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Gave someone a veri then they block me
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So last night I decided to give someone a verification through the webcam option because meeting up with her would probably be difficult even without this pandemic going on. Known her for a couple of months got on with her so I thought I would give her a verification when I wake up this morning I come on here and suddenly she isn't in my hotlist anymore because I'm guessing she has blocked me and it's like like what did I actually do that was wrong it's not like I said anything bad about the girl  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not on your hotlist anymore?
Is she still on the site?
She may have just deleted her account,or been naughty and had her account closed by admin
The webcam verification,did you actually see her on cam? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don't know? You did ask or you didn't... Probably that's the reason for blocking, I'm afraid. Its something most people like being in control of and deciding themselves who they accept it from and when..
Live And Learn  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If she didn't want the verification showing up in her list, the only way to remove it is to block the person who wrote it. Ultimately, unless you actually SAW her live on webcam, or she sent you other live pics etc, you shouldn't have verified her. Nice or not. |
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"If she didn't want the verification showing up in her list, the only way to remove it is to block the person who wrote it. Ultimately, unless you actually SAW her live on webcam, or she sent you other live pics etc, you shouldn't have verified her. Nice or not."
She can choose wether to display it or not without blocking though. Sounds like there is more to this.
OP - did you actually view her on webcam before verifying her? Why did you all of a sudden decide to do it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know I was going to say at the end of the day I've been speaking to her for about 3 or 4 months so I thought I'll just give her a verification didn't think it would make a lot of difference. Let's be honest to get a verification from me it's a win-win only joking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know but I just thought I would be nice to give her a nice her occasion so when she wakes up she'll see a nice verification from a decent guy"
Have you spoken to this woman on cam ?? If not then its against the rules. I once received a verification from a man who I had only spoken to on fab through text. I wasn't happy that he verified me and for me it was a red flag and totally creeped me out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been here long enough to know that there are rules and regulations on any website that you go on so yes I did see her on a cam on multiple occasions I'm not someone who likes a lie about stuff I've always been honest anyone that watches my videos on here can clearly see that I'm one of the Honest guys on here I know it's hard to believe but it's true  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been here long enough to know that there are rules and regulations on any website that you go on so yes I did see her on a cam on multiple occasions I'm not someone who likes a lie about stuff I've always been honest anyone that watches my videos on here can clearly see that I'm one of the Honest guys on here I know it's hard to believe but it's true "
Its Fab and everyone is honest here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been here long enough to know that there are rules and regulations on any website that you go on so yes I did see her on a cam on multiple occasions I'm not someone who likes a lie about stuff I've always been honest anyone that watches my videos on here can clearly see that I'm one of the Honest guys on here I know it's hard to believe but it's true "
Alas just because you write some thing or say something on video doesn’t make it true but is just merely your personal opinion.
For example:- I have a 12inch cock and it’s always rock hard!!!!
In reality it’s not true on both counts.!!!!
Maybe just maybe she had stuff going on in her real life but I guess we will never know but thanks for sharing.
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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"You don't know? You did ask or you didn't... Probably that's the reason for blocking, I'm afraid. Its something most people like being in control of and deciding themselves who they accept it from and when..
Live And Learn "
j disagree with this , since when do you ask someone if they like a veri, if u meet someone or see someone on cam you don't go on then to ask if they like a veri , ppl veri you wether people like it or not , thats thete choice , however the person who receives it as the choice then to either display it or not |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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 whenever I have literally gone on webcam with someone straight away they normally get a verification just sold the everyone else knows that they are a real person like I've always said I've tried my very best to be one of th decent guys on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don't know? You did ask or you didn't... Probably that's the reason for blocking, I'm afraid. Its something most people like being in control of and deciding themselves who they accept it from and when..
Live And Learn j disagree with this , since when do you ask someone if they like a veri, if u meet someone or see someone on cam you don't go on then to ask if they like a veri , ppl veri you wether people like it or not , thats thete choice , however the person who receives it as the choice then to either display it or not "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you ask her if she wanted one? he doesn't need to ask her , if he's seen her on cam or met her then he as the option to veri her , "
It’s common courtesy to ask, she could well have not wanted one from the Op |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know but I just thought I would be nice to give her a nice her occasion so when she wakes up she'll see a nice verification from a decent guy"
There’s plenty of ‘decent guys’ on here who don’t feel the need to keep telling people they’re a decent guy, cause people find out for themselves or they just know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny enough happened to me similar think, spoken to lady for few days now, asked her what’s her name yesterday, she has told me what it is, and when I logged in this morning I noticed I’m blocked 
Wtf |
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"You don't know? You did ask or you didn't... Probably that's the reason for blocking, I'm afraid. Its something most people like being in control of and deciding themselves who they accept it from and when..
