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Yep..I hold my hands up I've done it in the past. I tend not to now a days.
I'm really curious if the guys here have done it and how....what about the tell tale giveaway?
Ladies have you ever felt a guy had faked it?
I faked it so that the guy wouldn't feel bad when the fact is I don't always cum. Doesn't mean I didn't have a good time.
Faking it...is it something we have all done at some point? |
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over a year ago
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"Yep..I hold my hands up I've done it in the past. I tend not to now a days.
I'm really curious if the guys here have done it and how....what about the tell tale giveaway?
Ladies have you ever felt a guy had faked it?
I faked it so that the guy wouldn't feel bad when the fact is I don't always cum. Doesn't mean I didn't have a good time.
Faking it...is it something we have all done at some point?"
I faked it a few times years ago. It can be really hard to cum on the third or fourth time and to be honest it only shoots dust by then. When my muscles were burning like fuck I would just groan and roll off, job done lol |
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"Yep..I hold my hands up I've done it in the past. I tend not to now a days.
I'm really curious if the guys here have done it and how....what about the tell tale giveaway?
Ladies have you ever felt a guy had faked it?
I faked it so that the guy wouldn't feel bad when the fact is I don't always cum. Doesn't mean I didn't have a good time.
Faking it...is it something we have all done at some point?
I faked it a few times years ago. It can be really hard to cum on the third or fourth time and to be honest it only shoots dust by then. When my muscles were burning like fuck I would just groan and roll off, job done lol"
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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I have occasionally in the past, but then I decided I wasn't doing myself any favours by pretending. Nowadays I am much more willing to give direction, or intervene myself if necessary, to achieve a climax.
Sex can still be enjoyable without an orgasm though, it depends on the circumstances. |
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"Ooo blimey, I haven't, surely men can tell 
If you did..this is when you're Harry mat Sally audition piece would come in handy "
 . Wouldn't it.
Genuinely though can women fake that sort of shuddering bit? I get that if a guy was watching from across a restaurant table you could fool him but close up it's more difficult surely. |
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"Yep..I hold my hands up I've done it in the past. I tend not to now a days.
I'm really curious if the guys here have done it and how....what about the tell tale giveaway?
Ladies have you ever felt a guy had faked it?
I faked it so that the guy wouldn't feel bad when the fact is I don't always cum. Doesn't mean I didn't have a good time.
Faking it...is it something we have all done at some point?"
I've never faked it but I have made myself cum quicker than normal when I haven't been enjoying it, and many times I haven't cum at all. |
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"Ooo blimey, I haven't, surely men can tell
If you did..this is when you're Harry mat Sally audition piece would come in handy
. Wouldn't it.
Genuinely though can women fake that sort of shuddering bit? I get that if a guy was watching from across a restaurant table you could fool him but close up it's more difficult surely."
I think you can yes...in the heat of the moment for me it wasn't that difficult to fake it. Maybe he just didn't care enough to notice.
Or maybe he did notice and never said anything...hmmmm now I am wondering if I really did get away with it!
He seemed happy enough
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Ooo blimey, I haven't, surely men can tell
If you did..this is when you're Harry mat Sally audition piece would come in handy
. Wouldn't it.
Genuinely though can women fake that sort of shuddering bit? I get that if a guy was watching from across a restaurant table you could fool him but close up it's more difficult surely."
Yes. Women can even do the clenching on demand (strong kegels)  And yes, I have faked it a long time but now? I don't mind if I don't have an orgasm (although I do tend to come quite easily), it's not the main focus of sex for me. |
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"Ooo blimey, I haven't, surely men can tell
If you did..this is when you're Harry mat Sally audition piece would come in handy
. Wouldn't it.
Genuinely though can women fake that sort of shuddering bit? I get that if a guy was watching from across a restaurant table you could fool him but close up it's more difficult surely.
I think you can yes...in the heat of the moment for me it wasn't that difficult to fake it. Maybe he just didn't care enough to notice.
Or maybe he did notice and never said anything...hmmmm now I am wondering if I really did get away with it!
He seemed happy enough
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Who knows. If everyone was happy does it matter? |
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"Yep..I hold my hands up I've done it in the past. I tend not to now a days.
I'm really curious if the guys here have done it and how....what about the tell tale giveaway?
Ladies have you ever felt a guy had faked it?
I faked it so that the guy wouldn't feel bad when the fact is I don't always cum. Doesn't mean I didn't have a good time.
Faking it...is it something we have all done at some point?
I've never faked it but I have made myself cum quicker than normal when I haven't been enjoying it, and many times I haven't cum at all. "
If a guy didn't cum I wouldn't take it to heart..just like if I don't cum it's really not on them. |
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I have once yes, this one time I threw some yogurt on to her tits when she wasn’t looking, she asked why my cum had apricot chunks in it, I had no answer I was still licking the lid. |
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"Ooo blimey, I haven't, surely men can tell
If you did..this is when you're Harry mat Sally audition piece would come in handy
. Wouldn't it.
