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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ladies what do use want from a first message? Iv tried the how are you or gone straight to being cheeky I know some are different but it’s hard to understand for a message lol may seem desperate but I’m just intrigued  |
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Definitely i check their profile and use it to guide you.
Also it's not just what you say in a message. When we get a message, we check out their profile and pics. If the whole package isn't alluring enough then we wouldn't be interested. |
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By *B69Woman
over a year ago
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Read their profile, be yourself and not what you think they want to read, I don’t like to be hit with questions or what you want to do to me, dont take it personally if you get no reply or your message is deleted, there’s someone for everyone on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do read profiles to but some are blank lol
Yeah maybe I need to work on my profile 
What’s FAF"
If their profile is blank why are you mailing them?
I still get messages sometimes and it intrigues me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah yeah I get that to lol I just get it I’m shit at this haha"
If you use the Reply + Quote button we know who you are replying to.
Welcome to the forum.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Read their profile, be yourself and not what you think they want to read, I don’t like to be hit with questions or what you want to do to me, dont take it personally if you get no reply or your message is deleted, there’s someone for everyone on here."
Yeah that’s true maybe I worry to much about it I guess it is a fun site rather than a dating site! Thank you though! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do read profiles to but some are blank lol"
Why are you sending a message to a blank profile ? I doubt many women or couples would reply to a blank profile, so why would a bloke send a message to a blank profile  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do read profiles to but some are blank lol
Yeah maybe I need to work on my profile
What’s FAF
If their profile is blank why are you mailing them?
I still get messages sometimes and it intrigues me. "
Im not sure but like yours with no picture it intrigues me lol
Thank you can you tell I’m new to forum |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ah yeah I get that to lol I just get it I’m shit at this haha
I think you’d probably do ok with your pics alone! "
So Iv been told but it doesn’t seem to work lol thank you for the compliment though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do read profiles to but some are blank lol
Yeah maybe I need to work on my profile
What’s FAF
If their profile is blank why are you mailing them?
I still get messages sometimes and it intrigues me.
Im not sure but like yours with no picture it intrigues me lol
Thank you can you tell I’m new to forum "
Yeah when I ask why they mailed me they often say they found my profile mysterious and interesting.
I'm a really boring old shitbag though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From my experience just be yourself read their profile and let it be natural interacting in the forums is a great way laugh, flirt and talk with others gives a gauge. I’ve made some great friends interacting on here and then sending a message |
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"From my experience just be yourself read their profile and let it be natural interacting in the forums is a great way laugh, flirt and talk with others gives a gauge. I’ve made some great friends interacting on here and then sending a message "
There you have it.
A cowboy hat helps too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do read profiles to but some are blank lol
Yeah maybe I need to work on my profile
What’s FAF
If their profile is blank why are you mailing them?
I still get messages sometimes and it intrigues me.
Im not sure but like yours with no picture it intrigues me lol
Thank you can you tell I’m new to forum
Yeah when I ask why they mailed me they often say they found my profile mysterious and interesting.
I'm a really boring old shitbag though. "
Oh haha so it’s common not just me haha and hmm I’m sure that’s not true |
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"I do read profiles to but some are blank lol
Yeah maybe I need to work on my profile
What’s FAF
If their profile is blank why are you mailing them?
I still get messages sometimes and it intrigues me. "
A lot of people like a warm cheese toastie! |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"From my experience just be yourself read their profile and let it be natural interacting in the forums is a great way laugh, flirt and talk with others gives a gauge. I’ve made some great friends interacting on here and then sending a message "
^^ He knows |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"From my experience just be yourself read their profile and let it be natural interacting in the forums is a great way laugh, flirt and talk with others gives a gauge. I’ve made some great friends interacting on here and then sending a message
There you have it.
A cowboy hat helps too."
^^ She really knows
(A cowboy hat always helps) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From my experience just be yourself read their profile and let it be natural interacting in the forums is a great way laugh, flirt and talk with others gives a gauge. I’ve made some great friends interacting on here and then sending a message
There you have it.
