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How far would you travel for a meet?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It clearly states on my profile that I will not meet anyone more than 30 miles. I know the roads around here as it can an hour just to get from Barnstaple which is only 10 miles away if you are not local. X
I look at as how long in time would you be prepared to drive ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My nearest Costa, if things are going well there's a carpark at the back for a quick blowjob and fingering session."
Haha .. and why not .. to hell with travelling 200 miles round trip... Im pretty sure i could do better than that .. |
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"I have previously travelled 320 miles wow, was it worth it?
Yep, he's a really good friend now. Totally worth it."
I cant say i wouldnt go the distance to be honest as one of my good swinging friends now lives in scotland, just under 500 miles and i reckon i would go the distance for her |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
Never really thought about it in miles but probably it was Cheshire to Carlisle. A couple came out to stay with us in Spain after only chatting to them for 5 mins in a club, thought that was crazy of them at the time but we became bestie friends so maybe don’t limit yourself on the distance as you could be missing out on meeting someone special, if you click through chatting go with it if you can  |
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"I have previously travelled 320 miles "
Have done 330 miles (660 round trip), but was going that way anyway.
As a trip specifically just to meet one person, 370 miles round trip - 185 each way - in a single day. |
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"Never really thought about it in miles but probably it was Cheshire to Carlisle. A couple came out to stay with us in Spain after only chatting to them for 5 mins in a club, thought that was crazy of them at the time but we became bestie friends so maybe don’t limit yourself on the distance as you could be missing out on meeting someone special, if you click through chatting go with it if you can "
I can see why though, you guys look amazing |
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By *is_a_visMan
over a year ago
Cambridge/ London but often Herts/ East Anglia |
All depends how much of a connection has been built up first I guess. I've driven 3 and a bit hours each way before but of course she was pretty special and by heck did she keep calling to tease me while I was driving up. She was having a lot of fun, and of course we both did. I guess the answer is it depends. |
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Probably around an hours drive, but it does depend on the person and the situation.
For instance, I really want to visit Scotland one day, so if I could arrange a meet to coincide, that'd be great.
But I wouldn't travel that far 'just' for the meet. |
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I’ve traveled an hour and a half each way. They were a lovely couple. It was a great night out. Problem started on the way home as the motorway slip roads were shut late at night due to roadworks. It was a nightmare getting back. |
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"Just wandering what sort of distance people are willing to travel for a meet? Me personally i could happily go 100 miles but that would be my limit"
I've met someone for a social in Rome when I was there... and also someone in Greece for a chat x
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"Just wandering what sort of distance people are willing to travel for a meet? Me personally i could happily go 100 miles but that would be my limit
What if your ideal meet was 101 miles away? 
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Reckon i could cope with the extra mile |
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The longest I’ve drove is from Chester to Leicester to pick a couple up and then drive them to a fetish club (pedestal) in London which I paid their entrance fee just like the petrol and I spent most of the night on all fours as their footrest and a few other tasks before driving them back to Leicester at 2am before my journey back to Chester in which I was so tired I stopped on route to Chester at Mac Donald’s drive thru for a coffee to keep me awake.
On payment at the first window the young girl was quite amused about something then at the second window I attracted quite an audience of staff and a few giggles , only then I remembered the couple had wrote “ cuckold “ on my forehead in black marker pen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wandering what sort of distance people are willing to travel for a meet? Me personally i could happily go 100 miles but that would be my limit"
Depends on how much the individual entices me.  |
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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters |
I don't really care about distance, and don't understand people who do, or specify a particular distance / time zone. Especially if they're not the ones travelling, in which case why on earth does it matter? But whatever, to each their own I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get why some people find distance important as sometimes you might want spontaneous sex etc especially if you have feelings. But shouldn’t shut door on ppl just coz they an hour away. For the right person it’s worth it. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I get why some people find distance important as sometimes you might want spontaneous sex etc especially if you have feelings. But shouldn’t shut door on ppl just coz they an hour away. For the right person it’s worth it. "
C'mon then I'm waiting
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get why some people find distance important as sometimes you might want spontaneous sex etc especially if you have feelings. But shouldn’t shut door on ppl just coz they an hour away. For the right person it’s worth it.
C'mon then I'm waiting
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hahah. |
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Mrs crazytimes once drove five hours to see me when we first started going out.
We had sex in a field, lasted optimistically I’d say two minutes. (Belt was stuck so slowed me down)
Burger King then drive home.
She’s a keeper. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The longest I’ve drove is from Chester to Leicester to pick a couple up and then drive them to a fetish club (pedestal) in London which I paid their entrance fee just like the petrol and I spent most of the night on all fours as their footrest and a few other tasks before driving them back to Leicester at 2am before my journey back to Chester in which I was so tired I stopped on route to Chester at Mac Donald’s drive thru for a coffee to keep me awake.