Genuinely though can women fake that sort of shuddering bit? I get that if a guy was watching from across a restaurant table you could fool him but close up it's more difficult surely.
I think you can yes...in the heat of the moment for me it wasn't that difficult to fake it. Maybe he just didn't care enough to notice.
Or maybe he did notice and never said anything...hmmmm now I am wondering if I really did get away with it!
He seemed happy enough
Who knows. If everyone was happy does it matter? "
Yeah happiness works for me |
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"Ooo blimey, I haven't, surely men can tell
If you did..this is when you're Harry mat Sally audition piece would come in handy
. Wouldn't it.
Genuinely though can women fake that sort of shuddering bit? I get that if a guy was watching from across a restaurant table you could fool him but close up it's more difficult surely.
Yes. Women can even do the clenching on demand (strong kegels) And yes, I have faked it a long time but now? I don't mind if I don't have an orgasm (although I do tend to come quite easily), it's not the main focus of sex for me."
I don't have an orgasm with people I don't know well. It's not the main focus of sex for me either. With Mr N it's easy .
I think I'm too old and too tired to fake it nowadays  |
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"I have once yes, this one time I threw some yogurt on to her tits when she wasn’t looking, she asked why my cum had apricot chunks in it, I had no answer I was still licking the lid. "
As long as she didn't habe to swallow  |
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"occasionally if only to stop him from his appalling oral skills! I can't be the only one, as I see so many profiles that say, 'and I've been told I've great oral skills', proper makes me chuckle! "
I'm sure you're not the only one |
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By *r. JohnMan
over a year ago
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I have done, I suppose out of some weird ingrained English politeness I don’t know ha ha
It’s someone you don’t know let’s say, you’re using condoms, it’s a longer session so a couple of times in, it can be tricky to get enough sensation to take you all the way so to speak, she’s already climaxed a couple of times and you sort of feel like you need an ending
Never with a long term partner or regular friend though. Ultimately it’s being comfortable to communicate. |
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I pick the men who wouldn't notice if I had an orgasm or not. Takes all the pressure off.
I've had a few men pretend to orgasm, but it had gone on too long anyway so I was relieved. |
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"occasionally if only to stop him from his appalling oral skills! I can't be the only one, as I see so many profiles that say, 'and I've been told I've great oral skills', proper makes me chuckle! "
Ugghh yeah! Girly panting voice, "ooh it's too much, you're too good, just shag me now!!"  |
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"I pick the men who wouldn't notice if I had an orgasm or not. Takes all the pressure off.
I've had a few men pretend to orgasm, but it had gone on too long anyway so I was relieved. "
That's a good point, eventually you just need an ending...I have felt that relief too |
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Have faked it for years when u was with guys before joining here it was more about them than my pleasure, I was thankful of some intimacy.
Since joining here I've learned that I'm allowed to enjoy myself, to want sex and the intimacy. I've yet to have an orgasm but it will happen I'm just enjoying the whole journey now  |
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"Have faked it for years when u was with guys before joining here it was more about them than my pleasure, I was thankful of some intimacy.
Since joining here I've learned that I'm allowed to enjoy myself, to want sex and the intimacy. I've yet to have an orgasm but it will happen I'm just enjoying the whole journey now "
Good for you because yes, we are allowed to just enjoy ourselves.
I think the journey is as important as the destination.
Take the pressure off and you'll there x |
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"Yep..I hold my hands up I've done it in the past. I tend not to now a days.
I'm really curious if the guys here have done it and how....what about the tell tale giveaway?
Ladies have you ever felt a guy had faked it?
I faked it so that the guy wouldn't feel bad when the fact is I don't always cum. Doesn't mean I didn't have a good time.
Faking it...is it something we have all done at some point?
I've never faked it but I have made myself cum quicker than normal when I haven't been enjoying it, and many times I haven't cum at all.
If a guy didn't cum I wouldn't take it to heart..just like if I don't cum it's really not on them."
Yeah exactly, me not cumming isn't really a problem in my eyes, as long as they cum I'm happy |
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"Ooo blimey, I haven't, surely men can tell
If you did..this is when you're Harry mat Sally audition piece would come in handy
. Wouldn't it.
Genuinely though can women fake that sort of shuddering bit? I get that if a guy was watching from across a restaurant table you could fool him but close up it's more difficult surely."
Yes we can!
I’ve done it admittedly and the guys have been none the wiser.
I think once you know how your body acts when you orgasm, you can replicate it quite easily. |
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"I pick the men who wouldn't notice if I had an orgasm or not. Takes all the pressure off.
I've had a few men pretend to orgasm, but it had gone on too long anyway so I was relieved.
That's a good point, eventually you just need an ending...I have felt that relief too"
I prefer the journey to the destination. When you get there it's all over.