A cowboy hat helps too."
Just don’t squat with your spurs on  |
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You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire. |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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Like others have said, I am more interested in the profile than the initial message. I have my message filters on most of the time anyway.
Give a bit of insight into what interests you outside of the fabbing world.
You have a number of verifications and some great photos, so I would say that you are doing much better than the average single male already.
When they reopen I really recommend going to clubs. It’s by far the best way to meet women. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"From my experience just be yourself read their profile and let it be natural interacting in the forums is a great way laugh, flirt and talk with others gives a gauge. I’ve made some great friends interacting on here and then sending a message "
Yeah definitely going to be on here much more so much better chatting to people and helps with my head to a bit of socialising always helps :/ thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP you have had some great advice from people on this thread.
I'd like to point something out for you... you started a forum thread, which not many people feel comfortable enough to do and you were open, honest, friendly and more importantly you. My advice is to be that person in your messages because look at the replies you have had ... it works.
My next bit of insight I will share with you is this...and I am speaking from personal experience and not that on behalf of others... I am more likely to reply to a message from a familiar person, maybe only slightly familiar with via forums but I may have people watched or liked them from afar rather. I don't feel any connection instantly from those who have simply found me on a search function or who is near list.
So my advice is to get yourself seen, interact and participate on the forum or cam room chats etc as these inevitably give you insight into people and create opportunities to break the ice and get that all important chat going.
I hope this is useful 
Her x |
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"From my experience just be yourself read their profile and let it be natural interacting in the forums is a great way laugh, flirt and talk with others gives a gauge. I’ve made some great friends interacting on here and then sending a message
There you have it.
A cowboy hat helps too.
Just don’t squat with your spurs on "
can you imagine the damage I'd do?!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire."
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha "
You can change it if you’re a site supporter |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Like others have said, I am more interested in the profile than the initial message. I have my message filters on most of the time anyway.
Give a bit of insight into what interests you outside of the fabbing world.
You have a number of verifications and some great photos, so I would say that you are doing much better than the average single male already.
When they reopen I really recommend going to clubs. It’s by far the best way to meet women."
Thank you! I definitely will go to a club just confidence of going and on my own is not a nice feeling lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone different so ever messages should be unique to that person incorporated some off they profile in to the message ask questions to things that are in the profile text
And for god sake don’t send a cock pic till asked
And if you do make shour it’s not over a toilet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From my experience just be yourself read their profile and let it be natural interacting in the forums is a great way laugh, flirt and talk with others gives a gauge. I’ve made some great friends interacting on here and then sending a message
There you have it.
A cowboy hat helps too."
Cowboy hats definitely help  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP you have had some great advice from people on this thread.
I'd like to point something out for you... you started a forum thread, which not many people feel comfortable enough to do and you were open, honest, friendly and more importantly you. My advice is to be that person in your messages because look at the replies you have had ... it works.
My next bit of insight I will share with you is this...and I am speaking from personal experience and not that on behalf of others... I am more likely to reply to a message from a familiar person, maybe only slightly familiar with via forums but I may have people watched or liked them from afar rather. I don't feel any connection instantly from those who have simply found me on a search function or who is near list.
So my advice is to get yourself seen, interact and participate on the forum or cam room chats etc as these inevitably give you insight into people and create opportunities to break the ice and get that all important chat going.
I hope this is useful
Her x"
Honestly thank you this means a lot I guess I do just need to be myself and not force it
Will definitely be using the forums much more also get to talk to people you wouldn’t find to so i am glad thank you!! X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter"
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks |
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks "
Run the new name by me first |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first "
Can you message me please I can’t message you I need help lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first "
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones! "
I thought that too
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have trouble with this too. A lot are blank so you've got nothing to reference. However I then decided not to message anyone with a blank profile. Boring profile = boring person. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones! "
Hahah whoops |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From my experiences, sack off direct messaging. Some of these lovely women get 100s of messages a day. I’ve had a chance to get know some of them in the forums, then once you’ve (hopefully) proved you’re not just another d*ckhead you might get more luck with direct messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones!
