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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Mainly 40-45
Have always had a thing for them and had a few age gap relationships. My first was at 24 when I was seeing a 41 year old.
Something about the silver fox look. Slick smart grey hair, crisp suit, assertive manner and a mans head on him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ivy I totally agree, its such a gorgeous age range for men and I am so attracted to them.
My bf is 42, we have been together nearly 5 years and I find he is looking sexier as he ages.... and I keep letting him know.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dunno if i look better but my man is getting that silver fox look  i find it extremely sexy n the grey in his beard too Mmmm oooh naughty thoughts xx
The bloke is just damn sexy full stop |
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I turned 43 couple of weeks ago but I look younger
Thing is no women wants me regardless of my age due to one thing I’m FAT!!
Age doesn’t always matter but being a chubby/fat bloke does in my experience.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mainly 40-45
Have always had a thing for them and had a few age gap relationships. My first was at 24 when I was seeing a 41 year old.
Something about the silver fox look. Slick smart grey hair, crisp suit, assertive manner and a mans head on him "
Yeah sexy age. Ripe and ready to eat... But younger too 30-35 yum!  |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
"I turned 43 couple of weeks ago but I look younger
Thing is no women wants me regardless of my age due to one thing I’m FAT!!
Age doesn’t always matter but being a chubby/fat bloke does in my experience. "
I was fat. I lost over 4 stone with diet and exercise. I am only going by what you’ve said- I’ve not even loked at your profile. If you (and it is what YOU think, not someone else) aren’t happy with what you see in the mirror, change it. Once I lost the weight I became much more confident and it shows.... which might get you mire attention/meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I turned 43 couple of weeks ago but I look younger
Thing is no women wants me regardless of my age due to one thing I’m FAT!!
Age doesn’t always matter but being a chubby/fat bloke does in my experience.
I was fat. I lost over 4 stone with diet and exercise. I am only going by what you’ve said- I’ve not even loked at your profile. If you (and it is what YOU think, not someone else) aren’t happy with what you see in the mirror, change it. Once I lost the weight I became much more confident and it shows.... which might get you mire attention/meets. "
I don't think size equates to happiness in general. But for your personal journey it's an incredible achievement and i hope it has made you healthy and happy. Your commitment is an inspiration. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Little bit older .... been called silver fox before but it’s more my distinguished beard than my hair colour even though I have some on my head
I love the age I am & always have done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love to find a hunky daddy type around 45. I have never been with an older guy poor me
think there may be a few replies to this one lol"
Wrong! Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Something I’ve often thought about. I seem to be naturally ‘bottom lip biting’ drawn to the lads in their 20s but I’m getting unbelievably fed up of their behaviour.
I do find myself looking at the 30s and 40s and finding my interest piqued somewhat. But none seem to be interested in me lol  |
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"I turned 43 couple of weeks ago but I look younger
Thing is no women wants me regardless of my age due to one thing I’m FAT!!
Age doesn’t always matter but being a chubby/fat bloke does in my experience.
I was fat. I lost over 4 stone with diet and exercise. I am only going by what you’ve said- I’ve not even loked at your profile. If you (and it is what YOU think, not someone else) aren’t happy with what you see in the mirror, change it. Once I lost the weight I became much more confident and it shows.... which might get you mire attention/meets. "
5 years ago I lost 7 1/2 stone and got down to 14 stone the lowest I’ve ever been since I was 15 years old! I felt good for the first time in years Yet on a deserved New Year’s Eve out with mates a group of women didn’t like me chatting to their friend and told me I should
“fuck off as she’s not interested in a FAT cunt like you” then gave me shit all night when I saw them.
This completely rocked me and as such I made myself ill and put weight back on!
Ive been struggling with this ever since yo-yo’ing in weight and confidence.
It’s not just men that can be cruel and cause body issues! |
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Still in denial about being in the 40 club, but with a years experience in a few weeks and threads like this perhaps I should embrace it!
As for the silver fox thing, real hair is starting to get a few intruders. But no-one ever sees because of the wig!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mainly 40-45
Have always had a thing for them and had a few age gap relationships. My first was at 24 when I was seeing a 41 year old.
Something about the silver fox look. Slick smart grey hair, crisp suit, assertive manner and a mans head on him "
So.....I’ve got just over a year left in that range.
My address and mobile number are......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just here for research purposes 
Lol how’s the research going. Is that with your wine in your hand lol
Oh good idea - I'm going to get a glass "
Thought you would have glass already on the go |
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By *ono100Man
over a year ago
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I started to go gray / salt and pepper look in early 30s , it definitely helped with the ladies , and younger girlies loved it , and ended up having an age gap relationship ,
.which was the best and longest relationship i ever had |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I started to go gray / salt and pepper look in early 30s , it definitely helped with the ladies , and younger girlies loved it , and ended up having an age gap relationship ,
.which was the best and longest relationship i ever had "
. Totally relate. I started goin grey at 30. Hated it. But the last 5 years I’ve had so much more attention and both my exes liked it more Still not ready for full grey lol |
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Oh I’m totally on board with this one
I’m looking for a 6’4”+ grey haired, grey bearded, tattooed, 3 piece suit wearing monster of a man it’s a huge fantasy of mine, being a fantasy he has to tick all the above boxes, age isn’t that important if he’s 60 I’m still in lol
There’s 16 years between me and Flynn, he’s starting to get some grey in his beard and hair and he worries about it, I keep explaining how hot it is but I don’t think he’s convinced lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just ripped into the 45yr age bracket, often told I look a lot younger, and I feel like I’m in still my twenties
Greying subtlety, with a tabby beard currently too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely feel in my prime at my age. Probably a number of factors, life experience, confidence, comfortable in myself. None of which I had in my 20’s. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's magic the way men now look after themselves and take pride in how they look... As long as it doesn't go too far... Fair play to you all, you look amazing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 50, look after myself, play sport.
I even have all of my own teeth (well,the ones that are left are mine).
I'm still waiting for the silver fox hair (unless you count the stuff growing out of my ears and nose).
I can even move well enough to not need a home help in order to put on my own socks in the morning.
Getting older ain't all that bad.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So you like the silver look.
Therefore the age is irrelevant surely.
No, the face ages too
Dons boxing gloves in defence of the 50+ silver fox. "
There will be someone for everyone but the thread title says what it is about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's one thing that is great is realising that men and woman can look great into 40s and 50s..and beyond if you look after yourself... There is life in us yet |
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"Mainly 40-45
Have always had a thing for them and had a few age gap relationships. My first was at 24 when I was seeing a 41 year old.
Something about the silver fox look. Slick smart grey hair, crisp suit, assertive manner and a mans head on him "
I think you've just discribed my fella. ?? |
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