Although I'm not into 4 hour bus journeys down a dusty road.... |
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"occasionally if only to stop him from his appalling oral skills! I can't be the only one, as I see so many profiles that say, 'and I've been told I've great oral skills', proper makes me chuckle! "
It’s the ones who have a veri advocating their great oral skills but they don’t.
I wouldn’t expect anyone to put they were rubbish at oral on a veri but I wouldn’t expect them to specify they have good oral skills when they haven’t |
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Faking it...is it something we have all done at some point?"
Nope, never faked and never will. If they can’t make me cum (which is hardly a difficult task with me), why would I want to massage their ego? |
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I have done in the past but I wouldn't again. When I did it was because it has been going on for too long and I was getting bored, not to massage his ego.
It did backfire on me once though. I faked it with someone who I'd slept with twice before, so he knew what my body normally did during orgasm. He asked if I was sure I'd come because he couldn't feel the usual pulsating waves inside me. It was awkward...  |
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"Ooo blimey, I haven't, surely men can tell
If you did..this is when you're Harry mat Sally audition piece would come in handy
. Wouldn't it.
Genuinely though can women fake that sort of shuddering bit? I get that if a guy was watching from across a restaurant table you could fool him but close up it's more difficult surely.
Yes. Women can even do the clenching on demand (strong kegels) And yes, I have faked it a long time but now? I don't mind if I don't have an orgasm (although I do tend to come quite easily), it's not the main focus of sex for me."
Stop telling them all our secrets lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I couldn’t fake it.
When I orgasm I produce this kind of ectoplasm that erupts from the hole in my beautiful penis.
I think I’m just different.
Have you ever wanted to?"
Wanted to fake one... no, I just couldn’t imagine a situation where I’d have that thought process.
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I faked it a lot in previous relationships. There was one ex in particular who was an awful lover, sex with him hurt me and he'd turn abuse if I 'criticised' his technique. I faked to get it over with a lot quicker.
Another lover just put so much pressure on me to orgasm that I couldn't... but he meant well and I didn't want to upset him, so I faked it.
I do it a lot less now but... a lot of men expect it and due to my medication, it doesn't always happen. So occassionally I still fake one so they don't feel bad and I don't have to go into lengthy explanations about why it won't happen. |
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"occasionally if only to stop him from his appalling oral skills! I can't be the only one, as I see so many profiles that say, 'and I've been told I've great oral skills', proper makes me chuckle! "
Jeez so many men have appalling oral skills  |
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"I faked it a lot in previous relationships. There was one ex in particular who was an awful lover, sex with him hurt me and he'd turn abuse if I 'criticised' his technique. I faked to get it over with a lot quicker.
Another lover just put so much pressure on me to orgasm that I couldn't... but he meant well and I didn't want to upset him, so I faked it.
I do it a lot less now but... a lot of men expect it and due to my medication, it doesn't always happen. So occassionally I still fake one so they don't feel bad and I don't have to go into lengthy explanations about why it won't happen. "
The pressure to orgasm is gonna help at all 
That's awful not being able to communicate with a lover without them talking it the wrong way..I've been there x |
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"I couldn’t fake it.
When I orgasm I produce this kind of ectoplasm that erupts from the hole in my beautiful penis.
I think I’m just different.
Have you ever wanted to?
Wanted to fake one... no, I just couldn’t imagine a situation where I’d have that thought process.
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For me it was about not disappointing the other person.
Now I'd do things differently. |
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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago
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I used to fake it quite alot as I've always struggled to cum with guys and never cum thru penetrative sex...
These days I tend to tell the guys I won't cum so they aren't disappointed and I get the usual "you haven't slept with me yet, I will definitely make you cum" but it never happens.
I've tried so many times to teach them how to do it for me and it's there, I just can't get passed the point of no return so to speak.
So given up trying.
Its more about the act of sex that I enjoy, just because I haven't orgasmed doesn't mean I didn't enjoy it.. X
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"I used to fake it quite alot as I've always struggled to cum with guys and never cum thru penetrative sex...
These days I tend to tell the guys I won't cum so they aren't disappointed and I get the usual "you haven't slept with me yet, I will definitely make you cum" but it never happens.
I've tried so many times to teach them how to do it for me and it's there, I just can't get passed the point of no return so to speak.
So given up trying.
Its more about the act of sex that I enjoy, just because I haven't orgasmed doesn't mean I didn't enjoy it.. X
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Its more about the act of sex that I enjoy, just because I haven't orgasmed doesn't mean I didn't enjoy it..
Exactly this for me too x
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's like singing... everyone can but some are more gifted performers than others.
Men rarely have reason to fake it. Our arousal to climax process is nothing like as complex as a woman's.
Probably a useful and harmless skill in Fabland but as others have hinted, not a habit that would serve either person in a committed relationship well.
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