Hahah whoops"
Stick with Auntie Nora she’ll show you the way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"From my experiences, sack off direct messaging. Some of these lovely women get 100s of messages a day. I’ve had a chance to get know some of them in the forums, then once you’ve (hopefully) proved you’re not just another d*ckhead you might get more luck with direct messages "
Thank you definitely will be using this more often |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones!
Hahah whoops
Stick with Auntie Nora she’ll show you the way "
Lol!!
RIP captain Tom Moore I know this is not the site but still legend! |
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones! "
What can I say, this old bird still got it 
I was genuinely being nice, but now I might bang him coz you said he's fresh n sexy.
I'll give him a trial run for ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones!
What can I say, this old bird still got it
I was genuinely being nice, but now I might bang him coz you said he's fresh n sexy.
I'll give him a trial run for ya "
Hahaha. I’d suggest sharing him but we might break him! |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Ladies what do use want from a first message? Iv tried the how are you or gone straight to being cheeky I know some are different but it’s hard to understand for a message lol may seem desperate but I’m just intrigued "
Just be your self xx |
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones!
I thought that too
Her x"
Cheeky!
I'm the biggest nun on this site |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones!
What can I say, this old bird still got it
I was genuinely being nice, but now I might bang him coz you said he's fresh n sexy.
I'll give him a trial run for ya
Hahaha. I’d suggest sharing him but we might break him!"
Please break me hahaha |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones!
What can I say, this old bird still got it
I was genuinely being nice, but now I might bang him coz you said he's fresh n sexy.
I'll give him a trial run for ya
Hahaha. I’d suggest sharing him but we might break him!"
Since when did you share anything? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones!
I thought that too
Her x
Cheeky!
I'm the biggest nun on this site "
I look forward to seeing him on Torso Tuesday threads.... hint
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones!
What can I say, this old bird still got it
I was genuinely being nice, but now I might bang him coz you said he's fresh n sexy.
I'll give him a trial run for ya
Hahaha. I’d suggest sharing him but we might break him!
Since when did you share anything? "
Hey I’m allowed to break my own rules! And I do from time to time |
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones!
I thought that too
Her x
Cheeky!
I'm the biggest nun on this site
I look forward to seeing him on Torso Tuesday threads.... hint
Her x"
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones!
What can I say, this old bird still got it
I was genuinely being nice, but now I might bang him coz you said he's fresh n sexy.
I'll give him a trial run for ya
Hahaha. I’d suggest sharing him but we might break him!
Since when did you share anything?
Hey I’m allowed to break my own rules! And I do from time to time "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones!
What can I say, this old bird still got it
I was genuinely being nice, but now I might bang him coz you said he's fresh n sexy.
I'll give him a trial run for ya
Hahaha. I’d suggest sharing him but we might break him!
Since when did you share anything?
Hey I’m allowed to break my own rules! And I do from time to time
Back off you. I'm tying the ropes as I type."
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones!
What can I say, this old bird still got it
I was genuinely being nice, but now I might bang him coz you said he's fresh n sexy.
I'll give him a trial run for ya
Hahaha. I’d suggest sharing him but we might break him!
Since when did you share anything?
Hey I’m allowed to break my own rules! And I do from time to time
Back off you. I'm tying the ropes as I type.
I’ll fight ya for him!"
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones!
What can I say, this old bird still got it
I was genuinely being nice, but now I might bang him coz you said he's fresh n sexy.
I'll give him a trial run for ya
Hahaha. I’d suggest sharing him but we might break him!
Since when did you share anything?
Hey I’m allowed to break my own rules! And I do from time to time
Back off you. I'm tying the ropes as I type.
I’ll fight ya for him!
Remember last time this happened...... I spent the weekend in the cells."
