into your entitlement,amongst other redeeming qualities |
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"Poor grammar and use of full stops in places they shouldn't be...aside, in my rant know they haven't...and balls for admitting to being on the left. Why is everyone so afraid these days to say what they feel....social media is so vanilla and bland. People think the 'one show' is hard hitting !gritty news "
But your long, ranting post was telling everyone that they shouldn’t be able to say what they mean and just stay away from this site - one rule for you and a different one for everyone else??? |
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"That opening paragraph escalated quickly
Just said it irritated me....first post on a forum...explains why social media is bland, free thought and opinions fading. People want Democracy...as long as it doesn't hurt their feelings "
Well, they don't bother me.
People shouldn't be asking to meet on here, and if someone doesn't want to chat maybe they're looking at the photos or people on cam in the cam rooms.
Do you feel better after getting all that off your chest?
Can't beat a good, cathartic rant on a forum |
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If something about a profile annoys you then just scroll on my. You sound very angry. Why let strangers on an internet site annoy you? Personally we don't see how other people use their profile has an effect on you.
Surely people can use this site how they wish to. |
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"Reading between the lines...
A message of rejection = toys out the pram "
Just irritated. If i can't take Rejection, being single, male on fabswinger would be a stupid site to join but show off my sadomasicist tenancies. A message of rejection...do me a favour |
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"Reading between the lines...
A message of rejection = toys out the pram
Just irritated. If i can't take Rejection, being single, male on fabswinger would be a stupid site to join but show off my sadomasicist tenancies. A message of rejection...do me a favour"
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"If something about a profile annoys you then just scroll on my. You sound very angry. Why let strangers on an internet site annoy you? Personally we don't see how other people use their profile has an effect on you.
Surely people can use this site how they wish to. "
Not angry...just irritated and wrote a post as it was in my head...so wasnt measured or thought out....a rant. |
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"It looks too long to read. Can anyone let me know the shorter version, please? Thanks.
Posts like this always make me snort.
People complain when other people don't read their profiles yet they can't read a forum post. "
I never complain |
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"If something about a profile annoys you then just scroll on my. You sound very angry. Why let strangers on an internet site annoy you? Personally we don't see how other people use their profile has an effect on you.
Surely people can use this site how they wish to.
Not angry...just irritated and wrote a post as it was in my head...so wasnt measured or thought out....a rant. "
Our thoughts are the same. Why let strangers on an internet site irritate you. Just scroll on by. |
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"It looks too long to read. Can anyone let me know the shorter version, please? Thanks.
Posts like this always make me snort.
People complain when other people don't read their profiles yet they can't read a forum post.
I never complain "
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"I disagree! Fab is more than just a place to meet for a fuck. It's a community, and right now in lockdown people need that community and the friendships they've built even more than ever.
If you only view fab as a sex site, you won't understand that I guess.
I do kinda view it as a sex site yea... what it was set up as. If its your version of Facebook as well great. Always said what Facebook is missing is the sharing and making public thousands of cock pictures and amateur sex videos "
You're still not getting it. It's a swingers site, a community of people with shared interests. It isn't just for hooking up, nor do I consider it Facebook. If it was just for sex, why would we be on the forums at all? |
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"It looks too long to read. Can anyone let me know the shorter version, please? Thanks.
Basically I think he's saying that this is a site for meeting, and people who don't agree with meeting during covid should just log off and not moan about people having sex meets.
That because you log on, people will assume you are up for sex, and that's your fault for being on here, not theirs."
Thank you for your explanation.
I'm up for sex but it doesn't mean I'm gonna have it
And I'm certainly not horny when I'm online.
Shall I get my coat? |
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"Poor grammar and use of full stops in places they shouldn't be...aside, in my rant know they haven't...and balls for admitting to being on the left. Why is everyone so afraid these days to say what they feel....social media is so vanilla and bland. People think the 'one show' is hard hitting !gritty news
But your long, ranting post was telling everyone that they shouldn’t be able to say what they mean and just stay away from this site - one rule for you and a different one for everyone else???"