Live And Learn j disagree with this , since when do you ask someone if they like a veri, if u meet someone or see someone on cam you don't go on then to ask if they like a veri , ppl veri you wether people like it or not , thats thete choice , however the person who receives it as the choice then to either display it or not
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You have made the choice to give her a verification.
She has made her choice either to block you or delete her account.
Sorry OP. It must have made you feel bad but that happens sometimes.
Chin up, move on and best wishes. |
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This is why we say in our profile its ours or their prerogative to stop any contact at anytime we feel its not for us to continue
We don't need to give reasons to each other but understand it just happens at times. No hard feelings on other side & move on.
Op - its really not worth your time thinking about why. Im sure there are plenty of other people out there that would be happy to have veri from you x |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Second guessing others actions is never a good move on here OP - especially as you don't know for sure if you've been blocked or she's chosen to leave the site.
*IF* she's blocked you, it could be for any number of different reasons and you'll probably never know the answer, so just accept it's happened and move on is the best thing you can do. |
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" whenever I have literally gone on webcam with someone straight away they normally get a verification just sold the everyone else knows that they are a real person "
If you normally verify someone on cam straight away, why this time did you wait three or four months after seeing her on cam multiple times ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People do different things for all sorts of different reasons, reasons known only to them. It's all part of it on here.
Try not to give it too much thought and move on."
This just move on OP |
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Under a different profile name (back in the days of yore) I didn’t want any verifications (it was kind of an experiment and partly because I find the thing rather Pokemon) so I respectfully requested that people didn’t verify me, so that the little green circle wouldn’t appear.
One day someone did, so I deleted my profile and started again. You see if someone verifies you, whether you choose to display it or not, the magical green circle appears and maybe she didn’t want that. Maybe it opens up a thousand messages “cam with me, you’ve done it before”. So although we can control whether we display a verification we cannot control that we have received one, which takes the control of a profile, in a small way, out of ones control and by giving one without being asked, you are being controlling, whether you meant to or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been here long enough to know that there are rules and regulations on any website that you go on so yes I did see her on a cam on multiple occasions I'm not someone who likes a lie about stuff I've always been honest anyone that watches my videos on here can clearly see that I'm one of the Honest guys on here I know it's hard to believe but it's true
Its Fab and everyone is honest here "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you ask her if she wanted one? he doesn't need to ask her , if he's seen her on cam or met her then he as the option to veri her , "
Let's agree to disagree. I feel very strongly he shouldn't have done that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Under a different profile name (back in the days of yore) I didn’t want any verifications (it was kind of an experiment and partly because I find the thing rather Pokemon) so I respectfully requested that people didn’t verify me, so that the little green circle wouldn’t appear.
One day someone did, so I deleted my profile and started again. You see if someone verifies you, whether you choose to display it or not, the magical green circle appears and maybe she didn’t want that. Maybe it opens up a thousand messages “cam with me, you’ve done it before”. So although we can control whether we display a verification we cannot control that we have received one, which takes the control of a profile, in a small way, out of ones control and by giving one without being asked, you are being controlling, whether you meant to or not. "
Thank you.. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Did you ask her if she wanted one?
he doesn't need to ask her , if he's seen her on cam or met her then he as the option to veri her , "
An interesting point, and without wishing to get into a "Spanish Inquisition" or in any way reflect on the OP's decision to leave a veri (his choice entirely, same as the recipient has the choice to act however they saw appropriate).
I agree that the option exists, and is up to the individual whether to exercise that option.
Personally I think it very much depends in the case of a webcam veri, if two people interact via webcam, then I think it's appropriate to verify *if* you choose to - however if you've just watched someone perform on cam, without any interaction, in an almost voyeuristic fashion and then left an unsolicited veri, I can see how some may find that a little odd, or even creepy - and it reduces the veri to the level of a photo verification really.
I guess in a similar way, if you were in a club and saw someone else across the room but didn't actually talk to them, would it be appropriate to leave a "met in person" veri? Personally I'd say not. |
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