. Even though you’re almost half my height I still wouldn’t bloody cross ya! You scare the shit outta me! |
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones!
What can I say, this old bird still got it
I was genuinely being nice, but now I might bang him coz you said he's fresh n sexy.
I'll give him a trial run for ya
Hahaha. I’d suggest sharing him but we might break him!
Since when did you share anything?
Hey I’m allowed to break my own rules! And I do from time to time
Back off you. I'm tying the ropes as I type.
I’ll fight ya for him!
Remember last time this happened...... I spent the weekend in the cells.
. Even though you’re almost half my height I still wouldn’t bloody cross ya! You scare the shit outta me! "
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"OP - All i can say is - it was nice knowing you. Because if this lot get their hands on you - you'll never be the same again. "
It ain't over till I've shown him the art of proper felatio.
Then he'll never be the same again. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"OP - All i can say is - it was nice knowing you. Because if this lot get their hands on you - you'll never be the same again.
Haha I know what have I done "
Put this way - the "hammer house of horror" (you may need to google that) come to these ladies for advice.
(Now I'm hiding behind the sofa). |
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"OP - All i can say is - it was nice knowing you. Because if this lot get their hands on you - you'll never be the same again.
Haha I know what have I done
Put this way - the "hammer house of horror" (you may need to google that) come to these ladies for advice.
(Now I'm hiding behind the sofa). "
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones!
Hahah whoops
Stick with Auntie Nora she’ll show you the way "
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"OP - All i can say is - it was nice knowing you. Because if this lot get their hands on you - you'll never be the same again.
Haha I know what have I done
Put this way - the "hammer house of horror" (you may need to google that) come to these ladies for advice.
(Now I'm hiding behind the sofa).
We’re adorable. Everyone knows that "
Come as a package do you! Lol
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"You also need to remember a lot of people check the profile before responding to messages.
Aside from the age thing, I'd think purely from your profile name that you have a think for blondes. I'm not blonde therefore would feel like a "make do" rather than a wanton desire.
Got to invest in a cowboy hat then haha
Thank you!! And I know definitely regretting the username I only used it because I am blonde lol it was hard to think haha
You can change it if you’re a site supporter
Can you! Ok going to find that now lol thanks
Run the new name by me first
Get you trying to steal all the fresh sexy new ones!
Hahah whoops
Stick with Auntie Nora she’ll show you the way
And her twin Cookie "
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"You should be very afraid OP "
Oh, Peach hasn't fucked anyone new in 2 years, she's finding her vagina again and some poor sod is gonna get rage release fucked within an inch of their life.... is that what you're trying to say here? Eh? Eh?
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"You should be very afraid OP
Oh, Peach hasn't fucked anyone new in 2 years, she's finding her vagina again and some poor sod is gonna get rage release fucked within an inch of their life.... is that what you're trying to say here? Eh? Eh?
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Does your vag look like this now Peachy - 
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"OP - All i can say is - it was nice knowing you. Because if this lot get their hands on you - you'll never be the same again.
Haha I know what have I done
Put this way - the "hammer house of horror" (you may need to google that) come to these ladies for advice.
(Now I'm hiding behind the sofa).
CG.... I wanna kick you in the minge, but I can't coz that was quality "
Awww. Thanks (i think). |
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"You should be very afraid OP
Oh, Peach hasn't fucked anyone new in 2 years, she's finding her vagina again and some poor sod is gonna get rage release fucked within an inch of their life.... is that what you're trying to say here? Eh? Eh?
Does your vag look like this now Peachy -
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It's fucking rabid |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"You should be very afraid OP
Oh, Peach hasn't fucked anyone new in 2 years, she's finding her vagina again and some poor sod is gonna get rage release fucked within an inch of their life.... is that what you're trying to say here? Eh? Eh?