No it doesn't. Badly written yes but i go from saying this irritates me, why do they bother saying it to rant over. You read my post and got ' leave the site, rule change would be great to benefit my opinion and throw out anyone elses. Arnt rants supposed to be long, bit all over the place and written as it would be if blurted out...then immediately forgot about. |
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I'm sorry ( not sorry ) that you would find my profile annoying if you were to stumble upon it .
I do have a copy and paste at the ready for those that do not read my 2 lines worth that says " Hi , I'm not meeting or chatting or looking for new friends, happy Fabbing " . Unless it's forum related
I could have left my profile as it was then reply with the said copy and paste or just delete every message received . And that of course would generate a ranting thread on how women are so rude for not replying or women being all fakes and time wasters .
So my advice to you and everyone really is worry about your own profile and the profiles that you find enticing, scroll by the ones that don't ....
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"It looks too long to read. Can anyone let me know the shorter version, please? Thanks.
Basically I think he's saying that this is a site for meeting, and people who don't agree with meeting during covid should just log off and not moan about people having sex meets.
That because you log on, people will assume you are up for sex, and that's your fault for being on here, not theirs.
Thank you for your explanation.
I'm up for sex but it doesn't mean I'm gonna have it
And I'm certainly not horny when I'm online.
Shall I get my coat? "
According to the thread you shouldnt have logged on in the first place |
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There's a lot of moaning and negativity here. We all have 'down' days...lets give each other a break and be nice rather than load more on other people. That's not aimed at anyone in particular - be nice to each other. |
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"Poor grammar and use of full stops in places they shouldn't be...aside, in my rant know they haven't...and balls for admitting to being on the left. Why is everyone so afraid these days to say what they feel....social media is so vanilla and bland. People think the 'one show' is hard hitting !gritty news
But your long, ranting post was telling everyone that they shouldn’t be able to say what they mean and just stay away from this site - one rule for you and a different one for everyone else???"
"Poor grammar and use of full stops in places they shouldn't be...aside, in my rant know they haven't...and balls for admitting to being on the left. Why is everyone so afraid these days to say what they feel....social media is so vanilla and bland. People think the 'one show' is hard hitting !gritty news
But your long, ranting post was telling everyone that they shouldn’t be able to say what they mean and just stay away from this site - one rule for you and a different one for everyone else???"
"I see the friendly and welcoming fab forum police out in force again today.
Go for it op.."
What i should have done is clearly state at the top this is a rant, its nothing more than me being irritated at some people lecturing about stuff everyone agrees with as people dying isnt cool, albeit everyone bending rules slightly. Im not attacking your free speech or telling people want to do just simply posted a rant. It wasnt a cry for help or rejection or throwing toys out. My bad, everyone must clearly caveat their posts. everyones perception skills are so acute to miss by country mile the post that i just saw entitled licked while blindfold is treading on thin ice, i read between the lines and drew out what the writer is trying to say, which is that being licked while blindfolded gets you off its a clear indication youd vote Trump, dictorship over democracy is way forward, and you must use any fabswinger type profile to meet his ideologies however extreme
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"TL:DR
OP can't get a meet and likes to dictate how people should use the Internet "
Brilliant....saw through my rant and exposed my plan to control the Internet....please, someone call the bullshit police because its hard to argue stupid |
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Just take a moment and think of the health workers who haven't stopped battling this epidemic for over a year now ... risking their lives ...some have lost that battle... and risking their sanity to care for the sick and dying.... |
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"Just take a moment and think of the health workers who haven't stopped battling this epidemic for over a year now ... risking their lives ...some have lost that battle... and risking their sanity to care for the sick and dying.... "
My ex got covid while undergoing colon cancer surgery and as a result put in coma for couple weeks...result loss of memory and hearing probs. and im a carer for someone at risk whos mental health during November was so bad promted her to take her own life, thankfully wasnt successful. Why mention this.....because your now assuming i have disregard for those suffering or those that help and anyone advocating follow rules dont have the right to say that, and im not getting laid so angry at all the rejection....and your getting this from a rant in early hours cos something irritated me and just felt need to say it... we now have this. Either im under a miss apprehension or some people do need to wind it in |
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"Just take a moment and think of the health workers who haven't stopped battling this epidemic for over a year now ... risking their lives ...some have lost that battle... and risking their sanity to care for the sick and dying....
