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Can porn turn you gay or bi?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am completely straight i love women from head to toe..but if i start looking at porn i get just as turned on by the cocks n spunk as i do the women..anyone else felt like this? |
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Does 100 years of straight romance in cinema turn gay people straight?
No
Nor does gay porn turn anyone gay.
Maybe you're a little bi Curious? Perhaps you just enjoy watching got sex regardless of the genders? Maybe you're "situationally bi"? |
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Possibly the fact that you know how good it feels cumming, getting a BJ or whatever you're watching enhances your enjoyment, rather than it's giving you bisexual thoughts? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe you just like to see people fuck and watch a cock slamming into a tight hole easy to be turned on by it doesnt mean your gay or bu just horny lol"
maybe lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Possibly the fact that you know how good it feels cumming, getting a BJ or whatever you're watching enhances your enjoyment, rather than it's giving you bisexual thoughts?"
interesting thoughts thanks
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I wouldn't say so no! My transgender daughter when she first went to docs the doc asked who she lived with she said mum and 2 sisters was an old lady doctor she suggested not in as many words but maybe this could b reason she wanted to b female! Thank goodness she was not a typical doc! The ones at the gender clinic were absolutely fantastic x |
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Leaving the labels aside.........
Feeding your brain with certain images renders you to becoming hardwired to be stimulated by those images....
A diet of anything eventually becomes your reality.
Thoughts become words become actions.
Don't believe me. Look up psychologists learning/teaching on the matter.
Rapists and pedophiles have thoughts, images, internet discussions , porn viewing, wanks for years before they make it their reality ....... and all the times saying - I'd never do it though ... I just look at it. I just talk about it. etc etc etc .....
So ..... I wouldn't say you become gay. I'd say you have 'widened' your pool for sexual gratification.
If I want to know how to fix a washing machine i'll watch and watch a you tube video ..... then i'll be thrilled that I fixed my machine.... then I'll go on to improve it and all the time I'll tell people that i'm not really a plumber but there I am plumbing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Leaving the labels aside.........
Feeding your brain with certain images renders you to becoming hardwired to be stimulated by those images.... very interesting thanks
A diet of anything eventually becomes your reality.
Thoughts become words become actions.
Don't believe me. Look up psychologists learning/teaching on the matter.
Rapists and pedophiles have thoughts, images, internet discussions , porn viewing, wanks for years before they make it their reality ....... and all the times saying - I'd never do it though ... I just look at it. I just talk about it. etc etc etc .....
So ..... I wouldn't say you become gay. I'd say you have 'widened' your pool for sexual gratification.
If I want to know how to fix a washing machine i'll watch and watch a you tube video ..... then i'll be thrilled that I fixed my machine.... then I'll go on to improve it and all the time I'll tell people that i'm not really a plumber but there I am plumbing. "
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"Leaving the labels aside.........
Feeding your brain with certain images renders you to becoming hardwired to be stimulated by those images....
A diet of anything eventually becomes your reality.
Thoughts become words become actions.
Don't believe me. Look up psychologists learning/teaching on the matter.
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I don't think you are right. Millions of gay people who have been fed a visual diet of straight romance/sex plots in films, TV, books and other media aren't turned straight or even straight-curious.
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I doubt it. Again, this seems like a crisis of labels. It does people no good to try to fit themselves into a specific, prescribed category. Or even try to work out which category they might fall into. Sexuality is a fluid, dynamic spectrum, and the idea of straight, bi, gay isn’t really helpful, these days. We are all lucky enough to have sexual liberation, so just enjoy what you do, and don’t worry about a label. |
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"Leaving the labels aside.........
Feeding your brain with certain images renders you to becoming hardwired to be stimulated by those images....
A diet of anything eventually becomes your reality.
Thoughts become words become actions.
Don't believe me. Look up psychologists learning/teaching on the matter.
I don't think you are right. Millions of gay people who have been fed a visual diet of straight romance/sex plots in films, TV, books and other media aren't turned straight or even straight-curious.
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Accepted...... but they are not wanking to those types of films. I am not saying that if I look at shit on a plate that I'll eventually accept it as food .....
Sex is such a 'basic instinct' wanking to shit on a plate will eventually make shit on a plate part of my stimulus bank......
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"Leaving the labels aside.........
Feeding your brain with certain images renders you to becoming hardwired to be stimulated by those images....
A diet of anything eventually becomes your reality.
Thoughts become words become actions.
Don't believe me. Look up psychologists learning/teaching on the matter.
I don't think you are right. Millions of gay people who have been fed a visual diet of straight romance/sex plots in films, TV, books and other media aren't turned straight or even straight-curious.
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and to be fair to me ..... I didn't say he had become gay either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I doubt it. Again, this seems like a crisis of labels. It does people no good to try to fit themselves into a specific, prescribed category. Or even try to work out which category they might fall into. Sexuality is a fluid, dynamic spectrum, and the idea of straight, bi, gay isn’t really helpful, these days. We are all lucky enough to have sexual liberation, so just enjoy what you do, and don’t worry about a label."
Those labels are still incredibly helpful for many people |
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"Leaving the labels aside.........
Feeding your brain with certain images renders you to becoming hardwired to be stimulated by those images....
A diet of anything eventually becomes your reality.
Thoughts become words become actions.