Does your vag look like this now Peachy -
It's fucking rabid "
So long as,it doesn't look like a 'blue waffle' |
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"You should be very afraid OP
Oh, Peach hasn't fucked anyone new in 2 years, she's finding her vagina again and some poor sod is gonna get rage release fucked within an inch of their life.... is that what you're trying to say here? Eh? Eh?
Does your vag look like this now Peachy -
It's fucking rabid
So long as,it doesn't look like a 'blue waffle' "
I revoke the not gonna kick to best put a jockstrap on with extra padding |
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"*gets popcorn and settles back ready to read some very interesting veris post lockdown*
There will only be one, that's all he'll need "
If he survives.... |
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You should say what you want to say. If they like it your are in with a chance of getting a response. If they don't like it or they are swamped with messages you are not in with much chance of anything. If what you want to say is "You look hot and I'd like to shag you" then give it a try and see what happens. In most cases it won't work, but if that's what you want to say, that's your message.
The biggest mistake people make writing to us is that they have nothing to say. Most women won't part their legs for somebody they can't even talk to. You have to show you can have a conversation, and YOU have to lead it. "Hi", "How are you" and "Wanna meet?" do not count as something to say and show no ability to chat, or any understanding that being able to talk is important. They are completely vacuous messages and we delete such messages immediately.
If you don't know what to say then why would you want to send them a message?
There is no "one size fits all" message. Different people want different things. That's part of compatibility. You are the one who has to catch their eye. How you do that needs to come out of you. |
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"*gets popcorn and settles back ready to read some very interesting veris post lockdown*
There will only be one, that's all he'll need
If he survives...."
OP “if I survive” could be a good username. |
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"You should say what you want to say. If they like it your are in with a chance of getting a response. If they don't like it or they are swamped with messages you are not in with much chance of anything. If what you want to say is "You look hot and I'd like to shag you" then give it a try and see what happens. In most cases it won't work, but if that's what you want to say, that's your message.
The biggest mistake people make writing to us is that they have nothing to say. Most women won't part their legs for somebody they can't even talk to. You have to show you can have a conversation, and YOU have to lead it. "Hi", "How are you" and "Wanna meet?" do not count as something to say and show no ability to chat, or any understanding that being able to talk is important. They are completely vacuous messages and we delete such messages immediately.
If you don't know what to say then why would you want to send them a message?
There is no "one size fits all" message. Different people want different things. That's part of compatibility. You are the one who has to catch their eye. How you do that needs to come out of you. "
Shhhhhh, I've snagged him |
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over a year ago
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"Going by your pictures , going to say very hot , so don’t think you will struggling once lock down is over , some more body shots will be good x"
Thank you very much! Loving the tatts |
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"OK, I'm just gonna go random song lyrics now...
1 and 1 make 2
Whoop there it is
Leave your hat on
Be my cherry pie
Pour some sugar on me
I want your kiss
"
I happen to think there’s nothing wrong with his username |
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"OK, I'm just gonna go random song lyrics now...
1 and 1 make 2
Whoop there it is
Leave your hat on
Be my cherry pie
Pour some sugar on me
I want your kiss
I happen to think there’s nothing wrong with his username "
*polishes knuckleduster*
Fancy a cuppa? |
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"OK, I'm just gonna go random song lyrics now...
1 and 1 make 2
Whoop there it is
Leave your hat on
Be my cherry pie
Pour some sugar on me
I want your kiss
I happen to think there’s nothing wrong with his username
*polishes knuckleduster*
Fancy a cuppa? "
. Thought you’d be away dying your hair! |
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over a year ago
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"OK, I'm just gonna go random song lyrics now...
1 and 1 make 2
Whoop there it is
Leave your hat on
Be my cherry pie
Pour some sugar on me
I want your kiss
"
Hmmm the hat one seeing as use love a cowboy hat haha |
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"I do read profiles to but some are blank lol
Yeah maybe I need to work on my profile
What’s FAF
If their profile is blank why are you mailing them?
I still get messages sometimes and it intrigues me. "
maybe he's or they are into Ninjas, |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"OK, I'm just gonna go random song lyrics now...