My ex got covid while undergoing colon cancer surgery and as a result put in coma for couple weeks...result loss of memory and hearing probs. and im a carer for someone at risk whos mental health during November was so bad promted her to take her own life, thankfully wasnt successful. Why mention this.....because your now assuming i have disregard for those suffering or those that help and anyone advocating follow rules dont have the right to say that, and im not getting laid so angry at all the rejection....and your getting this from a rant in early hours cos something irritated me and just felt need to say it... we now have this. Either im under a miss apprehension or some people do need to wind it in"
It's not a very friendly place at times mate despite the sycophantic posts telling some people how much they love complete strangers on here. Amazing what triggers some people to respond with a metaphorical hug for some and a kick whilst your down for some others. |
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It's not a very friendly place at times mate despite the sycophantic posts telling some people how much they love complete strangers on here. Amazing what triggers some people to respond with a metaphorical hug for some and a kick whilst your down for some others.
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probably an undertone of having disrespect for peoples clear communication and assuming if you are online on a swingers site you should be “up for it” |
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It's not a very friendly place at times mate despite the sycophantic posts telling some people how much they love complete strangers on here. Amazing what triggers some people to respond with a metaphorical hug for some and a kick whilst your down for some others.
probably an undertone of having disrespect for peoples clear communication and assuming if you are online on a swingers site you should be “up for it” "
10 brownie points if you can point to anywhere where i suggested that. If not directed at me ignore and apologies. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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Everyone has their own way of using the site. Just because their way doesn't fit with how yours, doesn't make them wrong. Going off on a rant about it certainly won't change anything, and probably won't win you many fab friends, but I hope you feel better getting it off your chest.
I'm one of those incredibly annoying people, who states on her profile that she isn't looking for anything just now , but dares to still hang out on Fab to chat in the forums and keep in touch with existing friends. |
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It's not a very friendly place at times mate despite the sycophantic posts telling some people how much they love complete strangers on here. Amazing what triggers some people to respond with a metaphorical hug for some and a kick whilst your down for some others.
probably an undertone of having disrespect for peoples clear communication and assuming if you are online on a swingers site you should be “up for it” "
Maybe, I didn't read that in what he wrote. I read a rant. And Im just observing that if that rant had been from one of the "acceptable names" on here it would have been met with flowers and "are you alright love? " messages and for the op it has clearly Provoked a different response. Some poking fun at his grammar and literacy. I have no dog in this fight but I can observe the way threads here generally work. |
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It's not a very friendly place at times mate despite the sycophantic posts telling some people how much they love complete strangers on here. Amazing what triggers some people to respond with a metaphorical hug for some and a kick whilst your down for some others.
probably an undertone of having disrespect for peoples clear communication and assuming if you are online on a swingers site you should be “up for it”
Maybe, I didn't read that in what he wrote. I read a rant. And Im just observing that if that rant had been from one of the "acceptable names" on here it would have been met with flowers and "are you alright love? " messages and for the op it has clearly Provoked a different response. Some poking fun at his grammar and literacy. I have no dog in this fight but I can observe the way threads here generally work. "
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"Everyone has their own way of using the site. Just because their way doesn't fit with how yours, doesn't make them wrong. Going off on a rant about it certainly won't change anything, and probably won't win you many fab friends, but I hope you feel better getting it off your chest.
