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Is there room for love making on fab?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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‘Its a swingers site’
‘It’s a sex site’
‘It’s a site where I swap scores about how many grapes i can put up my bum’
We all use fab for different reasons. Thats what makes it so fun (pre stupid covid). Fab is a place to explore new things and fantasies, but is there space for love making on fab? Good old fashioned, romantic, passionate love making. No whips, chains, hair pulling or WWE moves. Is this only reserved for couples? Do love making and NSA or ONS go in the same sentence? Maybe the definition of love making is subjective?
What say you loverly loverly fabbers?  |
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Ive never been any good at being a performing seal changing positions repeatedly and always using whips chains,
So I hope so 
Ps not saying there's no room for the kinky stuff in my life but good old sex still has a place (socks off obviously)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely room for it.
I love when a naked chick cuddles me and tells me I’m pretty.
Equally I love having my face ridden like she’s trying to escape gun fight at ok coral on a thoroughbred colt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely room for it.
I love when a naked chick cuddles me and tells me I’m pretty.
Equally I love having my face ridden like she’s trying to escape gun fight at ok coral on a thoroughbred colt."
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"From what I read its what most people want. From what I've experienced very few people actually do. "
Is it? We've both probably been on here for a similar amount of time - a lot of men would run a mile if the l-word was mentioned, even if it was in reference to putting their penis inside a vagina. Most people on here from what I've read seem to want fucking, strictly fucking and nothing like lovemaking because that makes it complicated.
Maybe we're both guilty of confirmation bias on this. |
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"From what I read its what most people want. From what I've experienced very few people actually do.
Is it? We've both probably been on here for a similar amount of time - a lot of men would run a mile if the l-word was mentioned, even if it was in reference to putting their penis inside a vagina. Most people on here from what I've read seem to want fucking, strictly fucking and nothing like lovemaking because that makes it complicated.
Maybe we're both guilty of confirmation bias on this. "
You could well be right. I know I'm inclined towards confirmation bias. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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I make passionate love with my main FWB who I met on here and it is the most satisfying, delightful and amazing sex I’ve ever had.
The sex I have with my other fwbs varies gradually from rough fucking to playful sex and it is all fantastic too.
Someone VERY special has to come along for me to indulge in a ONS/NSA liaison on here, there have been a very select few, but it is becoming rarer and rarer... probably because I am more than happy with my guys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely think there is room for that sensual and special sex on Fab. But I feel like you would need to have a connection with that person. So, someone you've chatted to and got to know a little.
I personally wouldn't be able to let someone be overly affectionate and sweet in the bedroom with me unless I had built a connection with them that goes beyond physical attraction.
I personally feel like with someone you have known for 5 minutes it's more just getting a fuck and enjoying it rather than making love. And there's nothing wrong with that, but I would want a little more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fabland is like a Mediterranean beach. Most like to bask on the beach and paddle in the water.
Love making is like swimming far out from the shore...less crowded, potentially great fun but far more precarious. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
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If I'm 121 with a lady then I think I would tend to make love. Sensual, kissing, cuddling etc. Unless we've arranged something specifically.
If I'm part of a mfm then usually it's more about fucking. Although that can be sensual in its own way, but it's not necessarily what a couple always want. More raw, than sensual. |
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If it’s whips and chains it’s satisfying a BDSM need and intimacy is not intended, dominance is
If it’s NSA per se it tends to be animalistic to scratch and itch or sometimes cold and demeaning
I prefer the intimate love making element where there is a degree of temporary emotional investment but realising the boundaries between NSA sex and relationship......never the two shall meet in my world, as that’s not the intention. |
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It really does things for me, im all for lots of delicious kinky fuckery but there is something that satisfies the soul when sex is sensuous, lots of skin on skin contact, hand and faces being touched and kissing.....oh my gosh kissing
Yes please  |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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Sensual/passionate sex absolutely. To me "love making" is an emotional thing though, not purely physical, and thus something that would only happen where there was also an emotional connection between those involved. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I think it comes down to the individuals concerned and circumstances but it's entirely possible to find, even in a non-committed situation.
Passionate and intense sex with someone I had a connection and chemistry with would be lovemaking, even if the "love" element is for the duration of the time spent together.
Now if it was a hook up in a club, or a spontaneous meet then that would be different I'm sure, but it's still a very individual thing that each of us uses different levels of emotional connection with. |
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