Don't believe me. Look up psychologists learning/teaching on the matter.
I don't think you are right. Millions of gay people who have been fed a visual diet of straight romance/sex plots in films, TV, books and other media aren't turned straight or even straight-curious.
Accepted...... but they are not wanking to those types of films. I am not saying that if I look at shit on a plate that I'll eventually accept it as food .....
Sex is such a 'basic instinct' wanking to shit on a plate will eventually make shit on a plate part of my stimulus bank......
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But in order to be stimulated sufficiently to wank... The plate of shit must have stirred something there to begin with.
I don't think there is any credible psychology paper which shows that watching gay porn in itself turns anyone gay or bi. My two sexual psychology therapist friends agree.
Do you have links? |
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"I wouldn't say so no! My transgender daughter when she first went to docs the doc asked who she lived with she said mum and 2 sisters was an old lady doctor she suggested not in as many words but maybe this could b reason she wanted to b female! Thank goodness she was not a typical doc! The ones at the gender clinic were absolutely fantastic x"
I go to Leeds Gender Clinic , since the start of my transition doctors and staff always have been fantastic , i never had a question from them about my sexually and they never made an avaliation about myself based in such facts as you described |
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"Maybe you just like to see people fuck and watch a cock slamming into a tight hole easy to be turned on by it doesnt mean your gay or bu just horny lolmaybe lol"
Yes and maybe you are project and imagining it’s you getting it.
I do enjoy watching straught porn and always project myself in the girls that get a good ramming.
Plus visually can be a turn on, as in the whole thing. |
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"I am completely straight i love women from head to toe..but if i start looking at porn i get just as turned on by the cocks n spunk as i do the women..anyone else felt like this?"
A lot of the male population suffer from cock envy, it makes no difference what your sexual orientation is.
Most males are very visual so watching a big cock in action again sexual orientation is irrelevant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I doubt it. Again, this seems like a crisis of labels. It does people no good to try to fit themselves into a specific, prescribed category. Or even try to work out which category they might fall into. Sexuality is a fluid, dynamic spectrum, and the idea of straight, bi, gay isn’t really helpful, these days. We are all lucky enough to have sexual liberation, so just enjoy what you do, and don’t worry about a label.
Those labels are still incredibly helpful for many people "
Agreed. Some people fit perfectly into them, but others find it difficult, and if there are strong societal expectations for someone to conform into one of only three options, I think it can be problematic for a lot of people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wouldn't say so no! My transgender daughter when she first went to docs the doc asked who she lived with she said mum and 2 sisters was an old lady doctor she suggested not in as many words but maybe this could b reason she wanted to b female! Thank goodness she was not a typical doc! The ones at the gender clinic were absolutely fantastic x"
aww thats nice sounds like all ended well x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Leaving the labels aside.........
Feeding your brain with certain images renders you to becoming hardwired to be stimulated by those images.... i never said i was rite i was asking opinions..its just how it makes me....
A diet of anything eventually becomes your reality.
Thoughts become words become actions.
Don't believe me. Look up psychologists learning/teaching on the matter.
I don't think you are right. Millions of gay people who have been fed a visual diet of straight romance/sex plots in films, TV, books and other media aren't turned straight or even straight-curious.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I doubt it. Again, this seems like a crisis of labels. It does people no good to try to fit themselves into a specific, prescribed category. Or even try to work out which category they might fall into. Sexuality is a fluid, dynamic spectrum, and the idea of straight, bi, gay isn’t really helpful, these days. We are all lucky enough to have sexual liberation, so just enjoy what you do, and don’t worry about a label.
Those labels are still incredibly helpful for many people
Agreed. Some people fit perfectly into them, but others find it difficult, and if there are strong societal expectations for someone to conform into one of only three options, I think it can be problematic for a lot of people."
no crisis..not labeling just asking peoples thoughts thats all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Leaving the labels aside.........
Feeding your brain with certain images renders you to becoming hardwired to be stimulated by those images....
A diet of anything eventually becomes your reality.
Thoughts become words become actions.
Don't believe me. Look up psychologists learning/teaching on the matter.
I don't think you are right. Millions of gay people who have been fed a visual diet of straight romance/sex plots in films, TV, books and other media aren't turned straight or even straight-curious.
Accepted...... but they are not wanking to those types of films. I am not saying that if I look at shit on a plate that I'll eventually accept it as food .....
Sex is such a 'basic instinct' wanking to shit on a plate will eventually make shit on a plate part of my stimulus bank...... brillint
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I doubt it. Again, this seems like a crisis of labels. It does people no good to try to fit themselves into a specific, prescribed category. Or even try to work out which category they might fall into. Sexuality is a fluid, dynamic spectrum, and the idea of straight, bi, gay isn’t really helpful, these days. We are all lucky enough to have sexual liberation, so just enjoy what you do, and don’t worry about a label."
never said i was worried about a label or fitting in or anything like that..its how it makes me feel and was just asking if anyone else felt the same....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"never said i was worried about a label or fitting in or anything like that..its how it makes me feel and was just asking if anyone else felt the same...."
Lol understood. Sorry for the confusion. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"never said i was worried about a label or fitting in or anything like that..its how it makes me feel and was just asking if anyone else felt the same....
Lol understood. Sorry for the confusion. "
..no probs lol |
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