On payment at the first window the young girl was quite amused about something then at the second window I attracted quite an audience of staff and a few giggles , only then I remembered the couple had wrote “ cuckold “ on my forehead in black marker pen. "
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
First of all I would just like to say to everyone that has posted that is happy to travel over 2 hours or over 100 miles for a meet you all have my up most respect and you are all better and more committed people than me. I tend to stick to no more than one and a half hours travel in and around London I did once travel two and a half hours from my part of North London to Heathrow where the new Kestrels is via public transport.I am thinking of in the future maybe going to the Sutton house or Eureka which again will be about 2 hours I hope depending on public transport. |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
I once did a 6 hour round trip all the to hartlepool. Left at 6pm after work, got there at 9.. 3 hours of fun and drove back at midnight. I think I stopped at every single services on the way back down for coffee that early hours of the morning. Yeah, never again lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, I'd stay local if it was just for a meet. If I was heading to the area then no problems. There's plenty of fish in the swinging sea, So why feel the need to travel all over the country? Might have a friendship, but I'm not getting attached to these people.
As for OP. You stated you wouldn't go over 100 miles. What if someone was 111 miles? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If there is connection then no distance is a barrier.
I had a guy travel from Amsterdam to meet me once "
agree definitely. Closer is the icing on cake. Would you have gone Amsterdam tho lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say about an hour or 50 miles tops but again it depends very much on who I'm meeting or whether we are attending a club.
I've driven to Barnsley from oxford and 160 miles for a weekend with a lovely young lady before.
And Torquay to a club visit.
So there's always the exception |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I travel hundreds of miles to meet... If i were starting again i think I'd definitely not agree to more than an hours drive... Makes spontaneous meets very difficult! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't really care about distance, and don't understand people who do, or specify a particular distance / time zone. Especially if they're not the ones travelling, in which case why on earth does it matter? But whatever, to each their own I guess."
Can only speak for myself but there are several reasons I don't want a guy to travel to me.
I like the first meeting to be a no expectations attached social. We are probably not going to be playing the first time, but men seem to expect it if they are travelling to me. I worry that a guy might drive for two hours only for me to discover that there's no chemistry and that's just awkward. Also I've had several men offer to travel to meet me with the expectation that they will be staying at my place, which is not possible.
I mean, in theory, if someone wanted to travel for miles to my local area, get a hotel, and meet me for a drink without any physical stuff being involved at all... I suppose that's up to them and I'd meet them if we seemed to get on well online. But it's certainly not something I would encourage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My nearest Costa, if things are going well there's a carpark at the back for a quick blowjob and fingering session."
That sounds like a perfect first date |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I travelled 400 miles for a weekend meet once but I met him on Twitter not Fab.
I quite like an adventure somewhere new, so as long as I could explore the area as well as his body I'd have no limits |
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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters |
"Can only speak for myself but there are several reasons I don't want a guy to travel to me.
I like the first meeting to be a no expectations attached social. We are probably not going to be playing the first time, but men seem to expect it if they are travelling to me. I worry that a guy might drive for two hours only for me to discover that there's no chemistry and that's just awkward. Also I've had several men offer to travel to meet me with the expectation that they will be staying at my place, which is not possible.
I mean, in theory, if someone wanted to travel for miles to my local area, get a hotel, and meet me for a drink without any physical stuff being involved at all... I suppose that's up to them and I'd meet them if we seemed to get on well online. But it's certainly not something I would encourage."
That's fair enough. But I guess I just don't think that way, and wouldn't have those expectations or feel that kind of entitlement - especially on a first time meet / social-only. I guess I also just think differently about distances and two hours not being a big deal at all. I know here in the UK it might seem like a big deal... but serioulsy, of all the places in the world we are a tiny island and most societies have to deal with much larger distances on a daily basis. Just my perspective on it. *shrug* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For a new person I wouldn't want either of us to have gone too far, although saying that I have never met anyone that was local and we all travelled bloody miles so, whatever it takes really  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not for any kind of sexual meet but I once drove 150 miles each way to deliver a couple of bottles of wine and some crusty bread and cheese to an old school (girl) friend.
She was down and needed cheering up and we used to discuss our love of wine and cheese via fb messenger regularly amongst other crap going wrong in our lives.
We weren't anything but friend so was without agenda but felt nice doing something out of the blue to cheer her up.
Had circumstances been different the bloke part of me would have been there like a shot but a peck on the cheek and the smile restored was my reward
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I am a single parent with very little access to child care as I have 5 children it is very difficult to leave my local area but if I didnt have those commitments I'd be happy to travel anywhere in the uk on a weekend treat it as a fun road trip |
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