I'm one of those incredibly annoying people, who states on her profile that she isn't looking for anything just now , but dares to still hang out on Fab to chat in the forums and keep in touch with existing friends. "
100%. Expectation management. I have a friend who is struggling greatly with loneliness at the moment and it's awful feeling lonely and isolated so trying to find connections here or anywhere can be a really positive thing and that doesn't imply meeting... Just swapping a few message for now is enough of a tonic at times. |
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It's not a very friendly place at times mate despite the sycophantic posts telling some people how much they love complete strangers on here. Amazing what triggers some people to respond with a metaphorical hug for some and a kick whilst your down for some others.
probably an undertone of having disrespect for peoples clear communication and assuming if you are online on a swingers site you should be “up for it”
10 brownie points if you can point to anywhere where i suggested that. If not directed at me ignore and apologies. "
the words are not used thats why i said undertone but the entire opening thread is telling people that if someone ignores their clear communication that they do not want to meet or engage with anyone new, they only have themselves to blame for logging on in the first place
it smacks of the same attitude as “you might have been saying the word no but you put yourself in the situation in the first place ” to me |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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I don't feel as though you are coming over well in this thread, OP.
Some of your replies seem pretty passive aggressive.
It might be an idea to pause, have a cup of tea, watch Detectorists for half an hour and have a mental refresh |
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"I don't feel as though you are coming over well in this thread, OP.
Some of your replies seem pretty passive aggressive.
It might be an idea to pause, have a cup of tea, watch Detectorists for half an hour and have a mental refresh "
gonna need something a lot stronger than Tea for this 1,, |
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"I don't feel as though you are coming over well in this thread, OP.
Some of your replies seem pretty passive aggressive.
It might be an idea to pause, have a cup of tea, watch Detectorists for half an hour and have a mental refresh "
Id drop the passive. When people state things like im saying being online means def they want sex, im wanting to take away people right to say what they want, i have disregard for why we have rules. Angry cos can't get laid, i was on tinder in London for 4 years. Not getting laid was harder to achieve, im an attention seeker....wanting attention on fab, said by someone that posted videos of being fucked left right up down ...presumably to show there shyness issues but im seeking attention. Hypocrisy at its finest. If someone says something which ain't true and im being told i hold a view which i actually find offensive....i go from stupid rant, irritated, not bothered to aggressive. Passive aggressive gets used where it has no place to be. What's more passive aggressive than telling a forum based on a rant complete nonsense and lies about what i believe. Thats passive aggressive behaviour, mines just aggressive now |
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"I took it as "will ya stop bloody moaning about people meeting. It's wrong but moaning about it ain't gonna stop it. If it bothers you that much piss off till it's all over"
Did I win?"
To be honest that's a better summary than mine. However I included more comedy lines |
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I'm trying to simplify this, mainly for myself. The idea is that we are supposed to be annoyed with people.....
1 who are doing things they shouldn't be doing
2 not doing things they should be doing
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"If your going to put the above statement out and also add 'guys dont ask to meet during covid, ill report you' but then log on every day and be amazed that people are meeting. If i was taking a break and not engaging with anyone i wouldn't announce it then preceed to engage with people and have a rant when guys ask if you wanna meet. Id just log off until it blows over rather than not do what i claim im doing. Is meeting during lockdown right, no, will people do it...yes. your on fab.com where it clearly says on some profiles there up for it so for fucks sake you can't be amazed when it goes on. Your not taking a break you are engaging and your doing it on a platform where most do wanna meet so you clearly like taking the moral high ground. All you've illustrated is that men generally dont read profiles properly so they assume your saying you want to meet and ping you a message. Technically you could put it down to being a sadomasicist or if your that amazed by people meeting during lockdown. Meeting during lockdown wrong...yes, taking the moral highground fix a cheap win. Like most the mass genocide of jews by the nazis was beyond most people comprehension and wrong, but i then wouldn't join nazisdating.com and everytime i logged on and be amazed and dumbfounded that most people are not very tolerant and think that Hitler wasnt that bad just misunderstood. What i do is.... assume people on nazisdating.com are not very nice and id take for granted they think hitler is seen as an ok dude. I wouldnt join it and tell people im not dating nazis right now and that hitler was bang out of order and most evil person ever because id be pointing out the obvious to people who don't need to be lectured to by someone who cant deliver on their promises....of not engaging "
Building a connection? Making friends? All of these are key to swinging it’s not instashag. I don’t log on to arrange a meet in the slightest never have and never will. This is a platform to make friends some of whom you may have send with. |
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"I took it as "will ya stop bloody moaning about people meeting. It's wrong but moaning about it ain't gonna stop it. If it bothers you that much piss off till it's all over"
Did I win?
