So i joined This site to find a girl to find out about my bi-curiousness BUT!!!! The more I delve the more I’m finding more about myself. This site is from extreme to normal. There some things I’ve seen I never thought would turn me on but they do.... I want to know how far I would go? What I really like and where to start... any advice and shared experiences would be amazing to here from you guys. I want to know your kinks and why they turn you on and tell me how I try this please? Thanks guys can’t wait to here from everyone xx |
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Good luck in finding out what you like and how far you will go.
I don't think me divulging my likes to you ( or anyone else divulging to you ) to be honest does anything more than reveal what the revealer does......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This site seems to have people of all sorts, shapes, sizes, preferences and whatever else.
There's something for everyone that's for sure. Happy searching! |
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Nobody can answer how far you want to go except yourself. And even I didn't realise "how far" I'd go initially and I know I'm not at the end point of my journey. But it's a kind of voyage of self discovery in many ways. No two stories are the same, so me explaining my back story would be of no use to you. Unless it was to read a story for arousal purposes only.
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It's tricky to explore your sexual self and jump down rabbit holes in this covid era. Once things free up, I'd suggest being very specific in curating your experiences.
Don't compromise. Gift horses are also real, so consider things that present themselves to you. Having the freedom and opportunity to explore is amazing. I wish you the very best of journeys.
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We’ve definitely become more open-minded and de-sensitised since joining here. I would say take your time and don’t take up an invitation out of politeness .. you can afford to be selective. Enjoy!
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"Good luck in finding out what you like and how far you will go.
I don't think me divulging my likes to you ( or anyone else divulging to you ) to be honest does anything more than reveal what the revealer does......
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This. The words vanilla and kinky are too subjective. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Forgive my cynicism OP but this is the second thread you've started asking for people to reveal their "experiences" - are you actually looking for advice or just some "titilation" which you could forgive people for taking it that way.
If you're genuinely looking to explore your sex and sexuality then the place to start is with understanding yourself and what turns you on, not by hearing of others experiences as such.
"Kinky" is such a subjective term too, for some it could mean doing it with the lights on, for others something far more extreme - so perhaps understanding your own personal definition of "kinky" is the place to start and you can then start to explore from there once you are able to be more specific. |
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"Forgive my cynicism OP but this is the second thread you've started asking for people to reveal their "experiences" - are you actually looking for advice or just some "titilation" which you could forgive people for taking it that way.
If you're genuinely looking to explore your sex and sexuality then the place to start is with understanding yourself and what turns you on, not by hearing of others experiences as such.
"Kinky" is such a subjective term too, for some it could mean doing it with the lights on, for others something far more extreme - so perhaps understanding your own personal definition of "kinky" is the place to start and you can then start to explore from there once you are able to be more specific."
In all honesty I’m just learning and reading things people get up to and imagining my self in there situation which I thought would be a good way to find out what people actually got up to and maybe not be shocked on a situation
Sorry for posting in the forum twice I won’t do it again thanks for comment I didn’t realise this would be seen as something wrong but I why now it’s a one time only thing |
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By *emini ManMan
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"Forgive my cynicism OP but this is the second thread you've started asking for people to reveal their "experiences" - are you actually looking for advice or just some "titilation" which you could forgive people for taking it that way.
If you're genuinely looking to explore your sex and sexuality then the place to start is with understanding yourself and what turns you on, not by hearing of others experiences as such.
"Kinky" is such a subjective term too, for some it could mean doing it with the lights on, for others something far more extreme - so perhaps understanding your own personal definition of "kinky" is the place to start and you can then start to explore from there once you are able to be more specific.
In all honesty I’m just learning and reading things people get up to and imagining my self in there situation which I thought would be a good way to find out what people actually got up to and maybe not be shocked on a situation
Sorry for posting in the forum twice I won’t do it again thanks for comment I didn’t realise this would be seen as something wrong but I why now it’s a one time only thing "
Absolutely no apology necessary, you're entitled to post what you like and how often you like, I was simply pointing out how your approach may be viewed.
There's nothing wrong with wanting to learn and find out more either but as has been pointed out your question was both broad and vague so it's difficult to know how to answer without knowing a little more of the specifics that interest you |
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"Forgive my cynicism OP but this is the second thread you've started asking for people to reveal their "experiences" - are you actually looking for advice or just some "titilation" which you could forgive people for taking it that way.
If you're genuinely looking to explore your sex and sexuality then the place to start is with understanding yourself and what turns you on, not by hearing of others experiences as such.
"Kinky" is such a subjective term too, for some it could mean doing it with the lights on, for others something far more extreme - so perhaps understanding your own personal definition of "kinky" is the place to start and you can then start to explore from there once you are able to be more specific.
In all honesty I’m just learning and reading things people get up to and imagining my self in there situation which I thought would be a good way to find out what people actually got up to and maybe not be shocked on a situation
Sorry for posting in the forum twice I won’t do it again thanks for comment I didn’t realise this would be seen as something wrong but I why now it’s a one time only thing "
If you've arrange a scene it will have been negotiated what your limits are etc, so there shouldn't be anything to shock you. And you shouldn't push yourself beyond anything that would make you feel uncomfortable.
Have you looked in the fantasies and stories forum? Maybe there will be some writing there that may tickle your fancy. As many people said in your last thread, get some books and read and try and figure out what you're into. Then you may be able to ask a more in depth question, people would be more comfortable giving their experiences or advice. As said above your kink maybe my vanilla. Good luck OP |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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You can always look at the BDSM checklists.
Not the questionnaire that suggests your roles, but ones that list activities.
One I often use is on discerningspecialist. Just search for that and bdsm checklist. |
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