1 and 1 make 2
Whoop there it is
Leave your hat on
Be my cherry pie
Pour some sugar on me
I want your kiss
I happen to think there’s nothing wrong with his username "
Kiss ass. |
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"OK, I'm just gonna go random song lyrics now...
1 and 1 make 2
Whoop there it is
Leave your hat on
Be my cherry pie
Pour some sugar on me
I want your kiss
I happen to think there’s nothing wrong with his username
*polishes knuckleduster*
Fancy a cuppa?
. Thought you’d be away dying your hair!"
I'm laughing so hard coz it does need doing..... black though, I embrace my demonic side and don't pretend to be all angelic |
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"OK, I'm just gonna go random song lyrics now...
1 and 1 make 2
Whoop there it is
Leave your hat on
Be my cherry pie
Pour some sugar on me
I want your kiss
I happen to think there’s nothing wrong with his username
*polishes knuckleduster*
Fancy a cuppa?
. Thought you’d be away dying your hair!
I'm laughing so hard coz it does need doing..... black though, I embrace my demonic side and don't pretend to be all angelic "
I have lovely dark roots right now. It’s a very sexy look |
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"OK, I'm just gonna go random song lyrics now...
1 and 1 make 2
Whoop there it is
Leave your hat on
Be my cherry pie
Pour some sugar on me
I want your kiss
I happen to think there’s nothing wrong with his username
*polishes knuckleduster*
Fancy a cuppa?
. Thought you’d be away dying your hair!
I'm laughing so hard coz it does need doing..... black though, I embrace my demonic side and don't pretend to be all angelic
I have lovely dark roots right now. It’s a very sexy look "
I look like Grandpa Munster. |
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"OK, I'm just gonna go random song lyrics now...
1 and 1 make 2
Whoop there it is
Leave your hat on
Be my cherry pie
Pour some sugar on me
I want your kiss
I happen to think there’s nothing wrong with his username
*polishes knuckleduster*
Fancy a cuppa?
. Thought you’d be away dying your hair!
I'm laughing so hard coz it does need doing..... black though, I embrace my demonic side and don't pretend to be all angelic
I have lovely dark roots right now. It’s a very sexy look
I look like Grandpa Munster."
I look like waynetta |
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"OK, I'm just gonna go random song lyrics now...
1 and 1 make 2
Whoop there it is
Leave your hat on
Be my cherry pie
Pour some sugar on me
I want your kiss
I happen to think there’s nothing wrong with his username "
Really? I'm confused about the other films in the franchise. I haven't even heard of Eyes on the Prize 1-6. |
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"OK, I'm just gonna go random song lyrics now...
1 and 1 make 2
Whoop there it is
Leave your hat on
Be my cherry pie
Pour some sugar on me
I want your kiss
I happen to think there’s nothing wrong with his username
Really? I'm confused about the other films in the franchise. I haven't even heard of Eyes on the Prize 1-6. "
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I know we aren't a solo female... but still!
what has been said before holds merit, we get conservatively around 10/day, and honestly, most days 10 go in the trash.
Take 5 mins to read a profile, figure out what they like, and approach the RIGHT way. it gets you SO far. We have literally seen people K fancied.. but they had a blank profile, or something that our profile states we dislike etc.. so we could've both saved some time!
It's no different than the dating world IRL.. Doesn't matter if you're mr 6 pack, or 9 inches.. if you can't string a sentence together, you're fucked!
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"I know we aren't a solo female... but still!
what has been said before holds merit, we get conservatively around 10/day, and honestly, most days 10 go in the trash.
Take 5 mins to read a profile, figure out what they like, and approach the RIGHT way. it gets you SO far. We have literally seen people K fancied.. but they had a blank profile, or something that our profile states we dislike etc.. so we could've both saved some time!
It's no different than the dating world IRL.. Doesn't matter if you're mr 6 pack, or 9 inches.. if you can't string a sentence together, you're fucked!
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Appreciate thank you!! |
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