To be honest that's a better summary than mine. However I included more comedy lines "
I'm only just awake and it took an awful lot of brain power to reach that point. I think it's drained the last of my battery that hadn't properly recharged after last night's debacle |
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By the way OP... I'm one of those pain in the arse types you're on about.
Yes I am horrified and saddened at people still meeting. Yes it does shock me that people could be so selfish, especially considering this wave has been far worse than the first and it couldn't be any clearer. It does make me wanna vom when you've got people who are grieving, who are frustrated and angry, here sharing their experiences with a group of forum strangers, who feel more like family albeit an unconventional one..... and then some inconsiderate piece of shit comes in with "covid aint even real"
I'm here for the forums and have been that way for a few years. From before covid times. Only difference for me is I would attend socials pre-covid. Why should I be vilified for that? |
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"But this isn't fuckingstrangersduringapandemic.com
It's also not fab.com "
Whilst highlighting the obvious it is fuckingstrangersduringapandemic.com for some people...its whatever you want it to be, or am i wanting to outlaw that. Finding something that isn't there to back up a view never expressed by me but i supposedly hold is what you do when you dont need or have to provide evidence. |
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"By the way OP... I'm one of those pain in the arse types you're on about.
Yes I am horrified and saddened at people still meeting. Yes it does shock me that people could be so selfish, especially considering this wave has been far worse than the first and it couldn't be any clearer. It does make me wanna vom when you've got people who are grieving, who are frustrated and angry, here sharing their experiences with a group of forum strangers, who feel more like family albeit an unconventional one..... and then some inconsiderate piece of shit comes in with "covid aint even real"
I'm here for the forums and have been that way for a few years. From before covid times. Only difference for me is I would attend socials pre-covid. Why should I be vilified for that? "
Who vilified you. Irs something that irritated me. I could have easily done a post on why do all guys (me inc) have same angle pic of their cock, because it makes them look massive, but claim to know exact length when most guys haven't measured it since they were 15. I chose this thing instead....it was a rant not a declaration to outlaw free speech, i should have gone with cock rant or better still not used rant as a first time to use a forum |
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"By the way OP... I'm one of those pain in the arse types you're on about.
Yes I am horrified and saddened at people still meeting. Yes it does shock me that people could be so selfish, especially considering this wave has been far worse than the first and it couldn't be any clearer. It does make me wanna vom when you've got people who are grieving, who are frustrated and angry, here sharing their experiences with a group of forum strangers, who feel more like family albeit an unconventional one..... and then some inconsiderate piece of shit comes in with "covid aint even real"
I'm here for the forums and have been that way for a few years. From before covid times. Only difference for me is I would attend socials pre-covid. Why should I be vilified for that?
Who vilified you. Irs something that irritated me. I could have easily done a post on why do all guys (me inc) have same angle pic of their cock, because it makes them look massive, but claim to know exact length when most guys haven't measured it since they were 15. I chose this thing instead....it was a rant not a declaration to outlaw free speech, i should have gone with cock rant or better still not used rant as a first time to use a forum "
Everyone is entitled to feel how they do, but that also comes with consequences when expressing it depending on how it's written.
I felt like you were pretty much telling me to log out and fuck off, when in fact I'm following the rules and am disgusted at people who don't.
That's pretty vilifing.
I haven't been awake long though and my brain is still waking up so could have misinterpreted
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"I took it as "will ya stop bloody moaning about people meeting. It's wrong but moaning about it ain't gonna stop it. If it bothers you that much piss off till it's all over"
Did I win?
To be honest that's a better summary than mine. However I included more comedy lines "
You win Nailed it. If i decide to post anything again ill send you my draft, spell check it reduce by 95%. People will not feel need to lose their shit as well as their balls.
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