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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So prior to me being able to host at my house I used to live a hotel met with couples. Which if you sexy couples like meeting respectful single guys at a hotel or better still the guys house???? |
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Booking a hotel for a fab meet is something we both really dislike as it automatically puts pressure of having to have sex on all parties.
We meet people socially multiple times which allows us to establish the right connection, trust and chemistry.
Only when all of those things are in place - hosting at home or booking a hotel is a matter of choice for whatever we all want to do that night.
Would we book a hotel to invite a stranger/couple of strangers to have sex with us - absolutely not.
Casual half assed sex with strangers doesn't excite us any more |
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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago
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"Booking a hotel for a fab meet is something we both really dislike as it automatically puts pressure of having to have sex on all parties.
We meet people socially multiple times which allows us to establish the right connection, trust and chemistry.
Only when all of those things are in place - hosting at home or booking a hotel is a matter of choice for whatever we all want to do that night.
Would we book a hotel to invite a stranger/couple of strangers to have sex with us - absolutely not.
Casual half assed sex with strangers doesn't excite us any more "
This.. And as a single woman I am not making do! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hotels if possible but I’d also book my own room if it was a distance from home.
I have hosted at home but only after considerable trust is established. "
That is again the very wise way of doing it. I am weary about hosting for the first time. I tend to invite local-ish to mine |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Booking a hotel for a fab meet is something we both really dislike as it automatically puts pressure of having to have sex on all parties.
We meet people socially multiple times which allows us to establish the right connection, trust and chemistry.
Only when all of those things are in place - hosting at home or booking a hotel is a matter of choice for whatever we all want to do that night.
Would we book a hotel to invite a stranger/couple of strangers to have sex with us - absolutely not.
Casual half assed sex with strangers doesn't excite us any more "
I can understand that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always prefer hotel meets. I like to book a nice hotel and go down to the bar for a few drinks etc x I've been in more hotels than the guideons bible lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always have a social meet with a guy first to see how we get on and if there's an attraction.
Love a hotel meet than. Getting dressed up and feeling like its a night away and the fun and frolics make it better.
Would need to be a lot of trust before id invite someone into my home. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I always do a social. I would never book a hotel before I met someone it puts too much pressure on if you book first.
I do enjoy hotel meets tho.
Its very rare I'd bring anyone to my home I'd have to trust them and have met them a few times first. |
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Generally always social first.